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The Autism and Art show the 22nd of May at The Firepit Gallery London.

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 29th Apr 2025
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“For people on the autism spectrum, art is a powerful medium that encourages self-expression.”

Anna Kennedy Online, in collaboration with the Firepit Art Gallery , is proud to present the first-ever “Autism & Art Show. “This exciting event showcases incredible artwork from autistic artists and their allies, with all profits supporting the charity Anna Kennedy Online.
Art is more than just a passion—it serves as a therapeutic outlet, offering solace and joy to many individuals on the autism spectrum. With great enthusiasm, Anna Kennedy OBE, charity patron Steven Smith, and Firepit Art Gallery founder Markus Jake invite you to celebrate and support these talented artists.

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Event Location:
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Firepit Gallery
No.2, Upper Riverside,
10 Cutter Ln, Ground Floor Unit,
Greenwich Peninsula London SE10 0XX
Learn More & Support the Charity

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The Autism & Art Show — 22nd May 2025

Join us for a celebration of creativity, resilience, and neurodiverse voices at The Autism & Art Show, showcasing a rich tapestry of work by autistic artists from across the UK. Each participant brings a unique story and style, making this event a powerful tribute to the talents of individuals on the spectrum.

Featured Artists

Angelo Kennedy

Angelo, 32, is autistic and lives with significant sensory processing disorder. On display is a vibrant painting of sunflowers he created at just 10 years old. Angelo enjoys cooking, bowling, and continues to work hard on his independent living skills. His brother, Patrick, is also on the spectrum and works at Pinewood Studios.

£500 pounds by Angelo Kennedy for offers contact spman@btinternet 07969016222

Lana Mitchell

Lana, who lives with autism, once feared unfamiliar environments. In 2024, she began volunteering at Shelter Crystal Palace, where her uniqueness was embraced and her creativity blossomed. She now designs themed window displays and, to celebrate her one-year anniversary, created a striking punk-style denim jacket.

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Collette Sherriffs

Collette, 47, from Kincardine, Scotland, has loved art since childhood. Despite working hard to earn a place at art school, her dreams were crushed when her mother told her she was “too stupid” to succeed. Heartbroken, she gave up art—until recently. One of the pieces on display is from her original portfolio, which her mother once threw away but was fortunately saved. Now a devoted mum of two, Collette champions her children’s creativity with pride and encouragement.

Offers over £250 inbox spman@btinternet.com

Niall Guite

Niall, 30, is an artist with autism, an intellectual disability, dyspraxia, and dyslexia. He gained international acclaim after raising funds for Special Olympics GB by selling his iconic stadium drawings. Niall has exhibited at the Royal Academy Summer Exhibition, delivered a TED Talk, and received an Honorary Doctorate from Sheffield Hallam University for his work promoting inclusion through art.

A collector piece offers over £250 inbox spman@btinternet.com

Piluca Artist

Piluca: Artist. Muralist. Fashion Visionary. Street Art Queen.
Born in Madrid and ignited by Brixton’s wild heart, Piluca is a published illustrator, muralist, fashion designer, and founder of I Am Here 2 Play, launching this May at Hypezeus, London.
Her vibrant murals and street art light up London’s iconic venues, turning the city into an open-air gallery.
A WinTrade Awards finalist, she moves effortlessly across fine art, fashion, and branding with fearless, raw style.
Piluca’s creative impact extends deep into communities—leading workshops, festivals, and campaigns with purpose.
From fashion to neuroscience illustration, her work defies boundaries—and London proudly wears her name.

Offers above £350

Chris Wild

Chris is an author, artist, actor, care home consultant, government advisor, youth advocate, and charity patron. A passionate voice for young people in care, Chris’s first book, Damaged, shares his personal story. His second, The State of It, challenges the systemic failures affecting vulnerable youth. Through art and writing, he continues to inspire change and awareness.

Chris Wild painting offers over £500

Artism by Jake

Jake, 20, finds joy in painting. As a young man on the autism spectrum, his artwork offers a distinct and captivating perspective. All profits from his prints are donated to charitable causes.

Offers over £150

Heidi Simm

At 17, Heidi is the creative mind behind Disco City, a fusion of Disney characters and her own original creations. With a strong, determined spirit, she uses her art to express herself, manage her mental health, and explore new techniques. Her inquisitive nature and unique imagination make her work stand out.

Fabulous fun £250 please inbox me at spman@btinternet.com

Dr. Ian Hale

Based in Bristol, Dr. Ian Hale is an author, poet, autism specialist, and certified Master of Photography. His book, Asperger’s, Autism and You: Is the Epidemic Real and Are Vaccines the Cause?, blends personal insight with clinical research. Ian, who is autistic himself, shares his journey through media, public speaking, and art. His photography — praised by brands like Chanel and Vogue — offers a profound glimpse into his neurodiverse worldview.

Offers over £200 please .

Loveartpix (Dez)

Loveartpix , a self-taught AudHD (Autism + ADHD) artist from Manchester, uses creativity as a vital outlet for mental health and self-expression. Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder, Autism, and ADHD, he began his art journey in 2018 as therapy. His vibrant work often reflects the spirit of Manchester and the experiences of neurodivergence.

Loveartpix with the wonderful art he will be showing offers over £1000 please .

Annemarie Bickerton

With over 30 years in photography and art, Annemarie specializes in editorial portraiture. As digital photography evolved, she pivoted toward headshot work, applying her skills to editorial, corporate, and artistic projects. Annemarie is also a proud mum to Sam, who lives with autism, and continues to champion neurodiverse creativity in all its forms.

£500 by Annemarie Bickerton

Sam Bickerton

Sam, diagnosed with ASD and dyslexia, demonstrates resilience in the face of social and emotional challenges. From early Lego builds to his love for origami, mask-making, and boxing, Sam’s creativity offers a safe space for self-expression and calm. His journey is one of strength and self-discovery through art.

an example of Sam work the will be. bigger one on the night offers from £150 message me spman@btinternet.com

Jenny Robinson

Jenny is a self-taught digital artist and graphic designer with a love for Freddie Mercury. Her standout piece is a digital portrait of Freddie in a custom outfit inspired by the I Want to Break Free video. Although not included in her solo exhibition, Jenny has pledged to donate 100% of the sale proceeds to the Anna Kennedy charity. Diagnosed with autism a year ago, she now explores digital art as a core part of her creative identity.

Jenny Robinson £250 inbox spman@btinternet.com

Marcus Mason-Williams

Marcus is a multi-talented autistic artist and entrepreneur. As a founding member of The Lilac Review — a government-backed campaign spotlighting disabled-led businesses — Marcus uses his business, CoolArt2021, to share wildlife-inspired storytelling and merchandise. “Art and performing set me free,” he says. “Through my stories and performances, I connect with others and the world around me.”

Offers over £250 message Steven Smith 079069106222

AlastairBlasterArtz

Alastair McEwen, also known as BlasterArtz, is a full-time carer for both his disabled parent and autistic son. Through art, he finds a way to manage emotions, connect with loved ones, and reflect on mental health. His heartfelt piece Blanky, created with friend and writer Steven Smith, has moved many and embodies the power of art as a lifeline.

BLANKY offers over £200

Eddie Wells

Eddie grew up in East London, navigating life with undiagnosed ADHD and dyslexia. Creativity was his refuge. Following his father’s death in 2013, he realized that art wasn’t just an outlet — it was his salvation. His work reflects the inner world of someone living on the spectrum and overcoming silent battles through creative expression.

Offers over £2000. e-mail spman@btinternet.com

Shayla Curtis

At just 18, Shayla is already a passionate advocate for children with autism and complex needs. Diagnosed with autism herself, she struggled in most subjects at school — except for art. Encouraged by a supportive GCSE teacher, Shayla flourished creatively and now uses her skills to design activities that help young people express themselves, build confidence, and develop life skills.

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Tally Nothey

This piece is deeply personal. As the mother of an autistic child, Tally has faced days that felt overwhelmingly heavy—marked by worry, exhaustion, and the deep ache of feeling misunderstood. Yet, through every challenge, it has been the support of close friends that has carried her forward. Each woman represented in this work symbolizes someone who has stood beside her, held space for her fears, celebrated the smallest victories, and reminded her of her own strength when she struggled to find it.

This image reflects that journey. It acknowledges that while friendship may not solve everything, it makes the burdens easier to bear. Together, they have cried, laughed, and lifted one another—and because of them, she never walks alone.

work in progress £500 .

Darren Chapman – Actor & Artist

Darren Charman – Visual Artist & Storyteller

Darren Charman is a British visual artist and actor, originally from Hastings in Sussex. His creative journey began in the world of performance, training in the Meisner technique at The Actors Temple in London, where he developed a deep sensitivity to emotion, narrative, and human expression—qualities that now echo powerfully through his artwork.

Drawing on his background in character-driven storytelling, Darren’s art is bold, imaginative, and often laced with wit. Each piece invites viewers into a world that balances humour with poignancy, reflecting the layered perspectives of someone equally at home on a stage or behind a canvas.

Darren has received recognition for his work in comedy film, winning two DAFTA awards for The Fetishman (The Irishman Parody) and Living Dead (Living Parody). These accolades underscore his instinctive grasp of character, timing, and satire—all of which now inform his artistic practice.

Stunning bracelets by Darren £100 or above .

Gemma Lees is a Romany Gypsy, disabled and autistic fine art installationist, performance poet, comedian, facilitator and journalist from Bury. Her practise focuses on protest, advocacy, inclusion and telling the stories that no one else is.

Last year she worked with: Arts and Homelessness International, Traveller’s Times, Headteacher Update, SEN Magazine, ACERT, Queer Britain, Turnpike, Cartwheel Arts, BBC Radio Manchester, Triple C, Warwickshire Libraries, CultureDale, WOW Fest, Factory International, CIJ and CRIPtic.

A qualified post-compulsory teacher, she is a passionate advocate for GTRSB and neurodiverse inclusion in schools and wider education.

Sadie King is a 16-year-old student currently studying for her GCSEs.
She has a strong passion for character design and storytelling.
Sadie hopes to build a career in creating her own animated series.
Her work often explores original concepts and imaginative worlds.
She is eager to share more of her art and ideas with others.
Sadie welcomes feedback and is open to showing additional work

Offers over £200

John Lee Bird is a multi-disciplinary artist known for his global exhibitions of paintings, collages, and sculptural work.
His DOLLS project features over 2,000 hand-sewn textile sculptures celebrating idols, friends, and queer culture.
Inspired by film, drag, cult TV, and music, each 13-inch doll is crafted from felt, beads, buttons, and embellishments.
The project began during lockdown as a therapeutic return to textiles, starting with 69 David Bowie dolls.
It has since grown into a rich portrait series spanning pop culture icons and personal heroes.
John’s work is driven by obsession, emotion, and a deep love of music and storytelling.
He also creates sound and film, collaborating with artists such as Simon Fisher Turner and Xiu Xiu.
John co-runs the queer club night KNICKERS with musician Jemma Freeman.

Posters £25

PATRICK STEELE-BODGER
Patrick calls himself a “Media Wikipedia” and “the Sheldon of Media” – a nod to his incredible recall of screen and sound. From a young age, he’s expressed himself through TV, film, books and comics. He recreates the tiniest details, from split-second sound effects to hidden cameos. Patrick loves drawing characters, writing fan fiction, and exploring music from Louis Armstrong to Daft Punk. As the in-house artist for Meet The Pods, now becoming a toy range, his creativity shines. He also designs bespoke greeting cards – and if you ask his favourite word? It’s “EXCELSIOR!”

£100 each

The Autism & Art Show isn’t just an exhibition — it’s a statement. It’s about the strength of neurodivergent minds, the healing power of creativity, and the joy of self-expression. Come and be inspired by these extraordinary artists.

The story of BLANKY .

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Blanky

Art Alastair Blaster words Steven Smith

“We are all born as blank canvases; hate, racism, and a lack of understanding are learned.”
How you choose to see the world and create the tapestry of your life is up to you.
Blanky is here to “Make Earth Safe Again.”

In another universe, under a different sun, there was a planet much like Earth called Alacritas. It was a world of lush tropical forests, crystal-clear lakes, and unpolluted seas. The people of Alacritas lived in harmony, where kindness and tolerance were deeply ingrained in their way of life. Their homes were built to exist in perfect balance with nature, and even in their cities, the air remained clean and pure.

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The Alacritans were far more advanced than humans. Meditation and self-healing were essential practices, and their very beings were composed of energy molecules, allowing many to heal themselves from illness. Some possessed extraordinary abilities, such as telepathy and body transformations, harnessing the sun’s rays to bring goodness to their planet and others. While there were occasional exceptions, as the saying goes, “one bad apple”—but that is another story.

You could say it was a utopia—until they arrived.

The people of Olethros came claiming peace, seeking to live in harmony with the Alacritans. But the sun did not welcome them. Almost immediately, it burned their skin a bright orange, making them stand out. Rumours spread that their own planet had been devastated by pollution, war, and slavery.

It soon became clear that the orange ones had not come as friends but as conquerors. They sought to strip Alacritas of its rich minerals, enslave its people, and channel their energy into restoring their own dying world.

The peaceful Alacritans were unprepared for battle. Their civilization, built on unity and respect, was nearly wiped out. Only a few survived—those who could transform or scatter their molecules to avoid detection.

The Olethrans ravaged the planet like ants devouring sugar. Within a year, there was nothing left. In desperation, one Alacritan, Blanky, used his powers to escape. Transforming into pure energy, he fled into the cosmos in search of help. But as he left, Alacritas could take no more. The planet exploded, sending Blanky hurtling off course.

100 Years Later

Planet Earth

London, Waterloo

Patrick was fourteen, tall for his age, and loved playing basketball. From the window of his small ground floor apartment, he watched the other kids on the court, longing to join them. He knew he had the talent to be a star player. But his mother, protective as ever, rarely let him out alone. She feared he would be bullied or misunderstood because of his autism.

One Saturday afternoon, his mother had a friend over and asked them to watch Patrick while she ran errands in Stratford. With their eyes glued to The Real Housewives, they barely noticed Patrick, assuming he was immersed in his video game as usual.

But today was different. Quietly, Patrick put down the controller and crept toward the door. His apartment, on the ground floor, was only 200 yards from the basketball court. As he stepped outside, excitement surged through him. The sun’s rays warmed his face as he gently closed the door behind him and ran toward the court.

But then—he tripped.

As he hit the ground, something surrounded him, unlike anything he had ever seen. A strange, shifting cloud engulfed his body, sending tingles through his skin. As the mist dispersed, a small figure emerged.

Patrick couldn’t believe his eyes.

Before him stood a tiny being—completely blank, as if made of smooth, featureless clay. It pointed a stubby finger at Patrick’s baseball cap. Amused, Patrick handed it over. The moment the creature touched the fabric, the hat transformed into the same clay-like substance as its body.

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Then, to Patrick’s shock, the small figure spoke.

“I am Blanky. Your planet needs me, or it may suffer the same fate as mine.”

Patrick stared, wide-eyed.

“I need sunlight to regain my strength,” Blanky continued. “With your help, I can transform and protect those who are hated and discriminated against. I have chosen you, Patrick, because you are special. For now, my body is just a canvas. Put me in your pocket, and let’s go play ball.”

Patrick didn’t hesitate. He gently scooped up Blanky and tucked him into the pocket of his jacket.

“I’ll tell you more soon,” Blanky assured him.

Patrick knew he had just made a special friend—one he would have to keep secret for now.

What neither of them realised was that Blanky had maybe arrived years too late.

An Orange One had already landed on Earth.

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No one wins in this High Court Ruling .

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 17th Apr 2025
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No One Wins in This High Court Ruling
By Steven Smith

This week’s High Court ruling has left many people reeling—disappointed, divided, and more confused than ever. But one thing is clear: no one truly wins in the aftermath of this decision. Whatever legal boundaries were reinforced or redrawn, they’ve done little to offer protection or peace to the people affected most. If anything, the result is further division, and the human cost is growing.

Let’s start with a blunt truth. If there is a god who allows a child to be born with bone cancer—or worse—then perhaps, just perhaps, that same god may have placed a soul in the wrong body. It’s a difficult thought, but one that challenges traditional notions of perfect design and invites empathy over judgment.

In this debate, one group’s rights cannot come at the expense of another’s safety. Women—especially those who’ve suffered trauma at the hands of men—deserve dignity, privacy, and protection in spaces like bathrooms, hospital wards, and shelters. These are not just physical places; they are emotional safe zones, where healing and recovery often begin. To ignore the fear and anxiety many women feel about sharing intimate spaces with anyone who presents as male—even if that person identifies as female—is to ignore real, lived experience. We must listen with compassion, not condescension.

This isn’t a rejection of transgender people. On the contrary, I’ve known incredible trans women since I was a teenager. These are brave, passionate human beings who have committed to a long, often painful journey to live authentically. They undergo extensive psychological evaluations, hormone therapy, and surgery. Some reintegrate into society quietly; others become public figures or advocates. All of them, in my eyes, are women.

Which is why this ruling cuts so deep. Many trans people who have taken every step available to become their true selves now find themselves swept up in a storm of legal and cultural backlash. Instead of being seen as individuals with complex stories, they’re being lumped in with others who have not taken the same path—or who may not even identify as trans in the same way.

Part of the problem is ignorance. When I first heard the term “trans,” my mind went straight to “transvestite” or flamboyant characters like Frank-N-Furter from The Rocky Horror Picture Show. And while I adore a good performance, let’s be clear: wearing a dress and heels doesn’t make someone a woman. There’s a vast difference between performance and identity. A man in a frock might enjoy the expression, the character, even the fantasy—but it doesn’t make him female.

True transition is not about fantasy. It’s about becoming. It involves sacrifice, struggle, and a level of self-awareness many of us never have to face. For those who take that journey, they earn a place in the world as their authentic selves—and they deserve respect, not suspicion.

Children, too, are part of this complex conversation. Some express gender discomfort from a young age. These feelings must be taken seriously—but also approached with caution. Many people I know went through periods of gender confusion in their youth, only to feel secure in their biological identity as adults. Others continued to struggle, and those individuals deserve full support. But irreversible medical decisions should, in most cases, wait until late adolescence, when a person’s sense of self has had more time to develop.

Still, it bears repeating: having a penis does not make someone a woman. That is not a statement of hate—it is a statement of biology. If someone is transitioning, that’s a journey we can honor and support. But biology does matter, especially when it intersects with the rights and safety of others.

What’s heartbreaking is that this ruling, intended perhaps to draw clearer lines, may only deepen misunderstanding. Trans women who have undergone surgery, therapy, and lived experience are now at greater risk of being misjudged, targeted, and excluded. The backlash is likely to hit the wrong people hardest. We risk punishing those who’ve made the most effort to live honestly.

The public discourse on transgender rights is failing everyone. The messaging is chaotic, the tone often cruel, and the nuance lost in a sea of outrage. Education is vital. We need thoughtful, well-informed conversations—conversations that recognize the humanity in everyone involved. The issue of gender identity has been reduced to a political football when it should be a human rights discussion rooted in compassion and science.

One of the most shameful chapters in this saga was when President Donald Trump banned transgender individuals from serving in the military. Anyone willing to risk their life for their country has my full respect, regardless of how they identify. That level of courage transcends gender—it defines character. In my eyes, that’s the truest identity of all: brave.

As society evolves, we must also evolve our understanding of gender. It may be time to acknowledge a third, even fourth category of sex or gender. The binary system doesn’t serve everyone, and clinging to it may be doing more harm than good. The law should reflect the complexity of human experience, not flatten it into rigid boxes.

Ultimately, this ruling doesn’t protect anyone—it creates more confusion, more pain, and more opportunities for discrimination. Women’s safety is still not fully addressed. Transgender individuals are now more vulnerable than ever. And society, caught in the middle, is left with more questions than answers.

No one has truly won this week. But if we learn anything from this moment, let it be this: the path forward must include better laws, deeper understanding, and above all, compassion for every human being trying to live their truth.

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Steven’s Viewz: April“Go Mickey”

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 12th Apr 2025
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There is no doubt that Mickey Rourke has been the best thing to happen to Celebrity Big Brother this year. He is a fascinating mix of Victor Meldrew’s grumpy bluntness and Keith Richards’ wild, unpredictable charm. Arriving with no filter whatsoever and the wide-eyed confusion of Alice falling through the looking glass, he often seems unsure of exactly where he is. It’s not only comedy gold; it’s also a stark reminder of how hypersensitive our society has become — many ready to cry into their decaf almond milk lattes at the slightest provocation.

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Rourke many years ago at The Abbey Coffee Shop in West Hollywood, back when he was dating Carrie Otis. The Abbey, a famous LGBTQ+ venue, was buzzing as usual. Rourke, accompanied by his two beloved dogs, stopped me to ask about mine. We chatted briefly (I’ll admit I was a little starstruck — Angel Heart remains one of my all-time favourite films). My point is this: Mickey Rourke is not homophobic. He simply comes from a different time. The man is 72 years old. Perhaps, unlike some of the more publicity-hungry contestants, he doesn’t feel the need to self-censor or meticulously filter every word he utters.

My instinct tells me that JoJo might have handled the situation differently had she not been so consistently stunned — she often wore the look of a “rabbit in the headlights.” Fortunately, Chris Hughes, the charming and grounded contestant every parent would approve of, stepped in calmly to defend her. He restored order with dignity and compassion, providing a rare and refreshing moment of true humanity in a show increasingly dominated by outrage culture.

Chris Hughes the man you want your son or daughter to bring home

Let’s be honest: in the real world, prejudice and inappropriate comments are unfortunate realities many people will face. Mickey’s comments weren’t right, but they also didn’t merit his removal from the house. What’s needed is guidance and understanding, not instant condemnation and cancellation. We must be able to differentiate between malice and ignorance, between true harm and clumsy missteps.

Predictably, it wasn’t long before others saw an opportunity to capitalize on the situation. Donna Preston, a comedian by profession, was told by Rourke — while he lounged under an LED face mask — “You are what you eat.” Rather than respond with wit or humor, she ran crying to her team. For someone who makes a living out of comedy, it was a surprising reaction. Where was the banter, the quick retort that a seasoned performer should deliver with ease?

Donna Preston easily offended .

At this point, I began to feel genuinely sorry for Rourke. Things only deteriorated further when Patsy Palmer took offense at a mild comment about her cooking and ended up in tears. It begs the question: where has resilience gone? Life is full of difficult people who speak bluntly or unkindly. If we are reduced to tears by every offhand remark, how will we cope with the harsher realities that life inevitably throws our way?

Patsy non chewable broccoli leads to tears

As many know, I am a strong advocate for mental health awareness. I have faced my own battles with depression and anxiety. However, one of the most important lessons I have learned is the value of resilience. The only way to overcome bullies and unkind individuals is to develop inner strength. If we allow their words to break us, then they have won.

In my childhood, my imagination became my sanctuary. It helped me navigate bullying at both school and home, allowing me to rise above it rather than be crushed by it. Today, while mental health education is crucial, it is equally important that we teach children and young adults how to endure adversity. Bullying and cruelty will never disappear entirely. Learning how to manage, respond, and thrive despite them is essential.

Celebrity Big Brother has, perhaps unintentionally, become a mirror reflecting today’s cultural fragility. And frankly, it’s worrying.

We need a generation that can distinguish between genuine harm and an ill-judged comment. We need young people who can face challenges head-on, who can understand intent rather than automatically assuming the worst, and who can survive — and even thrive — in a world that will not always be kind.

Toughness doesn’t mean lacking empathy or kindness. It means having the inner strength to pick yourself up after a setback, to laugh off the jibes, and to rise above the noise. Without it, we risk raising a generation ill-equipped for real life.

Mickey Rourke’s stint on CBB might just end up being more than television entertainment. It might serve as a wake-up call about where we are heading — and a reminder of the resilience we so desperately need to reclaim.

Massive props to Danny Beard — he’s not just bringing the yeast to the bread, he’s practically baking a whole bakery at this point! As for Trisha… well, I’ll spare you the rant, but let’s just say Michael Fabricant and I are singing from the same hymn sheet.

Now, if Mikey manages to hang on much longer, he might just sneak a win — stranger things have happened! That said, my money’s still firmly on Chris or Danny to take the crown.

Danny Beard bringing the laughs to the CBB House .

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ARTIST LOVEARTPIX TO BE AN AMBASSADOR OF ANNA KENNEDY ON LINE.

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 12th Apr 2025
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https://loveartpix.co.uk

Steven Smith joins Dr. Anna Kennedy OBE in Manchester to invite one of its leading artists, Dez, to become an ambassador of Anna Kennedy Online.
https://annakennedyonline.com

In addition, this amazing artist has agreed to exhibit one of his incredible pieces at Autism & Art on May 22nd in London at the Fire Pit Gallery, generously donating the proceeds of the sale to the charity. Steven chats with the man everyone is talking about.
https://www.firepit.art

Dez, known professionally as Loveartpix, is a self-taught Audhd artist and advocate from Manchester, England.

Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder in his twenties and receiving late diagnoses of Autism and ADHD in his forties, Dez has navigated a complex mental health journey, also undergoing therapy for Complex PTSD. Art became a lifeline during this time, helping him process heightened emotional states and giving voice to his experiences.

Since fully immersing himself in art around 2018, Dez has used his creative work as both personal therapy and a platform for advocacy. Through his distinctive pieces — often centered around Manchester life and neurodiversity — he promotes the therapeutic power of art as a daily coping strategy. Sharing his creations widely under the name Loveartpix, Dez aims to raise awareness about neurodivergence in a largely neurotypical society.

His work is featured across the Northwest of England, including Manchester, Blackpool, and Cumbria, as well as internationally at the Normandy Memorial Trust in France. A passionate supporter of community initiatives, Dez regularly donates art to charities, raising thousands of pounds at auction.

In 2023, he won his first Autism Hero Award, recognizing his contributions to neurodiversity advocacy. He also launched the UK’s first Neurodivergent Art Focus Group, piloted at HMP Manchester with outstanding success.

For the past 3 years, Dez has been filmed for a documentary chronicling his late-diagnosis journey and the role of art therapy in his life. In March 2025, Loveartpix launched his debut Art exhibition where he also shared his platform collaborating with other neurodivergent artists. ‘A Neurodivergent Art Exhibition’ by Loveartpix showcased in Spinningfields, Manchester.

At 45, Dez sees himself as only just beginning to truly understand his conditions. He considers creativity not just a passion, but a vital tool for self-regulation and connection — and he remains dedicated to sharing his journey to inspire and support others.

https://loveartpix.co.uk/about/

Anna Kennedy says “We are thrilled to have Dez as an ambassador. I have followed him over the past few years and watched his passion and confidence grow through his creativity and digital artwork, especially after winning the Autism Hero Awards in 2023. As a self-taught autistic artist creating wonderful digital pieces, he will be a great role model for our charity. Dez can also share how his artwork has helped him through personal struggles, inspiring other autistic individuals to do the same.”

Steven chats to Dez .

https://loveartpix.co.uk

1. Hello, what does it mean to you to become a patron of Anna Kennedy Online?

Hi Steven,

Becoming a patron for Anna Kennedy Online (AKO) is such a privilege and an honour — not to sound too cliché! I have been involved with AKO for a few years through art donations, small projects, and also by winning the Autism Hero Award for Creative Arts and Media with them in 2023.

Since my late autism diagnosis in 2021 (at the age of 41), I have thrown myself into understanding my condition the best I can — not only to help myself, but to help others too, as I know there are so many people out there like me. Having been nominated for six awards in such a short time through my contributions in art donations and raising awareness, winning the AKO award was a major highlight for me.

Fast forward two years, and now being asked by Anna to be an ambassador just fills me with pride.

https://loveartpix.co.uk/about/

What made you start creating art?

I have always had a creative flare but really started to focus on it when I was going through my autism assessment. It was a very difficult and disruptive point in my life processing such an epochal event. Stuggling a lot at night, using the Picsart app on my phone really fitted in, being the least disorderly. Any art piece I create, I really submerge myself into the topic and it gives my erratic thoughts focus. Realising that the art I was creating resonated with many people I decided that I wanted to use it as a tool to promote understanding and awareness as much as possible.

What artists inspire you?

To be perfectly honest, I don’t really get inspiration from artists — probably more from people. I am a naturally creative person, so when I look at life, I feel inspired by topics that intrigue and affect me, or by things I am passionate about. I am then drawn to create around those themes.

Being a self-taught artist, and because I use art as a tool for self-help, I haven’t formally studied art; I simply use it to process my emotions. It’s something I turn to when I’m struggling or when I need to focus my thoughts. I don’t feel like a traditional artist in the usual sense.

That said, I do follow many artists and art profiles on social media, and there are so many amazing artists out there. One artist I really like is @deanevansart on Instagram. His work is so vibrant and thought-provoking. If you get the chance, definitely check out his profile!

If you had to take someone out in Manchester, what one place would you take them to?

If I had to take someone to Manchester, it would have to be the Nag’s Head pub. The Nag’s Head is a true Manchester landmark, and I’m proud to say that, among the 4,000 images of the beautiful city I call home, I have two of my pieces in their collection.

One is a tribute to highly decorated war hero Harry Billinge MBE LdH — the largest piece in the building. (I had the honour of meeting Harry before he passed away and still stay in touch with his family.) The other is one of my ‘Bees About Town’ collection, displayed in the front window.

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What does love mean to you and how important is it in your life?

Love is many things and shows itself in many forms. Helping and supporting people to make things better is love — depending on your personal feelings.

For me, putting myself in harm’s way to help others is a huge form of love. Missing out on events with my son due to my condition, but then being happy just spending time with him afterward — even though I felt upset about missing the event — is love.

Knowing that I would put my life in front of my family’s without hesitation, and valuing their lives far more than my own, is love. Self-sacrifice is love. Pain is love. Seeing others happy is love.

I actually find this a difficult question to answer, as there are so many variables to what love means.

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They say “Big boys don’t cry” — do you think this is true?

I think this is such a harmful quote from a bygone era that still has a massive negative impact on society today — especially on the male suicide rate.

Crying is a way to process emotions. It’s part of being human. We all do it, and I find it such a bizarre notion that somehow suppressing it makes you tougher or better at dealing with life.

Being able to express yourself and be open about your emotions is, in my opinion, a very strong thing and speaks volumes about a person’s character. Yes, there are times when you have to deal with situations that require mental and physical strength, and you have to push through and fight — but I am really against this phrase.

No, I definitely do not think this quote is true.

How important is it to you to inspire and help others who want to create?

Art for me is the tool to understanding and processing things I struggle with. I know the positive impact it has first hand from my own experience. Obviously art comes in many forms too. Last year I piloted the first of its kind neurodivergent art focus group for prisoners in HMP Manchester which was a huge success. Art was the tool I used to get the prisoners to explore how their condition affects them in the hope of supporting rehabilitation. Some of the prisoners used words and created poems, some preferred to paint, and others liked to draw. I then collated what was created by each individual and edited the final pieces on the Picsart app to create a unique collection – which I will be displaying at a later date. It’s well documented the power of creativity and art therapy so for me I try to promote this at every chance I get.

What would you like to achieve next?

On a personal level, I would like to achieve a sense of mental contentment and balance. For me, this would mean understanding my condition much more deeply. Although beginning to understand it has already helped me so much, I still struggle and fight daily. I want to continue striving to be a good parent and family member.

In my career, I have a lot of projects in the works, so I will continue to develop these and, hopefully, help many more people and bring about positive change. I guess my main goals are to be a good role model, help others, and continue turning what I go through into something positive — oh, and now, to be a good ambassador for AKO!

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“Everything You Need to Know About Headshot Photography”

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 11th Apr 2025
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With celebrity photographer Annemarie Bickerton by Steven Smith

https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

A great headshot can open doors — whether you’re an actor, a creative, or a professional. Choosing the right photographer, preparing properly, and understanding the process can make all the difference.
In this guide, I answer some of the most common questions about headshot photography, share tips from my personal experience, and offer advice for anyone considering a career behind the camera.

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1. What should I look for when searching for a photographer to do my headshots?
Recommendations and word-of-mouth referrals are a great place to start.
Always review a photographer’s previous work by browsing their website and social media profiles. Pay attention to the style and quality of their photography.
Check if they specialize in headshots or if they have broader experience in different types of photography — both can be beneficial.
Most importantly, ask yourself: Do you like their work? Trust your instinct and choose someone whose style resonates with you.

2. If I am an actor looking to use the headshots for my “Spotlight” profile, are there specific rules I should follow?
Yes, there are a few important guidelines to keep in mind:

The photograph must look like you — authenticity is key.
It should be a close-up of your face, typically from the shoulders upwards, and usually in portrait orientation (standard size is 10”x8”).
Submit a selection of no more than six images, showcasing slightly different looks — for example, hair styled up and down, smiling and serious expressions. There’s no need for exaggerated acting in your photos.
Keep makeup minimal and natural. Simple is best.
Your headshot should invite the viewer to want to know more about you, sparking curiosity.
If you have facial hair, it’s a good idea to show options both with and without it, helping casting directors visualize you in various roles.

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3. Is there anything I should avoid before a photoshoot, like spray tans or getting a new haircut?
Absolutely!
Avoid making drastic changes to your appearance just before the shoot.
Skip the heavy spray tans or any extreme fake tanning — you don’t want to look “Tango’d”!
Stay true to your natural look, as the photos need to reflect how you appear in person.

4. What should I do to prepare before the shoot?
Stay in touch with your photographer beforehand. They can offer advice on what clothes to bring and what styles work best.
Connecting with the photographer ahead of time will also help you feel more relaxed and confident on the day.
Plan your journey carefully. Know your route and allow plenty of time so you can arrive calm and not rushed.

https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

5. On the big day, how should I arrive at the shoot?
Aim to arrive early.
Give yourself time to settle in, organize your clothes, and make final choices about what you’ll wear.
The more prepared and calm you are, the better your photos will turn out.

6. If I’m not used to posing for the camera, do you have any tips?
Yes!
Most importantly, trust your photographer.
Follow their guidance and instructions — they know how to get the best out of you.
Relax and be yourself. A good photographer will help you feel comfortable and confident.

https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

7. How did you become a photographer?
I went straight from school into studying photography at college. After graduating, I joined a small business studio in Victoria called The Downstairs Studio, where I quickly gained valuable experience in headshots and corporate photography.
At just 18 years old, it was both challenging and exciting to find myself covering press releases and presentations, even venturing into the House of Commons!
I made a point of looking up to photographers whose work I admired and started assisting them to gain real-world experience.
Soon after, I joined a studio full-time, using every opportunity to learn about lighting, observe different shoots, and build my own portfolio.
At the time, it was common practice to take your physical portfolio to magazine picture editors and pitch yourself directly.
My first commission came from The Mirror Magazine, and from there, many doors opened.
That was over 30 years ago — and the journey continues!

Annemarie Bickerton in the studio at work https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

8. Do you have any tips for those wanting to get into photography?
Assisting established photographers is one of the best ways to break into the industry. Learning directly from professionals is invaluable.
Working as a studio assistant is another great way to meet photographers and build connections.
Be enthusiastic, be helpful, and ask lots of questions!
These days, you also have an incredible range of online resources at your fingertips. Platforms like YouTube offer endless technical guidance.
Research photographers whose work you admire and learn from their approach and style.

https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

9. Which photographers do you admire?
David Bailey — an incredible inspiration, especially his approach to portraiture and fashion.
Henri Cartier-Bresson — a master of capturing moments in time and a true storyteller through reportage photography.
Helmut Newton — I loved how he challenged norms and pushed boundaries through his striking portraits.
Of course, there are many others, but these are some of the greats who have shaped my vision.

https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

10. You are exhibiting at “Autism and Art” in May. Are you looking forward to it?
Absolutely!
Photography and art offer wonderful ways to communicate and express oneself.
They can also be incredibly therapeutic.
Exhibitions like “Autism and Art” are so important because they inspire others to challenge themselves, find their own creative outlets, and perhaps discover a new passion.
I’m very excited to be part of it and to see how art can continue to open doors and touch lives.

Contact Annemarie https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk
07968 178885

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MobLand REVIEW

No smoking guns here as Mob land falls very flat .

Hardy delivers a master class in acting in this mediocre show .

Mob Land undoubtedly cements Tom Hardy as one of the greatest actors of our time. His commanding presence on screen is astounding, delivering a masterclass in acting that is, unfortunately, the only real highlight of Guy Ritchie’s Mob Land.

As a long-time admirer of Ritchie’s work, it’s difficult to understand what he was aiming for with this series . Mob Landbrings nothing particularly new to the table. It feels as though Ritchie watched Gangs of London and thought, “I should have done that.” Ironically, Gangs of London was likely influenced by Ritchie’s own early work, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels and Snatch—films that helped define the modern British gangster genre. However, Mob Land lacks the freshness, wit, and compelling storytelling that made those earlier films so iconic.

Tom Hardy is the film’s saving grace, but even his powerful performance cannot elevate the series beyond mediocrity. The rest of the star-studded cast delivers disappointingly lackluster performances, making for an underwhelming experience. Pierce Brosnan, despite being Irish, sounds as though he is forcing his accent rather than naturally embodying it. He brings no depth or nuance to his role as Conrad Harrigan, the ruthless patriarch of the crime family, and at times, his attempts to instill fear in his character come across as unintentionally laughable.

Even more disappointing is the legendary Helen Mirren, who plays Maeve Harrigan. Her exaggerated accent seems to have been plucked straight from Father Ted’s Mrs. Doyle, and her chemistry with Brosnan is virtually nonexistent. The two share as much on-screen rapport as Donald Trump and Volodymyr Zelensky—awkward, strained, and completely unconvincing. The rest of the family members are equally miscast, leaving audiences struggling to form any emotional connection with them. Rather than being immersed in their struggles and conflicts, viewers are left wondering if the cast were simply Ritchie’s friends having a casual get-together rather than dedicated actors committed to their roles.

Helen Mirren and Piers Bronson as much chemistry as Trump and Zelensky

Set in the dark underworld of London’s criminal elite, Mob Land follows the Harrigan crime family, once a formidable empire now teetering on the brink of collapse. Conrad Harrigan (Pierce Brosnan), the aging patriarch, is desperate to maintain his grip on the city’s illicit activities while facing threats from younger, more ruthless up-and-comers. His wife, Maeve (Helen Mirren), is the matriarch who attempts to hold the family together through sheer force of will, though her influence is waning.

Their eldest son, Michael Harrigan, is expected to inherit the family business, but his lack of cunning and charisma makes him an unfit successor. Meanwhile, his younger brother, Sean (a brooding but ultimately forgettable presence), wrestles with the moral implications of the life he’s been born into. As internal family tensions rise, external threats loom ever closer.

Not much of as family affair as the cast fail to connect .

Enter Tom Hardy as James “Jimmy” Callahan, a former enforcer for the Harrigans who has spent the past decade trying to escape his violent past. Haunted by his past actions, Jimmy is reluctantly pulled back into the fray when his younger brother, Danny, finds himself in the crosshairs of both the Harrigans and a rival gang. Jimmy’s return sets off a chain of events that pits old loyalties against new betrayals, forcing him to navigate a treacherous landscape where trust is a commodity in short supply.

The series attempts to explore themes of legacy, loyalty, and redemption, but it never quite commits to any of them in a meaningful way. The narrative meanders through predictable plot points, offering nothing particularly innovative or engaging. The action sequences, while well-choreographed, feel like recycled versions of better-executed scenes from Ritchie’s earlier works. Mob Land lacks the sharp dialogue, snappy pacing, and dynamic storytelling that made films like Snatch and The Gentlemen so enjoyable.

Ultimately, Mob Land is a series that suffers from a lack of originality, uninspired performances (aside from Hardy), and a script that fails to live up to its potential. The story is neither gripping nor emotionally resonant, leaving viewers indifferent to the fates of its characters. What you find yourself longing for throughout the series is a return to Hardy’s scenes—because only then does Mob Land show any real spark of life.

In the end, Mob Land feels more like a missed opportunity than a worthy addition to Ritchie’s filmography. Fans of the director’s earlier work will likely walk away disappointed, wondering what could have been if the series had lived up to its promising premise.

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Wine tasting at the most talked about gallery in London ?

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 30th Mar 2025
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Sip wine and dine at the most talked about gallery in London https://www.firepit.art

Steven’s Out and About

To many, I might seem like the life and soul of the party, but in reality, I’m quite shy. Outside the familiar setting of events and friends’ parties, the thought of going to bars or clubs fills me with anxiety and dread. Like many, I want to meet new people, try new things, and expand my social horizons. After the passing of my former partner, I’ve struggled more than I care to admit—even to those closest to me.

Saturday nights are usually spent writing or watching a box set, feeling safe in my own space. But this year, I resolved to change that. The question was: how?

2Shades agony aunt Heidi Gammon suggested that instead of heading to the buzzy clubs and bars of Soho and Vauxhall, I should try something different. My tastes have always been eclectic, so I took her up on the challenge.

It wasn’t long before I found the perfect option—one that ticked all the boxes: a wine tasting with dinner. Of course, I couldn’t go alone, so I brought along 2Shades beauty editor Clare Mc Sweeney and her beloved teddy bear coat (don’t worry, no teddy bears were harmed in the making of it!).

The wine tasting was hosted at one of London’s most talked-about galleries—Firepit. Located on the Greenwich Peninsula, right by the banks of the Thames, Firepit is an experimental and forward-thinking artist collective, making it the perfect setting for an evening of culture, conversation, and, of course, fine wine.

Held on the last Saturday of each month, the wine-tasting masterclass is hosted by former restaurateur and sommelier “Charlie” Young, a man renowned for his deep knowledge and infectious passion for wine. Charlie’s reputation precedes him—his expertise is matched only by his ability to make learning about wine both engaging and thoroughly enjoyable.

Doors open at 5:30 PM, giving guests a half-hour to settle in, mingle, and explore the gallery’s latest exhibitions before the tasting officially begins at 6:00 PM. The setting itself—Firepit, a cutting-edge artist collective on the Greenwich Peninsula—adds an extra layer of creativity and intrigue to the evening.

Charlie pours the wine and chats .

Now, if you’ve ever attended a wine tasting where the host droned on endlessly, more focused on their own cleverness than on making the experience enjoyable, you might be wary. I’ve been there. In fact, I once attended a tasting where even my endlessly patient and sophisticated friend finally snapped, exclaiming, “FOR F—’S SAKE, JUST POUR IT!”

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Thankfully, Charlie’s approach was the complete opposite. He made a point of ensuring the evening was lighthearted, interactive, and fun—without ever compromising on substance. He didn’t just educate; he entertained. And judging by the lively atmosphere in the room, he had a gift for bringing together a wonderfully diverse and genuinely lovely group of people.

The tasting featured six carefully selected wines, each with its own story and character. Gallery owner Marcus Jake was also on hand, standing by with a bucket for those who wished to spit or discard their samples—though, let’s be honest, few took him up on that offer. His primary role for the evening? Acting as Charlie’s glamorous assistant, which, in reality, mostly involved keeping everyone’s glasses generously topped up.

The wine tasting flies by in just over an hour, but the evening doesn’t end there. Charlie stays on for the dinner portion, offering expert advice on wine pairings and sharing fascinating insights in his signature engaging style.

Celebrity photographer Annemarie Bickerton with Charlie and me https://www.firepit.art

Dinner is served in the gallery itself, creating a relaxed and sociable atmosphere. Guests—many of whom started the evening as strangers—naturally connect over a two-course meal, exchanging thoughts on the wines, the artwork, and life in general. The sense of camaraderie is undeniable, making it feel more like an intimate dinner party than a formal event.

2Shades Clare Mc Sweeney and Annemarie Bickerton with friends join the fun https://www.firepit.art

For those who prefer just the wine tasting experience, tickets are available separately, with no obligation to stay for dinner. However, gallery curator Matthew warmly encourages guests to linger, explore the artwork, and enjoy another drink at their leisure.

“We want people to experience the gallery, to feel at home in the space,” Marcus explains. “That’s why we keep ticket prices as low as possible. The wine tastings and dinners have been a real success, bringing people together in a way that feels effortless and enjoyable.”

And a success it certainly was. 2Shades will definitely be back.

Date and time

Saturday, April 26 · 6 – 10:30pm GMT+1. Doors at 6pm

Regional French Wine Masterclass with optional two-course dinner

An informal and exciting wine masterclass featuring six premium wines from the Loire Valley, Madiran in the Southwest, the Rhone Valley and Provence. Presented by Vinoteca founder Charlie Young

There are two tickets:

Masterclass £16.50 per person, 6:00pm to 7:15pm

Two-course dinner £16.50 per person, 7:30pm to 10:30pm

Communal two-course dinner, with glasses or bottles of the wines featured in the Masterclass from £6 per glass

Regional French Wine Masterclass with Charlie Young

Anjou Blanc ‘Large Soif!’ 2020 – Terra Vita Vinum, Anjou, Loire (white)

Chinon Clos de la Bonneliere 2020 – Chateau de la Bonneliere, Chinon, Loire (red)

Pacherenc du Vic Bilh Sec 2021 – Domaine Laplace, Madiran, South West

Madiran ‘Aydie l’Origine’ 2021 – Domaine Laplace, Madiran, South West

Côtes du Rhone Vieilles Vignes 2018 – Famille Gras, Rhone South

Coteaux de Béziers Chardonnay Prestige 2022 – Chateau Preignes Le Neuf, Provence

Two-Course Dinner

Main course

Cider-braised roast ham hock with Jersey potatoes and spring peas

Dessert

Hot cross bun bread & butter pudding

Vegetarian/vegan options available on request

All masterclass wines available to buy by-the-glass or bottle

A Note from Firepit.

We have a challenge 25 policy. So please bring ID that proves you are over 18, if you are lucky enough to look under 25!

Masterclass starts at 6:00pm, you are welcome to come earlier and enjoy the gallery space.

Marcus with two of the fabulous guest Stephen . https://www.firepit.art

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Heidi Is Back – Ready to Dish Out Advice!

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 22nd Mar 2025
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Yes, Heidi is back, and she’s raring to go! As the agony aunt for 2Shades and Gateway Radio, she’s here to tackle your dilemmas head-on. This month, she’s bringing sexy—or not-so-sexy—back, offering advice on issues between the sheets.

From the film Fifty Shades of Grey .

Dear Heidi,
I hope you’re doing well. My fiancé, whom I love dearly, and I got into the whole Fifty Shades scene. At first, it was exciting and fun, but now he doesn’t seem interested in making love without some form of role-play or pain involved. I’ve tried talking to him about it, but he just laughs it off and tells me to relax, insisting that it’s great. The problem is, this isn’t what I want long-term, and we’re getting married in September. What should I do?
Suki, Pimlico

Heidi’s Advice
Oh, Suki, you’ve come to the right place! First off, Heidi is all about fun in the bedroom and never one to judge. Fantasy and role-play can be exciting, but before opening Pandora’s box, you both need to talk and make sure you’re on the same page. It’s crucial to set clear boundaries and expectations. Kinks and role-playing should enhance intimacy, not replace the emotional connection that comes from simply making love or cuddling without the extras. From what you’re describing, it sounds like your fiancé’s interest in this particular dynamic may be moving beyond fun exploration and into something more habitual.

When a fetish becomes a necessity rather than a choice, it can create an imbalance in a relationship. That’s when it stops being healthy and can become an addiction—and that’s never good. You need to have an open and honest conversation with him—without letting him brush off your concerns. Let him know how you feel and why this isn’t sustainable for you. If he truly respects and loves you, he should be willing to find a balance that works for both of you. Since you’re about to get married, this is an important issue to address sooner rather than later. If necessary, consider speaking with a professional sex therapist or couples’ counsellor to navigate this together. Role-play should be something you both enjoy, not something you feel pressured into. Wishing you the best of luck—hope you get it sorted!

Love, Heidi

Dear Heidi,
Gosh, this is embarrassing—I’m a big boy. My mates at the gym joke, “Here comes horse boy,” and I even have to be careful about what underwear I wear. The real problem is meeting a girl. Everything seems fine until we go to make love, and then they can’t handle it. Will I be single for the rest of my life?
Darren, London

Heidi’s Advice
Darren, you’re not alone, and many men have these concerns—I hear it a lot. Penises come in various sizes, and sometimes, a longer or thicker penis can make sex uncomfortable—or even painful—for the person being penetrated. The good news is that there are ways to prevent discomfort and ensure sex is as enjoyable for your partner as it is for you.

Communicate and Check In
Good communication is key. Since you can’t read minds, ask your partner how they’re feeling throughout. Always listen, respect their boundaries, and prioritize mutual pleasure. Let your partner know that you’re bigger than average—not all vaginas are the same.

Prioritise Foreplay
Foreplay is essential. Activities like kissing, touching, sharing fantasies, fingering, and using sex toys help increase arousal. This is especially important for people with vaginas, as arousal enhances natural lubrication, making penetration more comfortable.

Use Lubrication
Lube is a game changer. It reduces friction and makes penetration smoother. While vaginal arousal increases natural wetness, adding lube can enhance comfort.

Take It Slow
Pacing matters. Going slow allows your partner’s body to adjust to penetration. You can also take breaks when needed—just make sure to communicate openly about what feels good and what doesn’t.

Experiment with Positions
If a longer penis is causing discomfort by pressing against the cervix during vaginal sex, try different positions that give your partner more control over depth and angle. Small adjustments can make a big difference. Good luck, lovely!
Love, Heidi

Dear Heidi,
I am a married woman with two sons, aged 18 and 19. My husband and I rarely have sex. Lately, I’ve developed a crush on the fitness instructor at my gym, who is a woman. To be honest, I’ve had crushes on women all my life. A month ago, I started chatting with the instructor, and we went for a drink. One thing led to another, and we ended up at her place—where I had the best sex of my life. Do you think I’m a lesbian? What should I do now, Heidi?
Sahara, Southend

Heidi’s AdviceHeidi’s Advice

Well, Sahara, first of all—take a deep breath. It is never too late to embrace your true self, but only you can determine what that means for you.

Sexuality is complex, and labels like lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual don’t always fit neatly. Some people discover their true preferences later in life, while others have always known but never explored them. Your feelings and experiences are valid, and there is no rush to define yourself.

You mentioned that you’ve had crushes on women all your life, which suggests that this isn’t a sudden change, but rather something that has always been there. The key question now is: what do you want? Do you want to continue seeing this woman? Do you feel like this experience was just a one-time moment of exploration, or does it reveal a deeper truth about your desires and identity?

What You Can Do Next

Talk to the Instructor (If You Feel Comfortable)
If this woman is someone you can trust, it may help to have an open conversation with her about your feelings. She might offer guidance or insight based on her own experiences.
Reflect on Your Feelings
Take some time to explore what this experience means to you. Are you emotionally drawn to women, or was this more about physical attraction? Are you happy in your marriage, or do you feel like something has been missing?
Consider Counseling
This is a big moment in your life, and speaking with a therapist—especially one experienced in LGBTQ+ topics—could provide support as you navigate your emotions and possible next steps.
Read Up on Other Women’s Experiences
Coming to terms with your sexuality can be both exciting and overwhelming. You’re not alone in this journey, and hearing from others who have been in your shoes can be incredibly reassuring. Here’s a guide that might help:

Women’s Coming Out Guide

Hello Heidi,

My best friend is madly in love with her husband and sees him through rose-tinted glasses. However, behind her back, he keeps making passes at me. Whenever we’re all together, he acts like the perfect straight husband, but when she’s not around, it’s a different story.

Last week, they came over for dinner. While my friend was in the bathroom, I went to the kitchen, and he followed me. He pushed himself up against me and was erect he whispered that he’d be over soon and that I had better be a “good boy.”

I don’t want to hurt her—she’s so happy—but I also don’t want to be in this situation. What should I do?

Andrew, Wandsworth

Comedy Central (Show: “The Other Two”)

Heidi’s Advice Oh, Andrew, as a city gal who has spent plenty of time around the boys, I’ve heard this story before. You’d be surprised how often seemingly straight men engage in secretive same-sex encounters while maintaining a completely heterosexual façade.

First and foremost—do not tell your best friend. I know that might sound counterintuitive but hear me out. If she’s deeply in love with him, chances are he will manipulate the situation and convince her that it’s all lies. Worse, he may turn it around and claim that you made a pass at him. And trust me, she will believe him—because she wants to believe him.

If she’s under his spell, she may not wake up and smell the coffee for years—possibly even decades—especially if he’s a skilled manipulator. The fallout could cost you your friendship, and he may even try to retaliate by accusing you of slandering his name.

What You Should Do

Set Clear Boundaries. Confront him firmly but calmly. Tell him directly that you are not interested, and that his behaviour is unacceptable. Do not engage in threats or aggression, as these situations can turn nasty fast.
Stay Away. If possible, limit your interactions with him. If you must be around him, avoid situations where you are alone together.
Whatever You Do—Do Not Give In. Do not sleep with him. These types of situations almost always end in heartbreak, and in most cases, men like him do not leave their wives or partners. Instead, they continue their double lives, leaving a trail of emotional damage behind them.

This is a tricky, frustrating, and unfair position for you to be in, Andrew, but your priority should be protecting yourself. Hopefully, one day, your friend will see him for who he really is—but for now, you need to make sure you don’t get dragged into his mess.

Stay strong and take care.

Love, Heidi. https://www.counselling-foryou.co.uk

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Steven Steps Out

What a night! It is truly an honour to be the patron of Anna Kennedy Online. The team has become like family, and with great excitement, I stepped out on Saturday for the annual Autism Hero Awards.

All pictures by Terry Scott https://annakennedyonline.com

https://annakennedyonline.com Vicki Michelle with Anna Kennedy OBE

The Autism Hero Awards 2025: A Night of Celebration and Inspiration

Red Carpet Ready GBNEWS Nana Akua and fiancé Stephen Gillian .

On March 15, 2025, the prestigious Autism Hero Awards, hosted by Dr. Anna Kennedy OBE, took place at the Holiday Inn Regents Park, London. Organized by the charity Anna Kennedy Online, this highly anticipated event honoured the remarkable achievements of individuals, organisations, and initiatives making a positive impact in the autism community. With inspiring award categories, special performances, and celebrity guests, the night was a spectacular celebration of talent, resilience, and advocacy.

Anna Kennedy surrounded by glitz and glamour towering above her Actor Matthew Blake and entrepreneur Richard Andrews

A Star-Studded Guest List

The event welcomed an impressive lineup of celebrities, including bestselling author Samantha Lee Howe, actress Vicki Michelle, actor Gary Webster, television personality Wendy Turner Webster.

Tiano’s Christopher Hamilton with Anna Kennedy OBE

Heartstopper star Bradley Riches, presenter Nana Akua, and fiancé author Stephen Gillian. 70 years In the business Frazer Hines danced till midnight . Olympic champion and patron Joe Luck was on hand ,

Award winning author and screen writer Samantha Lee Howe who judged the awards along with me Steven Smith

Adding to the glamour was singing sensation Tiano’s Christopher Hamilton. Actress and presenter Danielle Mason, Pink Ribbons’ Lisa Allen, and artist Piluca Camino Alcon also graced the event. The evening’s main hosts, award-winning presenter Aston Avery and youth theatre organiser Phillip Barnett, ensured the night flowed seamlessly with warmth and professionalism.

The man of the moments Brad Riches

Presenter Aston Avery and Phil Barnett with Anna https://annakennedyonline.com

Honouring the Autism Community’s Heroes

Model actress and presenter Danielle Mason joined the celebrities and crowd .

The Autism Hero Awards is more than just an event—it is a movement that recognises the incredible contributions of individuals and organisations within the autism community. Each category highlights a different aspect of support, advocacy, or achievement, celebrating efforts both big and small.

Award Winners and Highly Commended Recipients

Young Person of the Year Award
Winner: Lucy Lovett
Highly Commended: Jiya Rai, Chapman Shum

Outstanding Community Award
Winner: True Colours Theatre CIO Foundation
Highly Commended: Craig Henderson, Doncaster Autism Service

Terry Scott is ready to do his thing as Aston Avery presents and Nana Akua and Anna Kennedy present and award to True Colours .

Sibling of the Year Award
Winner: Brooke Scaysbrook-Smith
Highly Commended: Kayden Francis, Rosie Simmons

Parent/Carer of the Year Award
Winner: Nicole Simmons
Highly Commended: Amanda Inglis, Satia Rai

veteran acting royalty Frazer Hines .

The Lifetime Award
Winner: Elspeth Jones
Highly Commended: Annie Sands, Joely Williams

Leading Business Award
Winner: Skye Stack
Highly Commended: Pamela Capriglione, Hiyed CIC

People’s Autism Hero of the Year Award
Winner: Blaise Heywood
Highly Commended: Jenny Robinson, Rose Connelly

Two of the judges actor Gary Webster and presenter and author Wendy Turner

Outstanding Education Award
Winner: Hayley Morris
Highly Commended: Kassem Istanbouli, Margarita Mladenova

Creative Arts and Media Award
Winner: Curran Dobbs
Highly Commended: Libby Barrett, Amaya Edwards

Support Group of the Year Award
Winner: Kim Drake – Little Hero’s ASD Support Group

Personal Achievement Award
Winner: Thomas Howard
Highly Commended: Amaya Edwards, Kelsey McInearney

Online Social Network Award
Winner: Daniel Jones

The star of the night Vega

Human-Animal Bond Award
Winner: Philippa Jane Sjoberg & Scrumpy
Highly Commended: Sarah Allen & Patsy, Bobby Clark & Zeus

The judges Steven Smith Samantha Lee Howe Brad Riches , Gary Webster with Anna Kennedy OBE

A Night of Emotional Speeches and Performances

The night was filled with heartfelt speeches from winners and nominees, many sharing personal stories of perseverance and triumph. One of the most touching moments came from Thomas Howard, who received the Personal Achievement Award for his relentless advocacy in making neurodiversity training mandatory in higher education. His emotional speech moved the audience, reinforcing the importance of awareness and inclusivity.

On hand celebrity magician Angus
Baskerville entertained .

The Impact of the Autism Hero Awards

Events like these play a crucial role in breaking down barriers, fostering inclusion, and encouraging ongoing support for autistic individuals. Dr. Anna Kennedy OBE, the driving force behind the awards, delivered a passionate speech about the importance of community support, education, and advocacy. Her dedication continues to bring positive change and hope to countless individuals and families.

Looking Ahead

As the curtains closed on another successful Autism Hero Awards ceremony, attendees left inspired and determined. The event once again proved the importance of recognising and celebrating achievements within the autism community. With each passing year, the Autism Hero Awards grow stronger, touching more lives and expanding their reach.

Upcoming Event: Autism & Art Show

Anna Kennedy Online in Association with Firepit Art Gallery CIC Presents Their Inaugural
🎨 “AUTISM & ART SHOW” 🎨

VIP Red Carpet Launch: May 22nd, 2025
Exhibition Dates: May 22nd – May 27th, 2025

“For people on the autism spectrum, art is a powerful medium that encourages self-expression.”

Anna Kennedy Online, in collaboration with the Firepit Art Gallery, is proud to present the first-ever “Autism & Art Show.” This exciting event showcases incredible artwork from autistic artists and their allies, with all profits supporting the charity Anna Kennedy Online. Art is more than just a passion—it serves as a therapeutic outlet, offering solace and joy to many individuals on the autism spectrum.

Featured Artists Include:

Annemarie Bickerton | Piluca Camino Alcon | Chris Wild | Alastair Blaster

Are you an artist on the autism spectrum or an ally who wishes to contribute? Donations of artwork or a percentage of sales are welcomed to support this meaningful cause. Showcase your work at one of London’s most vibrant galleries!

📩 To donate art or get involved, contact:
Steven Smith – spman@btinternet.com

🎟 Get Your VIP Night Tickets Below!
https://bit.ly/42Jo4OA
(Other exhibition dates are free to attend, but donations to the charity are greatly appreciated.)

📍 Event Location:
Firepit Art Gallery CIC
Firepit Gallery
No.2, Upper Riverside,
10 Cutter Ln, Ground Floor Unit,
Greenwich Peninsula, London SE10 0XX

🔗 Learn More & Support the Charity

Chris Wilde one of the artist who work will be on show .

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Steven’s Viewz: Four Must-Have New Beauty Products

Post author By Steven Smith.
Post date 17th Mar 2025
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Having been a creator in the beauty industry before becoming a writer, my eagle eye is always on the latest hot products to keep us looking our very best.

As spring approaches, I thought it was the perfect time to share my top four picks that will bring out the best in you.

1. Enough Wellness Collagen – Created by Women for Women (But Men Can Use It Too!)

“Beauty comes from within.”

Enough Wellness Collagen is a highly effective supplement that combines 10,000mg of two types of high-quality bovine collagen with vitamins C and D to enhance absorption and maximize benefits. This targeted formula nourishes from within, making it an excellent addition to any beauty routine.

Why Collagen Matters

Collagen is a vital structural protein essential for maintaining the health and integrity of our skin, hair, nails, joints, and connective tissues. As we age, collagen production declines, leading to visible signs of aging such as sagging skin, weakened joints, and brittle hair and nails.

Adding a collagen supplement to your daily routine helps replenish these levels, promoting a youthful glow and overall well-being.

Premium-Quality Ingredients

Enough Wellness sources its hydrolyzed Swiss Bovine Collagen Peptides from grass-fed cows in Switzerland, ensuring purity and sustainability.

The formula is free from gluten, GMOs, artificial colors, flavors, fats, sugars, and carbs, providing essential support for:
✔ Radiant skin
✔ Strong hair and nails
✔ Flexible joints
✔ A healthy metabolism

Its neutral taste makes it incredibly versatile—you can add it to smoothies, water, juice, or even use it in baking. We loved it at 2SHADES!

🔗 Check it out here

2 Re[Sens] – A Game Changer for Redness-Prone Skin

It’s not often that I get truly excited about a new skincare range—after all, I’ve seen just about every potion and lotion on the market. But when leading skincare expert Iryna Stewart suggested that my Celtic skin redness could be tamed and calmed, I was all ears.

And she was right. Re[Sens] is a game-changer for those of us prone to redness or flushed-looking skin.

The Philosophy Behind Re[Sens]

Made in Ukraine, this brand is deeply rooted in ancient Ukrainian traditions, bringing them into the modern world through the symbolism of the circle—a concept inspired by Trypillian culture. This symbol represents the eternal cycle of time, regeneration, harmony, and the connection between nature and cosmic rhythms.

But Re[Sens] is more than just skincare. It’s about rethinking beauty—where high-quality, effective products are created with sustainability in mind.

Breaking Down the Name: Re[Sens]

🔹 RE – Represents a moment of rethinking skincare, where both the product and its packaging are designed without harming the planet. The brand emphasizes that the earth needs care just as much as our skin, and failing to consider this leads to a loss for everyone.

🔹 SENS – Derived from “senses” and “sensitivity”, reflecting both the needs of delicate skin and the emotional sensitivity of an individual. Re[Sens] acknowledges that every element of life affects our well-being, offering a 360° approach to skincare.

A New Standard in Beauty: Slow, Thoughtful, and Effective

Re[Sens] embraces the philosophy of Slow Beauty, which is built on the idea that more is not always better. Just as multitasking can lead to burnout, overwhelming the skin with too many ingredients can cause stress and irritation. Instead, Re[Sens] focuses on:

✔ Mindful consumption
✔ Achieving results without compromising skin health
✔ Ethical and sustainable skincare

Rather than overloading the skin, Re[Sens] provides a balanced blend of anti-inflammatory, moisturizing, and soothing ingredients, ensuring effective care without overstimulation.

For those looking to adopt a conscious, holistic approach to skincare—one that nurtures both the skin and the planet—Re[Sens] is a must-try.

🔗 Learn more here 15 percent discount with the code STEVEN2025

Creator of the pillow Tracey Wooley with aesthetic and beauty expert Clare McSweeney

3 The Fresh Face Pillow – The Ultimate Beauty Sleep Essential SS15 will give your audience 15% off

If there’s one beauty product I can’t stop raving about, it’s the Fresh Face Pillow—even Contessa Sharrock loves it! This clinically proven pillow is a game-changer in the fight against sleep-induced wrinkles and creases—something even the best creams can’t fix. And the best part? You only need to buy it once!

What Makes the Fresh Face Pillow So Special?

✔️ Clinically Proven – Backed by science to prevent sleep wrinkles
✔️ Silk Pillowcase – Gentle on skin and hair, reducing dryness, bedhead, and breakage
✔️ Memory Foam with Cooling Gel – Supports neck posture while keeping you cool all night

Why Silk Matters

Silk pillowcases offer more than just luxury—they actively protect your skin and hair. Unlike cotton, silk reduces friction and irritation, helping to prevent wrinkles, dryness, and breakage. It’s also hypoallergenic and temperature-regulating, ensuring a comfortable and restorative sleep.

Your Best Defense Against Aging

Did you know that most aging happens while you sleep? The Fresh Face Pillow is designed to protect your skin overnight, ensuring you wake up looking refreshed and youthful.

If you’re serious about skincare, beauty, and better sleep, this pillow is a must-have!

SS15 will give your audience 15% o

🔗 Get yours here ☁️✨

https://watermanshair.com/products/watermans-mini-massager-care-comb

4 Watermans Red Light Mini Scalp Massager – A Game Changer for Hair Care

At 63 years young, I still get compliments on my hair, thanks to top colorist Heidi Gammon and my barber Mike Edde. While some of my mates are jetting off to Turkey for hair transplants, I have a secret weapon—Watermans shampoo and conditioners.

Now, they’ve introduced something even better—the Red Light Mini Scalp Massager. As someone who already swears by scalp massagers, I can confidently say that this new red light mini comb is an absolute game-changer.

Why You Need the Watermans Red Light Mini Scalp Massager

✔️ Boosts Hair Growth – Uses high-frequency vibrations and red light therapy to rejuvenate the scalp and encourage hair regrowth.
✔️ Enhances Serum & Oil Absorption – Designed to work with Watermans hair oil or serum, ensuring deeper penetration of nutrients for stronger, healthier hair.
✔️ Scientifically Proven – Red light therapy has been shown to combat hair loss and promote thicker, fuller hair.
✔️ Easy to Use – Simply squeeze the side pads to release oil or serum while the massager glides smoothly over the scalp.
✔️ Portable & USB-C Rechargeable – Take it anywhere—ideal for travel or home use.

How to Use for Maximum Hair Growth

1️⃣ Charge the Device – Ensure it’s fully charged for consistent performance.
2️⃣ Load with Oil or Serum – Use Watermans hair oil or serum for maximum benefits.
3️⃣ Activate Oil Release – Gently squeeze the pads to dispense product evenly.
4️⃣ Turn On & Massage – Select your desired setting and let the high-frequency vibrations & infrared light do the work.
5️⃣ Glide Over the Scalp – Use small, circular motions, focusing on thinning areas.
6️⃣ Relax & Enjoy – Feel the soothing effects as it stimulates blood circulation and nourishes the scalp.
7️⃣ Use Regularly – For the best results, use several times a week to see noticeable hair growth improvements.

Final Verdict

If you’re serious about scalp health and hair growth, this powerful yet easy-to-use device is a must-have. With its red light therapy, vibration technology, and precise serum application, it provides professional-level scalp rejuvenationat home. Plus, its compact, rechargeable design makes it perfect for on-the-go use.

💡 Whether you’re looking to prevent hair thinning or simply boost scalp circulation, this is the ultimate tool for vibrant, healthy hair!

🔗 Get yours here. https://watermanshair.com/products/watermans-mini-massager-care-comb

Me with my incredible agent Jane Compton both of us are addicted to Waterman’s ,

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