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RUSSELL BRAND: THE PRICE OF FAME, THE COST OF SILENCE

By Steven Smith

Ten years and six months. That was the sentence handed down to Russell Brand at Southwark Crown Court on 9 November 2026. A man who once appeared to have the world at his feet is now facing more than a decade behind bars. What a terrible waste of a life, of talent and, above all, of the lives affected by his actions.

There is something profoundly tragic about the entire affair. Here was a man of extraordinary intelligence, wit and charisma. A gifted performer who could command an audience with seemingly effortless brilliance. A man who spoke openly about his struggles with addiction and appeared, at various points, to be searching for meaning, redemption and peace. Yet behind the celebrity, the charm and the carefully cultivated public persona lay behaviour that a jury has now found to be criminal.

On 5 November, Brand was convicted of one count of rape and three counts of sexual assault. He was acquitted of two further rape charges and one count of attempted indecent assault. I cannot help wondering how much of this tragedy was fuelled by the extraordinary, sometimes poisonous nature of fame itself.

Celebrity can be a dangerous drug. And like any drug, some people become addicted to the power it brings. For decades, we have lived in a world that worships the rich, the beautiful and the famous. We place celebrities on pedestals, shower them with admiration and sometimes behave as though ordinary rules no longer apply to them.

There was a time when young women who pursued rock stars were proudly described as groupies. Getting backstage, being invited into a hotel suite or finding yourself in the company of your musical idol was almost regarded as an achievement. Some even became celebrities themselves through their associations with famous men. But looking back, how many of those young people were vulnerable? How many were underage? And how often did the people surrounding the stars simply turn a blind eye?

There is a world of difference between consensual sexual freedom and someone believing their fame gives them the right to take whatever they desire. Not every famous person abuses their position. Many use their success, influence and wealth to achieve extraordinary good. But what happens when admiration becomes entitlement? When the word no is treated as an inconvenience rather than an answer? I wonder whether some stars become so intoxicated by their own importance that they lose all sense of boundaries. And perhaps the more uncomfortable question is this: how many people around them help create that illusion?

I have a very personal reason for finding this story so unsettling. I was only a few days past my 16th birthday when I was taken to a pop star’s home. I was given a great deal of alcohol. I will leave the rest of that evening there. What I will tell you is that I went back. I was even a guest at his manager’s birthday party on the Thames.

For years, I carried an enormous amount of confusion about what had happened. If it had been as bad as I remembered, why had I returned? Why had I accepted another invitation? Surely, I told myself, going back somehow meant I had been responsible for what happened the first time. It is astonishing how cruel we can be to our younger selves.

Decades later, while watching coverage surrounding the Epstein files, something finally began to make sense. I heard accounts of people who had returned to individuals or places associated with experiences of abuse. Their stories made me reconsider my own. Returning does not necessarily mean consenting. Nor does remaining silent mean that nothing happened.

Trauma does not arrive with an instruction manual. People respond in different ways, particularly when they are young, frightened, confused or overwhelmed by someone else’s power. At 16, I was hardly equipped to understand the complicated emotions surrounding an encounter with a famous adult. Looking back now, I see a boy who was barely beginning to understand himself. And perhaps, after all these years, I can finally offer that boy a little compassion.

Over the years, I have heard boys and men struggle to talk about experiences they feared would be dismissed or ridiculed. There is still an extraordinary reluctance to recognise that boys can be victims of sexual abuse. We have created a culture in which a young man is sometimes expected to regard sexual attention as a compliment, regardless of whether it was wanted. Add celebrity to the equation and the situation becomes even more complicated.

Who will believe a teenager over a national treasure? Who wants to challenge a successful entertainer surrounded by influential friends, expensive lawyers and an army of devoted admirers? The public sees the charity appearances, the television interviews and the carefully managed image. The person making the allegation may see someone entirely different.

And that is why we must listen. Not automatically condemn, because justice requires evidence and due process, but listen seriously, without dismissing someone simply because the person they are accusing happens to be famous.

I also believe the entertainment industry has some difficult questions to answer. Who looks after the young people invited backstage? Who challenges inappropriate behaviour? Who is brave enough to intervene when the person behaving badly happens to be the star everyone depends upon? Sometimes silence is not simply the absence of words. It is the result of a culture in which speaking up can cost someone their livelihood.

My heart goes out to the women whose experiences were examined in court. Their courage in coming forward deserves respect, particularly when they knew their lives and private experiences would become the subject of intense public scrutiny. Yet I must confess that something about the almost celebratory appetite for Brand’s downfall leaves me deeply uncomfortable. There is a difference between demanding justice and enjoying another human being’s destruction.

I have never believed that public humiliation should become a form of entertainment, however serious the crime. There will undoubtedly be those who believe Brand deserves every day of his sentence, and others who will continue to defend him. He may seek to challenge his convictions through the legal system, as is his right. But a jury has delivered its verdict, and the court has imposed a substantial prison sentence. That must be respected.

I can recognise Brand’s extraordinary gifts while condemning the crimes for which he has been convicted. I can feel compassion for a troubled human being without allowing that compassion to overshadow the suffering of his victims. Those positions are not contradictory. They are part of recognising that human beings, and the circumstances surrounding them, are rarely simple.

Will seeing Russell Brand imprisoned make the women he harmed feel better? Perhaps, for some, it will bring a sense of justice, vindication or closure. But a prison sentence cannot erase the past. It cannot remove a memory, restore lost years or necessarily silence the anxiety that can follow someone long after an assault.

Trauma can linger in the most intimate and unexpected ways. A familiar smell. A particular room. A voice. A moment that suddenly transports someone back to an experience they have spent years trying to forget. There are wounds that leave no visible scars, yet remain with us for a lifetime.

That is why I hesitate to describe today’s sentence as a victory in any ordinary sense. Justice has been served, but lives have been damaged. Brand has lost his freedom. His family must now live with the consequences of his imprisonment. And the women at the centre of this case must continue with their own lives, carrying experiences that no judge can simply sentence away.

My hope is that prison offers Brand an opportunity for genuine reflection. Whatever his personal struggles, addiction or emotional difficulties, none can excuse sexual violence. But I do believe people should be capable of confronting what they have done and, where possible, using whatever abilities remain to contribute something positive.

Perhaps one day Brand’s intelligence, creativity and experience might help others avoid destructive paths. That would not undo his crimes. Nor would it entitle him to forgiveness. But I struggle to see what is gained by wishing that another human being should never do anything worthwhile again.

Ultimately, this story should not simply be about Russell Brand. It should be about power, accountability and the extraordinary courage required to speak when the person you are speaking about is admired by millions. It should force us to question the culture of celebrity worship and the dangerous assumption that talent somehow excuses unacceptable behaviour.

And it should remind us that victims do not always behave as outsiders expect them to. Some report abuse immediately. Others remain silent for years. Some cut off all contact. Others return to the very people who harmed them. None of those responses, in isolation, tells us whether an assault occurred.

I think again about that 16-year-old boy attending a party on the Thames. For decades, that invitation became the detail I used to question my own experience. Today, I see it differently.

If a young boy came to me with the same story, I would not begin by asking why he went back. I would ask what happened to him. And then I would listen.

Because perhaps the greatest lesson from this entire tragedy is not simply that the powerful must be held accountable. It is that the vulnerable must never be made to feel powerless. Fame should never place anyone above the law, and silence should never be the price someone pays for being believed.

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By Steven Smith.

Steven Smith was born in Coatbridge in Scotland. He was brought up in Whitley Bay, before briefly moving to London. He then moved to the seaside town of Brighton, where he was first receiver recognition for his hairdressing skills. Steven moved to America for eight years, working in Beverly Hills, and on his return to London in the late 90s, rose to fame working in fashionable Knightsbridge. He has styled model Katie Price, actress Denise Welch, David Hasselhoff and the cast of Baywatch. Steven had his own column in The Sun newspaper advising on hair and beauty, and was a regular on the Lorraine Kelly show, transforming GMTV viewers into their favourite stars. He made over Lorraine herself, transforming her into movie legend, Elizabeth Taylor.

Steven has been a freelance writer for the last ten years, combining showbiz interviews and travel with his eye for styling. He has written two books: Powder Boy, looking at the dark side of showbiz, and an autobiography: It shouldn't happen to a hairdresser, offering a witty and sad look at his life. He is currently penning a third book to be titled Happy in Chennai.

He has a monthly column, Tales of a single middle-aged gay man that looks at not only the light side of gay life, but also darker aspects such as rape, addiction, and chem-sex. Steven also runs his own beauty/aesthetic blog and is a patron of Anna Kennedy online; a charity that not only supports the autism community but educates the public about those that live with autism.

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