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Steven’s Viewz: Political Differences Are No Excuse for Bullying

By Steven Smith

I consider myself extremely fortunate to have an eclectic circle of friends. They come from different backgrounds, hold different political opinions and make very different choices in life. And do you know what? That’s precisely how I like it.

Friendship, in my opinion, should never depend on agreeing about everything.

Recently, one of my dearest friends and I found ourselves debating the suitability of a certain gentleman to become Prime Minister. I made my feelings perfectly clear. Every time I see or hear him, I think of slime, accompanied by a rather unfortunate vision of Albert Steptoe dressed as Hitler!

My friend, being considerably younger( cough ) , had absolutely no idea who Albert Steptoe was, but she certainly got the gist.

She, on the other hand, adores this politician. So much so that she nearly accepted a position in his press office.

Did we fall out? Absolutely not. We laughed, moved on to another subject and arranged to see each other the following week. No tantrums, no cancelling friendships and certainly no personal attacks.

However, there is one thing I will never tolerate: bullying.

Which brings me to GB News presenter Nana Akua and her recent confrontation with Andy Twelves.

Whether you agree with Nana’s politics or rate her broadcasting style is entirely irrelevant. She is a human being who deserves courtesy and respect.

Nana presents a programme that combines lively debate, entertainment and information. Her guests should be free to challenge her opinions, but disagreement should never become an excuse for intimidation.

Watching the confrontation, I felt Twelves behaved like a twelve-year-old schoolboy pulling a girl’s pigtails simply to provoke a reaction.

Call me old-fashioned, but even in an age of equal rights, I still find the sight of a man bullying a woman utterly disgusting or any bullying . Equality should never mean abandoning basic decency, courtesy or respect.

That isn’t intelligent debate. It’s playground behaviour.

We desperately need more tolerance, more humour and considerably less hostility in public life.

Disagree passionately, argue intelligently, but never confuse bullying with bravery.

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Steven Smith was born in Coatbridge in Scotland. He was brought up in Whitley Bay, before briefly moving to London. He then moved to the seaside town of Brighton, where he was first receiver recognition for his hairdressing skills. Steven moved to America for eight years, working in Beverly Hills, and on his return to London in the late 90s, rose to fame working in fashionable Knightsbridge. He has styled model Katie Price, actress Denise Welch, David Hasselhoff and the cast of Baywatch. Steven had his own column in The Sun newspaper advising on hair and beauty, and was a regular on the Lorraine Kelly show, transforming GMTV viewers into their favourite stars. He made over Lorraine herself, transforming her into movie legend, Elizabeth Taylor.

Steven has been a freelance writer for the last ten years, combining showbiz interviews and travel with his eye for styling. He has written two books: Powder Boy, looking at the dark side of showbiz, and an autobiography: It shouldn't happen to a hairdresser, offering a witty and sad look at his life. He is currently penning a third book to be titled Happy in Chennai.

He has a monthly column, Tales of a single middle-aged gay man that looks at not only the light side of gay life, but also darker aspects such as rape, addiction, and chem-sex. Steven also runs his own beauty/aesthetic blog and is a patron of Anna Kennedy online; a charity that not only supports the autism community but educates the public about those that live with autism.

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