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It is all Hanky Panky at the London Fetish Film Festival

It’s All Hanky Panky as the London Fetish Film Festival Returns

It is all hanky-panky as the London Fetish Film Festival returns for its seventh year, once again lifting the curtain on a world that many people are curious about, some quietly participate in, and others still regard as taboo. Fetish, after all, has always occupied that fascinating space between the private and the performative, the misunderstood and the mythologised.

Long before hashtags and streaming platforms, Madonna helped drag fetish culture into the mainstream. In the 1990s she didn’t just flirt with provocation; she weaponised it. Her song Hanky Panky cheekily suggested there was nothing quite like a good spanking, while her 1992 book Sex boldly invited readers to explore fantasies ranging from bondage and domination to submission and exhibitionism. What had once been whispered about behind closed doors was suddenly glossy, photographed, and unapologetically public. Madonna didn’t just shock — she reframed desire as something to be examined rather than hidden, daring readers to “make love in Paris” or “let her be your mistress”.

Madonna SEX book 1992

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Then came Fifty Shades of Grey, which flew off bookshop shelves and dominated bestseller lists. Its story of a young woman entering a sexually dominant relationship with a billionaire reignited debates about power, consent, and feminism. Critics argued it set women’s liberation back decades, yet the reality was more nuanced. I couldn’t help noticing how many women were reading it openly — on trains, on planes, in cafés — suggesting that whatever the book’s flaws, it tapped into something real and widespread.

50 shades spanking .

It’s often said that one in three of us has a submissive side. But I’ve always wondered: if the dominant figure in Fifty Shades lived in a council flat rather than a penthouse, would the story have been as romanticised? Or would he have been slapped, arrested, or both? Wealth and aesthetics, it seems, can dramatically change how power dynamics are perceived.

Of course, fetish itself is nothing new. Evidence of flagellation, bondage, and erotic imagery can be traced back to cave drawings, ancient Egypt, and the Roman Empire, who were particularly enthusiastic when it came to indulgence. Some argue certain fetishes may stem from childhood trauma, but that’s a conversation for another article entirely.

Like many people coming of age in the 1990s, I wore the leather trousers and biker jacket, blissfully unaware that I was echoing a long-standing visual language of rebellion and desire well thats what I tell people . Clubs embraced biker and fetish aesthetics, encouraging people to explore what was often described as their “forbidden side”. London saw nights like Torture Garden spring up at venues such as the Hoist, while across the Atlantic the New York gay scene was already miles ahead. The Eagle, with its hyper-masculine leather culture in the 70s and 80s, set a template that still influences fetish spaces today.

I once thought of myself as very liberal and worldly — until Florida taught me otherwise. In a celebrity-frequented club with a strong fetish theme, people dressed as if they’d stepped straight out of Madonna’s Sex era or a George Michael video, playing with master-and-slave imagery. Much of it felt like cosplay: people loved the look but many would run a mile if a leather daddy’s belt actually landed near them. They admired the surface without really understanding the psychology beneath it.

Tom Of Finland fantasy .

Over the years, many dominatrices have told me the same thing: a large number of their clients are men who hold immense power in everyday life — heads of companies, senior military figures, decision-makers used to absolute control. For an hour or two, giving that control away can be a profound relief. When discussed openly and practised safely, role-play can even strengthen relationships. Yet for a small section of society, this isn’t theatre at all — it’s identity.

One moment in particular floored me. A man at a club stared at me so intensely it became unsettling. My friend eventually asked him what he wanted. He vanished — or so we thought. Five minutes later, I felt something brush my ankles. Looking down, I discovered a man in a full black cat suit. My friend laughed and said, “It would happen to you.” I was told to at least stroke the poor thing. It was, quite literally, the last time I went for a pussy.

Just when you think you’ve seen it all.

Which brings me to cinema. While the Fifty Shades films were largely dismal, I was curious about what a gay equivalent might look like. After all, who didn’t fall for Alexander Skarsgård in True Blood? As a vampire who commanded worship and dismissal in equal measure, he embodied dominance with chilling ease.

The film Pillion, despite rave reviews, sadly fails on many levels to explain the dom-sub relationship. While I admire the decision to use real fetishists, it never quite lands emotionally. Ironically, it does highlight one truth often misunderstood: the submissive is frequently the one truly in control, setting boundaries and rules. Beyond that, the sex scenes are oddly cold, and I found myself more worried about the dogs tied up and left alone than anything else.

There is a brilliant dom-sub film waiting to be made. Pillion isn’t it — not an amazing love story, not a revelatory exploration — but watching Alexander Skarsgård is reason enough to give it a look. That, of course, is just my opinion. Many people are raving about it.

The film is screening as part of the London Fetish Film Festival, and I’d urge you not to take my word alone. Dive in, make up your own mind, and perhaps discover that fetish, like all good cinema, tells us as much about ourselves as it does about what’s happening on screen.

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Details of the festival are below.

London Fetish Film Festival returns for its seventh year, unleashing a fearless programme of

international cinema that dives deep into kink, fetish, BDSM, desire, psychology, and sexual

liberation – without shame and with uncompromising cinematic quality.

From arthouse to explicit, tender to transgressive, LFFF celebrates bold films that challenge

censorship, shatter taboos, and explore fetish culture as lived experience, art form, and

radical expression. Expect provocative documentaries, boundary-pushing fiction, animation,

and intimate insights from inside the scene.

For the lifestyle fetishists.

For the curious and open-minded.

This February, join us at The Arzner LGBTQIA+ Cinema for a fundraiser screening and Q&A

of Pillion; a launch party with HOWL Worldwide alongside an exclusive screening and Q&A

of Bruce LaBruce’s The Visitor; plus another two days of freshly curated experimental works,

shorts, and features.

Buckle in and strap on – we’re ready for you

LFFF Linktree – Best link for ALL ticket options

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Founding Artistic Director – Venus Raven

Co-Artistic Director and Producer – Tainted Saint

Female-led 2026 curation by:

Lead curators – Venus Raven and Tainted Saint

Co-Curators – Lidia Ravviso and Paulita Pappel

All events, 19th – 22nd February 2026 will be taking place at The Arzner LGBTQIA+

Cinema, 10 Bermondsey Square, London, SE1 3UN.

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The Arzner is London’s only LGBTQ+ cocktail bar & cinema. All the films they screen are

LGBTQ+ focused, made by LGBTQ+ talent and/or queer adjacent.

All events strictly 18+

Festival Pass Multi-screening offers:

3 Day Festival Pass – Includes 20th – 22nd (excl Pillion Fundraiser)

Saturday 21st Day Pass

Sunday 22nd Day Pass

NOTE – EACH TICKET LINK BELOW HOSTS SHORT BLURBS FOR EACH SHORT FILM

LFFF: Pillion Fetish-Friendly Fundraiser Q&A

Thursday 19th February

7pm screening

9pm Q&A

Tickets £16

50% of proceeds from this screening will be donated to The Sussex Beacon – A Brighton

based charity providing specialist care and support for people living with HIV across Sussex.

Hilarious, subversive and sexy… kicking off London Fetish Film Festival 2026 on February

19th, is the acclaimed and unexpectedly tender love story – PILLION !!

Wallflower Colin leads a humdrum existence until he meets the impossibly handsome Ray, a

mysterious biker he is soon desperately devoted to. As Colin submits to Ray and enters an

exciting new world of desire, he must decide the limits of his devotion.

“A Wild Ride”

– Evening Standard “This Year’s Biggest Cinematic Surprise”

– Loud and Clear

“Sexy”

– ID “A Real Love Story…Brilliant”

– The Guardian “Strange, Beautiful and Sexy”

IndieWire “A Salty-Sweet Directorial Debut”

– Vulture “Hilarious and Moving”

– The Times

“Disarmingly Poignant”

– Vanity Fair

The Sussex Beacon: Supporting People Living With HIV

LFFF: The Visitor Q&A & After Party

Friday 20th February

6:30pm screening

8:15pm Q&A

9pm afterparty

Tickets £15

Come and celebrate the launch of London Fetish Film Festival 2026 with us in collaboration

with HOWL Worldwide! Take in Bruce La Bruce’s THE VISITOR with an exclusive Q&A, then

enjoy a tailor-made LFFF cocktail and DJ set in the bar afterwards!

“A refugee arrives at the home of an upper-class family in London and seduces each

member of the family. When he suddenly is gone, he leaves behind a void that the rest try to

fill in different ways.

Director’s Statement:

“I have always been influenced and inspired by the work of Pier Paolo Pasolini, and I have

been drawn particularly, time and again, to his film ‘Teorema’ (1968). In Pasolini’s

original,Terence Stamp plays a mysterious character only identified in the credits as “The

Visitor”

. The origin of this character is never explained as he infiltrates an upper class

Milanese family, gains their trust, and seduces them one by one; the frustrated mother, the

alienated father, the delicate son, the innocent daughter, and the devoutly religious maid. In

my re-imagining of ‘Teorema’

. I wanted to add a more contemporary political dimension to

this highly symbolic story. My intention was to reverse the dominating rhetoric in politics and

the press on the sexualized violence of refugees. The “alien” instead becomes a sexual

healer, a sensitive subject I have explored before through the trope of the Black male’s

sexual potency as a threat to the domesticated white bourgeois sexual repression, a theme

that Fassbinder explored in his film ‘Whity’

. It makes sense in a modern British context to

represent the Visitor as a racial minority considering the xenophobia and paranoia about

immigration currently displayed in Europe, not only by the increasingly vocal extreme right

wing elements actually gaining political traction and governmental representation, but more

vaguely by traditionally colonialist countries in general that have previously “invaded” other

countries of different ethnic majorities as hostile “aliens” themselves. I’ve found that the best

strategy as an artist or filmmaker for the insurgent re-investigation of an existing piece of

cinema is to explore the sexual subtext of the original and make it as explicit as possible for

maximum effect. I came to the conclusion that if you are going to make a film about sexual

revolution, it’s best to put your Marxism where your mouth is and make the movie sexually

explicit, or even better, pornographic, prioritizing praxis over theory.

– Bruce LaBruce

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LFFF: Shorts Session 1

Saturday 21st February

4pm

93.47min run time

Featuring 8 short films

Tickets £12

Join us for a dripping new curation of ‘Fun Fetish’ and 2024 LFFF award winning short films!

Indulgent Delights

8mins 11secsAn electrifying front row seat as burlesque performer Leila Delicious adorns her body with

glitter.

Lee in Leatherland

6mins

The speaker, a queer man searching for the hypermasculine fantasy figures drawn by Tom

of Finland, journeys from Helsinki to London in pursuit of desire made flesh. In Vauxhall’s

clubs and darkrooms, he encounters the sweaty, neon-lit world of gay nightlife – full of

longing, bravado, and disappointment.

Darwin Fantasia

10mins 56secs

Canela immerses herself in Darwin’s studies on the plant world, focusing particularly on The

Fertilisation of Orchids. As she explores the meticulous accounts of interactions between

plants and insects, she discovers something that goes beyond mere survival: a web of

curiosity, play, and pleasure that also seems to captivate the naturalist himself.

2024 Award Winners: Best Short + Best Screenplay

A Pacific Touch

37mins 43secs

This is a story about love. Isolation, and an unusual obsession. Alexei , a young man,

becomes consumed by his passion for his new wallpaper, slowly withdrawing from the world

outside. As he drifts deeper into his fixation, Texture Pasifique explores the limits of love and

obsession, revealing the complexities of intimacy with both people and objects.

Jacked Out

7mins 53secs

What is a virtual pet in an era of mass surveillance? Jack out of the Y2KAGE in this erotic

hauntology film probing the persistent feedback loops of future’s past in our present, forces

of technological dominance, and virtual pets unleashed!

2024 Award Winners: Best Animation

Klimax

2min 47secs

Klimax explores the topic of female masturbation in order to redefine the already negatively

connoted image of the female sex and thus strives to create new aesthetic associations of

femininity. Our main protagonist, Barbie, undergoes a process of transformation.

My Perfect Dolly

17mins

A pretty pink dollification scene with two non-binary plus size femmes, followed by a

conversation.

Lupae x Hardwerk4mins 37secs

LFFF: Shorts Session 2

Saturday 21st February

6:30pm

Full run time with interval 149.24mins

Featuring 20 short films

Tickets £15

Join us for a dripping new curation of Kink Art, Fetish Horror and 2024 LFFF award winning

short films!

The Nest

7mins

It’s the first night he’s bringing someone home. They must be quiet.

2024 Award Winners: Best Edit

What if I Told You to

4mins 21secs

Official music video

2024 Award Winners: Best Comedy

Squeegee

10mins 54secs

A high-powered businesswoman meets a high-rise window-washer for an erotic rendezvous

on opposite sides of her skyscraper window.

Fetish

21mins

Oddball Clark meets the girl of his dreams, but the relationship is threatened by his foot

fetish.

2024 Award Winners: Best Production Design

The Debutante

14mins 35secs

When a young woman agrees to satisfy a peculiar request in exchange for a luxurious pair of

shoes, what begins as a simple act of submission soon spirals out of, and then into, control –

reshaping her identity and his shoe collection.

Guro

7minsIn the harsh Arctic landscape of Longyearbyen, Guro meets a mysterious client for a

straightforward transaction. However, as they travel together along the isolated, icy roads,

the client makes an unusual request that tests Guro in unexpected ways.

Virgin X – Billionaires

2mins 18secs

Official music video

20 MINS INTERVAL

Operotica: Stabat Mater

4mins 22secs

A music video for Operotica’s re-orchestration of the first movement of Pergolesi’s Stabat

Mater, featuring Operotica as latex-clad nuns, rigged together with shibari by Dominatrix

Veronica Viper. The awkwardness of their positioning reflects the close suspensions in the

music

Virgin X – Splinters

3mins 25secs

Official music video

Bath Bomb

9mins 55secs

A possessive doctor prepares an ostensibly romantic bath for his narcissistic boyfriend, but

after an accusation of infidelity, things take a deeply disturbing turn.

2024 Award Winners: Best Sound Design

Mutations of Desire

5mins 27secs

A queer tribute to the Cronenberg film, Deadringers. Sade and Odette create a disorienting

world of latex, strange medical instruments, and hallucination.

Woman ASMR

4mins 25secs

A woman and her microphone provide an erotic autonomous sensory meridian response.

Virgin X – Shame

3mins 48secs

Official music video

2024 Award Winners: Yes it’s F*cking Political

Dori Dori

3mins 39secs

In a world that tries to suppress who you are, Sara ATH shows

us that the soul can’t be caged and takes a stand against the shame and silencing of her

fellow queers. Rapping in Arabic, it’s her turn on the mic to sing out loud who she is and howproud she is – a rebellious act that may bar her from ever returning to her home country.

Symbolising the internal battles of accepting your sexuality and grappling with self-identity,

the music video explores the liberation and eventual acceptance of queer existence and how

‘orgasmic’ this enlightenment feels.

Vanessa

5mins

Making love to an inanimate body; the mannequin Vanessa.

2024 Award Winners: Best Costume + Best Music Video

Virgin X – Fuck Myself

3mins 23secs

Official music video

Hyperion

1min 44secs

Hyperion is a high order penitentiary complex. Walls rewrite identity, silence reshapes desire,

and every exit demands transformation. No one leaves Hyperion, at least not without

fundamentally changing themselves.

Blood – Humanification

1min

An intriguing creature seems to have fallen from the sky, confused and unmoored. It will

witness how its passage through Earth shapes its body and its identity, and how, slowly, we

all end in the same cage when we betray ourselves. Even the most rare and bizarre can be

shaped to humanity. No one escapes.

2024 Award Winners: Best Kink Moment (Human Chopping Board)

Thing

10mins 50secs

The everyday life of a mistress and her furniture slave. When he suddenly disappears, they

find themselves in an identity crisis.

Moan

8mins 38secs

Framed against a blood red haze of stark crimson backdrops, the conclusive short film

MOAN presents a visually penetrating feast. The ultimate climactic crescendo sees

unsuspecting strangers thrust into the throws of breath-slick tension, curdling curiosity

ultimately ending in a hypnotic descent of all-consuming indulgent, auditory stimulation.

Throbbing suspense, washed out groans and the illicit breathy moans staining the lips of

those who dare pick up the phone. The voice, wet, sticky and intoxicatingly close.LFFF: Documentaries

Sunday 22nd February

2:30pm

83.33mins runtime

Tickets £10

Sex in Colour: Kinky and Loving It

48mins 33secs

KINKY AND LOVING IT is an empowering documentary highlighting the transformative

potential of reclamation. Celebrating how Black folks reclaim agency over their desires,

bodies, and identities, KINKY AND LOVING IT is a liberating journey into the transformative

power of radical acceptance, reclamation, and love within Black kink.

Mr. Bound & Gagged

35mins

“Bob Wingate and Lee Clauss, former publishers of the legendary Bound & Gagged

magazine, open the archive and the floodgates in this richly layered excavation of queer

kink, media history, and erotic resistance. Set against the backdrop of the Leather Archives

& Museum in Chicago, this candid portrait splices salacious nostalgia with radical politics,

tracing decades of defiant desire, artistic transgression, and unapologetic love. A necessary

tribute to two aging icons of the underground.

” (CUFF32)

LFFF: Inside Fetish

Sunday 22nd February

4:30pm

92.43mins runtime

Tickets £12

On The Erotics Of Stuffing Large Objects Into Small Spaces

15mins

Aexperimental film about the submissive desire for restrictive bondage. The subject – a single figure

locked in a dog crate, hooded and caged – shares his internal monologue: “This cage will never be

comfortable, though I find it deeply comforting.

Ripples: Libra

5mins 36secs

A Shibari short from Director Guillaume Pin

Oasis6mins 34secs

Shot with super8 camera in the desert of Joshua Tree , this film is about a Gay Asian Cowboy

reconnecting with a version of his younger self via ropes.

Breakfast Time

17mins 58secs

A raw, intimate documentary about a queer pup eating breakfast from his dog bowl. As he eats, a

candid voiceover unfolds – reflections on the nature of desire and disgust, failed relationships,

encounters with gay-bashing, and the feeling of isolation that comes along with stigmatized desire.

Sanguine

4mins 54secs

A love letter to blood accompanied by seraphic, breathy music. Beau Flex (they/them) meditates on

the strength of flesh in this ritualistic solo scene. Engaging in self piercing play, Beau focuses on

coaxing blood out of their thigh, producing round ruby droplets. As they smear the blood upon their

skin, they smile at the release in their art.

Babyblue

4mins 27scs

An exploration of tenderness and catharsis through needle play. Shot on Finn’s last day in New York

City, this performance symbolises goodbyes and a rite of passage to mark their way back home.

σάρξ [Sarx]

1min 59secs

A masochist mortification of the flesh. A perversion of prayer.

A.S.F.R. (alt.sex.fetish.robots.)

5mins

Vudhi K., a Thai ASFR practitioner, recounts the process of transformation and the moment his fetish

first took hold. A memory, a primal scene, a mercurial awakening. The drag of a brush against skin

blurs the boundary between subject and object, drone and human. Featuring performers Damian

Dragon and Botan Peony.

2024 Award Winners: Best Director

The Pleasure in Pain

18mins 28secs

An arthouse short documentary following key figures of the London kink scene on an exploration into

BDSM and the notorious fetish event Klub Verboten. The film touches upon themes of psychology,

trauma, LGBTQ+ rights and black representation.

2024 Award Winners: Best Documentary

Lasting Marks

14mins 47secs

The story of a group of men with shared sexual desires, lucky to have found each other yet

unfortunate to be considered criminal for expressing them.LFFF: A Body to Live In + Short Films

Sunday 22nd February

6:30pm

122.57mins runtime

Tickets £15

2024 Award Winners: Best Performer + Best Cinematography + Festival Director’s

Choice

Subspace

20mins 18secs

This love-story being dom and sub is a BDSM film that explores the intimacy and trust

between partners.

Starring Commander Ares and Roughkicks

Dir. Matt Lambert

2024 Award Winners: Best Art Direction

The Architect

4mins 39secs

Odette Engle performing a process of inverted architectural mapping on the suspended body

of Cute But Deadly.

A Body to Live In

1hr 38mins

A BODY TO LIVE IN is a feature film that traces the life and work of legendary photographer,

performer, and “Gender Flex” cultural icon, Fakir Musafar (1930-2018). Through

investigating the body modification movement and the trajectory of Fakir’s art career and

philosophy, A BODY TO LIVE IN uncovers a riveting facet of queer history. Using Fakir’s

early experiments in body play and his photographic works from the 1940s and 50s as a

springboard, the film traces the body modification movement as it emerged in LGBT

subculture in the early 1970s. The film introduces us to early collaborative experimentation

at gay underground BDSM parties, leading to the first piercing shop, moving through the

radical faerie movement and the role of body modification during the AIDS epidemic, the

emergence of body-based performance art, and the rise of an entire subculture. Insights

from key figures including Annie Sprinkle, Ron Athey, Idexa Stern, Cléo Dubois, Jim Ward,

Midori, and others provoke deeper reflections about art making, surviving AIDS, and the

controversial collaging of various spiritual and cultural practices to build a philosophy.

Captured in static 16mm film portraits, A BODY TO LIVE IN unfolds conversationally

between Fakir’s archive of 100+ hours of unseen footage, and the voices of the canonical

elders of this movement, to create intergenerational dialog, question cultural responsibility,

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Steven’s Viewz: April“Go Mickey”

There is no doubt that Mickey Rourke has been the best thing to happen to Celebrity Big Brother this year. He is a fascinating mix of Victor Meldrew’s grumpy bluntness and Keith Richards’ wild, unpredictable charm. Arriving with no filter whatsoever and the wide-eyed confusion of Alice falling through the looking glass, he often seems unsure of exactly where he is. It’s not only comedy gold; it’s also a stark reminder of how hypersensitive our society has become — many ready to cry into their decaf almond milk lattes at the slightest provocation.

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Rourke many years ago at The Abbey Coffee Shop in West Hollywood, back when he was dating Carrie Otis. The Abbey, a famous LGBTQ+ venue, was buzzing as usual. Rourke, accompanied by his two beloved dogs, stopped me to ask about mine. We chatted briefly (I’ll admit I was a little starstruck — Angel Heart remains one of my all-time favourite films). My point is this: Mickey Rourke is not homophobic. He simply comes from a different time. The man is 72 years old. Perhaps, unlike some of the more publicity-hungry contestants, he doesn’t feel the need to self-censor or meticulously filter every word he utters.

My instinct tells me that JoJo might have handled the situation differently had she not been so consistently stunned — she often wore the look of a “rabbit in the headlights.” Fortunately, Chris Hughes, the charming and grounded contestant every parent would approve of, stepped in calmly to defend her. He restored order with dignity and compassion, providing a rare and refreshing moment of true humanity in a show increasingly dominated by outrage culture.

Chris Hughes the man you want your son or daughter to bring home

Let’s be honest: in the real world, prejudice and inappropriate comments are unfortunate realities many people will face. Mickey’s comments weren’t right, but they also didn’t merit his removal from the house. What’s needed is guidance and understanding, not instant condemnation and cancellation. We must be able to differentiate between malice and ignorance, between true harm and clumsy missteps.

Predictably, it wasn’t long before others saw an opportunity to capitalize on the situation. Donna Preston, a comedian by profession, was told by Rourke — while he lounged under an LED face mask — “You are what you eat.” Rather than respond with wit or humor, she ran crying to her team. For someone who makes a living out of comedy, it was a surprising reaction. Where was the banter, the quick retort that a seasoned performer should deliver with ease?

Donna Preston easily offended .

At this point, I began to feel genuinely sorry for Rourke. Things only deteriorated further when Patsy Palmer took offense at a mild comment about her cooking and ended up in tears. It begs the question: where has resilience gone? Life is full of difficult people who speak bluntly or unkindly. If we are reduced to tears by every offhand remark, how will we cope with the harsher realities that life inevitably throws our way?

Patsy non chewable broccoli leads to tears

As many know, I am a strong advocate for mental health awareness. I have faced my own battles with depression and anxiety. However, one of the most important lessons I have learned is the value of resilience. The only way to overcome bullies and unkind individuals is to develop inner strength. If we allow their words to break us, then they have won.

In my childhood, my imagination became my sanctuary. It helped me navigate bullying at both school and home, allowing me to rise above it rather than be crushed by it. Today, while mental health education is crucial, it is equally important that we teach children and young adults how to endure adversity. Bullying and cruelty will never disappear entirely. Learning how to manage, respond, and thrive despite them is essential.

Celebrity Big Brother has, perhaps unintentionally, become a mirror reflecting today’s cultural fragility. And frankly, it’s worrying.

We need a generation that can distinguish between genuine harm and an ill-judged comment. We need young people who can face challenges head-on, who can understand intent rather than automatically assuming the worst, and who can survive — and even thrive — in a world that will not always be kind.

Toughness doesn’t mean lacking empathy or kindness. It means having the inner strength to pick yourself up after a setback, to laugh off the jibes, and to rise above the noise. Without it, we risk raising a generation ill-equipped for real life.

Mickey Rourke’s stint on CBB might just end up being more than television entertainment. It might serve as a wake-up call about where we are heading — and a reminder of the resilience we so desperately need to reclaim.

Massive props to Danny Beard — he’s not just bringing the yeast to the bread, he’s practically baking a whole bakery at this point! As for Trisha… well, I’ll spare you the rant, but let’s just say Michael Fabricant and I are singing from the same hymn sheet.

Now, if Mikey manages to hang on much longer, he might just sneak a win — stranger things have happened! That said, my money’s still firmly on Chris or Danny to take the crown.

Danny Beard bringing the laughs to the CBB House .

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STEVEN LOOKS AT THE BRITS 2025

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WHY I JUST LOVED THE BRIT AWARDS THIS YEAR

Yes, the BRIT Awards can sometimes be a cringe-fest, and let’s be honest—Jack Whitehall is no Ricky Gervais, no matter how hard he tries. But, without a doubt, he’s a far better choice than some of the past hosts. One thing is certain: the BRITs always pack a punch.

Who could forget 1996, when Jarvis Cocker crashed the stage during Michael Jackson’s Earth Song? Jarvis, who was arrested for the stunt, is sadly remembered more for that moment than his music. And Michael? Well… let’s leave that discussion for another time. Then, of course, there was Madonna’s infamous tumble off the stage in 2015—proof that even the Queen of Pop isn’t immune to a high-fashion mishap or falling iff her high horse.( we all love her )

But as I settled in to watch the 2025 BRIT Awards, it dawned on me just how much incredible talent we have in this country. How the hell do we not run away with the Eurovision crown every year? It took a Canadian to win last time, though, let’s be honest, the brilliant Sam Ryders  was robbed.

This year’s BRITs, however, were a whole new ball game. From start to finish, it was pure magic, and I realized just how out of touch I am with some of today’s hottest artists.

THE HIGHLIGHTS

JACK WHITEHALL—ACTUALLY FUNNY?

Two tea bags or three ? Jack Whitehall does a great job .you almost want to teabag him

Believe it or not, Jack Whitehall was actually hilarious this year. From start to finish, he nailed it. His monkey joke about snorting PG Tips? Priceless. And his parents on the red carpet? Pure comedy gold.

Equally amusing was Danny Dyer’s voice—so artificially butch you’d think he’d accidentally wandered into a gay orgy and slipped on the lube and was trying to convince everyone he was straight.

THE PERFORMANCES

The real magic, though, was in the performances. There wasn’t a single act I watched that didn’t blow me away—and I say that as someone with pretty eclectic taste in music.

The production was simply stunning. Kicking off with Sabrina Carpenter was a bold choice, even if she visually borrowed inspiration of 90% of her act from Madonna (who, let’s not forget, also did the kilted guards routine a while back).

Jade Thirlwall, after winning Best Pop Act, delivered an iconic performance of Angel of My Dreams. Though, who on earth thought turning her into Gemma Collins with a blonde wig was a good idea? It distracted from what was her first solo BRITs performance since stepping away from Little Mix.

Jade gives an iconic performance but ditch the blonde wig .

The undeniable star of the night was Charli XCX. I’ll admit, I only really knew of her because she’s engaged to George Daniel from The 1975 (don’t scream at me), but after doing some homework—wow. What an exciting and uniquely talented artist. Her album BRAT is already shaping up to be legendary. It’s a shame she didn’t perform, but honestly, watching her down espresso martinis, sip bubbly, and cuddle up to a hunk? A girl after my own heart.

An expresso martini and bubbly and a hunk on her arm my kind of gal Charliexcx

THE SHOW-STEALERS

Teddy Swims could wear his old bedding on stage, and I’d still be mesmerised by that voice. #Awesome. The award for humility, however, goes to Myles Smith—definitely one to watch.

Teddy Swims a mesmerising voice .

Stormzy who did not perform Ezra Collective delivered brilliant performance, proving yet again why they’re some of the best musicians out there. But guys, let’s dial down the God talk a bit—unless, of course, He can explain why Trump is still looming over the White House and why the world is in the state it’s in. A simple “ta” would suffice.

Sam Fender? What a Northern powerhouse. Pure talent, down-to-earth, and humble—just what we love to see. The Last Dinner Party also delivered an incredible performance, proving they are a force to be reckoned with.

And last, but certainly not least, a shoutout to the absolutely addictive Lola Young, who performed Messy—a song that will no doubt become an anthem for a generation. I truly cannot wait to see what she does next; she’s got me hooked.

A. Star is born Lola Young we are all addicted to you .

FINAL THOUGHTS

This year’s BRITs were, without a doubt, the best yet. A true celebration of the sheer amount of talent we have in this country. We are incredibly lucky to have these artists pushing the boundaries of music and performance.

Here’s to 2026!

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Unleash Confidence through Acting: A Women & Non-Binary Workshop

Louise Osbourne is set to conduct an ‘Act As If You‘ workshop in Birmingham and London in March to bring a fresh perspective to acting
Who knew you could perform your way into reclaiming the real you?
Louise Osbourne with a student in her class, Acting For Screen in Birmingham

Actor and acting coach, Louise Osbourne has combined the art of acting with building self-confidence into a workshop called ‘Act As If You’ specifically for women and non-binary people.

The course focuses on nurturing the inner self and gathering communication tools to thrive in personal and professional environments.

Louise seems to have cracked the code with her expertise to empower women and non-binary people to find their voice through acting and improv.

Louise said, “For 14 years I’ve been doing acting classes in Birmingham for people from 16 upwards all levels of ability and what I noticed was that men and women but definitely mainly women would come to my class not necessarily to go down the path of trying to get an agent and trying to book acting jobs and auditions, but they had lost their identity. Whether that was from marriage or children, and Birmingham is a very Asian multicultural city so a lot of it’s from marriage and not working anymore, they’d have their children or their children would be a little bit older and they’d come to my acting class, not thinking about acting but actually because they gain confidence.”

Before she came back to Birmingham in 2011 to become an acting coach, she had a blistering career in the States as an actor and worked with several award-winning actors.

During this time she noticed that some pretty big names in Hollywood were still nervous first day on the set and found it interesting.

Louise said, “I’ve worked with Catherine Zeta-Jones and Warren Beatty and Diane Keaton and Goldie Hawn and everybody’s nervous, everybody! It was mind-blowing for me because I was like, there’s no way these seasoned Oscar winning actors are nervous but everybody’s afraid they’re not gonna be believable. I think sometimes it’s almost harder for them because they’ve got to do better than their last best show, because they’ve already reached a level and your next thing has to top it or else you’re gone.”

Louise Osbourne

This helped her identify that a more holistic approach was needed to uplift one’s confidence to play any role in life.

As a founder herself and an advocate for inclusion, Louise felt called to blend her experience to help women and non-binary people become strong leaders.

Her friend, Samantha Grierson, who has contributed generously through her art to the LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent communities in Birmingham, saw great potential in Louise’s mission to build a safe environment for women and non-binary people to express themselves freely.

She helped Louise bring her vision to life and continues to support and set up this acting workshop with her.

The primary aim of this workshop is to go beyond acting and dig deeper, let the soul’s voices dance and acknowledge the core identity. 

Louise added, “It’s not even about the acting it’s about taking the mind off the inhibitions and you can get that through playing say improv games, I’ll give them really interesting fun scenarios and I’d roll the camera, they’d have no scripts and they just have to play along. Sometimes at the beginning they’d be very quiet, let other people do the talking and then after a couple of weeks they’d find their place, find their voice and then they’d interject. And then I’d say to the rest of the class that improvisation is about giving and taking. You don’t need to fill every silence, silence is real life, let the silence be. Silence is where things brew from.”

Louise’ students in Birmingham

The last line couldn’t be more true as we all prepare in our silence to present our “best’ selves on various occasions.

It’s almost like an inner dialogue or conflict that needs to stretch out thin until our minds can finally be satisfied with a fitting approach. So much of this is caused by overthinking, social anxiety and in some cases, cultural upbringing and sexual identity as well.

Women and non-binary people have struggled to assert their voices in male dominant environments. They feel dismissed, overlooked and often forgotten. 

Louise’s workshop provides the perfect platform for participants to train their inner voice and not feel ashamed to speak up. And to become comfortable with the idea of voicing out their needs and wants to the fullest.

Louise continued, “We have had so much stuff holding us back as females and non-binary that it’s time to kind of step up and speak for ourselves. My belief is that if we all have that inner confidence that we do deserve a seat at this table and feel important from within, it won’t feel like we’re there just to tick a box.

I think that’s what we need to get our heads around, we need to make sure that we are not sitting at that table because they have promised the shareholders that they’re more inclusive. It’s like oh yeah we’ve got a non-binary, tick! We’ve got a woman, tick! But no voice? Screw that. We need to make sure that if we’ve got a place at the table that our voice is just as heard as everybody else around that board.”

Louise brings a rather powerful yet light-hearted approach to trigger a change that women and non-binary people can utilise as a launch-pad to acquire any position in our society or the corporate world.

Acting isn’t always a piece of cake but what is capitalism without a little performance? In the famous words of a TED talker I don’t remember, “You have to fake to not only make it, but become it.”

The art of performance is used to churn out versions of oneself that were suppressed, Louise intends to unwrap those gifts that reside within. 

By urging her audience to create their own compelling narrative, uniqueness comes to life with a little artistic direction, reassurance and a whole lot of fun.

Behind the scenes of Acting For Screen

Louise added, “There’s got to be a lot of laughs in my class, I want people to leave feeling confident but have fun. It’s also about using the fear, switching the fear to be excited about the story you want to tell. So you switch the fear to what you’re pitching about, what your journey is, why should I be telling this story. Why now? At the beginning of the classes I will definitely ask everybody what they want to get out of it and then work with them individually on creating a monologue that’s going to fit into their pitch about their journey. For the first half of the day it’s just going to be improv, it’s just going to be exercising, not thinking about business or anything.

In LA, I’d tell them yeah you’re a teacher, you’re the boys in the class, you’re casting for Matilda. And one of the little boys in the class nailed Matilda, he knew all the songs, he knew everything. He told me he wants to be Matilda but his dad doesn’t want him to be so and then I’ll just roll the camera and it’s really interesting because they have to act. Whether they feel that way or not they still have to go with it and take on that character. Afterwards there’s such a big sigh because it’s not who they are, it’s a different character. Sometimes I make them play two businessmen, and they both end up crying. It’s funny the stuff it brings up. They go, I can’t believe I was crying! A lot of stuff comes to the surface and then you’re way more relaxed and you get more involved in it. I think fear is something, if you switch it, it’s something that can be propelled by you.”

Louise Osbourne mentoring her students

As humans we have a tendency to overestimate the power of fear in our lives. We almost think it’s superior to us and without even trying, we admit defeat and live out our lives not knowing what could’ve been.

Acting as an art-form in general requires an individual to become friends with the chaos lingering inside. There’s a lot of emotional release; you laugh, cry, scream, howl and it almost becomes essential that you feel. 

Louise aims to purge all of these emotions out to make women and non-binary people rediscover themselves as leaders of their own lives.

The purpose of ‘Act As If You’ is to break free from the ordinary constructs of gender roles and eliminate the limiting voices that were given to them without their permission.

For more information about the workshop, go here: https://www.actasifyou.com

A glimpse into Act As If You
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New Book: Samantha Lee Howe’s ‘THE SOUL THIEF’

2shades Steven Smith gets down with award wining author and screen writer Samantha Lee Howe to talk about her latest venture “The Soul Thief”
Pictures by Andy Barnes and Terry Scott

Congratulations on the new book Samantha, tell us a bit about it?

The Soul Thief is a Gothic Thriller about a gentleman detective, Mitchell Bishop, in Victorian Manchester, who begins to investigate a series of bizarre murders. Along with his former fiancée, Laura Carter, Mitchell finds himself in danger and he must look back into his own past in order to inform the present and learn who and what is hurting the people around him. 

I’ve always had a fascination with gothic fiction, particularly the Victorian era, and have found the works of Mary Shelley, Bram Stoker and Sheridan Le Fanu fascinating. The Soul Thief is my tribute to 19th Century gothic fiction, but is written in the style more conducive to the modern reader. Therefore it’s very fast paced, with lots of twists and turns and a surprise ending.

Does writing horror differ from the other genre of books you pen?

Horror has always been a fascination of mine and a natural default to write into. It’s a challenging genre in many ways because you sometimes have to look deep inside yourself to really bring forth an element that scares you. It doesn’t have to be supernatural, after all, real life is full of horrible things that humans do to each other, but supernatural horror is a little less hard to take and also gives you more freedom to explore the genre.

When you’re writing in this genre you have to make many decisions about which way you want to take it and how extreme you want to go. My favourite horror to write is psychological, but I’m not afraid to be visceral if that is needed in the story and not gratuitous.

What really frightens you?

Lots of things frighten me. Enclosed spaces, heights, stalkers, people in general, as they are capable of doing terrible things to each other. One of the things I used to be really scared of was zombies – until I wrote about them a couple of times! As writing is very cathartic, it’s always good to explore the things that do frighten you the most and it takes the sting out of it immediately! 

When were you growing up what horror characters caught your attention?

Growing up I was a huge fan of staying up late with my sister, Adele, watching Hammer movies. We loved the character of Dracula. Christopher Lee was my first introduction to that. I used to lie awake worrying about vampires, but couldn’t stop watching them. When I was 16 I saw my first zombie movie, Zombie Flesh Eaters, and I couldn’t watch another one after that for about 30 years! It terrified me! I even avoided Shaun of the Dead because I just hated zombies. Eventually my husband David talked me into watching the latter film, and it’s now a favourite. But I just can’t revisit Zombie Flesh Eaters!

Films like “Terrifier” are a huge hit in the USA. Do you think slasher films rank as Horror or do they just promote sadism?

All slasher films are horror, but they have varying degrees of psychological basis. Some are described as torture porn – in other words the physical violence meted out to various characters, mainly female, is the whole point of the film – and I’m not into those at all – I don’t really understand why anyone is – but each to their own! What you don’t see can be far more terrifying to the viewer or reader than anything that is presented in graphic detail on screen.

Samatha Lee Howe with 2Shades Steven Smith

The 16 Days of Action Against Domestic Violence campaign starts on November 25th, 2024, which is the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. You are a survivor ambassador for the Yorkshire charity IDAS. How did you get involved and how do people get help?

A couple of years ago, I reached out to IDAS to see if I could help them because this is a charity very close to my heart. I felt it was important, and the right time, to tell my own story, and I hoped it would help other people. I was not surprised when some of my social media friends contacted me to say they had been victims of domestic violence, what did surprise me was just how many people have had these experiences and still do.

I advised them, as I advise anyone, to reach out and call the local Domestic Violence service near them if they feel they are being abused, manipulated, controlled, or being subjected to any form of physical abuse. Not all abuse is obvious, sometimes abusers use coercive control to cause a great deal of damage to a person’s self-esteem. 

For IDAS, they have a website (https://idas.org.uk/) and contact numbers (North Yorkshire and Barnsley: 03000 110 110 / Sheffield: 0808 808 2241), so please reach out if you need help!

Your screen version of your best-selling book “The Stranger in Our Bed” not only saw you being given countless awards, but was an international hit on the screen. Has life changed for you, and when will your next film be?

My personal life hasn’t changed at all I’m glad to say! I tend to stay very grounded. Professionally, though, the film has opened new doors and given me new and exciting opportunities. I’m currently writing a horror movie for a Hollywood-based producer – but I’m NDA’d so can’t say more than that! I’ve also written the pilot for The House of Killers TV series, which is based on my spy trilogy of the same name, and it’s with a production company. I guess I’m writing much more for screen now than I was.

But it’s a difficult industry with many hurdles, so getting something actually into production is rare. But we keep pitching the ideas, and discussing the options … and there are some smashing people that I’m working with. 

What are you doing for Christmas?

We are having a very quiet Christmas this year at home with my daughter Linzi and our friend, actor, Frazer Hines. But we’ll be partying more at New Year when we have an annual party for some of our family and friends. 

Please tell us about 2025. What plans do you have?

2025 is looking crazy already! I will be writing as always (I have several projects underway and commissioned) but I also have a few public appearances. February will see me presenting a screenwriting workshop in Scotland, March is The SciFi Weekender (a Sci-Fi/Fantasy festival which I help programme and run).

I’m running two film festivals myself (details at http://www.slhfilmfest.com), one in June and the other in October. I’ll be on panels and doing signings at the World Fantasy Convention in Brighton at the end of October … and there are so many other things in between. Busy. Very busy.

Samantha Lee Howe at the Sykehouse film festival with 70s icon Ayshea Brough and award winning actress Nina Wadia https://filmfreeway.com/SykehouseInternationalFilmFestival

Who would you like to play you in the film version of your life?

Scarlett Johansson!! I love her, wish I looked like her – she’s very talented and so beautiful! I’ve never seen a film starring her that I haven’t loved. Same for Anya Taylor-Joy – what a talent!

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“Lights, camera, action!” The first ever Sykehouse Film festival comes to Goole 

Glitz and Glamour hit the Yorkshire town of Goole on the 29th June at the first ever Sykehouse Film Festival.

Actors and celebrities joined film makers and writers at this sold-out red-carpet event held at the “Old George Inn” Sykehouse. 

Award winning actress Nina Wadia OBE with Champion charity ambassador Pink Ribbons Lisa Allen

There was great excitement as Nina Wadia OBE (Eastenders), Gary Webster straight from starring in the action thriller ‘Bermondsey Tales, his wife presenter turned author Wendy Turner Webster, acting legend Frazer Hines (celebrating 70 years in show business), local royalty rugby ace turned Hollywood actor Keith Mason, and presenter Danielle Broadbent and actress Michelle Jeram (Granite Harbour BBC ) were amongst the celebrity guest.

One of the surprises of the festival was a guest appearance by zoom from Tom Hank’s brother Jim Hanks.

Acting Legend Frazer Hines receives a life time achievement award

There were tears in the room as the evening was dedicated to the Irish song bird Rose-Marie who was meant to presenting but sadly passed on a few weeks before the event.

The entry films were shown during the day. This included a selection of short and feature films submitted to the festival which had all been commended by the judges.

The festival was the brainchild of USA Today bestselling author and multiple-award winning screenwriter Samantha Lee Howe.

“I wanted to create an event which celebrated the art of film, and which rewarded filmmakers by getting their work in front of an appreciative audience”, she explained.

The evening was presented by David Howe and winner of the night were Taunya Gren from the USA, who had submitted three of her films to the festival: two shorts and one feature.

She ended up scooping seven awards in total, including the Best Director, Best Horror Feature and Best Short Film, while Seanna Ladd, Gren’s daughter, who appeared in all three films, was awarded Best Actress.

Celebrity hairdresser turned author Steven Smith Joins presenter Danielle Broadbent as they rock the red carpet

Comedy was provided by top comedians George Coppen and Alex Leam, while Linzi Gold sang three of her own songs to an appreciative audience. 

There was a raffle in aid of the Yorkshire charity IDAS with some amazing prizes. Award-winning winery Nyetimber provided Champagne for the guests as they arrived.

The whole event was an incredible success with people coming from all over the UK, and even from America, to attend.

Police woman turned actress Michelle Jeram joined by the team of her film headed by director Samantha Grierson https://filmfreeway.com/TheProgramme2024

Samantha Lee Howe with two of the big winners who flew in from LA to receive their awards Seanna Ladd and Tanya Gren

A full list of 2024 winners can be found on the Awards Website at www.slhfilmfest.com  and tickets for the 2025 event are also available.

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In memory of Rose-Marie