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WIN A CHANCE TO HAVE ACCLAIMED ARTIST PILUCA TRANSFORMER YOUR CLOTHING INTO ART

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Be a walking piece of art.

Win the chance to have acclaimed artist Piluca transform your shirt, jacket, handbag, jeans — or even your swimming trunks — into a unique, hand-painted work of art.

Simply buy a raffle ticket online through Anna Kennedy Online for your chance to own a one-of-a-kind creation personally designed by Piluca herself.

The winning ticket will be drawn live at a private event on 23rd May, with Piluca announcing the winner in person.

Her incredible designs are bold, vibrant, glamorous and completely original — turning everyday fashion into wearable art. Just take a look at the sensational work below.

All proceeds from the raffle will go to support the wonderful work of Anna Kennedy Online.

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Dr Anna Kennedy OBE and Gateway Radio’s Aston Avery Bring Sparkle to the Autism Hero Awards

Heart Stopper Bradley Riches picture Antony March.

There are few things more dangerous than an awards ceremony that forgets the audience. We have all been there. The initial excitement, the pre-dinner drinks, the photographs, the promise of an entertaining evening celebrating a worthy cause. Then suddenly, halfway through a bread roll, you begin wondering whether to butter it — or hit yourself over the head with it to relieve the boredom. Endless speeches, presenters milking their fifteen minutes of fame, technical pauses that feel longer than a Netflix series, and a room full of people quietly counting the minutes until they can politely escape.

Thankfully, the 2026 Autism Hero Awards proved the complete opposite.

Held on Saturday 9th May at the stylish Holiday Inn London Regent’s Park, the annual event in aid of Anna Kennedy Online was a masterclass in how to host a charity awards evening properly. Dr Anna Kennedy OBE and Gateway Radio presenter Aston Avery delivered a show that was heartfelt, slick, emotional, entertaining and — most importantly — never once lost the audience.

Aston Avery and Stacey Moore

From the moment guests arrived, there was a genuine warmth in the room. That is the magic of Anna Kennedy Online. This is not simply a charity event where people turn up out of obligation, smile for photographs and disappear before dessert. There is real love here. Real loyalty. Real community spirit. Anna Kennedy has spent years building an organisation that supports autistic people and their families while celebrating achievements that too often go unnoticed by mainstream society. That atmosphere of kindness and inclusion filled every corner of the evening.

The elegant surroundings of the Holiday Inn Regent’s Park provided the perfect setting, with the hotel staff helping the event run seamlessly from start to finish. The evening opened with a vibrant performance from PPAS Dance and Performing Arts School, immediately setting the tone for a night that balanced celebration, inspiration and entertainment beautifully.

Following a warm welcome, guests were introduced to the judges for the 2026 Autism Hero Awards. The judging panel included broadcaster and author Wendy Turner Webster; international bestselling author Samantha Lee Howe; journalist and author Steven Smith; GB News presenter Nana Akua; author Tess Eagle Swan. Sadly, beloved actress and national treasure Vicki Michelle and artist Dez LoveArtPix were unable to attend this year’s ceremony, although both remained very much part of the spirit of the event.

Some of the judges take to the stage with Anna Kennedy OBE Nana Akua ,Tess Eagle Swan Steven Smith Samatha Lee Howe Wendy Turner Webster , picture Terry Scott

Then came the main part of the evening — and this is where Dr Anna Kennedy and Aston Avery truly shone.

Hosting an awards ceremony is far harder than people imagine. It requires timing, warmth, discipline and instinct. Too often presenters either rush emotional moments or indulge themselves for far too long. Anna and Aston got the balance exactly right. They moved the evening along effortlessly while still allowing every winner the dignity of their moment. Acceptance speeches were heartfelt and genuine, with several leaving the audience in tears — but never dragging beyond the point where emotion becomes uncomfortable. The pacing of the show was impeccable.

Picture Terry Scott of GBNEW presenter Nana Akua

Even a few minor technical hiccups were handled with professionalism and humour, proving that experienced presenters do not panic under pressure. Instead, they keep the audience engaged and relaxed, which Anna and Aston managed throughout the entire evening.

One of the most moving highlights of the night came when singer Kieron Lee received the Charity Supporter of the Year Award. Kieron, who appeared on the BBC programme The Assembly and famously performed for Nicola Sturgeon, delivered a deeply emotional performance that left many guests visibly moved. His beautiful singing brought the room to silence and reminded everyone exactly why evenings like this matter so much.

A super star in the making Keiron lee with Anna Kennedy OBE picture Terry Scott

Television and acting royalty Gary Webster also took to the stage to present one of the awards, bringing charm and warmth to the evening. Meanwhile, internationally bestselling author and patron Samantha Lee Howe announced that she will dedicate her upcoming film festival next year to supporting the charity — another touching example of the loyalty Anna Kennedy inspires in those around her.

One the judges and patron of the charity Samatha lee Howe and Autism’s and Art Piluca artist , Both presented awards on the evening .

Another hugely popular moment came when Emmerdale actor Bradley Riches received the Celebrity Role Model Award. Bradley, accompanied by his husband Scott Johnston, was also announced as an official patron of the charity, receiving huge applause from the audience. His openness, visibility and support for the autistic community have made him an important role model for many young people, and his warmth throughout the evening was genuinely lovely to witness.

Acting legend Gary Webster with celebrity. Doctor Khan and podcaster Lesley Reynolds winner Jack Roberts

Television personality and celebrity doctor Dr Khan, alongside his wife Lesley Reynolds, not only presented an award but were also among the evening’s sponsors. Their support once again highlighted the broad range of people and organisations coming together behind Anna Kennedy Online and its important work.

What made the Autism Hero Awards particularly special was that the focus never drifted away from the winners themselves. Too many award ceremonies become showcases for celebrities or the presenter but here the spotlight remained firmly on the extraordinary individuals, families, carers, businesses and community champions making a genuine difference within the autism community.

Among the evening’s winners were Anais Meaker with Misha, who received the Human Animal Bond Award; Charlie Byford, winner of Sibling of the Year; Charlotte Faulconbridge, who won the Creative Arts & Media Award; and Evan Barnwell, named Young Person of the Year.

Jack Roberts received the Personal Achievement Award, while Ty Bowring was honoured with the Outstanding Community Award. Jonathan Andrews received the Lifetime Award in recognition of his ongoing dedication and contribution, and Javanna Jack-Blake was celebrated with the Parent/Carer Award.

Anais Meaker with Misha, and Anna Kennedy OBE picture. Terry Scott

Other winners included Craig Henderson, who received the Leading Business Award; Danny Yates, honoured with the Outstanding Education Award; and Aimee Bradley, who won the People’s Autism Hero Award. Dr Carol Stott was also presented with a Special Recognition Award for her outstanding contribution and support.

Each winner brought their own story, emotion and inspiration to the stage, reminding everyone in the audience why the Autism Hero Awards continue to grow in importance every single year.

Perhaps the greatest compliment that can be paid to Dr Anna Kennedy OBE and Aston Avery is this: the evening never felt like hard work. It flowed naturally, it entertained, it inspired and it respected the audience’s time — something surprisingly rare in the world of charity galas and award ceremonies.

By the end of the evening, there was still plenty of time left for guests to dance, socialise and celebrate together. People were smiling, emotional, energised and already talking about next year’s event.

In a world where some award shows have become bloated, self-indulgent affairs, the Autism Hero Awards reminded everyone what these evenings should really be about: community, kindness, recognition and joy.

Dr Anna Kennedy OBE and Aston Avery showed exactly how it should be done — and they did it with heart, humour and genuine class. I, for one, cannot wait for next year.

All of this would not be possible with out the true life time achievement who works quietly behind the scenes Lisa Robins a huge thank-you .

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2Shades Standing Against Antisemitism in London

What is happening on our streets and across the world right now is deeply unsettling, and for many of my Jewish friends, it’s not just something they’re reading about—it’s something they’re feeling, living, and navigating every single day. In a city like London—a place that prides itself on diversity, tolerance, and community—there is simply no excuse for hatred to rear its head in any form. Whether it’s whispered prejudice, online abuse, or something far more frightening, it chips away at the very fabric of who we are supposed to be. What happened in Golders Green this week was, quite simply, horrific. A community shaken, people frightened, and a stark reminder that hate is not something happening “somewhere else”—it’s here, and it needs calling out.

Let’s be absolutely clear: standing against antisemitism is not a political statement, it’s a human one. Nobody should feel unsafe because of their faith, their heritage, or who they are. And in the same breath, we need to start drawing a line when it comes to how we allow global tensions to spill into spaces that are meant to unite us. Take the Eurovision Song Contest—a celebration of music, creativity, and shared culture. It is not, and should never become, a battleground for political or religious division. At 2Shades, we proudly support Israel’s participation in Eurovision, just as we support every artist who takes to that stage to share their talent. Music is meant to bring people together, not tear them apart.

The arts, in all their forms, should be a sanctuary—a place where differences are not just accepted but celebrated. Actors, performers, musicians—whatever their background or belief—should feel safe to express themselves without fear of hostility or intimidation. The idea that someone could be targeted or made to feel unsafe simply for their identity is not only unacceptable, it’s a betrayal of everything the creative world stands for. From the West End to grassroots venues, the message must be consistent: there is no room for hate here.

At 2Shades, we’ve always championed voices, celebrated difference, and stood firmly on the side of inclusion—and that doesn’t waver when times get tough. Terror, in any form, is designed to divide, to instil fear, and to make people retreat into silence. But silence is not an option. We stand with our Jewish community—today and always—with solidarity, compassion, and a refusal to let hate win. Because if we allow fear to dictate how we treat one another, then we’ve already lost something far more valuable than we realise.

This is about unity. It’s about dignity. And it’s about remembering that London—our London—is strongest when it stands together, not apart.

Noam Bettan, Israel’s 2026 Eurovision contestant, poses for a photo in Neve Ilan, near Jerusalem, January 21, 2026. (Yael Abas Guisky/Flash90)

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Come on lads, you are nearly there


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As Autism Champion Rich Stevens and Christopher Outrum ‘Kip” power through the final miles of their extraordinary charity walk, all eyes—and hearts—are firmly behind them. Taking on an incredible 50-mile challenge to reach Watford Football Club in time for kick-off against Charlton on Easter Monday, their journey is fast becoming one of the most inspiring grassroots fundraising efforts of the year.

Walking against the clock, testing endurance, grit and sheer determination, Rich has set out to discover just how far he can push himself within 24 hours—all for a cause that means so much. Alongside Zoe Stevens, whose support and strength have been unwavering every step of the way, this is more than just a physical challenge; it is a powerful act of solidarity for the autism community

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Their mission is clear: to raise vital funds and awareness for Anna Kennedy Online, a charity renowned for its fearless, hands-on approach to promoting autism acceptance worldwide. Founded by Anna Kennedy OBE, the organisation continues to break boundaries, challenge perceptions and create meaningful change for individuals and families across the globe.

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This is where passion meets purpose. Every mile walked is a step towards greater understanding, greater inclusion, and greater support for those living with autism. From schools to communities, from local initiatives to global campaigns, Anna Kennedy Online has built a movement that refuses to be ignored—and it is exactly this spirit that Rich and Christopher are championing.

2Shades Magazine is proud to stand with them. Supporting real people making a real difference is what community-driven media is all about, and this challenge captures that perfectly. There is no glamour here—just determination, heart and a refusal to give up. Every blister tells a story. Every step carries meaning.

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As they close in on that final stretch, one thing is certain: they are not walking alone. They are backed by a community that believes in what they are doing and the difference it will make.

If you’ve been inspired by their journey, now is the moment to show your support. Every donation—big or small—will go directly towards the life-changing work of Anna Kennedy Online, helping to fund vital initiatives and continue raising awareness on a global scale.

Support Rich Stevens and Zoe Stevens here:
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Denise Welch Brings the House Down in Her Jimmy Choos at the British Diversity Awards 2026


Denise Welch Brings the House Down in Her Jimmy Choos at the British Diversity Awards 2026

It was all glitz and glamour last night at the 2026 British Diversity Awards—an event that once again proved why it remains one of the most important evenings in the UK’s cultural and social calendar. A glittering yet deeply meaningful celebration, the awards honour those driving equality, inclusion and representation across every corner of British society.

Held at the prestigious JW Marriott Grosvenor House, the ceremony brought together a powerful mix of activists, celebrities, campaigners and changemakers, all united by a shared commitment to progress.

My own claim to fame? I was the first to get founder—and, as actress Denise Welch famously described her, “the head lesbian of the world”—Linda Riley into full make-up and a black-tie suit. In fact, I even managed to get Denise herself into men’s tailoring.

But enough about me.

Linda Riley, whose vision continues to shape the awards into a global platform for recognition and change, remains a pioneering force in LGBTQ+ visibility and inclusion. She has spent decades championing underrepresented voices, and through the British Diversity Awards has created more than just an event—she has built a movement that celebrates courage, resilience and authenticity in all its forms.

The 2026 ceremony carried an unmistakable sense of urgency as well as celebration. In a world still grappling with inequality, the awards served as both recognition and reminder—that diversity is not a trend, but a necessity. The room was filled with individuals and organisations who have gone beyond performative gestures, delivering tangible change in workplaces, communities and public life.

Denise Welch brought the house down with her trademark humour, joking about her “Jimmy Choos” while speaking passionately as a long-time supporter of diversity and inclusion initiatives. Her presence underscored the importance of allyship within the entertainment industry. Known for her outspoken nature and advocacy, Welch represents a generation of public figures increasingly using their platforms to amplify marginalised voices.

The red carpet itself was a dazzling display of individuality and expression, with stars embracing fashion as a form of identity. Among them, Christine McGuinness turned heads in a striking black ensemble, embodying both glamour and confidence as she joined fellow attendees in celebrating the evening’s message. Sinitta turned heads with not only her beauty but her personality she is a long term supporter of the British Diversity awards

But beyond the glamour, the true power of the night lay in the stories being honoured. The British Diversity Awards recognise individuals and organisations across a wide spectrum—race, gender, disability, LGBTQ+ rights, age and social mobility—reflecting the richness and complexity of modern Britain. Each award tells a story of perseverance: barriers broken, stereotypes challenged and communities uplifted.

What sets these awards apart is their authenticity. Unlike many industry events, they are rooted in lived experience. They shine a light not only on high-profile figures but also on grassroots activists and unsung heroes—those working tirelessly behind the scenes to create a more inclusive society. This balance between celebrity and community gives the event its unique integrity.

Inside the ballroom, the atmosphere was one of both celebration and reflection. Applause was not just for achievement, but for courage—the courage to speak out, to stand up and to demand better. In many ways, the awards act as a mirror to society, reflecting both how far we have come and how much further we must go.

For Linda Riley and her team, the mission remains clear: to educate, inspire and empower. As the evening drew to a close, one thing was abundantly evident—the British Diversity Awards are not just about recognition; they are about momentum. They remind us that diversity is dynamic, inclusion is ongoing, and equality requires constant vigilance.

In a city as vibrant and varied as London, the 2026 awards felt particularly resonant. They captured the spirit of a nation evolving—sometimes slowly, sometimes imperfectly—but always moving forward. And thanks to the tireless work of individuals like Linda Riley, alongside the visible support of figures such as Denise Welch, that progress is not only acknowledged, but celebrated in style.

Ultimately, the British Diversity Awards 2026 were more than a night of accolades—they were a statement. A statement that diversity matters, that representation matters, and that the voices of many will always be stronger than the silence of a few.

And as for style—well, I wore a suit painted by Piluca, the Spanish artist who champions diversity through her work. Denise’s husband, artist Lincoln Townley, also embraced the moment in Jimmy Choo. Fashion, after all, was as bold and expressive as the message itself.

The evening was topped off by the wonderful Blue with Riley joining as a fifth member . Duncan was looking particularly hot .

Denise Welch with Lincoln Townley and Toby Salvietto , Ryan Kay and me in my Piluca Jacket

BRITISH DIVERSITY AWARDS 2026 – WINNERS

Lifetime Achievement Award

  • Sir Lenny Henry

Media Champion of the Year

  • Chris McCausland
  • Ria Hebden

Athlete Empowering Positive Change

  • Tess Howard MBE

Community Project of the Year

  • Trans is Human

Head of Diversity of the Year

  • Reema Samuel-Lewis (Sky UK Ltd)

Changemaker of the Year

  • Natalie Ojevah MBE (Barclays)

Diversity Team of the Year

  • Community and Culture Team (CBRE)

Charity or Not-for-Profit of the Year

  • HAWA Multicultural Services CIC

Inspirational Role Model of the Year

  • Tokeer Ahmed (Capgemini)

Outstanding Employee Network of the Year

  • Menopause Network (Barratt Redrow)

Outstanding Women’s Network of the Year

  • WiNTR – Women in Non-Traditional Roles (National Grid)

Outstanding Ability Network of the Year

  • RespectAbility (Manchester Airports Group)

Outstanding LGBTQIA Network of the Year

  • LGBTQ+ at Sky (Sky UK Ltd)

Outstanding Ethnicity Network of the Year

  • REACH (Kingsley Napley)

Social Mobility Initiative of the Year

  • Digilearning x Accenture Social Mobility Month (Accenture)

Diversity Champion of the Year

  • Brendan Hegarty (NatWest Social & Community Capital)

Global Diversity Initiative of the Year

  • ‘Equity Engine’ Initiative (King)

Company of the Year

  • BDO UK

HIGHLY COMMENDED

Community Project of the Year

  • Ability Today (Academy for Disabled Journalists)

Head of Diversity of the Year

  • Rebecca Ormond (SMBC Group)

Changemaker of the Year

  • Dr Kamran Iqbal (Chiesi UK)

Diversity Team of the Year

  • Global Diversity and Inclusion Team (Standard Chartered)

Inspirational Role Model of the Year

  • Jo Powell (Deutsche Bank)

Athlete Empowering Positive Change

  • Ellie Simmonds MBE

Outstanding Employee Network of the Year

  • Journey ERG (HSBC UK)

Outstanding Women’s Network of the Year

  • Connected Women (ScottishPower)

Outstanding Ability Network of the Year

  • DHL Supply Chain Abilities Alliance (DHL)

Outstanding LGBTQIA Network of the Year

  • Wipro Europe Pride ERG (Wipro)

Outstanding Ethnicity Network of the Year

  • Race Equality Network (University of Birmingham)

Social Mobility Initiative of the Year

  • Mental Health Research For All (NIHR Applied Research Collaboration North Thames)

Diversity Champion of the Year

  • Charlotte Helliwell (Lockton)

Global Diversity Initiative of the Year

  • Building Forever (De Beers Group)

Company of the Year

  • ScottishPower

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Fashion pictures of Linda and Denise taken by Graham Martin.

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Scenes with Girls

Scenes with Girls — Sass, Spark and a Slice of London Life ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

If you like your theatre sharp, stylish and just a little bit chaotic, then Scenes with Girls at the Union Theatre is one to put firmly on your cultural radar.

Presented by Two Souls Productions and penned by the brilliantly observant Miriam Battye, this deliciously modern piece throws us headfirst into the tangled web of female friendship, dating disasters and the emotional rollercoaster that is being a young woman in London. It’s witty, it’s raw, and at times it cuts a little too close to the bone — just how we like it.

Now let’s talk talent.

Imogen Peck is, quite simply, one to watch. She owns the stage with a confidence that feels entirely natural, never forced. There’s a magnetism about her — that elusive “it factor” — and you find yourself drawn in every time she speaks. Mark my words, this is a rising star in the making.

Imogen Peck

Eleanor Hague, meanwhile, brings a different flavour. With a face absolutely destined for the camera, she has that cinematic quality casting directors dream about. Her performance is a little more acting alone in places in other she commands the stage , but there’s a quiet intrigue there — the kind that suggests, given time, she could be a real force both on stage and screen.

Eleanor Hague,

The script? Oh, it’s clever. Very clever. Battye captures the rhythm of modern conversation with razor-sharp precision — the awkward pauses, the brutal honesty, the humour that masks something deeper. It’s brilliantly written and packed with moments that will have you wincing in recognition.

That said — and we keep it honest at 2Shades — acting is reacting, and in places the connection between performers doesn’t quite land. There are moments where the energy dips slightly, where you want that extra spark, that sharper exchange. But here’s the thing: this is exactly what makes the production exciting. With a little more time, a little more polish, this could be exceptional.

And let’s not forget the unsung heroes — the technical team. Slick, seamless and quietly impressive, they support the piece beautifully without ever overshadowing it.

As for the venue, the Union Theatre remains one of London’s best-kept secrets. Intimate, atmospheric and full of charm, it’s the kind of place where theatre feels alive. Pro tip: arrive early, grab a drink, and soak up the vibe — the staff are as fabulous as the performances.

All in all, Scenes with Girls is a bold, funny and promising showcase of emerging talent. It may not be perfect, but darling, it absolutely has potential — and that’s far more exciting.

Go. Watch. And say you saw them before they were stars. 

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Why Piers Morgan is on the side of The LGBTQ+ community .

Why Piers Morgan Might Miss a Beat on Mental Health — But He Is on the Side of the LGBTQ+ Community

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“I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.” — Voltaire

Let’s get one thing straight about Piers Morgan: he is no homophobe. I am re-running a feature I penned around the time he walked out of Good Morning Britain. No, I do not agree with his views on mental health for the most part, but he is entitled to his opinion. I was dumbfounded that he did not take Kevin Spacey to task over giving Elton John as a moral character reference. Having been a guest as a teenager at the Rocket Man’s house, I believe the truth will come out. His interview with the deluded TikTok personality HSTikkyTokky showed his stance against homophobia, and I will be writing about that in my column next month. For now, please read why Piers is, in fact, an LGBTQ+ ally.

Steven Smith takes a look at the meteoric rise of what could arguably be the ultimate school bully, Piers Morgan. He asks: as an adult society that often does not move far beyond the playground, do we actually revel in Morgan’s Machiavellian ways? Is he a friend to the LGBTQ+ community, and should he be fired from Good Morning Britain for his apparent sexist views and for questioning whether we should teach children that there are 100 genders?

Victoria Wood is about to come on stage at the Royal Albert Hall, and I am in the box, hosted by her PR, Neil Reading, with a variety of celebrities, journalists, and media types. The lovely Dale Winton is chatting away to me—fabulously bronzed, styled to perfection, charming and witty. Everyone is excited about the show when suddenly the air changes.

RIP Dale Winton

“Oh God, no!” Dale shrieks, as if Maleficent herself had appeared to cast a spell over us. Some of the other guests look uncomfortable too. No—it is not Maleficent. It is Piers Morgan, then the youngest editor of the Daily Mirror. Dale does all he can to avoid him, but Piers makes a beeline, grinning from ear to ear. “How’s that bottom doing, Dale?” Dale’s tan deepens two shades. “Fine, Piers, thanks,” he replies, avoiding eye contact. The penny drops. The Daily Mirror had splashed that Dale had been paying for colonic irrigation treatments at a clinic in London’s trendy Beauchamp Place—the same clinic frequented by Princess Diana. Somehow, they had photos of him leaving.

If Dale had turned around and said, “Oh, just great! You should try it, Piers—wash some of that rubbish you write straight out of you!” I suspect both men might have laughed, and Piers might even have offered him a column. The scenario did make me chuckle. Piers was goading his subject like a provocateur returning to the scene of the crime. It was no big deal—but Dale was private, kind, and is still sadly missed.

The next “victim” was Anthea Turner, splashed across the tabloids during her very public relationship scandal involving Grant Bovey. Piers had that unmistakable school bully energy—unable to resist the poke. Yet here’s the paradox: he also wanted to be one of them, a celebrity himself.

Let’s be clear—Piers Morgan is a genius. Rupert Murdoch made him editor of the now-defunct News of the World at just 29. He has the rare ability to remain calm while provoking others—an ability that later defined his interviewing style. Sometimes uncomfortable, often gripping, always headline-making. And when he chooses, he can be kind.

At a wedding with Barbara Windsor and her husband Scott Mitchell, Piers joined our table. He was delightful, charming, engaging. Until a PR woman confronted him. Piers remained calm while she became increasingly furious, eventually storming off. He had that effect—controlled chaos.

Under his leadership, the Daily Mirror became more progressive on gay issues, especially compared to rival tabloids. He helped elevate voices like Sue Carroll, a fierce advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and a dear friend of mine. He also co-created the Pride of Britain Awards alongside Peter Willis. But let’s not kid ourselves—we still have a long way to go before tabloids are truly safe ground for the LGBTQ+ community.

After the Abu Ghraib scandal and other controversies, which he has always denied wrongdoing in, Piers was sacked. You might expect him to disappear. Instead, like a phoenix, he came back stronger. From television appearances to America’s Got Talent, from winning The Celebrity Apprentice under Donald Trump, to taking over Larry King’s CNN slot, he rebuilt himself as a global media personality.

And here’s the key point: on LGBTQ+ issues, Piers Morgan has consistently shown support. He has challenged so-called conversion therapy advocates on air, telling one, “Shut up, you bigot.” He has supported figures like India Willoughby and publicly backed trans rights in debates. There is simply no credible evidence that he is anti-gay.

Now critics call for him to be cancelled—over gender debates, over tone, over clashes with guests. But should he be fired? No. If we silence every voice we disagree with, we risk losing something vital: dialogue, understanding, and progress.

I want to hear opposing views—even uncomfortable ones. That is how we measure how far we still have to go. We have made huge progress. Ten years ago, LGBTQ+ role models speaking in schools would have been unthinkable. But progress requires conversation, not cancellation.

Yes, Piers gets it wrong, especially on mental health. I believe he owes Denise Welch an apology. But he also reflects a segment of public opinion we cannot ignore. We must challenge hatred, but not silence debate. Because if we push dissenting voices underground, we risk something worse: backlash.

So no, I do not agree with everything Piers Morgan says. But I would still want him on my side.

And one final thought: can someone explain the “100 genders” to me? Not out of defiance, but because I want to understand. Asking questions does not make someone a bigot—it makes them human.

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Big Rob The Gentle Giant who becomes the star of Last One Standing

Big Rob: The Gentle Giant Who Became the Heart of Last One Standing

Big Rob becomes the gently sensitive giant who has emerged as the standout star of Last One Standing: Handcuffed.

Known to many through his work on OnlyFans and often described as a “gentle giant,” Rob has proven himself to be one of the most compelling and quietly powerful figures in the show. What makes his journey so impactful is not simply the contrast between his profession and the programme’s premise, but the dignity, patience, and emotional intelligence he has brought to every moment on screen. In doing so, he has not only represented himself with pride, but has also offered a refreshingly human portrayal of the LGBTQ+ community to a broad—and at times sceptical—audience.

I am a huge supporter of Andy Lee and his gang of merry, mostly straight men. After all, for years straight men have ogled and slobbered over Playboy bunnies and the like, with very little chance of ever fulfilling those fantasies. So in equal measure, why shouldn’t someone be able to make a living from fulfilling the fantasies of others?

But what this show reminds us—powerfully—is that behind labels and professions, people are human. From the outset, pairing Rob with Charlie Gray—a self-described prude, traditional housewife, and devout Catholic—could have been a recipe for conflict or caricature. On paper, they represent two vastly different worlds. Yet what has unfolded is something far more nuanced and, at times, unexpectedly moving.

Rob has consistently approached Charlie with kindness, humour, and respect. He has never mocked her beliefs or discomfort, but instead has met her exactly where she is. That, in itself, is a powerful statement: difference does not have to lead to division.

Throughout the series, viewers have witnessed moments of tension, vulnerability, and even emotional breakdowns. These are not manufactured dramas, but genuine human reactions to an intense and unusual situation. In those moments, Rob has shown remarkable emotional resilience. He has remained grounded, often acting as the calmer presence, even when the situation could easily have pushed him into frustration. This ability to hold space for another person—especially someone so different from himself—speaks volumes about his character.

The now-infamous shower scene, while played for awkward humour, actually revealed something deeper. Rob’s willingness to simply be himself, without embarrassment or bravado, contrasted with Charlie’s visible anxiety. Her decision to wear a bright yellow blindfold—despite already facing away—was both comical and telling. Yet Rob did not exploit the moment. He handled it with sensitivity, allowing the humour to exist without making Charlie feel exposed or ridiculed. In that moment, he demonstrated respect not just for her boundaries, but for the wider audience watching.

Representation matters, and what Rob has brought to the screen is a version of LGBTQ+ identity that is layered, grounded, and relatable. Too often, individuals from the community—particularly those in the adult industry—are reduced to stereotypes or dismissed entirely. Rob challenges that narrative. He shows that someone can be part of that world and still be thoughtful, kind, emotionally aware, and worthy of respect. That balance is rarely shown on mainstream television, and it is precisely why his presence feels so important.

Moreover, his journey with Charlie subtly challenges preconceived ideas on both sides. For viewers who may share Charlie’s traditional views, Rob becomes a bridge—someone who defies expectation and invites empathy. For LGBTQ+ viewers, he offers representation that is unapologetic yet deeply human. He does not try to sanitise who he is, nor does he lean into stereotype; he simply exists as himself, and that authenticity resonates.

As the competition continues and the pair remain in the running, it is clear that Rob’s contribution goes far beyond entertainment. He has brought heart, humour, and humanity to the show. In doing so, Big Rob has not only done himself proud—he has represented the LGBTQ+ community with grace, strength, and quiet brilliance.

Rob is someone you would want on your side—and someone who absolutely belongs on our screens, just as he is with his boxers up .

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A DEDICATION TO Christopher Garnham

Christopher Garnham

By Steven Smith

A Brilliant Artist Lost Too Soon

It is early evening in Earl’s Court London.  It seems like it has never stopped raining for the last seven days and tonight is no different. Earl’s Court is an area that has been my home at times in my life and a playground since past my sixteenth birthday. This evening I am meeting a friend that I have known very fondly for over 49 years. He can be Machiavellian and entertaining but never boring.  He has some very exciting news to tell me and I can hardly wait. 

I would like to share the whole story, but it is personal My friend is adopted and the tip of the exciting news was he had found his biological mother after 70 odd years. With technology being what it is and Ai with just his mother first name and last name a friend had tracked her down. Sadly, she passed in a nursing home in Ipswich several years ago.

The news that he had a brother was something that was quite unexpected . A brother named Christopher Paul Garnham . He too like my friend and me had lived in Earl’s Court an artist and gifted portrait photographer . It was hard to believe what he told me next his brother has passed like his mother, tragegley on the Marchioness.

So many beautiful talented people passed on the Marchioness in fact my friend mother had spent her latter years campaigning for jutice for the victims.  I said this is quite a story  But it got me thinking how many artist and talnted people who light had burned brightly but so briefly that may be some what forgotten 

My friend will one day write about his feeling and his side of things but I wanted to celebrate  Christopher and highlight his story in 2Shades and dedicate this to my dear friend. 

“Christopher Garnham’s portraits of artists including Gilbert & George, Paula Rego and Elvis Costello are preserved today in the collection of the National Portrait Gallery, ensuring that his brief but brilliant career remains part of Britain’s cultural record.”

London’s creative history is filled with artists whose light burned brightly but briefly. One such figure is the gifted portrait photographer Christopher Paul Garnham, a man whose work captured the cultural energy of the 1980s but whose life ended tragically before his career had truly reached its peak.

Born on 1 March 1958 in Ipswich, Suffolk, Chris Garnham grew up in a period when British photography was undergoing a transformation. The late 1970s and early 1980s were a time when magazines, fashion, music and art were colliding to create a new visual culture. Garnham would become part of that movement.

From an early age he showed an instinctive eye for images and composition. His creative path eventually led him to London, where he studied at the Royal College of Art, one of the most prestigious art institutions in the world. There he initially trained as an illustrator, but photography soon became the medium through which he would express his vision most clearly.

The camera suited Garnham’s temperament. He was fascinated by people — their faces, their presence, and the stories they carried with them. Portraiture became his natural language.

By the early 1980s Garnham had established himself as a promising young photographer within London’s thriving creative scene. This was a period when publications such as The Face and Blitz were redefining style journalism. These magazines celebrated a new generation of designers, musicians, writers and artists, and Garnham’s portraits fitted perfectly into that vibrant cultural landscape.

His photographs were distinctive. Rather than simply recording a likeness, Garnham sought to reveal something deeper about his subjects. There was a quiet intensity in his portraits — an ability to capture both vulnerability and strength within the same frame.

Many of his subjects came from the world he moved within: artists, writers, musicians and cultural figures. Among those he photographed were notable names such as Gilbert & George, Paula Rego and Elvis Costello, figures who themselves defined British art and culture in the late twentieth century. 

Gilbert and George by Christopher Garnham

His work gained increasing recognition within the photography world. In 1984 he was named Photographer of the Year by Blitz magazine, a major accolade at the time and a clear sign that his talent had been noticed. 

Two years later his photographs were included in the National Portrait Gallery exhibition “Twenty for Today”, a group show highlighting some of the most exciting young portrait photographers working in Britain at the time. 

The National Portrait Gallery would go on to acquire many of his photographs for its permanent collection, ensuring that Garnham’s work would continue to be seen and appreciated long after his death. 

During this period Garnham lived in Earl’s Court, at Flat 5, 2 Neville Place . In the 1980s Earl’s Court was something of a creative enclave. Photographers, artists, musicians and actors were drawn to the area because of its relatively affordable rents and its proximity to London’s cultural life. It was a place where ideas were exchanged over late-night conversations and where collaborations often began.

Elvis Costello

Friends remembered Garnham as thoughtful, intelligent and quietly passionate about his craft. He was dedicated to his work but never arrogant about his talent. Like many artists of his generation, he was part of a community rather than a solitary figure.

Then came the night that would change everything.

Self portrait

On 20 August 1989, Garnham joined friends for what was meant to be a joyful evening on the River Thames. The group had boarded the pleasure boat Marchioness, which was hosting a birthday celebration. The boat travelled along the river carrying a crowd of young people — many of them from London’s creative and cultural circles.

In the early hours of the morning, tragedy struck.

At approximately 1:46 am, near Southwark Bridge, the Marchioness collided with a dredger called the Bowbelle. The smaller vessel was struck from behind and quickly capsized. Within minutes the boat had sunk.

The disaster remains one of the worst peacetime tragedies on the Thames.

Fifty-one people lost their lives that night.

Christopher Garnham was among them. He was only 31 years old.

The news sent shockwaves through London’s artistic community. Many of those who had known him were still at the beginning of their own careers. The sudden loss of such a talented photographer was deeply felt.

For Garnham’s friends and colleagues, the tragedy was not just the loss of a person but the loss of a future — the photographs he would have taken, the artists he would have portrayed, the stories he would have told through his lens.

And yet his work did not disappear.

The photographs he left behind continue to speak for him.

Today Garnham’s portraits remain preserved in the National Portrait Gallery, where they form part of the visual record of Britain’s cultural life in the 1980s. Through these images we glimpse the creative world in which he moved — a world of artists, musicians and thinkers whose ideas helped shape modern culture.

His photographs possess a rare quality. They feel both intimate and timeless. The viewer senses that Garnham approached his subjects not merely as a photographer but as a fellow participant in the creative conversation of his generation.

Looking at those portraits now, one cannot help wondering what Garnham might have achieved had he lived longer. Many photographers only reach their full artistic maturity later in life. For Garnham, that journey had barely begun.

Yet even in the relatively short span of his career he left an imprint.

In many ways his story reflects the fragile nature of artistic life. Talent, opportunity and recognition were all coming together for him just as fate intervened. His work reminds us how important it is to preserve and honour the contributions of artists whose voices were silenced too early.

Christopher Garnham may not be a household name today, but within the circles of photography and portraiture he is remembered as a gifted observer of people — a man who could look through a camera and reveal something honest and human.

More than three decades after his death, his images still carry that quiet power.

And perhaps that is the greatest tribute any photographer can hope for.

The artist may be gone, but the faces he captured continue to look back at us.

https://www.npg.org.uk

https://www.londonmuseum.org.uk/collections/london-stories/marchioness-disaster/

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The Arzner Cinema

Me having a bad hair day with gorgeous actress and star of “The Visitor ” Amy Kingsmill .

The Arzner: A Safe Space for LGBTQ+ Cinema Lovers

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On a rain-soaked Friday night, I took the walk from London Bridge to see what everyone had been talking about: The Arzner — London’s only dedicated LGBTQ+ cinema, tucked away in Bermondsey. The heavens had opened, and by the time I arrived, soaked and slightly windswept, ducking beneath its glowing sign felt like a small act of salvation.

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Stepping inside, it became immediately clear that this is no ordinary picture house. The Arzner feels less like a traditional cinema and more like a long-awaited living room for queer film lovers — and, I should add, for anyone who simply loves great cinema. This is not an exclusive “gay bubble”; it is a welcoming, inclusive cultural space.

The low lighting, rich red tones, Everything here feels thoughtfully designed. And before you even enter the screening room, let me tell you: the bar is outstanding. From beautifully crafted cocktails to quality wines and excellent non-alcoholic options, it is easily five-star. Arrive early, or even pop in just for a drink — you won’t regret it.

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Named after Dorothy Arzner, the trailblazing Hollywood director who forged a remarkable career as an openly gay woman during the studio era, the cinema wears its heritage proudly yet lightly. Portraits of queer cultural icons line the walls, drinks are passed across the bar, and familiar faces greet one another. Arriving alone, yet never feeling lonely, is one of the evening’s first quiet triumphs.

The venue occupies the former site of Kino Bermondsey, but any sense of corporate uniformity has been replaced by a carefully curated personality. Its programming is unapologetically queer, spanning restored classics, contemporary independent releases, international features, and short-film showcases that amplify emerging LGBTQ+ voices.

On this particular Friday, I had been invited by my friend Amy Rose, an artist and one of the organisers of the London Fetish Film Festival. Now, before anyone gets their knickers in a twist, fetish cinema has grown significantly over recent decades, and this well-established three-day festival is now in its seventh year. The eclectic crowd alone demonstrated just how diverse and fascinating the scene has become.

The first film I saw, The Visitor (2024), featured stunning cinematography and a memorable soundtrack. Imagine Federico Fellini meeting an early, less camp version of John Waters — complete with what may be the worst wig in cinematic history. Even Divine might have fainted. The screening was followed by a lively Q&A with director Bruce LaBruce.

On Sunday, the programme shifted to documentaries, which proved genuinely eye-opening. For anyone interested in sexuality, identity, and the human mind, these films are well worth exploring. The performers and contributors certainly went the extra mile.

What truly distinguishes The Arzner is its atmosphere. The buzz is friendly and eclectic. Mainstream cinemas can often feel anonymous, even indifferent, but here the staff introduce films with genuine enthusiasm, sharing details about upcoming themed nights and community events.

Regular special screenings, Q&As, and curated seasons ensure that the cinema is not a passing novelty, but an evolving cultural hub. Conversations continue long after the credits roll, with patrons lingering over drinks to debate performances and recommend future screenings. The line between audience and community beautifully blurs.

Technically, the cinema delivers on every level: crisp projection, balanced sound, and comfortable seating that rival any arthouse venue in the capital. Yet it is the emotional resonance that lingers most. Watching queer stories unfold in a room filled largely with LGBTQ+ viewers shifts the energy entirely. Applause feels communal rather than polite, and moments of silence carry collective meaning.

As I eventually stepped back into the rain — still wondering if it would ever end — I couldn’t help smiling at the thought of Noah popping in for “just one cocktail” before watching Brat, the Charlie XCX film, and joking about building an ark by closing time.

Spending time at The Arzner felt like a privilege. It is not merely London’s only LGBTQ+ cinema; it is a statement of permanence and pride in a city where queer spaces have too often been lost to redevelopment. By offering a year-round home for queer film, it provides something far more enduring than novelty.

It offers visibility, celebration, and the simple, radical pleasure of seeing one’s community centred on screen.

And I, for one, am very much looking forward to going back. ps there even a pop up greeting from Stephen Fry to kick your night off ,

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Picture by Amy Rose.