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YOU ARE LOVED

Keeping Robin Windsor’s Legacy Alive Through Love, Support and Community

I came out at the age of 15. One thing I have learned over the years is that being gay is not a choice, so why do so many families make their children and loved ones feel bad for simply being who they are?

Equality should mean exactly that — the same love, respect and support for a gay child as for a heterosexual child. Personally, I prefer to think of us all simply as human beings.

The knock-on effect of rejection can be devastating. In a world already struggling with a mental health crisis, many members of the LGBTQ+ community continue to face unique challenges. Sadly, issues such as substance misuse, alcohol dependency and risky behaviour are often not the root cause of the problem, but symptoms of people trying to cope with loneliness, discrimination, fear and a lack of acceptance.

What is perhaps even more troubling is that the LGBTQ+ community itself can sometimes be unwelcoming. Some of the most judgemental and homophobic attitudes I have encountered have come from other gay people. It is a reminder that kindness, understanding and compassion are needed everywhere.

The suicide rate among LGBTQ+ people remains deeply concerning. That is why I always say that no matter how successful, popular or outwardly happy someone may appear, it is important to take the time to check that they are truly okay. A simple conversation can make all the difference.

That is why I am delighted to introduce You Are Loved CIC.

The loss of Strictly Come Dancing star Robin Windsor sent shockwaves through the dance world, the LGBTQ+ community and the countless lives he touched through his warmth, kindness and generosity. Robin was far more than a talented dancer and television personality. He was a friend, mentor, advocate and source of comfort to many people who were struggling with life’s challenges.

I was fortunate enough to meet Robin Windsor through Anna Kennedy Online, a charity that is very close to my heart. As a Patron of the organisation, I had the privilege of seeing first-hand the kindness, generosity, and compassion that Robin brought to everything he did.

Robin was a tremendous supporter of the autism community and regularly gave his time to help others. He was involved with both Autism’s Got Talent and the Autism Hero Awards, where his warmth and genuine care for people shone through. Whether he was on stage, meeting families, or encouraging participants, Robin always made people feel valued and included.

He possessed that rare ability to light up a room with his smile, his energy, and his infectious enthusiasm. Yet beyond the public persona was a truly beautiful soul—kind-hearted, thoughtful, and deeply compassionate. Robin never underestimated the power of a kind word or a supportive gesture, and his impact on so many lives continues to be felt today.

Those of us who were lucky enough to know him will always remember not only his incredible talent as a dancer but also the love, friendship, and encouragement he gave so freely. Robin’s legacy lives on through the countless people he inspired and the communities he helped to support. https://annakennedyonline.com

Today, his legacy continues through the work of You Are Loved CIC, a remarkable organisation dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ people facing mental health difficulties, loneliness, isolation, substance misuse and a range of other life challenges.

Founded in 2024 by social psychologist and researcher Marc Svensson, You Are Loved CIC was created with a simple but powerful mission: to ensure that nobody in the LGBTQ+ community feels alone when they need help most. The organisation is powered by a passionate team of volunteers who bring together a wide range of skills, expertise and lived experiences. What unites them is a genuine commitment to helping others and creating a safer, more connected community.

Following Robin Windsor’s passing, many of those closest to him wanted to find a meaningful way to honour his memory. Robin was known for his ability to reach out to people who were struggling, offering friendship, encouragement and understanding without judgement. His compassion left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

It was this spirit of kindness that inspired the creation of Ask Bobby, named after Robin’s much-loved nickname. The platform stands as a living tribute to the man who dedicated so much of his life to supporting others. More importantly, it continues the work that Robin cared about deeply: helping people before they reach a point of crisis.

Over the past year, Ask Bobby has grown significantly. The platform has been rebuilt and improved to make it easier for people to access support and find organisations that can help with their specific needs. Whether someone is experiencing loneliness, mental health difficulties, addiction issues or simply needs someone to point them in the right direction, Ask Bobby serves as an invaluable gateway to support services across the United Kingdom.

For many LGBTQ+ individuals, asking for help can feel overwhelming. Feelings of isolation, stigma and fear can prevent people from seeking support until their situation becomes critical. Ask Bobby helps bridge that gap by making information accessible and connecting people with organisations that can offer practical assistance and emotional support.

The impact of this work cannot be overstated. Every day, people across the country are facing challenges that leave them feeling disconnected and alone. By providing access to trusted resources and support networks, Ask Bobby offers hope, reassurance and a reminder that help is available.

However, like many charities and community organisations, You Are Loved CIC now faces a significant challenge.

Despite its success and growing reach, the organisation is almost entirely volunteer-led. Funding remains one of the biggest obstacles to sustaining and expanding its services. To continue developing Ask Bobby and ensure it can support even more people, the charity is seeking to raise £10,000.

This funding would enable the organisation to further improve the platform, add an additional 1,000 support organisations from across the UK and recruit two part-time team members dedicated to maintaining and growing the service. These developments would significantly increase the platform’s reach and effectiveness, helping thousands more people access the support they need.

For those involved, this campaign is about much more than technology or infrastructure. It is about people. It is about ensuring that someone experiencing loneliness at three o’clock in the morning can find help. It is about providing support before a crisis develops. Most importantly, it is about continuing Robin Windsor’s legacy of compassion, kindness and unconditional support.

Robin’s life touched countless hearts, and through Ask Bobby, his influence continues to make a real difference every single day. Every donation, no matter how large or small, helps keep that legacy alive.

At a time when mental health support and community connection are needed more than ever, You Are Loved CIC is proving that love, kindness and understanding remain powerful forces for change.

Robin Windsor believed in helping people. Through Ask Bobby and the work of You Are Loved CIC, that belief continues to inspire hope, build connections and save lives.

To find out more about the campaign or make a donation, please visit the You Are Loved website and help ensure that Robin’s legacy of love and support continues for generations to come.

SUPPORT ROBIN WINDSOR’S LEGACY

You Are Loved CIC is raising £10,000 to help expand Ask Bobby, the LGBTQ+ support platform created in memory of Strictly Come Dancing star Robin Windsor.

The funding will help:
• Add 1,000 additional support organisations across the UK
• Improve and develop the Ask Bobby platform
• Recruit two part-time team members to maintain and grow the service
• Ensure more LGBTQ+ people can access help before reaching a point of crisis

Every donation, no matter how small, will help continue Robin’s legacy of compassion, kindness and support for those facing mental health challenges, loneliness, isolation and other life difficulties.

To make a donation, please visit:

https://youareloved.org.uk/donate

“A simple act of kindness can change someone’s life. Help us keep Robin’s legacy alive.”

Johnny says he is ok

By Steven Smith

Johnny says he is ok. Johnny is bright – he dazzles and is always the life and soul of any party He is kind and caring, always one to lean on, and is everyone’s friend we all know his name.

Johnny says he is ok. He smiles and gives you that wink. It looks like the world is at his feet.

Johnny says he is ok. It looks like he wears his heart on his sleeve. But you see what he wants you to see. A cleverly crafted mask camouflages the pain and sadness, often caressing his soul as trauma becomes his good friend.

Johnny says he is ok. He touches you, makes you feel good and tells you are going to be alright. not to worry and that he is here for you to talk.

Johnny is going to be ok. You see Johnny’s eyes sparkle with love and, as you walk away, you know in your heart he is always happy.

Johnny all ok as he dances home alone, looking at the stars and the moon. They wave and ask him if anyone really knows who Johnny is? Does anyone feel his hurt or see the darkness covering him as he smiles and entertains?

Johnny says he is going to be ok as he turns the key to his flat. Loneliness waits as the darkness flies in before him. They both beckon Johnny; they know who Johnny is and if he just takes their hand, it will all be ok. The pain will go away.

`It is so simple open the bathroom cabinets and take the pills. Hey, let’s celebrate. We can wash it down with alcohol. Come, says the darkness. Lay down with me. Loneliness is just leaving. Close your eyes, sleep in my arms. I promise you at last Johnny you will be ok.

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David Nailers Book Reviews and chat .

David Nailer’s Book Reviews Are Back, Darlings

Hello darlings, I’m back—with an interview with the divine darling of poetry, Joy Jewett, and some fabulous book reviews. Stand by for my own column, sweetie—it will be honest, a little wicked, and a full-on bitch fest that will have you laughing. Coming this April.

But first, a chat with Joy.

https://www.joyfjewett.com/about-joy

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Beauty, Brains and a Poet’s Soul — A Supermodel in Her Own Words

In a world obsessed with image, she offers something far more enduring: depth. Model, author, and keen observer of human nature, she sits down with David to discuss the passions that shaped her, the poetry that moves her, and the moments that make her laugh.

David: What was your childhood passion?
Joy: My childhood passion was always reading. While others played with dolls, I found comfort and excitement in books. I could spend hours completely immersed in stories—it was my own little world.

David: How do you feel when you write?
Joy: Writing, for me, is almost an out-of-body, spiritual experience. I am deeply drawn to human emotion—I observe people, listen to their stories, and then transform those feelings into poetry. It’s incredibly personal, yet universal at the same time.

David: Who are your favourite authors?
Joy: In poetry, I greatly admire the Swedish poet Tomas Tranströmer and the incomparable Maya Angelou. When it comes to classic literature, I love Shelley, James Joyce, and, of course, the Brontë sisters. Their depth and timelessness continue to inspire me.

David: When did you last laugh?
Joy: Just this morning. A friend from Sweden said to me, “Why don’t you have a man in your life? Are you just too cold-hearted?” My response was, “Why do you assume I have a heart?” We both laughed—it was one of those wonderfully sharp, unexpected moments.

David: What is your idea of a dream day out?
Joy: A perfect day for me would be a long walk around historical sites with friends—places filled with ancient stories and atmosphere. We’d stop at a café for coffee or tea, imagining what life must have been like in those times. Then I’d return home inspired, writing poetry about the place, the people, and the echoes of history—ending the day with laughter and meaningful conversation with those I care about.

https://www.joyfjewett.com/about-joy

Book Reviews

Liza Minnelli — Kids, Wait Till You Hear This!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (5/5)

Kids, Wait Till You Hear This! is a dazzling, deeply personal memoir that captures the essence of a woman who has lived her life centre stage—both triumphantly and turbulently. Co-written with Michael Feinstein, the book pulls back the velvet curtain on Minnelli’s extraordinary upbringing as the daughter of Judy Garland and Vincente Minnelli. From the very first pages, readers are immersed in a world of Hollywood legend and Broadway brilliance, but what sets this memoir apart is its unmistakable honesty—Liza is not interested in myth-making; she is here to tell the truth.

What makes the memoir particularly compelling is its unflinching exploration of her personal struggles. Minnelli speaks candidly about her battles with addiction, offering a nuanced and often moving account of the pressures that come with fame, legacy, and expectation. Yet, the narrative never lingers too long in darkness. Instead, it balances vulnerability with resilience, weaving in vivid recollections of her career highs—from electrifying stage performances to iconic film roles. Her relationships, both romantic and professional, are painted with warmth, wit, and occasional heartbreak.

Ultimately, this is more than a celebrity memoir—it is a testament to survival, artistry, and reinvention. Minnelli’s voice is unmistakable: bold, theatrical, and laced with humour even in her most reflective moments. Fans will relish the behind-the-scenes stories, while newcomers will discover a richly layered narrative of fame, family, and identity. A truly star-studded triumph.

A Thorn in the Rose — A Haunting Tale of Secrets, Scandal and Survival
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Five Star

There is something irresistibly seductive about a crumbling estate and the ghosts it refuses to bury, and A Thorn in the Rose leans into that allure with confidence and style. Set in post-war Britain, Avonby Estate becomes a character in its own right—dripping with decay, privilege, and long-suppressed secrets. From the moment Lady Melinda “Mel” Greenway uncovers a body beneath the roses, the novel pulls you into a world where beauty and brutality exist side by side.

At the heart of the story is Mel—a refreshingly complex heroine whose grit as a former army mechanic sets her apart from the fragile aristocracy around her. Her dynamic with Inspector Derrin Bradley adds emotional tension that elevates the narrative beyond a traditional whodunnit. Their shared past crackles with unfinished business, while a richly drawn supporting cast ensures suspicion lingers around every corner.

What lingers long after the final page is the atmosphere—cinematic, brooding, and steeped in quiet menace. With its blend of suspense, romance, and class tension, this is a gripping and elegant mystery that keeps you guessing, even if it occasionally lingers a touch too long in its own shadows.

Heated Rivalry — Love, Lust and the Politics of the Ice
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (5/5)

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Heated-Rivalry-2-Game-Changers/dp/1335534636/ref=asc_df_1335534636?mcid=c426025b2f9f356a95723f7317f34a75&th=1&psc=1&tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=710472506588&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5560434510716372681&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9045885&hvtargid=pla-2334017057185&psc=1&hvocijid=5560434510716372681-1335534636-&hvexpln=0&gad_source=1

Rachel Reid’s Heated Rivalry is not just a sports romance—it’s a cultural moment wrapped in sharp writing, raw chemistry, and emotional intelligence. Set in the brutal, high-pressure world of professional ice hockey, this bestseller delivers far more than locker-room tension. It’s slick, seductive, and surprisingly soulful.

Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov are electric—two rival captains locked in a dangerous game both on and off the ice. Public enemies, private lovers, their connection is explosive and deeply human. Reid explores masculinity, identity, and the suffocating expectations placed on elite athletes with refreshing honesty.

What sets this apart is its fearlessness. It challenges perceptions, breaks boundaries, and delivers a love story that feels both modern and necessary.

Steven’s Viewz: Sexy, smart, and unapologetically bold. If you think you know sports romance—think again. This one doesn’t just play the game… it rewrites the rules.

David Nailer’s Final Word: Darlings, whether it’s scandal in a crumbling estate, passion on the ice, or survival under the brightest of spotlights, one thing is certain—great storytelling always leaves a mark. And trust me… I’ve only just warmed up. See you in April—bring a thick skin and a sense of humour.

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Steve’s Viewz for October

The Outpouring Over Charlie Kirk RIP.

We’ve all witnessed the sudden outpouring of grief, tributes, and public mourning for Charlie Kirk. Before I get the inevitable backlash, let me be clear: the loss of any human life is a tragedy. Death, no matter the circumstances, is not something to celebrate. But that doesn’t mean we must ignore the uncomfortable truth about who a person was and the impact they had on the world around them.

Anyone who dies while promoting hatred—whether it be racism, homophobia, misogyny, or transphobia—has left behind a legacy of division. And while it’s wrong to revel in someone’s death, it’s equally wrong to pretend that their life was lived in service of goodness, compassion, or truth when the opposite is much closer to reality.

There’s an old saying: “Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.” I am one hundred percent against cancel culture. Silencing voices and driving them underground only makes them more dangerous; it allows toxic ideologies to fester where they cannot be challenged or confronted. We need to keep our eyes on the people who preach hate, not push them into the shadows.

But here’s my question: where is the same level of public mourning for the innocent children killed in American school shootings? Where are the candlelit vigils, the elaborate civil ceremonies, the hours of televised tributes for those whose only “crime” was going to class in a nation that has normalised mass shootings? Where is the nationwide grief for the everyday victims of America’s gun obsession?

The outpouring for Charlie Kirk feels performative—dramatic, over the top, and completely misplaced. I scrolled through social media and was struck by the sheer number of posts about him. Yet for the children lost in Uvalde, in Sandy Hook, in countless other tragedies, there was silence after the first wave of news coverage. No weeks-long grief, no cultural pause for reflection. The contrast is staggering.

Let’s get something straight: Charlie Kirk did not save lives. He didn’t cure HIV, discover a vaccine for the common cold, or dedicate his life to lifting people out of poverty. He built a platform by spreading fear, misinformation, and divisiveness. To canonise him now as if he were some kind of saint is not just dishonest, it is deeply disrespectful to those he harmed with his rhetoric.

And what exactly was “Christian” about his teachings? Jesus—let’s remember, a brown-skinned, Arabic-speaking man from the Middle East—preached love, compassion, and radical inclusion. He spent his time with outcasts, outsiders, and the marginalised: fishermen, tax collectors, a prostitute, and a ragtag group of twelve unmarried men. The essence of his teaching was simple: love thy neighbour as thyself.

Religion, like a gun, can be used for protection and peace when in the right hands. But in the wrong hands, it becomes a weapon of hate and fear. Charlie Kirk chose the latter. He wielded scripture selectively, twisting it into a justification for exclusion rather than inclusion, for condemnation rather than compassion. That is not godly—it is a betrayal of the very faith he claimed to represent.

What baffles me most is why so many people queued up to debate him, as though he were some kind of great theological authority. He wasn’t. He was poorly informed, cherry-picking passages of scripture to suit his agenda, ignoring centuries of scholarship, and offering nothing more than the shallowest of arguments. This was not a man who should be celebrated as a thinker, let alone a prophet.

I do feel for his family. Losing a loved one is painful, no matter who they were. I wish he had used his influence for good—to inspire, to uplift, to build bridges instead of walls. Instead, he chose narcissism, self-promotion, and hate. That is the legacy he leaves behind.

The most ungodly thing of all is an ill-informed Christian who believes their interpretation of the Bible gives them licence to judge others. Freedom of speech must exist for both sides, but so too must accountability. Words matter. Influence matters. And when someone spends their life spreading division, we cannot in good conscience rewrite history just because they are no longer here.

Yes, love thy neighbour. Yes, treat others with compassion. But let us also extend that compassion to the innocent children gunned down in schools, to the victims of bigotry, to those whose lives were cut short by violence. If Charlie Kirk is to receive public mourning, then surely those who lived with love in their hearts, rather than hate, deserve at least as much.