GIVE US A BREAK: FOURTEEN YEARS ON, WHY ARE WE STILL FIGHTING BULLYING?
By Dr Anna Kennedy OBE
Every day, millions of children wake up and prepare for another day at school. For many, there is excitement about what lies ahead. Breakfast in a loving home, the anticipation of seeing friends, perhaps a favourite lesson or simply the joy of being part of something. Of course, some children would rather stay in bed than face another school day, but generally, life is good.
For others, however, their first waking thought is fear.
Why? Because somewhere beyond the safety of their front door, the bullies are waiting.
Imagine being a child who dreads going to school, not because of exams or homework, but because of the humiliation, intimidation and cruelty that may await them. Many are too frightened or ashamed to tell anyone, sometimes not even their own parents. They worry that somehow, they have failed, that they are not popular enough, clever enough or simply not like the other children.
They become experts at hiding their pain, reassuring parents that everything is fine and telling teachers what they think they want to hear. Yet the psychological damage can remain long after the school gates have closed for the final time, sometimes contributing to serious mental health problems in adulthood.
How many times have we read heartbreaking stories of children self-harming or, tragically, taking their own lives, only to hear a parent or friend say, “We thought they were happy. We had no idea anything was wrong”?
It is a devastating reminder that appearances can be deceptive.
Never be afraid to dig deeper. Ask that simple but potentially life-changing question: “Are you OK?” And, more importantly, take the time to listen to the answer.
Sadly, we never really leave the playground behind. Bullying follows people into adulthood, into workplaces, relationships, communities and sometimes even their own homes.
We must talk about bullying openly and without shame. If you are being bullied, you have nothing to be ashamed of. You have not failed, and you do not deserve what is happening to you.
Sometimes those who bully others are struggling with their own emotional difficulties. That may help explain their behaviour, but it can never excuse it.
Fourteen years ago, a campaign was launched with a simple but powerful message: Give Us a Break. Yet here we are in 2026, and the heartbreaking reality is that bullying remains as destructive as ever.
In 2012, my charity, Anna Kennedy Online, launched the Give Us a Break anti-bullying campaign, determined to challenge discrimination, encourage understanding and give a voice to those who too often suffer in silence.
Fourteen years later, the campaign continues. And perhaps the saddest question is: why do we still need it?
Bullying has evolved. Once associated primarily with school playgrounds, it now reaches into almost every corner of society. From classrooms and colleges to workplaces, social gatherings and the digital world, cruelty has found new platforms and, disturbingly, new audiences.
Social media has created a particularly toxic environment. Behind the perceived anonymity of a screen, individuals can humiliate, intimidate and destroy someone’s confidence with a few careless keystrokes. What takes seconds to type can leave emotional scars lasting a lifetime.
For autistic children and adults, the challenges can be especially painful. Being different should never mean becoming a target. Yet misunderstanding, ignorance and prejudice continue to leave many feeling isolated, excluded and frightened to be themselves.
This was shared at the start of the Give us a Break Campaign in 2012 when working with NSPCC and Esther
Through Anna Kennedy Online, I have spent years campaigning for greater autism acceptance, understanding and inclusion. Our charity continues to champion individuals whose talents, personalities and contributions deserve celebration rather than judgement.
Organisations such as Born Anxious also help promote awareness and acceptance, encouraging important conversations about neurodiversity and the need to recognise and embrace individuality.
But bullying is not exclusively an issue affecting autistic people. It can happen to anyone, regardless of age, background, appearance, sexuality or ability. Adults can be just as vulnerable as children, and the consequences can be devastating.
Perhaps one of the most disturbing aspects of bullying is the silence surrounding it. How often do witnesses look away? How many people dismiss hurtful remarks as harmless banter? And how frequently do victims hear those dreadful words: “You’re being too sensitive”?
Words matter. Kindness matters. And standing up for someone who is struggling to find their voice matters enormously.
This November, as Give Us a Break marks fourteen years of campaigning, Anna Kennedy Online is renewing its call for compassion, respect and responsibility.
Our message is beautifully simple:
“Take 5 before you type.”
Five seconds to consider whether your words are necessary, whether they are kind and whether they might cause lasting harm.
Imagine how different our schools, workplaces and online communities could become if everyone adopted that small act of consideration.
We cannot eliminate bullying overnight, but we can challenge the culture that allows it to flourish. We can educate, encourage empathy and remind people that silence is not always the answer.
Fourteen years on, Give Us a Break remains more than a campaign. It is a reminder that acceptance should never be conditional and kindness should never be optional.
Different is not a reason to target someone.
And if there is one message I would like every child and adult experiencing bullying to hear, it is this:
You are not alone. You deserve to be heard, you deserve to feel safe, and above all, you deserve to be yourself.
Some of the most interesting evenings begin with a friend opening a door to something new. In my case, that friend was artist Phil Davis, through whom I came to discover Orbit Luna at Indra Gallery in Shoreditch. Friendship brought me to the show; the meeting of art, music and imagination gave me plenty to explore.
Phil deserves an introduction of his own. A Fine Art and Sculpture graduate of Loughborough University, he creates landscapes and figurative works alive with rich, vivid colour. Combining instinctive painting with handmade stencils, he brings carefully observed detail into images full of energy and emotion. There is something compelling about that balance between freedom and precision: the colour catches your attention, while the detail invites you to linger.
It was through Phil that I encountered the creative world of Maham Suhail, the London-based artist, singer-songwriter, composer and curator behind Orbit Luna. Like Phil, Maham works across different creative processes, although her canvas extends beyond the visual into sound, photography, digital media and live performance.
Phil says: “It was a blast to be part of Orbit Luna. This was only my second time exhibiting at Indra Gallery in a few days, but it’s already proved a fantastic venue, giving my paintings room to breathe alongside sculptures, projections and live music.
“Watching people engage with my paintings and ask about my creative process was deeply rewarding. As the evening unfolded, the gallery became a space for free improvisation, creating something truly unique.
“Maham did a wonderful job bringing together artists, musicians and art lovers. The spectacularly surreal highlight was Maggie Nicols and Maham’s improvised performance, accompanied by Leyla Ustunkaya and Aurelie Freoua painting spontaneously to the music.
“It may have been a one-day showcase, but the creative energy and connections will stay with me.”Her influences are equally wide-ranging. Soul-electronica, jazz, ethno-folk and world percussion meet in music shaped by travel and cultural exchange. Identity, freedom, love and self-discovery run through her practice.
For Orbit Luna, Maham brought together visual artists and live musicians, with an interactive voice workshop by Maggie Nicols adding an opportunity for visitors to participate. The programme placed contemporary art alongside experimental music and a sound bath, inviting audiences to experience the gallery through several senses.
Thanks to Phil, I had arrived at an exhibition that offered an introduction to both individual talents and the possibilities of collaboration. Naturally, I wanted to know more about the woman bringing it all together. I caught up with Maham to discuss her creative journey, the thinking behind Orbit Luna and what comes next.
Maham Suhail, the London-based artist
MAHAM SUHAIL: THE CREATIVE VISION BEHIND ORBIT LUNA
Q: You’re an artist, singer-songwriter, composer and curator. Where did your creative journey begin?
A: Friends often describe me as a Renaissance woman! Creativity has always been part of my life. As a child, I sang, played piano, wrote poetry and loved drawing portraits.
My first exhibition was in Pakistan in 2010, raising funds for the Red Cross. I subsequently studied art and design in Pakistan and music production at Berklee College of Music, both on scholarships.
I’ve always loved combining music and visual art. Orbit Luna brings these passions together through immersive exhibitions, performance and sound.
Q: How have your travels and experiences of different cultures influenced your work?
A: I was born in Pakistan, have lived in India, Spain and the UK, and travelled to more than 25 countries.
These experiences profoundly shaped my understanding of identity, freedom and belonging, themes that continually appear in my work.
Studying Sufi music in Pakistan and India also influenced my spiritual development. I’m fascinated by cultural fusion and how different artistic traditions connect.
For me, identity is constantly evolving, shaped by our experiences, relationships and surroundings.
Q: What inspired Orbit Luna at Indra Gallery, combining visual art, live music and sound baths?
A: Orbit Luna represents an otherworldly experience inspired by celestial movement, nature and transformation. Interestingly, Maham means “my moon” in Persian.
I wanted the gallery to become a living artwork, combining paintings, sculpture, film, installations and music.
Visitors could explore freely, participate in improvisation or simply absorb the atmosphere.
Our Art as Meditation strand encouraged reflection through sound, poetry and silence, while Art as Mediation brought together artistic experiences to inspire dialogue and fresh perspectives.
My hope was that everyone would leave feeling inspired and perhaps transformed.
Q: How did you select the artists and musicians, and what connected their work?
A: I wanted to create a diverse artistic ecosystem, bringing together established and emerging artists from different generations, cultures and creative disciplines.
The exhibition included artists associated with institutions such as the Royal College of Art, Central Saint Martins, Goldsmiths and Berklee College of Music.
Together, we represented more than 11 ethnic backgrounds, exploring painting, photography, sculpture, film and experimental music.
What connected us was a shared interest in memory, spirituality, transformation and the human condition. I believe art can encourage healing, challenge perceptions and inspire change.
Q: Why was audience participation, particularly during Maggie Nicols’ interactive workshop, so important?
A: Free improvisation is about freedom of expression. You don’t need training or experience; everyone can participate.
Maggie Nicols created an atmosphere where people felt comfortable experimenting. Artists including Jo Morrison, Aurélie Freoua and Leyla Ustunkaya contributed to an exciting fusion of sound, movement and live painting, alongside Northcore’s electronic music.
Some visitors spontaneously joined in, which was wonderful!
Orbit Luna encourages people to overcome inhibitions, explore their creativity and connect with others.
Ultimately, I want audiences to understand that art isn’t something they simply observe. They can become part of it.
Remembering Dame Esther Rantzen: A Remarkable Woman Who Believed in Me
Remembering Dame Esther Rantzen: A Remarkable Woman Who Believed in Me
By Dr Anna Kennedy OBE
Throughout our lives, we meet so many people. Some pass through briefly, while others leave footprints on our hearts that remain forever. On my own journey, I have been fortunate enough to meet some truly remarkable and inspirational individuals who have helped shape who I am, influenced my opinions and encouraged me to follow my dreams.
It would be almost impossible to single out one person who has made the greatest impression. However, on 30 September this year, I felt an enormous sense of sadness when I heard that my dear friend, Dame Esther Rantzen, had passed away.
I wanted to dedicate this month’s column to a very special lady who meant so much to me, both personally and professionally.
Dame Esther had been part of my journey for many years, and I have some wonderful memories that I will treasure forever.
Esther kindly wrote the foreword to my book, Not Stupid, and was a patron of Hillingdon Manor School, which I established after struggling to find suitable education for my sons.
She understood the importance of giving children opportunities, listening to families and ensuring that those who often felt invisible were finally heard.
When we launched our very first Autism’s Got Talent in 2012, Esther was there to support us. At a time when we were trying to build something meaningful, her encouragement meant the world to me.
We remained in touch over the years, exchanging emails, and without fail, Esther would send me a Christmas card every year. It was such a thoughtful gesture from someone who had dedicated so much of her life to helping others.
My last email to her was in June, wishing her a happy birthday. As always, she kindly replied, signing off in her familiar way:
‘Xxxxxx E.’
It is those little things that suddenly become such precious memories.
I also remember her visits to Hillingdon Manor School. Esther always liked her tea served properly, in a teacup with a saucer. We even kept a special cup just for her visits! Whenever I think about it now, it brings a smile to my face.
When you start something from nothing, particularly when people tell you it cannot be done, you never forget those who believed in you before the world began to take notice.
Esther was one of those people.Through her extraordinary broadcasting career, her pioneering work with Childline and The Silver Line, and her tireless campaigning, she became a voice for those who needed someone to listen.
She was courageous, compassionate, determined and never afraid to challenge injustice.Her legacy will continue through the countless lives she touched, the causes she championed and the people she inspired.
My heartfelt thoughts are with her children, grandchildren, family, friends and everyone who loved her.
Esther, thank you for believing in me all those years ago, for your friendship, your kindness and your unwavering support.
The world has lost an extraordinary woman, but heaven has gained a very special lady.
And somewhere, I hope, there is a beautiful teacup and saucer waiting just for you.Rest in peace, dear Esther. You will never be forgotten
Imagine edible aromatherapy, where your senses are pleasurably assaulted by a dining experience that will linger in your memory long after the last mouth-watering morsel has been savoured.
Let’s be straight I am not a vegan, though I totally respect people who are vegans. I have lived with a vegan and I enjoyed the food and as she is one of my best friends we eat at Vegan recusants and it is great and add to Italian my favourites Mexican, Japanese and Thai .
For the record I am Pollotarian means I eat chicken fish turkey but no red meat or poultry it is very hard given my diet I do not eat cheese or shell fish to explain to some people that this has been a choice since I was 20 . The smell of pork makes me feel sick. People are often judgemental or do understand vegans ,
Suprsingly the most difficult ritios people are quick to judge and even ignore . One peson “ I have done chicken for dinner “ when I opened there was pork and cheese in it “Scrape it off “ they said signing forgetting the list of what they will do and wont . Their assoiate “ In my day we were eat what we were given “ my regards to the victorain era. One friend at the womans vegan club said to me “ Are all these woman lesbians “ my eyes went to heaven ,
Kirk and Keely Haworth
But back to the review my great pal andi have been desperate to dine at the vegan church Plates Behind the extraordinary success of Plates, the UK’s first fully plant-based restaurant to be awarded a Michelin star, are brother-and-sister duo Kirk and Keeley Haworth. Kirk, the restaurant’s chef and creative culinary force, comes from an impressive gastronomic pedigree.
His father, Nigel Haworth, is a celebrated Michelin-starred chef, and Kirk himself honed his skills in some of the world’s finest kitchens, including The French Laundry in California and Restaurant Sat Bains. However, it was a life-changing diagnosis of Lyme disease in 2016 that transformed his relationship with food and inspired his journey into plant-based cuisine.
Kirk actually regularly serves at the tables
Together with his sister Keeley, who oversees the creative and business side of the operation, he has created something rather remarkable in London’s Shoreditch. Having been crowned Champion of Champions on BBC’s Great British Menu in 2024, Kirk went on to make culinary history when Plates received its Michelin star in February 2025. Yet perhaps his greatest achievement is demonstrating that exceptional fine dining need not rely on meat, fish or dairy to deliver an unforgettable experience.
We have waited a year to dine at Plates , in fairness it was not just that it is Alway’s booked up , we did get two other reversions it clashed with travel arrangements. But despite this time recovering from my and operation we made it . Boy I am glad I did it Plate is an experience of a life time and the tasting menue accompanied by the wines is something you will. Walks away feeling good and wanting
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Plates is not in Mayfair or any syllabaries location it is in Old Street and it is the cuties of venues and everything is simple but stylish even the staff are dressed in a chic way. Now let’s start with the staff. You can not quite find such a great knowledgeable and attentive crew . Even the maestro himself Kirk comes to the table and over sees everything .Though lunch was sold out and there was no space not even at the courtier It was very pleasant atmosohere that did not feel packed and we could easily chat .
We opted Plates – Tasting Menu paired with wines ( well worth it )
My best vegan friend
£125 per person
There was a little taster of barbecue tomatoed soap
1. Taco of sand carrot, fig leaf & kohlrabi just exploded in your mouth with tatse
2. House laminated sourdough bread, whipped cultured butter, green chilli & vadouvan
This is so good that I wished that had a bakery next to the restaurant.
11. Warm cacao sponge, parsnip ice cream & Buddha’s hand again out of this world
Now this was not just lunch and I am so glad I shared with someone who is not just a friend but someone I care for as it is an experience not just lunch or dinner. If you are not vegan I challenge you to dine here and not want to know more . it is the same price as West End theatre seat , but the meal last a little longer and will leave you buzzing a lot longer than mama mia .
My friend seized the moment to re book wise woman ,
Additional charges
There is a £2.75 per person surcharge for mineral water and an optional 13.5% service charge added to the bill.
I consider myself extremely fortunate to have an eclectic circle of friends. They come from different backgrounds, hold different political opinions and make very different choices in life. And do you know what? That’s precisely how I like it.
Friendship, in my opinion, should never depend on agreeing about everything.
Recently, one of my dearest friends and I found ourselves debating the suitability of a certain gentleman to become Prime Minister. I made my feelings perfectly clear. Every time I see or hear him, I think of slime, accompanied by a rather unfortunate vision of Albert Steptoe dressed as Hitler!
My friend, being considerably younger( cough ) , had absolutely no idea who Albert Steptoe was, but she certainly got the gist.
She, on the other hand, adores this politician. So much so that she nearly accepted a position in his press office.
Did we fall out? Absolutely not. We laughed, moved on to another subject and arranged to see each other the following week. No tantrums, no cancelling friendships and certainly no personal attacks.
However, there is one thing I will never tolerate: bullying.
Which brings me to GB News presenter Nana Akua and her recent confrontation with Andy Twelves.
Whether you agree with Nana’s politics or rate her broadcasting style is entirely irrelevant. She is a human being who deserves courtesy and respect.
Nana presents a programme that combines lively debate, entertainment and information. Her guests should be free to challenge her opinions, but disagreement should never become an excuse for intimidation.
Watching the confrontation, I felt Twelves behaved like a twelve-year-old schoolboy pulling a girl’s pigtails simply to provoke a reaction.
Call me old-fashioned, but even in an age of equal rights, I still find the sight of a man bullying a woman utterly disgusting or any bullying . Equality should never mean abandoning basic decency, courtesy or respect.
That isn’t intelligent debate. It’s playground behaviour.
We desperately need more tolerance, more humour and considerably less hostility in public life.
Disagree passionately, argue intelligently, but never confuse bullying with bravery.
From breathtaking musical performances and dazzling dance routines to tears, laughter and standing ovations, Autism’s Got Talent celebrated its 15th anniversary in spectacular style. Steven Smith joined the sell-out audience for an extraordinary evening that proved talent knows no boundaries.
It was a night of extraordinary talent, heartfelt emotion and thunderous applause as Autism’s Got Talent celebrated its landmark 15th anniversary at London’s Mermaid Theatre. Playing to a sell-out audience, the spectacular event delivered what was arguably its most moving and memorable show to date, with performances that brought tears to the eyes one moment and had the audience cheering with delight the next. It was a glorious celebration of neurodiversity, individuality and the remarkable abilities of autistic performers, and an evening that will undoubtedly remain in the hearts of those fortunate enough to attend.
There are certain dates in my diary that I look forward to more than others, and Autism’s Got Talent has always been at the very top of that list. It is, quite simply, my favourite time of year. Having watched this extraordinary event grow and evolve, I thought I knew exactly what to expect. Yet this year’s anniversary extravaganza managed to surpass even my expectations. From the moment I entered the Mermaid Theatre in Blackfriars, there was an unmistakable sense of excitement. Families gathered, familiar faces exchanged hugs and performers prepared for their moment in the spotlight. By the end of the evening, the auditorium had witnessed something genuinely special.
Since its inception in 2012, Autism’s Got Talent, the brainchild of the indefatigable Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, has grown from an ambitious idea into an internationally recognised showcase celebrating the abilities, creativity and individuality of autistic children and adults. Over the years, it has attracted considerable media attention, celebrity support and performers from around the world, establishing itself as one of the most uplifting events in the charity calendar.
Unlike conventional talent competitions, however, Autism’s Got Talent has no judges, no eliminations and no disappointed contestants being sent home. Instead, every performer is encouraged, celebrated and given the opportunity to shine. There is no pressure to conform to anyone else’s expectations, only the freedom to express individuality through music, dance, theatre and performance. For some, stepping onto that stage represents the fulfilment of a lifelong dream; for others, it is an opportunity to build confidence, overcome personal challenges and demonstrate talents that might otherwise remain unseen. Above all, it is a celebration of what people can achieve when they are given encouragement, opportunity and the freedom to be themselves.
This year’s 15th-anniversary spectacular pulled out all the stops, bringing together more than 20 acts, including ten newcomers and ten returning favourites. The evening opened with Dr Anna Kennedy OBE welcoming the packed auditorium and introducing special messages from celebrity supporters, including Loose Women star Denise Welch, Blue singer Anthony Costa and former EastEnders actress Kacey Ainsworth. Their messages of encouragement set the tone for an evening that was as much about celebrating achievement as it was about entertaining the audience.
There was, naturally, a generous sprinkling of showbiz glamour. Among the familiar faces giving their time to introduce performers was much-loved ‘Allo ‘Allo! actress Vicki Michelle MBE, a longstanding supporter and patron of the charity. Joining her were Christopher Hamilton and Shimi Goodman of Tiano, alongside former EastEnders heart-throb Tony Discipline and actress Ionica Adriana. It was heartwarming to see established names from the entertainment industry so enthusiastically championing autistic talent. The celebrities may have brought an extra touch of sparkle, but there was never any doubt about who the real stars of the evening were: the performers themselves.
A huge supporter of Anna Kennedy Vicki Michelle MBE
Also joining the celebrations was acclaimed artist Piluca, whose striking mural at the Sidelings Tunnel pays tribute to the charity and its inspiring work. Some of the charity’s sponsors were equally involved in the proceedings, with Mandy Aulak of Talem Law and Ione Inness of SEND Tutoring taking to the stage to introduce acts and speak about the importance of creating opportunities for autistic individuals. Their support is a reminder that events of this scale depend upon the generosity and commitment of organisations and individuals who believe in the charity’s mission.
Award winning performers Tiano
Guiding the audience through the evening were two enthusiastic comperes, Gateway Radio DJ and charity ambassador Aston Avery, alongside former The People’s Strictly contestant and amateur theatre enthusiast Phillip Barnett. Aston, who recently received a prestigious BQF Patrons Award presented by HRH The Princess Royal, brought his customary warmth and infectious enthusiasm to the proceedings. Together, the pair kept the programme moving with humour, encouragement and genuine affection for the performers, ensuring that everyone received the welcome and recognition they deserved.
EastEnders Tony Discipline
And what a programme it was. Performers had travelled from across the United Kingdom and further afield, including Ireland and Hungary, each bringing their own personality, story and extraordinary abilities to the stage. One of the joys of Autism’s Got Talent is that you never quite know what is coming next. One moment you are listening to a beautiful ballad, the next you are watching a dazzling dance routine or cheering along to an energetic musical performance. The sheer variety is part of its magic.
The show opened with PPAS, whose founder, Maggie Paterson, has generously offered scholarships to previous Autism’s Got Talent performers, demonstrating how the opportunities created by the event can continue long after the final curtain falls.
Stevie Little Jays delighted the audience with singing accompanied by Makaton signing, while Lillie Rose Allan delivered a charming rendition of Grace VanderWaal’s I Don’t Know My Name, a song whose themes of individuality and self-discovery seemed particularly appropriate for the occasion. Holli Pandit brought a touch of elegance with her beautiful harp playing, while Macauley Elvin performed Benson Boone’s Momma Song, dedicating the moving number to his family. It was one of those performances that reminded everyone just how powerful music can be when it carries a deeply personal meaning.
The family spirit Anna Kennedy’s regulars the Elvin
Another familiar face was Rich Stevens, a tremendous supporter of the charity who has raised funds through his remarkable walking challenges, including a 50-mile effort this year. Rich stepped into the spotlight to perform The Great Pretender, adding another memorable musical moment to the celebrations.
Walking to West End fame Rich Stevens with his lovely wife Zoe
One of the evening’s most energetic and thought-provoking performances came from The Childish, who had previously joined Anna Kennedy OBE on Nana Akua’s GB News programme to discuss their charity single, This Has to Stop. Highlighting the devastating consequences of knife crime, the song carries an important message for young people and communities. Performing the complete single at the Mermaid Theatre, the group delivered a powerful and passionate performance that brought the house down. It was a reminder that music can be much more than entertainment; it can educate, raise awareness and give young people a voice on issues that matter.
Aaron Clarke delighted the audience by playing the melodeon alongside his father, Andy, in a touching example of the family spirit that runs through the entire event.
Holly and Hannah joined forces for a lively musical mash-up, while Xander Hall brought his acting and performance skills to the stage with Simply Red’s Fairground. Joshua Scott Crowley injected another burst of energy into the auditorium with an impressive drumming rendition of Uptown Funk, giving the audience every excuse to clap along.
Going Up Funk with Joshua
Sophia Naughton delivered a beautiful performance of Journey to the Past from the musical Anastasia. With its soaring melody and emotional lyrics, the song provided a wonderful opportunity for Sophia to showcase her voice. I was particularly charmed to learn that she also sings in her parents’ pub. Judging by her performance, the customers are certainly in for a treat.
Another performer whose story captured my imagination was award-winning dancer Leila Juhász, who travelled from Hungary to make her Autism’s Got Talent debut. Remarkably, it was not only her first appearance at the show but also her first time travelling by aeroplane. What an adventure, and what a debut! Leila delivered an incredible street-dance routine, bringing confidence, energy and impressive choreography to the stage. Her appearance was a wonderful example of how the event can create opportunities and experiences that extend far beyond the performance itself.
Leila Juhász
André Adams treated the audience to a selection of memorable film themes on the saxophone, bringing a touch of cinematic magic to the theatre, while Alfie Webster took us into the world of Broadway with a musical-theatre number.
André Adams saxophonist with patron Steven Smith Dr Anna Kennedy OBE competes Aston Avery and Philip Barnett
Returning favourite and YouTube sensation Andrew McMurdie had travelled from Ireland to take part in the anniversary celebrations, performing an original composition entitled Memories Are Pictures. During rehearsals, Andrew perfectly captured the spirit of the occasion when he remarked, “There were so many uniquely talented people in one room, like I have never seen before.” His words summed up what makes Autism’s Got Talent so extraordinary. It is not simply about stepping onto a stage and performing; it is about friendship, confidence, opportunity and being surrounded by people who celebrate you for exactly who you are.
Andrew McMurdie
Yvie Bent also impressed with her rendition of Quiet, a song by Jonathan Reid Gealt, adding another emotional moment to an evening that moved effortlessly between uplifting entertainment and heartfelt reflection.
Sadly, Kieron Lee was unable to attend because he was unwell, but he was certainly not forgotten. He sent a special message, and the audience was treated to footage of his much-discussed appearance on the BBC’s The Assembly, during which he performed for former Scottish First Minister Nicola Sturgeon. It was a lovely way of ensuring that Kieron remained part of the anniversary celebrations, even though he could not be there in person. Kieron also created a special 15th-anniversary compilation video celebrating the event.
Another performer who demonstrated the remarkable diversity of talent on display was Daniel Docherty, who travelled from Ireland. A talented powerlifter with an impressive operatic voice, Daniel proved that physical strength and musical artistry can sit beautifully alongside one another. His appearance was yet another reminder of why we should never make assumptions about people’s abilities or place limitations on what they might achieve.
As the evening progressed, the atmosphere inside the theatre became increasingly emotional. There had been laughter, cheers, wonderful surprises and moments of genuine tenderness, but nothing could have prepared me for the extraordinary finale delivered by Atypical with Attitude. I have attended countless theatrical performances and charity events over the years, yet I can honestly say that their beautifully choreographed dance numbers were among the most moving I have witnessed.
Aston Avery and Philip Barnet compares with the rock of the show Lisa Robins .
The performance was dedicated to Kim Stygall, the late mother of dancer James, and what followed was a profoundly touching tribute filled with love, remembrance and emotion. Every movement seemed to carry meaning, and the sincerity of the dancers was almost overwhelming. It was not simply a display of technical skill but an expression of grief, affection and the enduring bond between a mother and her child. There was barely a dry eye in the house, and I certainly struggled to hold back the tears. As the final moments unfolded, the audience responded with heartfelt applause, recognising not only the artistry of the performance but also the courage and emotion behind it. For me, it was the defining moment of an extraordinary evening, and one I shall remember for a very long time.
At the heart of all this is, of course, the remarkable Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, whose tireless determination, passion and commitment have transformed Autism’s Got Talent into the much-loved celebration it is today. Over the years, Anna has become one of the most recognisable voices championing autistic individuals and their families, helping to create opportunities, challenge misconceptions and encourage greater understanding. Yet perhaps one of her greatest achievements is the extraordinary sense of family she has built around Anna Kennedy Online. It is a family that continues to grow, celebrates every achievement and understands the importance of allowing people to be accepted for who they are.
Super star voice
Reflecting on the event and her hopes for the future, Anna said: “We aim to continue to build Autism’s Got Talent year by year. We want all those involved to have fun, do what they love, make friends, be themselves, and have one night that is all about them.”
Those words beautifully capture the philosophy behind the event. It is not about fame, fortune or winning a trophy, but about having the opportunity to stand proudly on a stage, share your talents and be celebrated. For many performers and their families, the experience represents something far greater than a single evening of entertainment. It is a chance to build confidence, form lasting friendships and create memories that will remain long after the theatre lights have dimmed.
Piluca artist show her painting dedicated to Anna Kennedy online and talks on stage
Anna is also the first to acknowledge that none of this would be possible without the extraordinary dedication of her team, many of whom give their time voluntarily. Among them is Lisa Robins, one of the rocks of Anna Kennedy Online and Anna’s trusted right-hand woman, alongside the show’s stage manager, Fiona Shepherd, whose hard work helps transform months of preparation into the polished production audiences enjoy. A big shout-out also goes to Tally Nothey and Genna Nothey, who did the brilliant marketing for the event.
Anna Kennedy on line team .
In an entertainment industry so often dominated by competition, image and commercial success, Autism’s Got Talent offers something wonderfully refreshing. Here, success is not measured by television ratings, record sales or the opinions of a panel of judges. It is measured in smiles, confidence, friendships, personal achievements and the sheer joy of performing. It is about recognising what people can do rather than focusing on what others might assume they cannot.
As the evening drew to a close and the wonderful performers returned to the stage, the atmosphere inside the Mermaid Theatre was electric. There were beaming smiles, proud families, emotional embraces and applause that seemed to go on forever. Looking around the auditorium, I was reminded once again why I have such enormous affection for this event. It brings people together in a way that few other occasions manage, creating an atmosphere of authenticity, generosity and genuine celebration.
Fifteen years after Anna Kennedy first set out to create a platform for autistic talent, the event continues to grow, inspire and change perceptions. And if this spectacular anniversary celebration proved anything, it is that the future of Autism’s Got Talent is every bit as bright as the remarkable individuals who make it possible.
As I left the theatre, still thinking about that extraordinary finale and the many unforgettable performances I had witnessed, one thought stayed with me: the world would be a much kinder, more understanding place if we celebrated one another’s differences with the same enthusiasm and generosity that filled the Mermaid Theatre that night.
Because talent does not come in one shape, one size or one particular form. It comes from individuality, passion, determination and the courage to be yourself. And on this remarkable evening, every single performer was a star.
Fifteen years of talent, fifteen years of friendship and fifteen years of breaking down barriers. And judging by what I witnessed, the best may still be yet to come.
As the Anna Kennedy Online family would say, “You’re all amazing, and we all rock!”
Roll on Autism’s Got Talent 2027. Whoop, whoop!
Steven Smith is a journalist, author and patron of Anna Kennedy Online.
For further information about Anna Kennedy Online and Autism’s Got Talent, visit annakennedyonline.com.
It is not just global superstar diva Madonna who has been diagnosed with a hernia. After an agonising pain in my groin that very nearly brought me to my knees, I too discovered that I had joined the hernia club — a membership I certainly hadn’t applied for.
Suddenly, I was well and truly knocked out of my groove. I went from gym bunny to couch potato almost overnight. There would be no Vogue-ing for me for a while.
So here is one diva’s tale of overcoming the pain, indignity and unexpected challenges that come with having a hernia.
I admit that, at 65, my activity levels sometimes make my 26-year-old nephew groan.
“I’m exhausted just watching you,” he says, shaking his head.
I’m rarely out of the gym or sitting still for very long. Add to that a busy social and work life and people often ask me, “How do you do it?”
Well, unexpectedly, it all ground to a rather spectacular halt.
I was dashing with my nephew to catch the Tube at Victoria station when, completely out of the blue, a pain shot through my groin. It was so sharp and sudden that it felt as though someone had stabbed me.
“What’s wrong?” my nephew asked as I doubled over.
Then, almost as quickly as it had arrived, the pain disappeared.
I was left standing there slightly shaken, but we were due to leave for what promised to be an amazing trip to Spain in just a day’s time, visiting one of my closest friends. Surely a little groin pain wasn’t going to stop me?
Later that day, however, the discomfort returned, accompanied by a strange tiredness. But being me, I decided that a few cocktails, some Spanish sunshine and the sea would have me right as rain. I would still be the soul of the party.
And, of course, I was.
I even managed a divine two-and-a-half-hour walk along the Marbella seafront. Pain or no pain, this diva was not giving in without a fight.
But underneath the bravado, I knew something wasn’t right. And like any self-respecting male diva with access to Google and an overactive imagination, naturally I feared the worst.
Having been registered at the same GP surgery for around 20 years, I rarely seem to see the same doctor twice. Once back in London — and while simultaneously dealing with the stress of the airline losing my luggage — I managed to secure that rarest of modern treasures: an actual GP appointment.
I saw a lovely female doctor. With the problem being in the groin area, it was already slightly embarrassing, but almost immediately she began asking about my sex life.
“What sex life?” I joked.
She didn’t laugh.
“When did you last have intercourse?”
Then came questions about my HIV status and other sexual-health matters.
“I abstain,” I replied, by now becoming slightly irritated.
Every avenue seemed to be explored except the one word that eventually mattered: hernia.
That came almost at the last minute.
The doctor disappeared to seek advice and returned saying that it could indeed be a hernia. More worryingly, if there was any possibility that it was a strangulated hernia — a potentially serious complication — I needed to go to A&E.
“Don’t worry,” I was told. “You just need some blood tests and an ultrasound. Take this letter and they should fast-track you.”
Famous last words.
During the hours that followed, I met four other people who appeared to have fallen for a similar line.
Now, this is absolutely not about knocking the NHS. As God is my witness — and all that Gone with the Wind stuff — I remain incredibly grateful that we have it. But dear God, in this age of technology, surely we have to find a better way of managing A&E departments.
Why should people routinely have to sit for four or five hours waiting? There must be a better system.
I have visited hospitals in countries such as Thailand where, if you knew nothing about the healthcare system beforehand, you might wrongly expect something rather old-fashioned. The reality can be the complete opposite: modern, efficient and surprisingly streamlined.
A London A&E waiting room, meanwhile, can occasionally feel like its own form of theatre.
At one point, I encountered a rather terrifying character who suddenly shouted at me like the male version of Catherine Tate’s Nan:
“What the hell is wrong with you? You look like you’re off for a night out. I’ve never seen such healthy people!”
Charming.
Anyway, around five hours later, the very reason we should celebrate the NHS finally appeared in the form of a doctor.
He was excellent.
After examining me and reading the GP’s letter, he looked slightly puzzled and asked why on earth I had been sent to A&E in the first place. They didn’t even perform the particular ultrasound I needed there.
But his advice proved invaluable.
Rather than potentially waiting weeks for the scan, I decided to pay privately for an ultrasound.
And sure enough, there it was.
A hernia.
Suddenly, the stabbing pain, the discomfort while walking and the strange sensation in my groin all had a name.
Then came one side effect I certainly hadn’t expected — an apparent increase in my male libido.
Now, before anyone rushes off in search of a hernia in the hope of spicing up their love life, I should point out that there doesn’t appear to be medical evidence that a groin hernia actually increases libido. It may simply have been that, with pain, pressure and irritation in an area packed with nerves, I had suddenly become far more aware of that particular region of my anatomy.
Either way, confined increasingly to the sofa, banned from the gym and temporarily deprived of my usual bouncing around, it was reassuring to discover that while the hernia may have slowed me down, it certainly hadn’t switched everything off.
Still looking good — just moving at a slightly more dignified pace.
And unfortunately, my hernia story was only just beginning…
The guilty party
When the Hernia Took Charge
Despite everything, I was still trying to dash around as though nothing had happened.
My hernia, however, had other ideas.
I only had to walk so far before the pain would suddenly kick in and become so intense that I could barely put one foot in front of the other. On one occasion, it became so bad that I found myself clinging to a wall, seriously considering calling an ambulance.
For someone who is normally fiercely independent, constantly on the move and more likely to be found in the gym than lying on the sofa, it was frightening.
Nothing highlighted just how much my life had changed more than a journey home from my pre-operative assessment.
By what felt like a combination of luck, divine intervention and a minor miracle, I had been given a date for surgery. Even more impressively, the staff at Chelsea and Westminster Hospital were carrying out pre-operative assessments on a Sunday.
My assessment was incredibly thorough. Blood tests, an ECG, questions, checks — the lot. Everything seemed fine and, reassured, I headed home.
That was when I realised I had overdone it.
By the time I reached the Underground, the pain was excruciating. I found myself gripping the wall just to stay upright. Two incredibly kind men stopped and asked if they could help me, but there really wasn’t much anybody could do.
I simply had to stop, wait for the pain to ease and somehow get myself home.
The severity of the pain had already made me seek a private surgical opinion. Because the pain seemed disproportionate to what had been described as a relatively small hernia, an MRI was suggested to rule out another cause.
At around £1,300, however, that was simply not within my budget.
Besides, the hernia still needed repairing. My thinking became very simple: deal with what we know is there first. If the pain continued afterwards, then we could investigate something else.
And so, finally, the big day arrived.
Operation Diva
29 September. 7.30am.
Check-in time.
I arrived at Chelsea and Westminster Hospital full of nerves and running on an empty stomach after fasting overnight. Thankfully, I was still allowed clear fluids until two hours beforehand, which meant one thing was non-negotiable: coffee.
And what an excellent black coffee it was, courtesy of Social Impact Coffee inside the hospital. Frankly, at that hour of the morning, facing surgery on no breakfast, it felt medicinal.
Then I met a lovely nurse called Katalina, who told me to take a seat.
Katalina, incidentally, barely seemed to take a break herself for the entire time I was there. She was constantly on the move, looking after everyone, answering questions and somehow remaining cheerful throughout.
At around 8.30am, the anaesthetist appeared carrying his motorcycle helmet.
Very reassuring. Presumably, if anything went wrong, he had a fast getaway vehicle.
He explained the anaesthetic and the drugs I would be given.
My immediate thought was Edina Monsoon in Absolutely Fabulous: “I want every drug going, and I want them now.”
Joking aside, this was probably the moment when my nerves really kicked in.
Before surgery, the anaesthetist has to explain the possible risks and side effects. Of course, it is important that patients know these things, but when you are already nervous and sitting there waiting to be knocked unconscious, hearing a list of everything that could happen is hardly relaxing.
Did you know about redheads and anaesthesia? Research has suggested that people with naturally red hair can respond differently to certain anaesthetics and may sometimes require different amounts.
Who knew being ginger could even complicate being knocked out?
Around 9.30am, one of the surgical team came to see me.
He was wonderfully reassuring.
I raised my concern about whether I should have had the MRI first, particularly because of the amount of pain I had been experiencing. He explained that size does not necessarily determine how painful a hernia will be. Smaller hernias can sometimes cause considerable pain, particularly depending on what is protruding through the defect and the surrounding tissues involved.
That immediately made me feel better. Perhaps the hernia really was responsible for all this pain after all.
Then came the news that tested even my patience.
The room I had been given was mine for the duration of my day stay because my operation was not scheduled until around 3pm.
Three o’clock!
I had checked in at 7.30 in the morning.
By midday, Katalina suddenly appeared with much more promising news.
“You’re next.”
Music to my ears.
I was instructed to change into the glamorous surgical ensemble — gown and compression stockings. Not quite Versace, but needs must.
I thought this meant I was about to be whisked straight into theatre.
It didn’t.
Meanwhile, I had now gone around 17 hours without food and, whether through nerves, my digestive system staging its own protest, or both, I had been to the toilet about five times.
There is nothing quite like impending surgery for discovering bodily functions you didn’t know you had.
Then, finally, at around 3.10pm, a porter appeared.
This was it.
Unfortunately, there was one more hurdle between me and the operating theatre.
I was on the fifth floor and I have a serious fear of heights. Glass walkways are my idea of hell. Put me on solid ground and I am fine; let me see five floors beneath my feet and suddenly my legs stop cooperating.
The staff arranged a wheelchair.I closed my eyes.
Problem solved.
Or so I thought.
As we crossed a ramp, the wheelchair was pulled rather forcefully and the sudden movement sent an agonising pain through my groin.
By the time I reached the theatre area and was lying there waiting to go under, all fear had temporarily disappeared.
I just wanted the hernia gone.
Lights above me. People moving around. Final checks.
Then the anaesthetic.
And darkness.
“Where Am I?”
Sometime after five o’clock, I began to wake up.
Or at least I think I did.
Everything was hazy. I was extremely disorientated and struggling to work out where I was or what was happening around me.
The operation itself was over.
The surgeon was apparently happy with how things had gone and, surgically, there was no immediate reason why I couldn’t go home.
But the recovery team had other ideas.
I was simply too disorientated.
There followed a conversation between the medical staff about whether I should be discharged or kept in overnight. For a while, it seemed I might still be heading home.
Then the decision was made.
The Hernia Diva was staying the night.
Not quite the glamorous overnight stay I might usually have chosen.
No room service, no champagne, no fluffy bathrobe — but plenty of observations, painkillers and nurses keeping a very close eye on me.
Rain, my nurse, was truly remarkable, and what followed turned into a night to remember.
The man next to me was living with Alzheimer’s and believed there was a conspiracy going on. He thought people were trying to kill and sexually assault him. Adjacent to him was another man in such severe pain that the slightest noise was setting him off, and he began threatening the man with Alzheimer’s.
Then the gentleman with Alzheimer’s went off on a rant about gay sex, despite being heterosexual himself, and eventually the man next to him had simply had enough.
Seemingly, as I nodded off thanks to the magic of morphine, security arrived to remove the gentleman with dementia.
I felt incredibly sorry for him. He was clearly frightened, confused and unwell, but it also seemed that nobody was properly equipped to deal with his level of distress. What he was doing on a general ward in that condition raised some serious questions for me about the NHS and how we care for people living with dementia.
Rain and the rest of the staff were incredible. They even gave me breakfast. However, at certain points during the night, I did wonder whether I was in a hospital or somehow appearing on the set of the prison drama Oz.
Next, the surgeon arrived to discharge me. He was rather non-committal, although everything appeared to have gone well and my discharge papers confirmed that the operation had been completed.
I asked him, “Had there been any complications?”
His reply wasn’t exactly reassuring.
“There are always possibilities. That’s why we tell you about them before and after.”
Well, I was alive.
Then I was given some strong painkillers and told to go downstairs to the pharmacy for the rest of my medication.
Forty-five minutes later, we were still waiting, only to discover that they were over-the-counter medications.
Finally, after a rather bumpy drive home with my adorable friend Remmia, there was only one thing on my mind.
I couldn’t wait to sleep.
And after weeks of pain, worry, cancelled plans, Google searches, hospital visits and wondering whether something else might be wrong, one enormous question remained:
There is an old saying: it’s called show business, not show friends. Perhaps we should now add: it’s not called show politics either.
If you are lucky enough to have been given a gift, or developed a craft that has made you famous, people are paying to see you perform. They have bought a ticket to hear you sing, watch you act, laugh at your comedy or simply be entertained. They have not necessarily paid to hear your political views or be lectured about the causes you support.
Of course, there is a time and place for everything.
If you are performing at a charity event, then absolutely talk about the charity. Fill your boots! You are there to help, raise awareness and, hopefully, raise money. If you are a singer who has written a commercial song highlighting a cause that matters to you, then sing it. Music, theatre, film and art have always been ways of expressing ideas, challenging opinions and starting conversations.
Look at the brilliance of Bob Geldof, Midge Ure and Live Aid. In 1985, some of the biggest names in music came together for an event specifically created to raise money for famine relief in Ethiopia. The cause wasn’t an unexpected lecture halfway through an unrelated evening — it was the reason everyone was there.
But the audience should know what they are buying into.
Performance artists such as David Hoyle, or artists like Marina Abramović, are different. Their work is often provocative, challenging and designed to make a statement. You go in knowing that you may hear an opinion, be confronted by an idea or even have your own beliefs challenged. That’s absolutely fine — it does what it says on the tin. The statement is part of the performance, and the audience knows that before they walk through the door.
David Hoyle performance artist you go knowing that you will hear is views ie it is what is on the tin.
If an artist intends to turn a concert into a political platform, particularly on an issue that has little or nothing to do with the performance, I believe the audience has a right to decide whether they want to be there. Their views may be the complete opposite of the person on stage, or they may simply want an evening of entertainment without politics entering the room.
There is also nothing wrong with a performer deciding that politics matters more to them than show business. Glenda Jackson is a perfect example of someone who made that choice openly.
Jackson was one of Britain’s most acclaimed actors and a two-time Academy Award winner. In the early 1990s, she stepped away from acting and entered politics, becoming the Labour MP for Hampstead and Highgate in 1992. She remained an MP for 23 years, including serving as a government minister, before leaving Parliament in 2015 and returning to acting.
Whatever your political views, there is something refreshingly straightforward about that decision. She wanted to enter politics, so she stood for Parliament. She did not expect audiences buying theatre or cinema tickets to elect her.
Perhaps one of my favourite show-business stories involves the late, great Dolly Parton and Julia Roberts while filming Steel Magnolias. The cast were shooting in the sweltering Louisiana heat and everyone was complaining — except Dolly. Roberts, amazed that Dolly wasn’t joining in despite the wig, heavy clothes and heat, asked her why.
Dolly’s response was wonderfully simple: “When I was a little girl, I wanted to be famous and I wanted to be rich, and now I’m both those things. I’m not going to complain about it.”
What a fabulous attitude.
There are thousands of extraordinarily talented actors, singers and performers who would give anything for the opportunity to stand on that stage, walk onto that film set or hear an audience applaud them. Perhaps sometimes, amid the fame, money and attention, it is worth remembering just how fortunate you are to have made it there in the first place.
As Dolly understood better than most: enjoy the privilege, do the job — and put on the show.
The recent palaver surrounding the legendary Dame Maureen Lipman also got me thinking. Two actors withdrew from Right Before I Go following her casting, citing disagreement with views she had publicly expressed.
Now, goodness knows, over the years I have worked with people who held views I found horrible. I’ve lost count. But maturity surely means accepting that you can work alongside someone without agreeing with everything they think.
Sometimes you can even change someone’s mind — or they might make you reconsider something yourself.
It’s show business, not show friends. And if you are fortunate enough to be earning your living as an actor, let alone working alongside somebody with decades of experience and talent, perhaps there is something to be gained from the experience even when you disagree with them.
As I like to say: eat it up, buttercup.
Celebrities, like everybody else, have every right to hold strong political opinions. Fame does not take away your freedom of speech. Equally, buying a ticket to see someone perform does not mean an audience has agreed with everything that performer believes.
I wouldn’t expect The Phantom of the Opera to suddenly stop halfway through so the cast could share their political views. Nor would I expect A Midsummer Night’s Dream to grind to a halt for a political speech unrelated to Shakespeare’s play. In much the same way, I don’t expect my plumber or hairdresser to stop halfway through their work to give me a lecture on their politics.
There is another side to this that troubles me: our increasing inability to tolerate people whose opinions oppose our own.
I am a huge advocate of allowing people into my life whose views are different from mine. Sometimes friendship, affection and respect are built on far more than agreeing about politics. As long as somebody isn’t permanently standing on their soapbox preaching at me, I’m perfectly happy to have a lively debate.
What I find far more troubling is the idea of simply cancelling or silencing people with whom we disagree.
There is an old saying: keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. I would adapt that slightly: keep listening to the people you disagree with.
How on earth are we supposed to understand what is happening in society if we refuse to hear opinions we dislike? Silencing an opinion doesn’t necessarily make that opinion disappear. It can simply mean we stop hearing it. Then, suddenly, we are shocked when a movement, idea or political force gains ground that we never saw coming.
Listening is not the same as agreeing.
Social media has also changed the relationship between celebrities and the public. Stars now have direct access to millions of followers and can express their views whenever they wish. If someone wants to campaign, protest or support a cause online, people can choose whether to follow, engage, debate — or simply scroll straight past.
A live performance feels different because the audience has paid to be there.
Please campaign, march, raise money, support charities and speak passionately about the things that matter to you. Debate with people who disagree with you rather than automatically shutting them out. And if politics becomes your true calling, perhaps follow Glenda Jackson’s example and enter politics yourself.
But when the lights go down and the curtain goes up, sometimes we simply want the show.
Picture Andy Barnes Pamela Sharrock , Denise Welch , Steven Smith Vicki Michelle ,
Back in May 2Shades writer celebrated his birthday here is the article that was held back
Pictures by Andy Barnes
Former celebrity hairdresser turned author, writer and broadcaster Steven Smith celebrated his milestone birthday in true glamorous fashion with a star-studded gathering at the much-loved Firepit Gallery in London.
The special celebration was not simply about marking another birthday — it was also held in aid of Anna Kennedy Online, the autism charity that Steven has proudly supported as a patron for the past 12 years. Friends, supporters and familiar faces from the worlds of entertainment, media and charity gathered, despite soaring temperatures, to celebrate a man many affectionately describe as a loyal friend, generous supporter and tireless champion of good causes.
Among those joining Steven for the occasion was Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, founder of Anna Kennedy Online, whose work supporting autistic people and their families has transformed countless lives. Steven has long been a passionate advocate for the charity and has supported many of its flagship events over the years, including Autism’s Got Talent, the Autism Hero Awards, and the Autism & Art Show.
The evening also became a reunion of cherished friendships spanning decades. One of the most touching appearances came from actress and presenter Denise Welch, Steven’s best friend of 45 years. Denise, who recently returned to television screens in Tip Toe, written by Russell T Davies for Channel 4, made time to celebrate the occasion with her long-time friend.
Denise Welch and Anna Kennedy OBE Picture Andy Barnes
Steven first met Denise back in Brighton, when she was appearing in the play Nigeria Falls, and the pair have remained close ever since, supporting one another through the highs and lows of both life and career.
Another familiar face lending support was actress and presenter Vicki Michelle, best known and adored for her role in the iconic comedy series ’Allo ’Allo!. A long-time friend of Steven’s and fellow patron of Anna Kennedy Online, Vicki has been an unwavering supporter of the charity for many years. Whether attending Autism’s Got Talent, judging at the Autism Hero Awards, or supporting the Autism Art Exhibition — even purchasing artwork to encourage autistic artists — her commitment has remained steadfast.
Aston Avery picture Andy Barnes .
Speaking warmly about Steven, Vicki said:
“I have known Steven for years. He is a rock to many and does so much for charity. We love him.”
Also joining the celebrations were the ever-glamorous presenter and author Wendy Turner Webster and her husband, acting favourite Gary Webster, best known for Minder and EastEnders. Long-time friends of Steven and dedicated supporters of Anna Kennedy Online, Wendy and Gary have also lent their time over the years as judges at the Autism Hero Awards, helping to champion extraordinary people making a difference within the autism community.
Picture Andy Barnes Wendy Turner Webster and Gary Webster and Steven Smith.
Guests were treated to entertainment throughout the evening, with talented singer Tilly Aston delighting attendees with a stunning live performance. Meanwhile, DJ Sumz kept the atmosphere electric, ensuring guests danced late into the evening as laughter, friendship and celebration filled the Firepit Gallery.
Picture by Andy Barnes Tilly Aston
As birthdays go, Steven Smith’s 65th was not simply glamorous — it was heartfelt, filled with friendship, and reflected the generosity and kindness of a man who has spent much of his life giving back to others while never losing his sparkle. A birthday to remember, and proof that at 65, Steven Smith still knows exactly how to throw a fabulous party.
Long term friends Marieanne Nanson In red Irene Nanson , Rachel Zisser shades money man Richard Andrews actor Matthew
The evening raised over £1,000 for Anna Kennedy Online — making the celebration not only memorable, but meaningful too.
Looking through my old photographs brings back an extraordinary collection of memories. But what really stands out among them is my time with Anna Kennedy Online and, in particular, being a volunteer for Autism’s Got Talent. This year marks the 15th anniversary of Autism’s Got Talent, and for 13 of those years I have had the privilege of being involved.
When I first became involved, I could never have imagined the journey ahead. There have been red carpets, interviews, photographs, laughter, a few tears and, above all, some truly remarkable people. What started as supporting Anna and her work became something very personal to me. Thirteen years later, I am incredibly proud to have been asked to become, and to remain, one of the patrons of Anna Kennedy Online.
At the heart of it all is, of course, Dr Anna Kennedy OBE. Anna is one of those people who simply does not give up. I have watched her campaign, encourage, fight for families and create opportunities for autistic people year after year. We have stood together at countless events, and I have seen first-hand just how much work goes on behind the scenes.
We joke that Anna can get you to move mountains, even when you had no idea you could!
Today, the charity is involved in so much more, including Autism & Art, the Autism Hero Awards and many other events and initiatives throughout the year.
But one event has always had a particularly special place in my heart: Autism’s Got Talent. It was through this wonderful event that I really became part of the team.
The name may say “Got Talent”, but this has never been a competition. There are no winners and losers. It is about giving autistic performers a stage on which they can simply be themselves, celebrate their talents and show an audience exactly what they can do.
Over the years, I have watched performers walk onto that stage nervous and walk off absolutely glowing. Singers, dancers, musicians, comedians and performers with talents you could never predict have all become part of its history. Some moments have made us roar with laughter; others have left us fighting back tears.
The photographs here capture just a fraction of my own journey. The hairstyles may have changed — and looking back, perhaps some of the suits should remain firmly in the past! — but my reason for being there has never changed.
I have met wonderful families, performers, volunteers, supporters and fellow patrons. Some have become genuine friends. There is a sense of family surrounding Anna Kennedy Online that is difficult to explain until you have experienced it for yourself.
One of those friendships is with Aston Avery and his family. I will never forget meeting Aston and his mum and dad, Dawn and Keith. We became instant friends, and today I have the pleasure of joining Aston for our monthly show on Gateway Radio in Essex. Aston’s talent continues to blow me away, but equally impressive is his commitment to charity work and volunteering. He is an absolute credit to his family, and watching his journey over the years has been a privilege.
What I also love is how Autism’s Got Talent has evolved. Autism awareness has changed enormously during those years, but there is still so much work to do. Awareness is important, but acceptance, inclusion, opportunity and respect matter even more.
On 10 October 2026, Autism’s Got Talent returns to London’s Mermaid Theatre for its 15th anniversary. It promises to be an emotional night for everyone who has been part of its story.
For me, it will also be a chance to look back over 13 years and think: Where on earth did that time go?
I am immensely proud to have played my small part in this journey and even prouder of Anna, the team and, most importantly, every autistic performer who has had the courage to step onto that stage and share their talent with us.
Thirteen years has given me friendships, memories and moments I will treasure forever. And if there is one thing I have learned from Anna and Autism’s Got Talent, it is never to underestimate what someone can achieve when they are simply given the opportunity to shine.
Happy 15th anniversary, Autism’s Got Talent. Here’s to the next chapter. ❤️\
