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Anna Chats at 2Shades

Anna Chats at 2Shades

She’s here… and she’s someone you can always count on for honest advice, a caring opinion, and a little inspiration along the way. It’s Dr Anna Kennedy OBE.

No need to bow or curtsy—there are no airs or graces here. Anna is simply a remarkable woman whose kindness, determination and tireless work have inspired thousands of families across the UK and beyond.

Whether she’s sharing her thoughts, offering practical guidance, or championing acceptance and inclusion, Anna brings warmth, wisdom and real-life experience to every conversation.

So grab a cuppa, settle in, and enjoy Anna Chats at 2Shades—where every chat comes from the heart

Anna Does a book review .

Book Review: Autistically Me by Bradley Riches ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

As the mother of two autistic sons, Autistically Me resonated with me on a deeply personal level. Bradley Riches offers readers an honest, insightful and often humorous account of life through his eyes as an autistic person. His warmth, openness and authenticity make this a moving memoir that is both engaging and incredibly easy to connect with.

Throughout the book, I found myself reflecting on many of the experiences my own sons have shared, or struggled to put into words over the years. Bradley has a remarkable ability to articulate feelings, challenges and triumphs in a way that helps readers gain a genuine understanding of autism from an autistic perspective. His voice is refreshingly honest, and his storytelling is filled with compassion, resilience and hope.

I am also incredibly proud that Bradley is one of the patrons of our charity. The kindness, empathy and dedication he brings to supporting the autistic community shine through every page of this book. It is clear that his goal is not only to share his own journey but also to help others feel understood, accepted and valued.

Autistically Me is a book I would wholeheartedly recommend, not only to autistic people but also to parents, carers, teachers, employers and anyone who wants to develop a deeper understanding of autism. It provides genuine insight while reminding us that every autistic person is unique, with their own strengths, challenges and way of experiencing the world.

Thank you, Bradley, for sharing your story with such courage and honesty. I have no doubt this book will help countless autistic people and their families feel seen, understood and far less alone.

An inspiring, heartfelt and uplifting read that I would happily recommend to everyone.

Available from Waterstones.

Anna Talks Art

Anna Talks Art

I can hardly believe that the second Autism & Art exhibition at the Firepit Gallery in London is almost here. The past year has flown by, and I honestly don’t know where the time has gone. It feels like only yesterday we were welcoming visitors to our very first exhibition, celebrating the incredible creativity of autistic artists. Now, we’re back, and I couldn’t be more excited.

This year’s exhibition promises to be even bigger and better, with an extraordinary line-up of artists whose talent, imagination and individuality continue to inspire me every day. From the wonderful Harvey Price to a doctor who expresses her scientific world through vibrant art, a self-proclaimed witch whose creativity is as unique as her personality, and many other remarkable artists and supporters, there really is something for everyone to enjoy. Every artist brings a different story, a different perspective and a reminder that creativity has no boundaries.

One of the greatest joys of this exhibition is seeing people come together to celebrate autism through art. Every piece on display reflects not only artistic ability but also courage, passion and self-expression. Art has an incredible way of communicating feelings and experiences that words sometimes cannot, and I know our visitors will leave feeling inspired.

A very special thank you must go to one of our dedicated patrons, Steven Smith, who has worked tirelessly behind the scenes to help bring this exhibition together. From coordinating artists to helping curate the event, his enthusiasm and commitment have been invaluable. Of course, no exhibition like this happens without a wonderful team. My sincere thanks also go to Marcus Jake, owner of the beautiful Firepit Gallery, Anne-Marie BickertonPiluca Artist, and everyone else who has generously given their time and support to make this year’s exhibition possible.

I can’t wait to welcome you all. Whether you’re an art lover, a supporter of autism, or simply looking for an inspiring day out, I hope you’ll join us in celebrating the remarkable talents of our autistic artists. I look forward to seeing you there! 🎨💜

Anna’s talks ” This heat ” Advice: Looking After Your Loved Ones with Autism in This Heat

Hello everyone,

I’m not going to lie – this recent heat has just about been the end of me! Like so many families, we’ve really struggled, and poor Angelo has found it especially difficult. I know many of you will be experiencing exactly the same thing.

We bought a cooler for one of the rooms to create a calm, comfortable space, but even that wasn’t straightforward. The noise of the machine was unsettling for Angelo at first, so we had to introduce it very slowly. We switched it on for short periods, allowing him to become familiar with the sound before expecting him to spend any time in the room. Patience really is key.

Something as simple as cool, damp flannels can make a huge difference. Placing one gently on the forehead, neck or wrists can help lower body temperature without causing discomfort. Encouraging regular sips of water throughout the day is also so important. Some autistic people may not recognise when they’re becoming dehydrated, so gentle reminders can really help.

Whenever possible, keep curtains or blinds closed during the hottest part of the day to keep rooms cooler, and if your loved one enjoys water, paddling pools, cool baths or even playing with water can provide welcome relief while also being fun and calming.

Remember that many autistic people experience sensory differences, and heat can make those sensitivities even more intense. Clothing labels, certain fabrics or even a light breeze from a fan may feel uncomfortable. Try not to worry if routines change or if your loved one seems more anxious than usual. Sometimes just giving them a quiet, cool place where they feel safe is the best thing you can do.

Most importantly, be kind to yourself. Looking after someone with autism during extreme weather can be exhausting, both physically and emotionally. You’re doing your best, and that’s enough.

Let’s hope for some cooler days soon. Until then, take care of yourselves, keep cool where you can, and remember that you’re never alone. Our autism community is always here to support one another.

With love,

Dr Anna Kennedy OBE

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⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Turner’s Take on the Big WHY? –

A Film That Will Change the Way You Think

By Steven Smith. https://www.animalaid.org.uk/news/transform-world-roadshow-launches-26-may/

Celebrity turn out at last nights film Acting Royalty Vick Michelle Dad and star Brain Turner Wendy Turner Webster ,John Curtain animal activist Anthea Turner , Victoria Featherstone Pearce Simon King .

It might have looked like an evening filled with lights, cameras and celebrity glamour, but behind the smiles and red-carpet photographs was a cause that could not have been more important.

Television sisters Wendy Turner-Webster and Anthea Turner, alongside their inspirational father Brian, came together to unveil their new feature-length documentary, Turner’s Take on the Big WHY?, produced by Animal Aid.

Dr Anna Kennedy OBE chats to a real star at last nights film premier

I joined the ever-active Dr Anna Kennedy OBE and a host of celebrities, campaigners and animal welfare activists at the beautiful Courthouse Hotel in London’s West End for what proved to be one of the most thought-provoking film premieres I have attended in a long time. Among those supporting the launch were Vicki Michelle MBE, Victoria Featherstone Pearce, singer Simon King, Dr Anna Kennedy OBE Gary Webster and many others who share a passion for animal welfare. It certainly had all the ingredients of a glamorous premiere.

But once the cameras stopped flashing and everyone took their seats inside the hotel’s intimate cinema, the atmosphere changed completely. Between the glitz and glamour lay a serious subject that many of us would rather avoid discussing, let alone watching on the big screen.

Animal testing.

I’ll be honest—I entered the screening with some trepidation. I’m one of those people who only has to watch a film where a dog hurts its paw and I’m in floods of tears. The thought of sitting through a feature-length documentary about animal experimentation didn’t exactly sound like my ideal afternoon. In fact, I found myself wondering who on earth thought this would make an engaging cinema experience.

Well…

I couldn’t have been more wrong.

What Wendy, Anthea and Brian have created is something remarkably clever. Rather than bombarding the audience with endless graphic images designed simply to shock, Turner’s Take on the Big WHY? gently draws you into the conversation. It asks questions instead of preaching, educates rather than lectures, and encourages viewers to think for themselves.

That is perhaps the film’s greatest strength.

The documentary explores why animals are still being used in laboratory experiments in the UK and around the world despite the existence of increasingly sophisticated, modern alternatives that many scientists believe are more accurate and humane. It raises uncomfortable questions.

Why are millions of animals still suffering in laboratories?

If newer technologies exist, why aren’t they being used more widely?

Are we simply continuing with outdated systems because that’s the way things have always been done?

These are not easy questions, but they are questions worth asking.

What impressed me most was the balance the filmmakers achieved. Yes, there are emotional moments. There are scenes that tug firmly at the heartstrings, particularly when viewers are shown the conditions in which beagles and other laboratory animals are kept. Those images are upsetting. They should be.

But the documentary never becomes so distressing that you feel compelled to look away. Instead, it carefully guides you through the facts, allowing the audience to stay engaged and absorb the information rather than switching off emotionally. It’s an incredibly intelligent way of tackling such a difficult subject. By avoiding sensationalism, the film actually becomes far more powerful.

You leave wanting to know more.

Wanting to read more.

Wanting to ask more questions.

For me, that’s exactly what a great documentary should do.

One of the biggest surprises was just how much warmth and humour runs throughout the film. Anyone expecting an hour and a half of relentless sadness is in for a surprise.

The relationship between Wendy and Anthea provides genuine moments of laughter. At one point Wendy jokingly tells her sister, “You said my hair looks like straw.”

Anthea immediately looks horrified before replying, “No I didn’t!”

The expression on her face and the playful exchange between the sisters is wonderfully natural and gives viewers a glimpse of the family behind the public image. It is refreshingly authentic.

A Family affair Brian with daughters Wendy and Anthea a the film premier

For decades we’ve seen Wendy and Anthea perfectly styled on television and across glossy magazine covers. Here, they strip all of that away. What we see are two sisters exactly as they are at home—supporting one another, teasing each other, laughing together and united by a cause they genuinely believe in. That honesty makes the documentary even more engaging.

However, for me, the real star of the film is their father, Brian.

At 92 years of age, Brian is an absolute inspiration.

Following the death of his wife and Wendy and Anthea’s mother, he moved to London and became passionately involved in campaigning for animal welfare. Rather than slowing down, he embraced a completely new chapter in his life, proving that purpose has no age limit.

His enthusiasm is infectious, his warmth shines through every scene, and his gentle humour is impossible not to warm to. He isn’t afraid to speak his mind, and his compassion for animals is both genuine and deeply moving. Watching Brian is a reminder that it is never too late to reinvent yourself or devote your time to something you truly believe in. He is living proof that passion doesn’t retire.

You can also clearly see where Wendy and Anthea inherited their natural screen presence. The charisma most definitely runs in the family.

One of the documentary’s greatest strengths is that it doesn’t rely solely on the Turner family to carry the message. Throughout the film we also hear from some of Britain’s most respected voices in wildlife, entertainment and animal welfare, each bringing their own perspective to the conversation.

Chris Packham is, as you would expect, one of the documentary’s standout contributors. Passionate, knowledgeable and utterly compelling, he explains the issues surrounding animal experimentation in a way that is both accessible and impossible to ignore. Chris has spent decades campaigning for wildlife and conservation, and his contribution gives the film real authority. He speaks not with anger but with conviction, encouraging viewers to question practices that many of us simply accept because they’ve existed for so long.

Singer Will Young also brings sincerity and compassion to the discussion, while comedian Diane Morgan offers thoughtful observations that remind us this isn’t simply an issue for scientists or campaigners—it’s something that affects every one of us as consumers, patients and members of society.

What I particularly admired was that none of these contributors appeared to be there simply because they were famous. Every interview felt genuine. Every voice had a purpose. Rather than distracting from the central story, they strengthen it, helping to build a documentary that feels informative, balanced and surprisingly personal.

Another highlight is how beautifully the documentary has been produced. It flows effortlessly between interviews, archive footage and campaign footage without ever feeling heavy-handed. The pacing is excellent, allowing viewers time to absorb the information while still remaining thoroughly engaged. Before you know it, the credits are rolling, and you realise you’ve spent the last ninety minutes learning far more than you expected.

Perhaps the biggest achievement of Turner’s Take on the Big WHY? is that it doesn’t leave you feeling hopeless. Instead, it leaves you feeling empowered. Whether that’s by choosing cruelty-free products, supporting organisations like Animal Aid, writing to your MP or simply starting conversations with family and friends, the film reminds us that meaningful change often begins with ordinary people asking important questions.

Whether you agree with every argument presented or not, the documentary succeeds because it starts a conversation.

Surely that is exactly what great filmmaking should achieve.

I also admired that the film never tells you what to think. Instead, it encourages you to research the issue for yourself, contact your MP if you feel strongly, support cruelty-free products and simply become more informed.

Education is always more powerful than confrontation.

As someone who wasn’t sure whether I even wanted to watch the film, I left genuinely pleased that I had.

It challenged me.

It educated me.

It made me laugh.

And yes…

It made me shed a tear or two.

More importantly, it reminded me that behind every campaign are real people prepared to dedicate years of their lives to creating change.

Whether you’re an animal lover, someone interested in science, or simply enjoy thoughtful documentaries, Turner’s Take on the Big WHY? deserves to be seen. It is emotional without being manipulative, educational without becoming a lecture, funny when it needs to be, heartbreaking when it has to be, and ultimately hopeful.

By the time the credits rolled, I realised this wasn’t simply a film about animal testing.

It was a film about compassion.

About progress.

About family.

And about asking one very important question. Oh we were even loved bombed with a treat from LUSH and some scrumptious sweets from The Vegan Candy Man .

https://www.lush.com/uk/en

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Shimi Goodman unveils his new single Adagio

Steven Smith Chats with the star .

Some songs entertain, others inspire, but every so often a piece of music comes along that reaches far deeper, touching something deep within us. Adagio is one of those rare recordings.

After spending years carefully nurturing the project, Shimi Goodman is preparing to unveil a breathtaking classical crossover interpretation of the timeless melody made famous by Lara Fabian. Produced by George Guerrette, with sweeping orchestral arrangements by Shay Alon and performed by members of the renowned Prague Philharmonic Orchestra, Adagio promises to be one of the year’s most ambitious independent releases. Available in immersive Dolby Atmos, the recording combines cinematic grandeur with deeply personal storytelling.

Accompanying the single is a visually stunning music video directed by Omri Dagan and filmed within the haunting beauty of an abandoned Victorian boarding school in Hereford. Together, the music and visuals explore themes of memory, faith, love, loss, hope and redemption, creating an unforgettable experience that lingers long after the final note fades.

Ahead of its release on 3 July, I caught up with Shimi to talk about the five-year journey behind Adagio, the challenges of bringing such an ambitious project to life, and why this deeply personal recording marks an exciting new chapter in an already remarkable career.

Shimi at sea

Tell me about Adagio. How did the project come about?

I’ve loved Lara Fabian’s recording of this song, and the classical piece it’s based on, for years. I was fascinated by the famous story that the piece was reconstructed from fragments found after the bombing of Dresden. I love the idea that even from the darkest of times, something so beautiful could emerge.

In 2020, I approached Shay Alon, whom I knew from the production of Salt & Honey, where he was the musical director and I played the lead role. I asked him to create orchestrations for both Adagio and Feeling Good. We recorded members of the Prague Philharmonic Orchestra remotely while Chris Hamilton and I were performing in Asia. I watched the session streamed live from Prague as Shay conducted from Paris. It felt extraordinary. Hearing members of the Prague Philharmonic Orchestra bring those arrangements to life was one of the proudest moments of my career.

We completed Feeling Good and even filmed a music video for it, but then Covid hit hard. Our work came to a complete halt, the budget disappeared, and Adagio was left unfinished on an external hard drive for years.

During that time, Chris and I officially launched Tiano. We’d been performing together since the day we met, but the duo was really born during Covid. Once lockdown ended, we were fortunate enough to perform around the world, both as Tiano and in our solo shows, so Adagio remained tucked away.

Then, last year, I met producer George Guerrette backstage while he was playing trombone in one of my shows. He suggested we work together and immediately connected with both the song and its story. Together we completely reimagined the project. George suggested producing it in Dolby Atmos, which was a first for me. I loved the idea of giving this timeless classical piece a contemporary sound while honouring its extraordinary history.

George did an incredible job, and when Grammy Award-winning mixer Justin Gray said he loved the recording and wanted to work with us, we knew we might have something rather special. I really hope listeners feel the same.


Would you ever consider entering the Eurovision Song Contest? And what is your all-time favourite Eurovision song?

I absolutely love Eurovision! I’d love to enter the competition one day. I think Tiano could potentially do quite well, and it would be an honour to represent either of my countries.

Chris and I get completely immersed in Eurovision every year. We print score sheets and take it incredibly seriously. We’ve been invited to Eurovision watch parties before, but quickly realised they weren’t really for us. Everyone else wanted to socialise while we were busy analysing every performance. I even ended up shushing people! They weren’t too impressed, so these days we happily watch it at home.

Choosing my favourite Eurovision song is almost impossible. I may be slightly biased, but Hallelujah, which won for Israel in Jerusalem in 1979, still moves me every time I hear it. I also have a real soft spot for Conchita Wurst’s Rise Like a Phoenix.

Milk and Honey

The music video was filmed in an abandoned Victorian boarding school. What was that experience like? And what were your own school days like?

When I spoke to Omri Dagan, the brilliant director of the video, he immediately understood my vision. He found the location online almost instantly, and I knew we’d found the perfect place.

It was a four-hour drive from London to Hereford. As I was away performing, we couldn’t visit beforehand, so it was a bit of a gamble. Thankfully, when we arrived it was exactly as we’d imagined—an abandoned, eerie, beautifully decaying Victorian school that perfectly matched the atmosphere we wanted to create. I loved every minute of filming and also enjoyed designing and sourcing my costumes beforehand.

.It is reconstructed from fragments said to have been found after the bombing of Dresden”

Afterwards, I looked up the school online and discovered it’s one of the UK’s most sought-after ghost-hunting locations. Every time I watch the video now, I half expect to spot a ghost wandering through the background!

My own school days were incredibly busy. I attended a school specialising in science and engineering, but at the same time I discovered my passion for musical theatre. Gradually my focus shifted from academics to performing, and I spent most afternoons at my local community theatre group.

My teachers recognised where my heart truly lay and encouraged me to follow my passion. I began taking private lessons in singing, acting and dance, and thankfully it all paid off.


When did you first realise you had such an incredible voice, and how did your singing career begin

Firstly, thank you—that’s incredibly kind.

It wasn’t something I suddenly realised. Other people believed in me before I believed in myself. I was often given the leading singing roles in youth theatre, but it wasn’t until I started performing professionally that I truly appreciated how audiences connected with my voice.

A real turning point came when I attended a summer course at the Guildford School of Acting. I was unexpectedly offered a place on the full three-year BA Musical Theatre course.

I remember thinking, “Wow… I must be doing something right.”

The plan had been to move to England a year later, but suddenly I had just one month to leave Tel Aviv and begin a completely new life in Guildford.

I was incredibly fortunate to have the full support of my parents, siblings and friends. Sometimes I wonder how different life might have been if they’d said no.

After graduating, I fulfilled my dream of performing in London’s West End in productions including Evita and Chicago. Eventually, however, I realised I wanted audiences to know me as an artist rather than simply as a performer in someone else’s show.

With the encouragement of my now-husband, Chris Hamilton, I created my own concerts. Chris introduced me to his agent at Gary Parkes Music Limited, and before long I was performing around the world.


Who have been your biggest musical influences?

Without question—Barbra Streisand.

I’ve always admired everything she’s achieved, both as a woman and as a proud Jewish artist. Her voice, her acting and her determination have had an enormous influence on my own musical journey.

I was lucky enough to sit in the front row when she performed at London’s O2 Arena. During the show I couldn’t resist shouting, “You’re like butter!”—a reference to the famous Saturday Night Live sketch.

To my amazement she actually stopped, laughed and spoke to me. We joked about creating a product called “Like Butter”—butter without the butter!

If I ever had the opportunity to sing with Barbra Streisand, I could honestly die a happy man.

“Barbra… can you hear me?”

Pa Pa can you hear me the icon that is Barbra Streisand

How did you meet your husband, Chris?

We met while studying at the Guildford School of Acting. Chris had already enjoyed a successful career as an Oxford-educated lawyer and award-winning pianist before deciding to return to performing.

We’ve been making music together ever since.

We’re incredibly fortunate that we both love travelling and performing. We occasionally work apart for short periods, which makes us appreciate our time together even more.

Shimi with his beautiful husband Chris Hamilton

Looking at today’s music scene, who would you most like to collaborate with?

Andrea Bocelli and Céline Dion would be absolute dream collaborations.

I’d also love to work with Bruno Mars, Ed Sheeran and legendary producer David Foster. If David Foster ever asked me to sing for him, I’d probably faint before I reached the microphone!


When you’re not performing around the world, how do you relax?

Honestly, by sitting on the sofa watching all the television I’ve missed while travelling.

I also love going to the gym, which keeps me focused, and whenever I’m back in London I try to get to the theatre as often as possible.


If you were hosting the ultimate dinner party, which five people—living or dead—would you invite?

Judy Garland and Gene Kelly would definitely be there. My father introduced me to their films when I was growing up, and they still remind me of him every time I watch them.

Barbra Streisand would have to be invited, of course, along with Golda Meir—such an inspirational woman.

Finally, Frank Sinatra. A wonderfully complex man with one of the greatest voices of all time.


Finally, what are your ambitions over the next five years?

I’d love to see Adagio enter the classical crossover charts and for Tiano to become a household name.

We’re slowly but surely moving in that direction. We have an incredible US manager who first discovered us through her sister-in-law, a Tony Award-winning Broadway producer. Together they’ve helped introduce us to audiences across America.

We’ve been fortunate enough to receive visas for artists of extraordinary ability and have already performed throughout the United States. We’re hoping to return to New York, Las Vegas and many other venues again this year.

Ultimately, though, success isn’t about fame. It’s about making people feel something.

If audiences leave our shows happier than when they arrived, then we’ve done our job. I sincerely hope Adagio touches people’s hearts in exactly the same way.

Adagio is released on 3 July, with the official music video premiering on 10 July.

https://ffm.to/adagio-9780

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“It’s Just like a prayer for Madonna fans but Graham doesn’t take you there “

IT’S JUST LIKE A PRAYER FOR MADONNA FANS … BUT GRAHAM NORTON DOESN’T TAKE YOU THERE

By Steven Smith

There are few chat show hosts in the world who can match Graham Norton when it comes to creating entertaining television. For well over a decade, The Graham Norton Show has been essential viewing, bringing together Hollywood royalty, music legends, comedians and sporting icons on one famous sofa. His effortless charm, quick wit and ability to make even the biggest stars relax have earned him a loyal audience and countless awards.

The format is brilliantly simple. Big personalities gather together, stories are exchanged, laughter follows, and viewers feel like they’re eavesdropping on an exclusive dinner party. It works because Norton never tries to dominate the conversation. Instead, he gently nudges it along, allowing his guests to bounce naturally off one another.

However, there is one important distinction.

Norton is a superb chat show host.

He is not an in-depth interviewer.

Unlike Oprah Winfrey, Louis Theroux or the late Sir Michael Parkinson, Graham rarely pushes beyond entertaining anecdotes and witty conversation. He seldom asks the difficult follow-up questions or explores the emotional experiences that have shaped the people sitting opposite him.

Unfortunately, that weakness became painfully obvious in what the BBC heavily promoted as one of television’s biggest interviews of the year: Graham Meets Madonna.

The Interview That Never Quite Begins

As a lifelong Madonna fan, I couldn’t wait to watch it.

Madonna remains one of the most fascinating figures in popular culture. Over four decades she has reinvented herself more successfully than perhaps any artist in history. Behind the global superstar lies an intensely private woman who has experienced extraordinary success, devastating personal loss, family conflict and relentless public scrutiny.

Surely this was the opportunity to finally meet the woman behind the icon.

Sadly, it wasn’t.

The programme opens with Graham Norton sitting in the back of a classic London taxi.

“I always get nervous when meeting Madonna,” he admits.

It’s an honest opening, but it also establishes the tone. Rather than appearing like an experienced broadcaster preparing to interview one of the world’s biggest stars, Norton almost feels like a fan about to meet his hero.

From the outset, it becomes clear that either the production team—or perhaps Madonna’s own management—have tried far too hard to make this landmark interview feel different.

Instead of simply sitting two intelligent people down for an honest conversation, viewers are taken through a series of carefully staged moments that never quite work.

One particularly awkward sequence sees Graham climbing to the top of an empty theatre before dramatically looking down onto the stage, where Madonna slowly emerges under the spotlight like an apparition. He then races down the stairs to greet her with all the excitement of a teenager meeting their idol.

Rather than feeling cinematic, it simply feels forced.

Where’s the Real Madonna?

Madonna has always been something of an enigma. Friends and collaborators frequently describe her as warm, witty and possessing a wonderfully dry sense of humour, yet that side of her rarely appears during television interviews.

This was Graham Norton’s golden opportunity.

Instead of discussing costumes, boots and backstage stories, he could have explored the remarkable woman behind one of music’s greatest careers.

Instead, the opening conversation drifts aimlessly.

In fact, Madonna often asks Graham more questions than he asks her.

They wander around the theatre chatting about boots, stolen clothes from Coachella and nostalgic memories, almost like two dinner guests waiting for their table to become available.

You keep expecting the interview to begin.

It never really does.

At times, Madonna herself appears visibly bored.

Stuart Price Steals the Show

Stuart Price a welcome relief with Madonna

Thankfully, the programme briefly comes alive when Graham and Madonna head upstairs to meet legendary producer Stuart Price, the creative force behind Confessions on a Dance Floor and Madonna’s latest musical project.

Ironically, this becomes the documentary’s strongest section.

Price discusses Madonna’s perfectionism, her musical instincts and her relentless pursuit of excellence. As he plays tracks from the forthcoming album, viewers are finally given a genuine glimpse into how one of the world’s greatest pop stars creates her music.

It’s fascinating television.

In truth, Stuart Price provides more insight into Madonna in ten minutes than Graham Norton manages throughout the rest of the programme.

Still Waiting for the Questions

One exchange perfectly captures the imbalance between interviewer and interviewee.

“Why do you have to know everything?” Madonna jokes.

It’s a line that amusingly echoes Julie Walters’ famous quip on The Graham Norton Show“Leave me alone!”

Norton laughs before replying,

“It’s a chat show.”

Except, with Madonna, it never quite becomes one.

Instead of taking control, asking meaningful follow-up questions or steering the conversation into more revealing territory, Graham remains slightly starstruck throughout.

The next stop is a bar.

By this stage, the audience probably deserves a drink too.

Waiting behind the bar is another surprise guest—Kylie Minogue.

For many LGBTQ+ viewers, seeing Kylie and Madonna together is genuinely enjoyable. Graham excitedly declares, “I’m in gay heaven!”

It should be one of the funniest moments in the programme.

Instead, it feels heavily rehearsed.

The chemistry simply isn’t there.

A Missed Opportunity

Perhaps the most telling moment comes when Madonna looks directly at Graham and asks:

“When are you going to start asking me questions?”

“I have been,” Graham replies while swapping drinks with her.

The problem is…

He really hasn’t.

Most of the questions remain stubbornly on the surface.

There are countless fascinating areas of Madonna’s life that receive little or no attention: her battles with ageism, motherhood, spirituality, surviving four decades in an industry that constantly writes women off after forty, and the loneliness that often accompanies global fame.

Instead of meaningful exploration, viewers are offered snippets rather than substance.

One particularly frustrating moment briefly touches upon the death of Madonna’s younger brother, Christopher Ciccone. For a split second, it feels as though the documentary is finally about to reveal something deeply personal.

Then the moment disappears almost as quickly as it arrived.

Whether that decision came from Madonna herself or her management, we’ll probably never know.

Either way, it leaves viewers wanting much more.

The Verdict

Of course, it’s impossible to ignore the programme’s real purpose.

This is ultimately a promotional vehicle for Madonna’s new music.

There are some genuinely wonderful archive photographs from her early days performing at New York’s legendary Danceteria nightclub, reminding viewers just how extraordinary her journey has been.

Visually, Madonna looks fantastic—confident, elegant and entirely comfortable in her own skin. She remains every inch the cultural icon she has always been.

Which makes it even more disappointing that the programme never truly matches its subject.

Rather than trying so hard to create quirky television through staged walks, surprise guests and theatrical entrances, a simple sit-down interview may well have produced something far more memorable.

Sometimes, less really is more.

Madonna has given exceptional interviews before. Her legendary conversation with Ruby Wax in Paris remains one of the finest celebrity interviews ever recorded because Wax wasn’t afraid to challenge her while allowing humour and vulnerability to emerge naturally.

More recently, her thoughtful discussion with Jay Shetty revealed another side of Madonna—reflective, intelligent and surprisingly open. It proved that, when asked the right questions, she is still willing to reveal the woman behind the myth.

Sadly, Graham Meets Madonna never reaches those heights.

That’s not because Madonna isn’t interesting.

Far from it.

It’s because Graham Norton never quite takes us where we wanted to go.

For fans, there is still enough to enjoy. Seeing Madonna revisit her past, hearing Stuart Price discuss her music and watching two entertainment giants share the screen certainly has its appeal.

But what could have been the definitive Madonna interview ultimately settles for pleasant conversation.

Like one of Madonna’s greatest songs, it promises revelation.

Unlike Like a Prayer, however, it never quite takes you there.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002y4g5

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YOU ARE LOVED

Keeping Robin Windsor’s Legacy Alive Through Love, Support and Community

I came out at the age of 15. One thing I have learned over the years is that being gay is not a choice, so why do so many families make their children and loved ones feel bad for simply being who they are?

Equality should mean exactly that — the same love, respect and support for a gay child as for a heterosexual child. Personally, I prefer to think of us all simply as human beings.

The knock-on effect of rejection can be devastating. In a world already struggling with a mental health crisis, many members of the LGBTQ+ community continue to face unique challenges. Sadly, issues such as substance misuse, alcohol dependency and risky behaviour are often not the root cause of the problem, but symptoms of people trying to cope with loneliness, discrimination, fear and a lack of acceptance.

What is perhaps even more troubling is that the LGBTQ+ community itself can sometimes be unwelcoming. Some of the most judgemental and homophobic attitudes I have encountered have come from other gay people. It is a reminder that kindness, understanding and compassion are needed everywhere.

The suicide rate among LGBTQ+ people remains deeply concerning. That is why I always say that no matter how successful, popular or outwardly happy someone may appear, it is important to take the time to check that they are truly okay. A simple conversation can make all the difference.

That is why I am delighted to introduce You Are Loved CIC.

The loss of Strictly Come Dancing star Robin Windsor sent shockwaves through the dance world, the LGBTQ+ community and the countless lives he touched through his warmth, kindness and generosity. Robin was far more than a talented dancer and television personality. He was a friend, mentor, advocate and source of comfort to many people who were struggling with life’s challenges.

I was fortunate enough to meet Robin Windsor through Anna Kennedy Online, a charity that is very close to my heart. As a Patron of the organisation, I had the privilege of seeing first-hand the kindness, generosity, and compassion that Robin brought to everything he did.

Robin was a tremendous supporter of the autism community and regularly gave his time to help others. He was involved with both Autism’s Got Talent and the Autism Hero Awards, where his warmth and genuine care for people shone through. Whether he was on stage, meeting families, or encouraging participants, Robin always made people feel valued and included.

He possessed that rare ability to light up a room with his smile, his energy, and his infectious enthusiasm. Yet beyond the public persona was a truly beautiful soul—kind-hearted, thoughtful, and deeply compassionate. Robin never underestimated the power of a kind word or a supportive gesture, and his impact on so many lives continues to be felt today.

Those of us who were lucky enough to know him will always remember not only his incredible talent as a dancer but also the love, friendship, and encouragement he gave so freely. Robin’s legacy lives on through the countless people he inspired and the communities he helped to support. https://annakennedyonline.com

Today, his legacy continues through the work of You Are Loved CIC, a remarkable organisation dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ people facing mental health difficulties, loneliness, isolation, substance misuse and a range of other life challenges.

Founded in 2024 by social psychologist and researcher Marc Svensson, You Are Loved CIC was created with a simple but powerful mission: to ensure that nobody in the LGBTQ+ community feels alone when they need help most. The organisation is powered by a passionate team of volunteers who bring together a wide range of skills, expertise and lived experiences. What unites them is a genuine commitment to helping others and creating a safer, more connected community.

Following Robin Windsor’s passing, many of those closest to him wanted to find a meaningful way to honour his memory. Robin was known for his ability to reach out to people who were struggling, offering friendship, encouragement and understanding without judgement. His compassion left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

It was this spirit of kindness that inspired the creation of Ask Bobby, named after Robin’s much-loved nickname. The platform stands as a living tribute to the man who dedicated so much of his life to supporting others. More importantly, it continues the work that Robin cared about deeply: helping people before they reach a point of crisis.

Over the past year, Ask Bobby has grown significantly. The platform has been rebuilt and improved to make it easier for people to access support and find organisations that can help with their specific needs. Whether someone is experiencing loneliness, mental health difficulties, addiction issues or simply needs someone to point them in the right direction, Ask Bobby serves as an invaluable gateway to support services across the United Kingdom.

For many LGBTQ+ individuals, asking for help can feel overwhelming. Feelings of isolation, stigma and fear can prevent people from seeking support until their situation becomes critical. Ask Bobby helps bridge that gap by making information accessible and connecting people with organisations that can offer practical assistance and emotional support.

The impact of this work cannot be overstated. Every day, people across the country are facing challenges that leave them feeling disconnected and alone. By providing access to trusted resources and support networks, Ask Bobby offers hope, reassurance and a reminder that help is available.

However, like many charities and community organisations, You Are Loved CIC now faces a significant challenge.

Despite its success and growing reach, the organisation is almost entirely volunteer-led. Funding remains one of the biggest obstacles to sustaining and expanding its services. To continue developing Ask Bobby and ensure it can support even more people, the charity is seeking to raise £10,000.

This funding would enable the organisation to further improve the platform, add an additional 1,000 support organisations from across the UK and recruit two part-time team members dedicated to maintaining and growing the service. These developments would significantly increase the platform’s reach and effectiveness, helping thousands more people access the support they need.

For those involved, this campaign is about much more than technology or infrastructure. It is about people. It is about ensuring that someone experiencing loneliness at three o’clock in the morning can find help. It is about providing support before a crisis develops. Most importantly, it is about continuing Robin Windsor’s legacy of compassion, kindness and unconditional support.

Robin’s life touched countless hearts, and through Ask Bobby, his influence continues to make a real difference every single day. Every donation, no matter how large or small, helps keep that legacy alive.

At a time when mental health support and community connection are needed more than ever, You Are Loved CIC is proving that love, kindness and understanding remain powerful forces for change.

Robin Windsor believed in helping people. Through Ask Bobby and the work of You Are Loved CIC, that belief continues to inspire hope, build connections and save lives.

To find out more about the campaign or make a donation, please visit the You Are Loved website and help ensure that Robin’s legacy of love and support continues for generations to come.

SUPPORT ROBIN WINDSOR’S LEGACY

You Are Loved CIC is raising £10,000 to help expand Ask Bobby, the LGBTQ+ support platform created in memory of Strictly Come Dancing star Robin Windsor.

The funding will help:
• Add 1,000 additional support organisations across the UK
• Improve and develop the Ask Bobby platform
• Recruit two part-time team members to maintain and grow the service
• Ensure more LGBTQ+ people can access help before reaching a point of crisis

Every donation, no matter how small, will help continue Robin’s legacy of compassion, kindness and support for those facing mental health challenges, loneliness, isolation and other life difficulties.

To make a donation, please visit:

https://youareloved.org.uk/donate

“A simple act of kindness can change someone’s life. Help us keep Robin’s legacy alive.”

Johnny says he is ok

By Steven Smith

Johnny says he is ok. Johnny is bright – he dazzles and is always the life and soul of any party He is kind and caring, always one to lean on, and is everyone’s friend we all know his name.

Johnny says he is ok. He smiles and gives you that wink. It looks like the world is at his feet.

Johnny says he is ok. It looks like he wears his heart on his sleeve. But you see what he wants you to see. A cleverly crafted mask camouflages the pain and sadness, often caressing his soul as trauma becomes his good friend.

Johnny says he is ok. He touches you, makes you feel good and tells you are going to be alright. not to worry and that he is here for you to talk.

Johnny is going to be ok. You see Johnny’s eyes sparkle with love and, as you walk away, you know in your heart he is always happy.

Johnny all ok as he dances home alone, looking at the stars and the moon. They wave and ask him if anyone really knows who Johnny is? Does anyone feel his hurt or see the darkness covering him as he smiles and entertains?

Johnny says he is going to be ok as he turns the key to his flat. Loneliness waits as the darkness flies in before him. They both beckon Johnny; they know who Johnny is and if he just takes their hand, it will all be ok. The pain will go away.

`It is so simple open the bathroom cabinets and take the pills. Hey, let’s celebrate. We can wash it down with alcohol. Come, says the darkness. Lay down with me. Loneliness is just leaving. Close your eyes, sleep in my arms. I promise you at last Johnny you will be ok.

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All You Need Is Your Love Tonight

Steven meets SUMZ the Dj you are all going to love .

Patron of Anna Kennedy on line Steven Smith Dr Anna Kennedy OBE with DJ SUMZ At The Firepit gallery https://annakennedyonline.com

2Shades Meets DJ SUMZ

2Shades Magazine would like to thank the incredible DJ SUMZ, who generously donated his time and talent to support Anna Kennedy Online at a special fundraising event held at The Firepit Gallery on 23rd May. He showed his love that night .

Performing under the newly launched media platform Soundtrax, SUMZ is a London-based DJ and journalist with a passion for independently produced music, art, film, and culture. His mission is to shine a spotlight on underrepresented artists while creating memorable musical experiences for audiences around the world.

Fresh from his appearance at the Firepit Gallery, we caught up with SUMZ to talk about music, Pride, travel, weddings, and the future of the music industry.

Sumz with one of the celebrity guests Vicki Michelle

What is your earliest memory of music?

There are pictures of me wearing large DJ headphones at the age of one! However, from my own memory, I remember hearing a mix of Bollywood, Bhangra, and R&B in my living room as a toddler. I also recall singing Bollywood songs in front of my family at about five years old!

Growing up, who were your biggest musical influences?

My taste has largely been influenced by my older siblings and cousins. I always loved music that was before my time, including 70s funk and soul and 80s new wave and hip hop. Movie and video game soundtracks largely shaped my long-term tastes. Whether it was the score to Bollywood movies such as Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge, the rapper-backed playlist of Space Jam, or the synth-pop radio stations of GTA Vice City, these soundtracks have left a lasting impact.

We are loving the crossover vibe of South American music blending with jazz and house. If you could visit one country purely for its musical culture and atmosphere, where would it be and why?

There are so many countries I would love to explore for this reason. I’ve been lucky enough to visit Bolivia, Colombia, and Mexico, plus Brazil which helped deepen my understanding of Latin American musical culture. Next, I’d love to venture to Japan, where there is an incredible fusion of jazz, hip hop, R&B, and pop. I’d love to experience that first-hand.

Actress Vicki Michelle , actress Denise Welch author Steven Smith socialite Pam Sharrock loved Sumz sets

If you were getting married on a beach — or performing at a wedding — what song would you choose, ruling out the traditional Here Comes the Bride?

Eres Tú by Carla Morrison would be a great choice. It’s a song my wife and I bond over, and it strikes a perfect balance between romantic and unique. The Spanish vocals and calm strings create a peaceful and heartfelt atmosphere.

It is Pride Month, and from the disco sounds of the 1970s to artists such as Freddie Mercury and George Michael, LGBTQ+ culture has helped push musical boundaries. If you had to choose four iconic songs for the ultimate Pride party playlist, what would they be?

Music is an incredibly powerful vessel for expression. It breaks barriers both internally and externally. Karma Chameleonby Culture Club has long resonated with me when it comes to themes of identity and self-expression. George Michael’s Freedom would be another essential choice.

For pure dancefloor energy, I’d add Madonna’s Vogue and Queen’s I Want To Break Free. It’s hard to narrow it down to just four songs, but those would certainly be among my first picks.

When people hire a DJ, music is a two-way street. What advice would you give clients about the information they should share with you to help create a truly successful event?

While attentive DJs always adapt to the dancefloor, it helps enormously to understand the tastes of both the host and the audience. Sharing genre preferences can provide a smooth starting point. Letting the DJ know about birthdays or special occasions also allows for personal touches, such as dedications and shout-outs.

Is there any type of music that you are not particularly fond of?

I’m a big believer in not boxing music. While I naturally listen to some genres more than others, I genuinely believe there is a place for all sounds.

Have you ever had anything go dramatically wrong while performing?

Thankfully, no! But it’s something I always think about, which encourages me to prepare thoroughly for every possible scenario.

When you are not performing, what is your favourite way to relax and switch off?

I love writing, learning about history, and watching football. Travelling is another passion of mine. Exploring different countries helps keep me inspired both creatively and personally.

How do you see the music scene evolving over the next century?

I think there will be a significant counterculture to AI-generated content. People will increasingly value live experiences, raw talent, and genuine human creativity. Combined with the rising cost of major concerts, I believe smaller local music events could enjoy a real resurgence in the years ahead.

2Shades Magazine once again thanks DJ SUMZ for supporting Anna Kennedy Online and helping to make a memorable evening even more special.

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CALLING ALL AUTISTIC ARTISTS: SUBMISSIONS NOW OPEN FOR THE SECOND AUTISM & ART SHOW 2026

CALLING ALL AUTISTIC ARTISTS: SUBMISSIONS NOW OPEN FOR THE SECOND AUTISM & ART SHOW 2026

Following the overwhelming success of its debut event, The Autism & Art Show returns for a second inspiring year, opening on 24th July 2026 at the much-loved Firepit Art Gallery, London — and organisers are now calling for autistic artists across the UK to submit their artwork for inclusion.

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Presented by Anna Kennedy Online, in collaboration with Firepit Art Gallery, the exhibition celebrates the extraordinary creativity, individuality and talent of autistic artists and their allies, while helping raise vital funds to support the charity’s ongoing work with autistic people and their families.

For many people on the autism spectrum, art is far more than a hobby — it is a powerful form of self-expression, communication and therapy. Through creativity, artists can tell stories, explore emotions and connect with others in meaningful and inspiring ways.

Anna Kennedy OBE, charity patron Steven Smith, and Firepit Gallery founder Marcus Jake are inviting autistic artists to step forward and showcase their work as part of this unique and uplifting exhibition.

Anna Kennedy OBE and some of the team behind Autism &Art Patron Steven Smith Artist and celebrity photographer Anne-Marie Bickerton and Alistair Blaster

“Art has the power to give a voice to feelings, experiences and perspectives that words alone sometimes cannot express,” said Steven Smith. “We are incredibly proud to celebrate neurodiverse creativity and encourage autistic artists to share their talent with the public.”

The Autism & Art Show promises to be a vibrant celebration of creativity, resilience and individuality, showcasing an exciting tapestry of work from autistic artists from all walks of life. Each artist brings a unique story and artistic voice, making this exhibition a moving tribute to the richness of neurodiverse talent.

Event Location:
Firepit Art Gallery CIC
No.2 Upper Riverside,
10 Cutter Lane, Ground Floor Unit,
Greenwich Peninsula,
London SE10 0XX

Artists interested in submitting work or learning more about the exhibition are encouraged to get in touch and be part of this very special event.

Closing date for entries July the 10th

Contact Steven Smith at spman@btinternet.com

Or 07969106222 for more details. 

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Denise Welch Nearly Drowns in the Love at The Mighty Hoopla

Denise Welch Nearly Drowns in the Love at Mighty Hoopla

It might have been “Raining Men” with Denise Welch at Mighty Hoopla on Saturday — but the actress, presenter and beloved LGBTQ+ ally had little idea she would be positively drowned in love by thousands of adoring festival-goers.

Temperatures were soaring as the glamorous, fabulous and utterly gorgeous descended upon London’s much-loved Mighty Hoopla festival, held in Brockwell Park. Yet somehow, despite the blazing sunshine, the energy only got hotter as crowds gathered for one of the UK’s most joyful celebrations of pop culture, inclusivity and self-expression.

For those unfamiliar, Mighty Hoopla has grown into something of a cultural phenomenon since launching in 2017. Originally conceived as a playful, pop-loving alternative festival, it has blossomed into one of the UK’s biggest celebrations of queer culture and music, welcoming everyone from pop superfans to families, drag artists, celebrities and festival lovers under one glitter-covered umbrella. It sits somewhere between Pride, a giant theatrical daydream and a fabulous summer carnival — not quite Pride itself, but absolutely driven by the same spirit of love, acceptance and freedom.

The audience is wonderfully eclectic, as are the performers. Think A Midsummer Night’s Dream with sequins, cocktails and singalongs.

Celebrity spotting alone was worth the ticket price. Among those mingling were RuPaul’s Drag Race UK winner Tia Kofi, EastEnders star Natalie Cassidy, the ever-divine Kate Thornton accompanied by her lovely mother Sandra, and Smoggie Queens star Phil Dunning — who, quite frankly, deserves a BAFTA. Vanderpump Rules favourite Scheana Shay also added a touch of Hollywood sparkle to proceedings. That, however, was merely the tip of the star-studded iceberg.

People-watching at Mighty Hoopla deserves five stars in itself. From feather boas to outrageous glitter looks and fashion statements that could stop traffic, every corner offered a visual feast. Though the heat was relentless, I managed to find a shady sanctuary with my bestie Pam Sharrock, where we enjoyed a cocktail or two. A small warning — drinks are certainly not cheap — but beautifully made and served by wonderfully friendly staff.

With Pamela Sharrock she neves says no to a big Gregg’s vegan sausage roll at the Mighty Hoopla one of the sponsors .

Then, just before six o’clock, something shifted in the atmosphere.

You could feel it.

Presenter GK Barry took to the stage, jokingly warning of incoming “weather warnings” as excitement rippled through the crowd. Suddenly, phones were raised skywards, screams erupted and people began jumping up and down in delight.

The reason?

Denise Welch had arrived.

Styled impeccably by Ryan Kay, Denise looked sensational in a striking red coat, flanked by semi-clad dancers as she launched into a spirited rendition of the 1982 classic It’s Raining Men. And my goodness — did the crowd go wild.

It genuinely felt as though the festival had suddenly burst into full bloom.

Denise, now 68, was visibly emotional as she addressed the audience, telling fans: “I will always be an ally of the LGBTQ+ community and I will fight with you.”

In one of the most touching moments of the set, she paid tribute to her late father, the much-loved Vin Welch — a heterosexual Whitley Bay drag performer known as Raquell. Denise fondly recalled how, while other drama school students were being treated to McDonald’s, her father would instead take her to London’s legendary Black Cap in Camden to watch drag shows.

“How I’m not gay is beyond me,” she laughed to huge cheers from the crowd.

By the end, Denise appeared genuinely moved by the reception.

Denise and her amazing Dad Vin ,

One thing is certain — Denise Welch may have arrived as a surprise guest, but she left Mighty Hoopla absolutely drenched in love. backstage was husband 53 year old Artist Lincoln Townley. Taking a brief break from filming, her west end star son Louis Healy, 26, and Loose Women producer Mattie Jameson were amongst those waiting to congratulate her . Big shout out to Denise incredible manager Bex Elliff .

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Agony Aunt Heidi Gammon is back .

Dear Heidi: Secrets, Scandals and Saying It Straight

Life rarely arrives neatly wrapped. It tends to crash in—uninvited guests, complicated families, late-night worries, and questions that don’t come with easy answers. This week’s inbox is a heady mix: secrets hovering just beneath the surface, friendships being quietly tested, and the kind of family drama that would make even the most seasoned soap writer raise an eyebrow. From Pride-season dilemmas to Ibiza invasions, from hoarding chaos to the emotional minefield of a changing will, one thing is clear—when life gets messy, honesty may not fix everything, but it’s usually the best place to start. As ever, Heidi is here to cut through the noise, call it as it is, and offer a little perspective—with a knowing wink when needed.

Dear Heidi,
It’s Pride season coming up, and I’m a big ally. I’m attracted to the same sex, though I’m engaged to a lovely girl. My best pal dates girls, but nothing ever comes of it, and he’s very good-looking. I’ve noticed him looking at guys, and I think he may be gay. However, he’s Catholic, so coming out might be an issue. I feel that, as his best friend, I should have that chat. How do you go about it?
Steven, Ilford


Heidi:
Slow down, Agony Uncle—this isn’t your grand reveal to orchestrate. I know you mean well, but you don’t get to pull back the curtain on someone else’s life, no matter how sharp your “eagle eye” might be. Sexuality is not a group discussion, and it certainly isn’t something to be gently cornered into over a pint.

What you can do is far more powerful—and far less intrusive. Be the friend who makes it obvious, without fanfare, that you’re open, accepting, and entirely unshockable. Talk naturally about LGBTQ+ issues, share your own experiences honestly, and remove any sense that there’s something to fear in being open. That quiet reassurance often speaks louder than any “big chat.”

And don’t underestimate the weight of his background. Faith, family, culture—these things can create a knot that takes years to untangle. If he is struggling, the last thing he needs is to feel observed or analysed. So step back, be kind, and let him lead. If he chooses you as the person to confide in, that’s a privilege. Until then, your job is simple: be safe, be steady, and—occasionally—be silent.

Dear Heidi,
I’m living a nightmare. My mother is a hoarder, and I’ve been forced to move in with her after losing my job. My friend says hoarding is an illness. What can I do about it? It’s driving me mad and affecting my mental health.


Vicky, Raleigh
Heidi:
Nightmare is exactly the word—and yes, your friend is right. Hoarding isn’t just a bad habit or a refusal to tidy up; it’s a recognised mental health condition, often tangled up with anxiety, loss, or trauma. That doesn’t make it any easier to live with, of course—it just explains why a few stern words and a skip outside won’t magically fix it.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: you cannot solve this for her. You can support, encourage, and gently nudge—but you cannot force change, and trying to will only exhaust you. So before anything else, protect yourself. Claim a space that is yours alone, however small—a room, a corner, even just a desk—and keep it clear. That’s not selfish; it’s survival.

Encourage her to seek help, but do it without judgement. A GP is a good starting point, and there are specialist services that deal specifically with hoarding behaviours. But timing matters—push too hard, and she’ll dig in further.

And you? You need support too. Living in that environment is emotionally draining, and it’s entirely reasonable to say, “This is affecting me.” Whether it’s a friend, a counsellor, or simply time out of the house, find ways to protect your own mental health. You can care about her without sacrificing yourself in the process—and that’s a boundary worth holding.

Dear Heidi,
My best friend and I are going to Ibiza—we’ve been pals since high school. Out of the blue, one of her friends from the salon she works in is coming too. She didn’t even ask if it was OK; it was more like, “Great news—Danielle’s coming, and she’s got her own room.” I don’t want this. What can I do?


Dawn, Basildon
Heidi:
Ah, Ibiza—the land of sun, cocktails, and the occasional friendship reality check. Let’s be clear: this wasn’t “great news,” it was a decision made without you, and you’re absolutely entitled to feel put out. Holidays, especially ones rooted in long friendships, come with expectations—and one of those is mutual respect.

Now, before you start mentally reassigning sun loungers, have the conversation. Not a dramatic showdown, just a calm, honest moment. Tell your friend you were really looking forward to it being your time together, and that being told—rather than asked—has knocked you sideways. That’s not being difficult; that’s being honest.

This isn’t about banning Danielle or creating an awkward triangle—it’s about balance. Suggest carving out time that’s just for the two of you, and time when the three of you can all get along. Most situations can be salvaged with a bit of clarity and a dash of compromise.

But here’s the thing: if your feelings are dismissed or brushed aside, don’t ignore that. Ibiza might come and go, but how someone treats you in moments like this tends to stick. Consider it less a holiday hiccup and more a helpful insight.

Dear Heidi,
I’m in a terrible state. My 18-year-old son goes out at all hours, and I’m almost certain he’s taking drugs. The problem is, he has a job and his grades are good at college. When I tell him it’s not on, he threatens to move out. I don’t know what to do about the drugs—what should I say?


Ann, Uxbridge


Heidi:
Welcome to the tightrope of parenting a young adult—where control slips through your fingers just as your worry ramps up. It’s a tricky place to be, because technically he’s an adult, but emotionally—and practically—he still needs guidance.

Charging in with accusations will only push him further away. At 18, independence is currency, and if he feels policed, he’ll spend it elsewhere. So the strategy here is softer, but smarter. Choose a calm moment—no raised voices, no dramatic entrances—and speak from a place of concern. “I’m worried about you” lands very differently from “I know what you’re doing.”

Focus on safety, not morality. The reality is, if there is drug use, the risks are real, and that’s where your concern should sit. Keep the door open, even if the conversation doesn’t go perfectly. Sometimes it’s not about winning the argument—it’s about keeping the connection.

And don’t carry this alone. There are support services for parents dealing with exactly this situation, and seeking advice doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it means you’re taking it seriously. The goal isn’t to control him; it’s to stay close enough to guide him when it matters.

Dear Heidi,
My sister has suddenly reappeared in our lives as our mother is dying. Mum hasn’t seen her for five years but has welcomed her back like the prodigal daughter. Now she’s changing her will to include her again. My brother and I are furious—what can we say to them both?
Samantha, Bromley


Heidi:
Ah, family—the one arena where history, emotion, and timing collide with spectacular force. I can hear the hurt in this, and it’s completely understandable. Someone disappears for years, returns at the eleventh hour, and suddenly the script is rewritten—it’s bound to sting.

But here’s the part you won’t like: it’s your mother’s decision. Her money, her will, her sense of closure. That doesn’t mean your feelings don’t matter—it just means you can’t dictate the outcome.

What you can do is choose how you respond. Marching in with anger will only entrench positions and risk turning a painful situation into an all-out war. Instead, opt for calm honesty. Tell your mother how this has made you feel—hurt, confused, perhaps even overlooked. Keep it about your feelings, not accusations about your sister.

As for your sister, this may not be the moment for a full reckoning of the past. Sometimes, timing matters more than being right. There may be conversations to be had later—but right now, with emotions heightened and time possibly limited, a degree of restraint might serve you better.

You may not get the outcome you want, but you do have control over how you carry yourself through it. And when all is said and done, that dignity will matter far more than winning an argument that can’t truly be won.

Cath Heidi on Gateway Radio with Aston Avery and Steven Smith

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Denise Welch Brings the House Down in Her Jimmy Choos at the British Diversity Awards 2026


Denise Welch Brings the House Down in Her Jimmy Choos at the British Diversity Awards 2026

It was all glitz and glamour last night at the 2026 British Diversity Awards—an event that once again proved why it remains one of the most important evenings in the UK’s cultural and social calendar. A glittering yet deeply meaningful celebration, the awards honour those driving equality, inclusion and representation across every corner of British society.

Held at the prestigious JW Marriott Grosvenor House, the ceremony brought together a powerful mix of activists, celebrities, campaigners and changemakers, all united by a shared commitment to progress.

My own claim to fame? I was the first to get founder—and, as actress Denise Welch famously described her, “the head lesbian of the world”—Linda Riley into full make-up and a black-tie suit. In fact, I even managed to get Denise herself into men’s tailoring.

But enough about me.

Linda Riley, whose vision continues to shape the awards into a global platform for recognition and change, remains a pioneering force in LGBTQ+ visibility and inclusion. She has spent decades championing underrepresented voices, and through the British Diversity Awards has created more than just an event—she has built a movement that celebrates courage, resilience and authenticity in all its forms.

The 2026 ceremony carried an unmistakable sense of urgency as well as celebration. In a world still grappling with inequality, the awards served as both recognition and reminder—that diversity is not a trend, but a necessity. The room was filled with individuals and organisations who have gone beyond performative gestures, delivering tangible change in workplaces, communities and public life.

Denise Welch brought the house down with her trademark humour, joking about her “Jimmy Choos” while speaking passionately as a long-time supporter of diversity and inclusion initiatives. Her presence underscored the importance of allyship within the entertainment industry. Known for her outspoken nature and advocacy, Welch represents a generation of public figures increasingly using their platforms to amplify marginalised voices.

The red carpet itself was a dazzling display of individuality and expression, with stars embracing fashion as a form of identity. Among them, Christine McGuinness turned heads in a striking black ensemble, embodying both glamour and confidence as she joined fellow attendees in celebrating the evening’s message. Sinitta turned heads with not only her beauty but her personality she is a long term supporter of the British Diversity awards

But beyond the glamour, the true power of the night lay in the stories being honoured. The British Diversity Awards recognise individuals and organisations across a wide spectrum—race, gender, disability, LGBTQ+ rights, age and social mobility—reflecting the richness and complexity of modern Britain. Each award tells a story of perseverance: barriers broken, stereotypes challenged and communities uplifted.

What sets these awards apart is their authenticity. Unlike many industry events, they are rooted in lived experience. They shine a light not only on high-profile figures but also on grassroots activists and unsung heroes—those working tirelessly behind the scenes to create a more inclusive society. This balance between celebrity and community gives the event its unique integrity.

Inside the ballroom, the atmosphere was one of both celebration and reflection. Applause was not just for achievement, but for courage—the courage to speak out, to stand up and to demand better. In many ways, the awards act as a mirror to society, reflecting both how far we have come and how much further we must go.

For Linda Riley and her team, the mission remains clear: to educate, inspire and empower. As the evening drew to a close, one thing was abundantly evident—the British Diversity Awards are not just about recognition; they are about momentum. They remind us that diversity is dynamic, inclusion is ongoing, and equality requires constant vigilance.

In a city as vibrant and varied as London, the 2026 awards felt particularly resonant. They captured the spirit of a nation evolving—sometimes slowly, sometimes imperfectly—but always moving forward. And thanks to the tireless work of individuals like Linda Riley, alongside the visible support of figures such as Denise Welch, that progress is not only acknowledged, but celebrated in style.

Ultimately, the British Diversity Awards 2026 were more than a night of accolades—they were a statement. A statement that diversity matters, that representation matters, and that the voices of many will always be stronger than the silence of a few.

And as for style—well, I wore a suit painted by Piluca, the Spanish artist who champions diversity through her work. Denise’s husband, artist Lincoln Townley, also embraced the moment in Jimmy Choo. Fashion, after all, was as bold and expressive as the message itself.

The evening was topped off by the wonderful Blue with Riley joining as a fifth member . Duncan was looking particularly hot .

Denise Welch with Lincoln Townley and Toby Salvietto , Ryan Kay and me in my Piluca Jacket

BRITISH DIVERSITY AWARDS 2026 – WINNERS

Lifetime Achievement Award

  • Sir Lenny Henry

Media Champion of the Year

  • Chris McCausland
  • Ria Hebden

Athlete Empowering Positive Change

  • Tess Howard MBE

Community Project of the Year

  • Trans is Human

Head of Diversity of the Year

  • Reema Samuel-Lewis (Sky UK Ltd)

Changemaker of the Year

  • Natalie Ojevah MBE (Barclays)

Diversity Team of the Year

  • Community and Culture Team (CBRE)

Charity or Not-for-Profit of the Year

  • HAWA Multicultural Services CIC

Inspirational Role Model of the Year

  • Tokeer Ahmed (Capgemini)

Outstanding Employee Network of the Year

  • Menopause Network (Barratt Redrow)

Outstanding Women’s Network of the Year

  • WiNTR – Women in Non-Traditional Roles (National Grid)

Outstanding Ability Network of the Year

  • RespectAbility (Manchester Airports Group)

Outstanding LGBTQIA Network of the Year

  • LGBTQ+ at Sky (Sky UK Ltd)

Outstanding Ethnicity Network of the Year

  • REACH (Kingsley Napley)

Social Mobility Initiative of the Year

  • Digilearning x Accenture Social Mobility Month (Accenture)

Diversity Champion of the Year

  • Brendan Hegarty (NatWest Social & Community Capital)

Global Diversity Initiative of the Year

  • ‘Equity Engine’ Initiative (King)

Company of the Year

  • BDO UK

HIGHLY COMMENDED

Community Project of the Year

  • Ability Today (Academy for Disabled Journalists)

Head of Diversity of the Year

  • Rebecca Ormond (SMBC Group)

Changemaker of the Year

  • Dr Kamran Iqbal (Chiesi UK)

Diversity Team of the Year

  • Global Diversity and Inclusion Team (Standard Chartered)

Inspirational Role Model of the Year

  • Jo Powell (Deutsche Bank)

Athlete Empowering Positive Change

  • Ellie Simmonds MBE

Outstanding Employee Network of the Year

  • Journey ERG (HSBC UK)

Outstanding Women’s Network of the Year

  • Connected Women (ScottishPower)

Outstanding Ability Network of the Year

  • DHL Supply Chain Abilities Alliance (DHL)

Outstanding LGBTQIA Network of the Year

  • Wipro Europe Pride ERG (Wipro)

Outstanding Ethnicity Network of the Year

  • Race Equality Network (University of Birmingham)

Social Mobility Initiative of the Year

  • Mental Health Research For All (NIHR Applied Research Collaboration North Thames)

Diversity Champion of the Year

  • Charlotte Helliwell (Lockton)

Global Diversity Initiative of the Year

  • Building Forever (De Beers Group)

Company of the Year

  • ScottishPower

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