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Celebrating Neurodiversity: Autism’s Got Talent Marks Its 15th Anniversary with an Unforgettable Night at the Mermaid Theatre

Pictures: Tally Nothey and Terry Scott

From breathtaking musical performances and dazzling dance routines to tears, laughter and standing ovations, Autism’s Got Talent celebrated its 15th anniversary in spectacular style. Steven Smith joined the sell-out audience for an extraordinary evening that proved talent knows no boundaries.

It was a night of extraordinary talent, heartfelt emotion and thunderous applause as Autism’s Got Talent celebrated its landmark 15th anniversary at London’s Mermaid Theatre. Playing to a sell-out audience, the spectacular event delivered what was arguably its most moving and memorable show to date, with performances that brought tears to the eyes one moment and had the audience cheering with delight the next. It was a glorious celebration of neurodiversity, individuality and the remarkable abilities of autistic performers, and an evening that will undoubtedly remain in the hearts of those fortunate enough to attend.

There are certain dates in my diary that I look forward to more than others, and Autism’s Got Talent has always been at the very top of that list. It is, quite simply, my favourite time of year. Having watched this extraordinary event grow and evolve, I thought I knew exactly what to expect. Yet this year’s anniversary extravaganza managed to surpass even my expectations. From the moment I entered the Mermaid Theatre in Blackfriars, there was an unmistakable sense of excitement. Families gathered, familiar faces exchanged hugs and performers prepared for their moment in the spotlight. By the end of the evening, the auditorium had witnessed something genuinely special.

Since its inception in 2012, Autism’s Got Talent, the brainchild of the indefatigable Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, has grown from an ambitious idea into an internationally recognised showcase celebrating the abilities, creativity and individuality of autistic children and adults. Over the years, it has attracted considerable media attention, celebrity support and performers from around the world, establishing itself as one of the most uplifting events in the charity calendar.

Unlike conventional talent competitions, however, Autism’s Got Talent has no judges, no eliminations and no disappointed contestants being sent home. Instead, every performer is encouraged, celebrated and given the opportunity to shine. There is no pressure to conform to anyone else’s expectations, only the freedom to express individuality through music, dance, theatre and performance. For some, stepping onto that stage represents the fulfilment of a lifelong dream; for others, it is an opportunity to build confidence, overcome personal challenges and demonstrate talents that might otherwise remain unseen. Above all, it is a celebration of what people can achieve when they are given encouragement, opportunity and the freedom to be themselves.

This year’s 15th-anniversary spectacular pulled out all the stops, bringing together more than 20 acts, including ten newcomers and ten returning favourites. The evening opened with Dr Anna Kennedy OBE welcoming the packed auditorium and introducing special messages from celebrity supporters, including Loose Women star Denise Welch, Blue singer Anthony Costa and former EastEnders actress Kacey Ainsworth. Their messages of encouragement set the tone for an evening that was as much about celebrating achievement as it was about entertaining the audience.

There was, naturally, a generous sprinkling of showbiz glamour. Among the familiar faces giving their time to introduce performers was much-loved ‘Allo ‘Allo! actress Vicki Michelle MBE, a longstanding supporter and patron of the charity. Joining her were Christopher Hamilton and Shimi Goodman of Tiano, alongside former EastEnders heart-throb Tony Discipline and actress Ionica Adriana. It was heartwarming to see established names from the entertainment industry so enthusiastically championing autistic talent. The celebrities may have brought an extra touch of sparkle, but there was never any doubt about who the real stars of the evening were: the performers themselves.

A huge supporter of Anna Kennedy Vicki Michelle MBE

Also joining the celebrations was acclaimed artist Piluca, whose striking mural at the Sidelings Tunnel pays tribute to the charity and its inspiring work. Some of the charity’s sponsors were equally involved in the proceedings, with Mandy Aulak of Talem Law and Ione Inness of SEND Tutoring taking to the stage to introduce acts and speak about the importance of creating opportunities for autistic individuals. Their support is a reminder that events of this scale depend upon the generosity and commitment of organisations and individuals who believe in the charity’s mission.

Award winning performers Tiano

Guiding the audience through the evening were two enthusiastic comperes, Gateway Radio DJ and charity ambassador Aston Avery, alongside former The People’s Strictly contestant and amateur theatre enthusiast Phillip Barnett. Aston, who recently received a prestigious BQF Patrons Award presented by HRH The Princess Royal, brought his customary warmth and infectious enthusiasm to the proceedings. Together, the pair kept the programme moving with humour, encouragement and genuine affection for the performers, ensuring that everyone received the welcome and recognition they deserved.

EastEnders Tony Discipline

And what a programme it was. Performers had travelled from across the United Kingdom and further afield, including Ireland and Hungary, each bringing their own personality, story and extraordinary abilities to the stage. One of the joys of Autism’s Got Talent is that you never quite know what is coming next. One moment you are listening to a beautiful ballad, the next you are watching a dazzling dance routine or cheering along to an energetic musical performance. The sheer variety is part of its magic.

The show opened with PPAS, whose founder, Maggie Paterson, has generously offered scholarships to previous Autism’s Got Talent performers, demonstrating how the opportunities created by the event can continue long after the final curtain falls.

Stevie Little Jays delighted the audience with singing accompanied by Makaton signing, while Lillie Rose Allan delivered a charming rendition of Grace VanderWaal’s I Don’t Know My Name, a song whose themes of individuality and self-discovery seemed particularly appropriate for the occasion. Holli Pandit brought a touch of elegance with her beautiful harp playing, while Macauley Elvin performed Benson Boone’s Momma Song, dedicating the moving number to his family. It was one of those performances that reminded everyone just how powerful music can be when it carries a deeply personal meaning.

The family spirit Anna Kennedy’s regulars the Elvin

Another familiar face was Rich Stevens, a tremendous supporter of the charity who has raised funds through his remarkable walking challenges, including a 50-mile effort this year. Rich stepped into the spotlight to perform The Great Pretender, adding another memorable musical moment to the celebrations.

Walking to West End fame Rich Stevens with his lovely wife Zoe

One of the evening’s most energetic and thought-provoking performances came from The Childish, who had previously joined Anna Kennedy OBE on Nana Akua’s GB News programme to discuss their charity single, This Has to Stop. Highlighting the devastating consequences of knife crime, the song carries an important message for young people and communities. Performing the complete single at the Mermaid Theatre, the group delivered a powerful and passionate performance that brought the house down. It was a reminder that music can be much more than entertainment; it can educate, raise awareness and give young people a voice on issues that matter.

Aaron Clarke delighted the audience by playing the melodeon alongside his father, Andy, in a touching example of the family spirit that runs through the entire event.

Holly and Hannah joined forces for a lively musical mash-up, while Xander Hall brought his acting and performance skills to the stage with Simply Red’s Fairground. Joshua Scott Crowley injected another burst of energy into the auditorium with an impressive drumming rendition of Uptown Funk, giving the audience every excuse to clap along.

Going Up Funk with Joshua

Sophia Naughton delivered a beautiful performance of Journey to the Past from the musical Anastasia. With its soaring melody and emotional lyrics, the song provided a wonderful opportunity for Sophia to showcase her voice. I was particularly charmed to learn that she also sings in her parents’ pub. Judging by her performance, the customers are certainly in for a treat.

Another performer whose story captured my imagination was award-winning dancer Leila Juhász, who travelled from Hungary to make her Autism’s Got Talent debut. Remarkably, it was not only her first appearance at the show but also her first time travelling by aeroplane. What an adventure, and what a debut! Leila delivered an incredible street-dance routine, bringing confidence, energy and impressive choreography to the stage. Her appearance was a wonderful example of how the event can create opportunities and experiences that extend far beyond the performance itself.

Leila Juhász

André Adams treated the audience to a selection of memorable film themes on the saxophone, bringing a touch of cinematic magic to the theatre, while Alfie Webster took us into the world of Broadway with a musical-theatre number.

André Adams saxophonist with patron Steven Smith Dr Anna Kennedy OBE competes Aston Avery and Philip Barnett

Returning favourite and YouTube sensation Andrew McMurdie had travelled from Ireland to take part in the anniversary celebrations, performing an original composition entitled Memories Are Pictures. During rehearsals, Andrew perfectly captured the spirit of the occasion when he remarked, “There were so many uniquely talented people in one room, like I have never seen before.” His words summed up what makes Autism’s Got Talent so extraordinary. It is not simply about stepping onto a stage and performing; it is about friendship, confidence, opportunity and being surrounded by people who celebrate you for exactly who you are.

Andrew McMurdie

Yvie Bent also impressed with her rendition of Quiet, a song by Jonathan Reid Gealt, adding another emotional moment to an evening that moved effortlessly between uplifting entertainment and heartfelt reflection.

Sadly, Kieron Lee was unable to attend because he was unwell, but he was certainly not forgotten. He sent a special message, and the audience was treated to footage of his much-discussed appearance on the BBC’s The Assembly, during which he performed for former Scottish First Minister Nicola Sturgeon. It was a lovely way of ensuring that Kieron remained part of the anniversary celebrations, even though he could not be there in person. Kieron also created a special 15th-anniversary compilation video celebrating the event.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDZhPfdRXm4

Another performer who demonstrated the remarkable diversity of talent on display was Daniel Docherty, who travelled from Ireland. A talented powerlifter with an impressive operatic voice, Daniel proved that physical strength and musical artistry can sit beautifully alongside one another. His appearance was yet another reminder of why we should never make assumptions about people’s abilities or place limitations on what they might achieve.

As the evening progressed, the atmosphere inside the theatre became increasingly emotional. There had been laughter, cheers, wonderful surprises and moments of genuine tenderness, but nothing could have prepared me for the extraordinary finale delivered by Atypical with Attitude. I have attended countless theatrical performances and charity events over the years, yet I can honestly say that their beautifully choreographed dance numbers were among the most moving I have witnessed.

Aston Avery and Philip Barnet compares with the rock of the show Lisa Robins .

The performance was dedicated to Kim Stygall, the late mother of dancer James, and what followed was a profoundly touching tribute filled with love, remembrance and emotion. Every movement seemed to carry meaning, and the sincerity of the dancers was almost overwhelming. It was not simply a display of technical skill but an expression of grief, affection and the enduring bond between a mother and her child. There was barely a dry eye in the house, and I certainly struggled to hold back the tears. As the final moments unfolded, the audience responded with heartfelt applause, recognising not only the artistry of the performance but also the courage and emotion behind it. For me, it was the defining moment of an extraordinary evening, and one I shall remember for a very long time.

At the heart of all this is, of course, the remarkable Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, whose tireless determination, passion and commitment have transformed Autism’s Got Talent into the much-loved celebration it is today. Over the years, Anna has become one of the most recognisable voices championing autistic individuals and their families, helping to create opportunities, challenge misconceptions and encourage greater understanding. Yet perhaps one of her greatest achievements is the extraordinary sense of family she has built around Anna Kennedy Online. It is a family that continues to grow, celebrates every achievement and understands the importance of allowing people to be accepted for who they are.

Super star voice

Reflecting on the event and her hopes for the future, Anna said: “We aim to continue to build Autism’s Got Talent year by year. We want all those involved to have fun, do what they love, make friends, be themselves, and have one night that is all about them.”

Those words beautifully capture the philosophy behind the event. It is not about fame, fortune or winning a trophy, but about having the opportunity to stand proudly on a stage, share your talents and be celebrated. For many performers and their families, the experience represents something far greater than a single evening of entertainment. It is a chance to build confidence, form lasting friendships and create memories that will remain long after the theatre lights have dimmed.

Piluca artist show her painting dedicated to Anna Kennedy online and talks on stage

Anna is also the first to acknowledge that none of this would be possible without the extraordinary dedication of her team, many of whom give their time voluntarily. Among them is Lisa Robins, one of the rocks of Anna Kennedy Online and Anna’s trusted right-hand woman, alongside the show’s stage manager, Fiona Shepherd, whose hard work helps transform months of preparation into the polished production audiences enjoy. A big shout-out also goes to Tally Nothey and Genna Nothey, who did the brilliant marketing for the event.

Anna Kennedy on line team .

In an entertainment industry so often dominated by competition, image and commercial success, Autism’s Got Talent offers something wonderfully refreshing. Here, success is not measured by television ratings, record sales or the opinions of a panel of judges. It is measured in smiles, confidence, friendships, personal achievements and the sheer joy of performing. It is about recognising what people can do rather than focusing on what others might assume they cannot.

As the evening drew to a close and the wonderful performers returned to the stage, the atmosphere inside the Mermaid Theatre was electric. There were beaming smiles, proud families, emotional embraces and applause that seemed to go on forever. Looking around the auditorium, I was reminded once again why I have such enormous affection for this event. It brings people together in a way that few other occasions manage, creating an atmosphere of authenticity, generosity and genuine celebration.

Fifteen years after Anna Kennedy first set out to create a platform for autistic talent, the event continues to grow, inspire and change perceptions. And if this spectacular anniversary celebration proved anything, it is that the future of Autism’s Got Talent is every bit as bright as the remarkable individuals who make it possible.

As I left the theatre, still thinking about that extraordinary finale and the many unforgettable performances I had witnessed, one thought stayed with me: the world would be a much kinder, more understanding place if we celebrated one another’s differences with the same enthusiasm and generosity that filled the Mermaid Theatre that night.

Because talent does not come in one shape, one size or one particular form. It comes from individuality, passion, determination and the courage to be yourself. And on this remarkable evening, every single performer was a star.

Fifteen years of talent, fifteen years of friendship and fifteen years of breaking down barriers. And judging by what I witnessed, the best may still be yet to come.

As the Anna Kennedy Online family would say, “You’re all amazing, and we all rock!”

Roll on Autism’s Got Talent 2027. Whoop, whoop!

Steven Smith is a journalist, author and patron of Anna Kennedy Online.

For further information about Anna Kennedy Online and Autism’s Got Talent, visit annakennedyonline.com.

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Diary of a Hernia Diva

“Just like a prayer, I’ll take you there “

Madonna Hernia too

It is not just global superstar diva Madonna who has been diagnosed with a hernia. After an agonising pain in my groin that very nearly brought me to my knees, I too discovered that I had joined the hernia club — a membership I certainly hadn’t applied for.

Suddenly, I was well and truly knocked out of my groove. I went from gym bunny to couch potato almost overnight. There would be no Vogue-ing for me for a while.

So here is one diva’s tale of overcoming the pain, indignity and unexpected challenges that come with having a hernia.

I admit that, at 65, my activity levels sometimes make my 26-year-old nephew groan.

“I’m exhausted just watching you,” he says, shaking his head.

I’m rarely out of the gym or sitting still for very long. Add to that a busy social and work life and people often ask me, “How do you do it?”

Well, unexpectedly, it all ground to a rather spectacular halt.

I was dashing with my nephew to catch the Tube at Victoria station when, completely out of the blue, a pain shot through my groin. It was so sharp and sudden that it felt as though someone had stabbed me.

“What’s wrong?” my nephew asked as I doubled over.

Then, almost as quickly as it had arrived, the pain disappeared.

I was left standing there slightly shaken, but we were due to leave for what promised to be an amazing trip to Spain in just a day’s time, visiting one of my closest friends. Surely a little groin pain wasn’t going to stop me?

Later that day, however, the discomfort returned, accompanied by a strange tiredness. But being me, I decided that a few cocktails, some Spanish sunshine and the sea would have me right as rain. I would still be the soul of the party.

And, of course, I was.

I even managed a divine two-and-a-half-hour walk along the Marbella seafront. Pain or no pain, this diva was not giving in without a fight.

But underneath the bravado, I knew something wasn’t right. And like any self-respecting male diva with access to Google and an overactive imagination, naturally I feared the worst.

Having been registered at the same GP surgery for around 20 years, I rarely seem to see the same doctor twice. Once back in London — and while simultaneously dealing with the stress of the airline losing my luggage — I managed to secure that rarest of modern treasures: an actual GP appointment.

I saw a lovely female doctor. With the problem being in the groin area, it was already slightly embarrassing, but almost immediately she began asking about my sex life.

“What sex life?” I joked.

She didn’t laugh.

“When did you last have intercourse?”

Then came questions about my HIV status and other sexual-health matters.

“I abstain,” I replied, by now becoming slightly irritated.

Every avenue seemed to be explored except the one word that eventually mattered: hernia.

That came almost at the last minute.

The doctor disappeared to seek advice and returned saying that it could indeed be a hernia. More worryingly, if there was any possibility that it was a strangulated hernia — a potentially serious complication — I needed to go to A&E.

“Don’t worry,” I was told. “You just need some blood tests and an ultrasound. Take this letter and they should fast-track you.”

Famous last words.

During the hours that followed, I met four other people who appeared to have fallen for a similar line.

Now, this is absolutely not about knocking the NHS. As God is my witness — and all that Gone with the Wind stuff — I remain incredibly grateful that we have it. But dear God, in this age of technology, surely we have to find a better way of managing A&E departments.

Why should people routinely have to sit for four or five hours waiting? There must be a better system.

I have visited hospitals in countries such as Thailand where, if you knew nothing about the healthcare system beforehand, you might wrongly expect something rather old-fashioned. The reality can be the complete opposite: modern, efficient and surprisingly streamlined.

A London A&E waiting room, meanwhile, can occasionally feel like its own form of theatre.

At one point, I encountered a rather terrifying character who suddenly shouted at me like the male version of Catherine Tate’s Nan:

“What the hell is wrong with you? You look like you’re off for a night out. I’ve never seen such healthy people!”

Charming.

Anyway, around five hours later, the very reason we should celebrate the NHS finally appeared in the form of a doctor.

He was excellent.

After examining me and reading the GP’s letter, he looked slightly puzzled and asked why on earth I had been sent to A&E in the first place. They didn’t even perform the particular ultrasound I needed there.

But his advice proved invaluable.

Rather than potentially waiting weeks for the scan, I decided to pay privately for an ultrasound.

And sure enough, there it was.

A hernia.

Suddenly, the stabbing pain, the discomfort while walking and the strange sensation in my groin all had a name.

Then came one side effect I certainly hadn’t expected — an apparent increase in my male libido.

Now, before anyone rushes off in search of a hernia in the hope of spicing up their love life, I should point out that there doesn’t appear to be medical evidence that a groin hernia actually increases libido. It may simply have been that, with pain, pressure and irritation in an area packed with nerves, I had suddenly become far more aware of that particular region of my anatomy.

Either way, confined increasingly to the sofa, banned from the gym and temporarily deprived of my usual bouncing around, it was reassuring to discover that while the hernia may have slowed me down, it certainly hadn’t switched everything off.

Still looking good — just moving at a slightly more dignified pace.

And unfortunately, my hernia story was only just beginning…

The guilty party

When the Hernia Took Charge

Despite everything, I was still trying to dash around as though nothing had happened.

My hernia, however, had other ideas.

I only had to walk so far before the pain would suddenly kick in and become so intense that I could barely put one foot in front of the other. On one occasion, it became so bad that I found myself clinging to a wall, seriously considering calling an ambulance.

For someone who is normally fiercely independent, constantly on the move and more likely to be found in the gym than lying on the sofa, it was frightening.

Nothing highlighted just how much my life had changed more than a journey home from my pre-operative assessment.

By what felt like a combination of luck, divine intervention and a minor miracle, I had been given a date for surgery. Even more impressively, the staff at Chelsea and Westminster Hospital were carrying out pre-operative assessments on a Sunday.

My assessment was incredibly thorough. Blood tests, an ECG, questions, checks — the lot. Everything seemed fine and, reassured, I headed home.

That was when I realised I had overdone it.

By the time I reached the Underground, the pain was excruciating. I found myself gripping the wall just to stay upright. Two incredibly kind men stopped and asked if they could help me, but there really wasn’t much anybody could do.

I simply had to stop, wait for the pain to ease and somehow get myself home.

The severity of the pain had already made me seek a private surgical opinion. Because the pain seemed disproportionate to what had been described as a relatively small hernia, an MRI was suggested to rule out another cause.

At around £1,300, however, that was simply not within my budget.

Besides, the hernia still needed repairing. My thinking became very simple: deal with what we know is there first. If the pain continued afterwards, then we could investigate something else.

And so, finally, the big day arrived.

Operation Diva

29 September. 7.30am.

Check-in time.

I arrived at Chelsea and Westminster Hospital full of nerves and running on an empty stomach after fasting overnight. Thankfully, I was still allowed clear fluids until two hours beforehand, which meant one thing was non-negotiable: coffee.

And what an excellent black coffee it was, courtesy of Social Impact Coffee inside the hospital. Frankly, at that hour of the morning, facing surgery on no breakfast, it felt medicinal.

Then I met a lovely nurse called Katalina, who told me to take a seat.

Katalina, incidentally, barely seemed to take a break herself for the entire time I was there. She was constantly on the move, looking after everyone, answering questions and somehow remaining cheerful throughout.

At around 8.30am, the anaesthetist appeared carrying his motorcycle helmet.

Very reassuring. Presumably, if anything went wrong, he had a fast getaway vehicle.

He explained the anaesthetic and the drugs I would be given.

My immediate thought was Edina Monsoon in Absolutely Fabulous: “I want every drug going, and I want them now.”

Joking aside, this was probably the moment when my nerves really kicked in.

Before surgery, the anaesthetist has to explain the possible risks and side effects. Of course, it is important that patients know these things, but when you are already nervous and sitting there waiting to be knocked unconscious, hearing a list of everything that could happen is hardly relaxing.

Did you know about redheads and anaesthesia? Research has suggested that people with naturally red hair can respond differently to certain anaesthetics and may sometimes require different amounts.

Who knew being ginger could even complicate being knocked out?

Around 9.30am, one of the surgical team came to see me.

He was wonderfully reassuring.

I raised my concern about whether I should have had the MRI first, particularly because of the amount of pain I had been experiencing. He explained that size does not necessarily determine how painful a hernia will be. Smaller hernias can sometimes cause considerable pain, particularly depending on what is protruding through the defect and the surrounding tissues involved.

That immediately made me feel better. Perhaps the hernia really was responsible for all this pain after all.

Then came the news that tested even my patience.

The room I had been given was mine for the duration of my day stay because my operation was not scheduled until around 3pm.

Three o’clock!

I had checked in at 7.30 in the morning.

By midday, Katalina suddenly appeared with much more promising news.

“You’re next.”

Music to my ears.

I was instructed to change into the glamorous surgical ensemble — gown and compression stockings. Not quite Versace, but needs must.

I thought this meant I was about to be whisked straight into theatre.

It didn’t.

Meanwhile, I had now gone around 17 hours without food and, whether through nerves, my digestive system staging its own protest, or both, I had been to the toilet about five times.

There is nothing quite like impending surgery for discovering bodily functions you didn’t know you had.

Then, finally, at around 3.10pm, a porter appeared.

This was it.

Unfortunately, there was one more hurdle between me and the operating theatre.

I was on the fifth floor and I have a serious fear of heights. Glass walkways are my idea of hell. Put me on solid ground and I am fine; let me see five floors beneath my feet and suddenly my legs stop cooperating.

The staff arranged a wheelchair.I closed my eyes.

Problem solved.

Or so I thought.

As we crossed a ramp, the wheelchair was pulled rather forcefully and the sudden movement sent an agonising pain through my groin.

By the time I reached the theatre area and was lying there waiting to go under, all fear had temporarily disappeared.

I just wanted the hernia gone.

Lights above me. People moving around. Final checks.

Then the anaesthetic.

And darkness.

“Where Am I?”

Sometime after five o’clock, I began to wake up.

Or at least I think I did.

Everything was hazy. I was extremely disorientated and struggling to work out where I was or what was happening around me.

The operation itself was over.

The surgeon was apparently happy with how things had gone and, surgically, there was no immediate reason why I couldn’t go home.

But the recovery team had other ideas.

I was simply too disorientated.

There followed a conversation between the medical staff about whether I should be discharged or kept in overnight. For a while, it seemed I might still be heading home.

Then the decision was made.

The Hernia Diva was staying the night.

Not quite the glamorous overnight stay I might usually have chosen.

No room service, no champagne, no fluffy bathrobe — but plenty of observations, painkillers and nurses keeping a very close eye on me.

Rain, my nurse, was truly remarkable, and what followed turned into a night to remember.

The man next to me was living with Alzheimer’s and believed there was a conspiracy going on. He thought people were trying to kill and sexually assault him. Adjacent to him was another man in such severe pain that the slightest noise was setting him off, and he began threatening the man with Alzheimer’s.

Then the gentleman with Alzheimer’s went off on a rant about gay sex, despite being heterosexual himself, and eventually the man next to him had simply had enough.

Seemingly, as I nodded off thanks to the magic of morphine, security arrived to remove the gentleman with dementia.

I felt incredibly sorry for him. He was clearly frightened, confused and unwell, but it also seemed that nobody was properly equipped to deal with his level of distress. What he was doing on a general ward in that condition raised some serious questions for me about the NHS and how we care for people living with dementia.

Rain and the rest of the staff were incredible. They even gave me breakfast. However, at certain points during the night, I did wonder whether I was in a hospital or somehow appearing on the set of the prison drama Oz.

Next, the surgeon arrived to discharge me. He was rather non-committal, although everything appeared to have gone well and my discharge papers confirmed that the operation had been completed.

I asked him, “Had there been any complications?”

His reply wasn’t exactly reassuring.

“There are always possibilities. That’s why we tell you about them before and after.”

Well, I was alive.

Then I was given some strong painkillers and told to go downstairs to the pharmacy for the rest of my medication.

Forty-five minutes later, we were still waiting, only to discover that they were over-the-counter medications.

Finally, after a rather bumpy drive home with my adorable friend Remmia, there was only one thing on my mind.

I couldn’t wait to sleep.

And after weeks of pain, worry, cancelled plans, Google searches, hospital visits and wondering whether something else might be wrong, one enormous question remained:

Had the operation actually worked?

I was about to find out….

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STEVEN’S VIEWZ

It’s Called Show Business, Not Show Politics

By Steven Smith

There is an old saying: it’s called show business, not show friends. Perhaps we should now add: it’s not called show politics either.

If you are lucky enough to have been given a gift, or developed a craft that has made you famous, people are paying to see you perform. They have bought a ticket to hear you sing, watch you act, laugh at your comedy or simply be entertained. They have not necessarily paid to hear your political views or be lectured about the causes you support.

Of course, there is a time and place for everything.

If you are performing at a charity event, then absolutely talk about the charity. Fill your boots! You are there to help, raise awareness and, hopefully, raise money. If you are a singer who has written a commercial song highlighting a cause that matters to you, then sing it. Music, theatre, film and art have always been ways of expressing ideas, challenging opinions and starting conversations.

Look at the brilliance of Bob Geldof, Midge Ure and Live Aid. In 1985, some of the biggest names in music came together for an event specifically created to raise money for famine relief in Ethiopia. The cause wasn’t an unexpected lecture halfway through an unrelated evening — it was the reason everyone was there.

But the audience should know what they are buying into.

Performance artists such as David Hoyle, or artists like Marina Abramović, are different. Their work is often provocative, challenging and designed to make a statement. You go in knowing that you may hear an opinion, be confronted by an idea or even have your own beliefs challenged. That’s absolutely fine — it does what it says on the tin. The statement is part of the performance, and the audience knows that before they walk through the door.

David Hoyle performance artist you go knowing that you will hear is views ie it is what is on the tin.

If an artist intends to turn a concert into a political platform, particularly on an issue that has little or nothing to do with the performance, I believe the audience has a right to decide whether they want to be there. Their views may be the complete opposite of the person on stage, or they may simply want an evening of entertainment without politics entering the room.

There is also nothing wrong with a performer deciding that politics matters more to them than show business. Glenda Jackson is a perfect example of someone who made that choice openly.

Jackson was one of Britain’s most acclaimed actors and a two-time Academy Award winner. In the early 1990s, she stepped away from acting and entered politics, becoming the Labour MP for Hampstead and Highgate in 1992. She remained an MP for 23 years, including serving as a government minister, before leaving Parliament in 2015 and returning to acting.

Whatever your political views, there is something refreshingly straightforward about that decision. She wanted to enter politics, so she stood for Parliament. She did not expect audiences buying theatre or cinema tickets to elect her.

Perhaps one of my favourite show-business stories involves the late, great Dolly Parton and Julia Roberts while filming Steel Magnolias. The cast were shooting in the sweltering Louisiana heat and everyone was complaining — except Dolly. Roberts, amazed that Dolly wasn’t joining in despite the wig, heavy clothes and heat, asked her why.

Dolly’s response was wonderfully simple: “When I was a little girl, I wanted to be famous and I wanted to be rich, and now I’m both those things. I’m not going to complain about it.”

What a fabulous attitude.

There are thousands of extraordinarily talented actors, singers and performers who would give anything for the opportunity to stand on that stage, walk onto that film set or hear an audience applaud them. Perhaps sometimes, amid the fame, money and attention, it is worth remembering just how fortunate you are to have made it there in the first place.

As Dolly understood better than most: enjoy the privilege, do the job — and put on the show.

The recent palaver surrounding the legendary Dame Maureen Lipman also got me thinking. Two actors withdrew from Right Before I Go following her casting, citing disagreement with views she had publicly expressed.

Now, goodness knows, over the years I have worked with people who held views I found horrible. I’ve lost count. But maturity surely means accepting that you can work alongside someone without agreeing with everything they think.

Sometimes you can even change someone’s mind — or they might make you reconsider something yourself.

It’s show business, not show friends. And if you are fortunate enough to be earning your living as an actor, let alone working alongside somebody with decades of experience and talent, perhaps there is something to be gained from the experience even when you disagree with them.

As I like to say: eat it up, buttercup.

Celebrities, like everybody else, have every right to hold strong political opinions. Fame does not take away your freedom of speech. Equally, buying a ticket to see someone perform does not mean an audience has agreed with everything that performer believes.

I wouldn’t expect The Phantom of the Opera to suddenly stop halfway through so the cast could share their political views. Nor would I expect A Midsummer Night’s Dream to grind to a halt for a political speech unrelated to Shakespeare’s play. In much the same way, I don’t expect my plumber or hairdresser to stop halfway through their work to give me a lecture on their politics.

There is another side to this that troubles me: our increasing inability to tolerate people whose opinions oppose our own.

I am a huge advocate of allowing people into my life whose views are different from mine. Sometimes friendship, affection and respect are built on far more than agreeing about politics. As long as somebody isn’t permanently standing on their soapbox preaching at me, I’m perfectly happy to have a lively debate.

What I find far more troubling is the idea of simply cancelling or silencing people with whom we disagree.

There is an old saying: keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. I would adapt that slightly: keep listening to the people you disagree with.

How on earth are we supposed to understand what is happening in society if we refuse to hear opinions we dislike? Silencing an opinion doesn’t necessarily make that opinion disappear. It can simply mean we stop hearing it. Then, suddenly, we are shocked when a movement, idea or political force gains ground that we never saw coming.

Listening is not the same as agreeing.

Social media has also changed the relationship between celebrities and the public. Stars now have direct access to millions of followers and can express their views whenever they wish. If someone wants to campaign, protest or support a cause online, people can choose whether to follow, engage, debate — or simply scroll straight past.

A live performance feels different because the audience has paid to be there.

Please campaign, march, raise money, support charities and speak passionately about the things that matter to you. Debate with people who disagree with you rather than automatically shutting them out. And if politics becomes your true calling, perhaps follow Glenda Jackson’s example and enter politics yourself.

But when the lights go down and the curtain goes up, sometimes we simply want the show.

Steven Smith
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Mike Edde’s Hair Tips

Get the Haaland Look This Fall

Mike Edde tells you how to get the look this fall they are all talking about.

When Erling Haaland decided to say goodbye to his famous long blond hair and reveal a dramatically short buzz cut, he certainly got people talking. It is a huge change from the Viking-style ponytail we have become used to seeing, but it is also one of the easiest men’s looks to recreate.

So, if you are tempted to follow Haaland and go for the chop this autumn, here is how to do it — and, just as importantly, how to grow it back out when you are ready for another change.

The first thing I would say is: don’t just tell your barber to shave it all off! Haaland’s look might appear incredibly simple, but you still want the cut to work with your head shape, hairline and hair density.

Ask for a very short, even buzz cut, approximately a grade one or two. Your barber can advise whether going slightly longer would be more flattering for you. The beauty of this haircut is that it is clean, masculine and incredibly low maintenance. There is virtually no styling involved — you can wash it, dry it and go.

However, the shorter the hair, the more noticeable the regrowth becomes. If you want to keep that freshly cut Haaland appearance, I would recommend having it tidied approximately every two to four weeks. Keeping the neckline and edges neat makes all the difference.

And remember your scalp. Once you remove longer hair, an area of skin that has been protected is suddenly much more exposed. Use a gentle shampoo, avoid piling on unnecessary styling products and, even during autumn, think about SPF if your scalp is exposed to the sun.

What happens when you want your long hair back?

This is where patience comes in.

Hair generally grows around a centimetre or so each month, although everybody is different. The biggest mistake men make when growing out a buzz cut is simply abandoning the barber altogether.

Instead, have small maintenance trims while allowing the overall length to develop. Your barber can gradually reshape the hair as it grows, keeping the back and sides under control while allowing more length through the top. This prevents that awkward stage from looking quite so awkward!

As it becomes longer, start introducing a lightweight conditioner to keep the hair healthy and manageable. Avoid excessive heat and heavy styling products, and don’t be tempted to keep cutting it back every time it reaches an annoying stage.

If your eventual goal is Haaland’s old long-haired look, you are playing the long game. Once it reaches sufficient length, you can begin wearing it swept back before eventually progressing to a low ponytail or bun.

So, could you brave the Haaland buzz cut?

I say if you have been thinking about going dramatically shorter, autumn is the perfect time to try it. Hair grows back — and sometimes a completely different look is exactly what we need.

Mike x


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Anna Kennedy’s September Column

Hi everyone!

September is already proving to be an incredibly busy month, and I am super excited with the preparations for the 15th anniversary of Autism’s Got Talent, taking place on 10th October.

It’s hard to believe that we are celebrating 15 years of this very special event! Over the years, Autism’s Got Talent has given so many talented autistic performers the opportunity to take to the stage, showcase their abilities and, most importantly, shine.

We are still looking for sponsors to support this year’s Autism’s Got Talent, so if you, your business or someone you know would like to get involved and help us make our 15th anniversary celebration extra special, you can find all the sponsorship details here in 2Shades:

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We are also still buzzing from the huge success of Autism & Art. The response to the exhibition was absolutely wonderful, and it was fantastic to see so much incredible creativity on display.

In fact, it was such a success that Marcus Jake at the FirePit Gallery, with the help of one of our patrons, Steven Smith, has agreed to host Autism & Art again next year!

So, to all of our wonderful artists and budding artists out there, please get painting and creating. You could have the opportunity to see your artwork proudly displayed at next year’s exhibition. We cannot wait to see what you create!

We also managed to let our hair down a little at the gallery with a fantastic karaoke evening. It was a wonderful opportunity to celebrate the birthdays of Marcus Jake and another of our biggest supporters, talented artist and photographer Anne-Marie Bickerton. There was plenty of singing, laughter and, most importantly, a chance to celebrate with some very special friends and supporters.

Letting our hair down at the Firepit gallery for owner Marcus Jake and Anne-Marie Bickerton’s birthday .

Another great moment came courtesy of Aston Avery, who did us proud at Chelmsford Theatre when he was Highly Commended at the BBC Make a Difference Awards.

What a sleek and wonderful awards show it was, with so many impressive and inspiring entries. It was fantastic to see people being recognised for the difference they make within their communities, and we were extremely proud to see Aston receive such well-deserved recognition.

Patron Aston Avery receives his award

Finally, don’t forget to get your tickets for the 15th anniversary of Autism’s Got Talent on 10th October. It promises to be another unforgettable evening celebrating some truly incredible talent.

You can get your tickets here:

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Thank you, as always, for your continued support. There is so much happening, and I’m looking forward to sharing more news with you very soon!

Anna Kennedy OBE

ANNA’S BOOK REVIEW

La Verdad Sobre el Autismo – Lo que nadie quiere contar

The Truth About Autism – What Nobody Wants to Talk About

By Fernando Cabal

For almost 30 years, I have been campaigning for autistic children and adults and, just as importantly, for the families who love them, care for them and sometimes have to fight very hard to get the right support.

If there is one thing I have learned over the years, it is that there is no single autism story.

Every autistic person is different, every family is different, and their experiences can be very different too.

Fernando Cabal’s La Verdad Sobre el Autismo is not an easy or comfortable read, and I don’t think it is meant to be.

Fernando wants people to talk about a side of autism that he believes is too often overlooked.

We quite rightly celebrate autistic talent, achievements and difference. Through my charity and Autism’s Got Talent, I have had the privilege of meeting some incredible autistic performers, artists, speakers and young people who have achieved things that perhaps other people once thought were impossible.

I will always celebrate those achievements.

However, we must also make sure we don’t forget autistic people with more complex support needs, like my son Angelo, and the families supporting them day and night.

Fernando writes about autistic people who may be non-speaking or pre-verbal, who may self-injure, who need round-the-clock supervision or who will require significant support throughout their lives.

This is a reality for many families, and their voices matter too.

One part of the book that particularly struck a chord with me was the question of what happens when an autistic child becomes an autistic adult.

Autism doesn’t suddenly stop when someone turns 18 or 25.

Fernando challenges systems that diagnose too late, fail to provide the right educational support and then leave families fighting their way through yet more paperwork and bureaucracy when their children become adults.

Although he is writing mainly about the situation in Spain, I know many families here in the UK will recognise some of these same worries.

What happens when education finishes?

Where is the right support?

Where are the opportunities, appropriate services, supported living and specialist provision for those who need it?

Then there is the question that I know keeps many parents awake at night:

Who will look after my son or daughter when I am no longer here?

This is something I have also raised through my petition, and as a mam of two autistic sons, that question is very close to my heart.

There will be parts of this book, including some of its language and arguments, that autistic people, advocates and professionals may disagree with or challenge. That is OK. We do need these conversations.

No one person, organisation, campaigner or author can speak for everyone across such a wide and diverse spectrum.

We absolutely need to listen to autistic voices. We also need to remember those autistic people who cannot easily tell us what they need and who rely on the people who know and love them to advocate alongside them.

For me, Fernando Cabal’s book leaves us with an important challenge.

Inclusion has to be more than a word.

It has to mean something in real people’s everyday lives.

Yes, let’s celebrate autistic talent and achievement.

But let’s also talk about the difficult days, the sleepless nights I shared recently, the lack of services, the battles for support and the worries about the future.

Those stories matter too.

If La Verdad Sobre el Autismo gets governments, professionals and society talking about autistic people and families who sometimes feel forgotten or invisible, then perhaps it has started a conversation that we very much need to have.

Anna Kennedy OBE

La Verdad Sobre el Autismo – Lo que nadie quiere contar by Fernando Cabal was published by Mandala Ediciones in August 2026.

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The curious case of the suitcase that went on a European holiday without me on Vueling airlines

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The curious case of the suitcase that went on a European holiday without me

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By Steven Smith

There was great excitement when, as a late birthday gift, my nephew took me to Marbella for five days.

We flew out with British Airways, and I came back on a codeshare flight operated by a Spanish airline called Vueling. Now, I have no complaints about the flight itself. Everything went perfectly well.

The same, unfortunately, cannot be said for my luggage.

There are certain things you expect to bring home from a holiday: photographs, memories, perhaps a few extra pounds around the waist and a vague promise that next time you’ll pack less.

What you don’t expect is for your suitcase to continue its European travels without you.

My luggage has now been missing since Saturday, and what began as an inconvenience has turned into a bizarre international mystery involving airports, telephone calls, automated updates and a suitcase that appears to have had a far more adventurous journey than I did.

The reference number, which I now know almost as well as my own telephone number, is LGWVY28092.

The bag was particularly important because I had been sharing it with my nephew, Matthew, who was due to fly to the United States shortly after we returned. His clothes were inside, along with mine. So this wasn’t simply a case of waiting patiently for a delayed pair of socks to turn up.

Then came the updates.

At one point, my luggage appeared to be in Paris Charles de Gaulle. Why Paris? Your guess is as good as mine. From there, I was told it was being sent to Barcelona before eventually — hopefully — making its way back to me in London.

Paris to Barcelona to London. My suitcase was practically Interrailing.

What has made the whole experience considerably worse, however, is the extraordinary difficulty in getting a clear answer from anyone.

I have telephoned. I have messaged. I have chased. I have watched the online tracking system with the dedication of an air traffic controller. I would love to be in Paris ,

Eventually, the status changed to the rather exciting announcement:

“Your piece of baggage has been located.”

Wonderful!

Except there was one small problem.

Where exactly had it been located?

Being told something has been “located” is not particularly reassuring when nobody can confirm where it physically is, whether it actually arrived in Barcelona, when it will be placed on a flight to London, or when it might finally arrive at my front door.

Each telephone call seems to produce another version of: “We are waiting for information.”

Meanwhile, my suitcase continues to exist somewhere in the mysterious world of international baggage handling.

My suitcase before its extended holiday .

There is, of course, a funny side. I have visions of it sitting beside a swimming pool in Barcelona, sipping sangria while I sit in London trying desperately to discover its whereabouts.

But underneath the humour is a serious point.

When airlines lose passengers’ belongings, communication matters enormously. People may have medication, work clothes, sentimental possessions or valuable items inside their cases. A computer-generated message saying a bag has been “located” simply isn’t enough after days of uncertainty.

Passengers deserve to know what is happening to their property.

So, as I write this, the great suitcase saga continues.

Somewhere between London, Paris and Barcelona is one extremely well-travelled piece of luggage that belongs to me.

If anyone sees it, could you possibly tell it that its holiday is over?

Steven would quite like his clothes back.

P.S. The latest piece of “help” from Vueling Airlines was the suggestion that I call Barcelona Airport myself and see if I can find my luggage.

You really couldn’t make it up.

UPDATE: THE SUITCASE FINALLY COMES HOME!

Now for an update on my luggage.

After around ten more phone calls — yes, I am like a dog with a bone — there was finally some good news.

Now, the people at Vueling Airlines are actually very charming. You are given the choice to speak to them in English or Spanish and, even as they told me that no one could find my luggage in Barcelona but that they would keep trying, there was always the cheerful: “Is there anything else I can help you with?”

I have to admit, the latter did begin to irritate me slightly. YES — FIND MY SUITCASE!

Eventually, on Friday, six days into my suitcase’s extended stay in Barcelona, there was good news: it had been found!

However, it still wasn’t showing on the system the following morning, so naturally I called again. Yes, apparently it was on its way back to Gatwick, although no one seemed quite sure exactly when. They estimated somewhere around 12:45.

I called again later and there was still no confirmation that it had actually landed.

Then, at around four o’clock on Saturday, I received a text from Eagle Aviation, who were going to deliver my luggage.

There was an odd delivery time showing, so I emailed them. They told me they hadn’t actually received the luggage yet, so I was safe to go out.

The following morning it was much the same story. At around 11am, I was told that perhaps it would be in the 12:30 batch they were expecting, but they couldn’t confirm it.

So, safe in the knowledge that my suitcase was apparently still nowhere near my front door, I headed off to Chelmsford to see my great friend Aston Avery, who had been nominated at the Make a Difference Awards. I reckoned I could easily be home by six.

There I was, sitting next to Anna Kennedy OBE — who, I should point out, did forgot to share her Skittles  however provided me with some great popcorn Thank-you — when at around 3:45pm my phone started buzzing.

“Your luggage will be delivered today between 16:42 and 18:42.”

AN HOUR’S NOTICE!

Luckily, it was towards the end of the show, so I legged it. And no wonder I have a hernia now!

Somehow, I made it back home by 5:30pm.

At 5:55pm, the call finally came.

Could I come downstairs and be reunited with my luggage?

Apparently, they don’t bring it to your actual door.

And there it was. After eight days missing in action, several countries, countless telephone calls and considerably more stress than any suitcase deserves to cause, we were finally reunited.

I am going to do exactly what my nephew told me to do in the first place and buy an Apple AirTag. I also now have the pleasure of posting my nephew’s belongings back to the USA!

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On the upside, in nearly 50 years of travelling, this is the first time anything like this has happened to me. The actual flight with Vueling was very good, and the cabin crew were professional, smart and charming. So I’m going to put the whole thing down to very bad luck — or perhaps Malaga Airport!

Would I fly with Vueling again? Yes, I probably would.

Would I ever travel without an AirTag again?

ABSOLUTELY NOT.

As for my luggage, it is very happy to be home.

Although after its unexpected European adventure, it is now telling me that it needs a spa day.

Frankly, so do I.

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Oh What a Night!

Steven Smith looks at “Autism & Art show 2026 ”

Dr Anna Kennedy OBE artist Matthew Bucko and newest Patron of the charity award winning writer Samantha Lee Howe at Autism &Art

Autism & Art 2026 Opens to Packed Gallery and Inspiring Celebration

There was a wonderful atmosphere at the Firepit Art Gallery on Thursday 23 July as visitors packed the venue for the official opening of Autism & Art 2026, an inspiring exhibition celebrating the extraordinary creativity of autistic artists and their families.

Now in its second year, the exhibition has quickly established itself as one of the highlights of the Anna Kennedy Online calendar. More than simply an art exhibition, Autism & Art provides a platform for autistic creatives to showcase their talents, tell their stories and demonstrate that art has the power to break down barriers, challenge misconceptions and bring people together.

The exhibition also raises vital funds for Anna Kennedy Online (AKO), the charity founded by Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, which has spent more than two decades campaigning for greater understanding, inclusion and opportunities for autistic people and those with learning disabilities.

Opening the evening, Dr Anna Kennedy OBE welcomed guests and reflected on just how far the event has come in only two years.

“When the idea was first suggested, I remember thinking, ‘Can this really be done?’ But then someone reminded me that’s exactly what people said when we launched Autism’s Got Talent and so many of our other events. Seeing this become such a success for a second year makes me incredibly proud.”

The Firepit gallery before the crowd .

Joining Anna was the charity’s newest patron, bestselling and award-winning author and screenwriter Samantha Lee Howe, who had travelled down from Yorkshire especially for the evening. Samantha spent time meeting the artists, chatting with guests and hosted the evening’s popular charity raffle, bringing her trademark warmth and enthusiasm to the event.

The entertainment was every bit as impressive as the artwork. Singer-songwriter Lana Mitchell captivated the audience with a beautiful performance that perfectly complemented the creative atmosphere of the evening. Lana is not only a talented musician but also an accomplished artist, with her artwork featured in the exhibition. One of her pieces has previously been purchased by beloved ‘Allo ‘Allo! actress Vicki Michelle MBE, highlighting the quality of her artistic talent.

Adding even more energy to the evening was George Pond, one of the stars of Autism’s Got Talent, whose powerful performance had the audience cheering and demonstrated once again why he has become such a popular performer within the autism community.

George Pond brought the house down with his performance.

The charity auction was hosted by television presenter, author and passionate animal welfare campaigner Wendy Turner Webster, who was accompanied by her husband, actor Gary Webster. Together they brought humour and warmth to proceedings while helping to raise valuable funds for Anna Kennedy Online.

One of the exhibition’s greatest strengths is the incredible diversity of the artists taking part. Visitors were treated to an exciting mix of painting, sculpture, mixed media and contemporary artwork, each piece reflecting a unique perspective and personal story.

Lisa Allen from Pink Ribbon was on hand with me Steven Smith ,Ayesha Baig Oracle Magazine Juliet Morrison from Pink Ribbon and model Brigitte Suligoj

Among the featured artists was Matthew “BUCKO” Buckingham, who travelled to London to exhibit his work. Matthew is a contemporary multidisciplinary artist whose increasingly transdisciplinary practice combines contemporary art, visual communication, autism advocacy and inclusive design. Through portraiture, printmaking and the development of an autistic visual language, his work explores autism, identity and social inclusion. Drawing on his own experiences as both a neurodivergent artist and a father, his artwork challenges misconceptions surrounding autism while promoting understanding, acceptance, equality and inclusion. His thought-provoking work attracted considerable interest throughout the evening.

Art By Bucko

Also making the journey from Wales was artist Josh, whose distinctive artwork continues to earn admiration for its originality and creativity. His contribution added another exciting dimension to an already varied exhibition.

Wendy Turner Webster with Lana

Returning for a second consecutive year was the hugely popular Blaster Artz, whose legendary Blanky sculptures once again proved to be one of the talking points of the exhibition. Their instantly recognisable style drew crowds throughout the evening, with collectors eager to secure one of the much-loved creations. Just as they did last year, the sculptures proved to be an outstanding success.

The invasions of the Blanky hugely popular art made a return for a second year.

The exhibition also featured work from an impressive range of talented artists, including Emily Haynes (ShadyShadz), whose fantastical creatures and nature-inspired artwork captured the imagination of visitors; David Downes, whose detailed work reflects both technical skill and emotional depth; Dr Diana Dunca, whose vibrant creativity celebrates individuality and expression; Heidi Simm, whose colourful pieces offered warmth and optimism; Naz, whose distinctive artistic style drew plenty of attention; XLVII, whose contemporary work encouraged conversation and interpretation; and Daisy, whose artwork demonstrated creativity, imagination and confidence. Together they showcased the extraordinary diversity of autistic artistic talent currently flourishing across the UK.

The evening would not have been possible without the support of Marcus Jake, owner of the Firepit Art Gallery, who once again opened his unique venue for the exhibition.

Speaking during the evening, Marcus said he was delighted to host Autism & Art for a second year.

“I’m thrilled that we’ve been able to bring everyone together again. The standard of work is exceptional, and it’s wonderful to see so many people discovering these incredible artists.”

Art by Josh

The Firepit Art Gallery itself deserves special mention. Unlike many traditional galleries, it offers an intimate, welcoming environment where visitors are encouraged to slow down, reflect and truly connect with the artwork. It feels less like a conventional gallery and more like a creative sanctuary—a place where artists are celebrated and everyone feels welcome.

Acting Royalty Gary Webster meets Art Royalty Alistair Blaster

Adding to the exhibition’s significance were two very special contributions. Harvey Price, whose artistic talent has inspired many people, had artwork on display that attracted considerable interest from visitors throughout the evening. His participation highlighted the importance of providing creative opportunities for autistic artists of every background and profile. Also exhibiting was acclaimed artist John Lee Bird, whose distinctive work has earned admiration for its originality and expressive style. His contribution further strengthened an already exceptional collection of artwork and demonstrated the remarkable breadth of talent showcased throughout Autism & Art 2026.

Dez Loveartpix continues to make a powerful impression with his vibrant and thought-provoking artwork. Following his recent feature in FLUX Review magazine, Dez’s growing reputation as a creative force highlights the talent and diversity of autistic artists making their mark on the contemporary art scene.

As guests mingled throughout the evening, there was a genuine sense of pride, friendship and community. Conversations flowed easily between artists, collectors, families and visitors, many of whom were attending an autism-focused exhibition for the very first time. Events such as Autism & Art do far more than display beautiful artwork—they create understanding, open minds and provide opportunities that many autistic artists have historically found difficult to access.

Dez Loveartpix

If the opening night is anything to go by, Autism & Art 2026 is an outstanding success. The exhibition continues throughout most of August and is highly recommended for anyone with an interest in art, creativity or simply discovering something different.

Whether you are an experienced collector, a casual visitor or someone wanting to support autistic artists, this is an exhibition not to be missed. You will leave inspired by the remarkable talent on display and reminded that art truly is a universal language.

For more information about the exhibition, visit:
https://2shadesmagazine.com/2026/06/01/calling-all-autistic-artists-submissions-now-open-for-the-second-autism-art-show-2026/

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Anna Chats at 2Shades

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She’s here… and she’s someone you can always count on for honest advice, a caring opinion, and a little inspiration along the way. It’s Dr Anna Kennedy OBE.

No need to bow or curtsy—there are no airs or graces here. Anna is simply a remarkable woman whose kindness, determination and tireless work have inspired thousands of families across the UK and beyond.

Whether she’s sharing her thoughts, offering practical guidance, or championing acceptance and inclusion, Anna brings warmth, wisdom and real-life experience to every conversation.

So grab a cuppa, settle in, and enjoy Anna Chats at 2Shades—where every chat comes from the heart

Anna Does a book review .

Book Review: Autistically Me by Bradley Riches ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

As the mother of two autistic sons, Autistically Me resonated with me on a deeply personal level. Bradley Riches offers readers an honest, insightful and often humorous account of life through his eyes as an autistic person. His warmth, openness and authenticity make this a moving memoir that is both engaging and incredibly easy to connect with.

Throughout the book, I found myself reflecting on many of the experiences my own sons have shared, or struggled to put into words over the years. Bradley has a remarkable ability to articulate feelings, challenges and triumphs in a way that helps readers gain a genuine understanding of autism from an autistic perspective. His voice is refreshingly honest, and his storytelling is filled with compassion, resilience and hope.

I am also incredibly proud that Bradley is one of the patrons of our charity. The kindness, empathy and dedication he brings to supporting the autistic community shine through every page of this book. It is clear that his goal is not only to share his own journey but also to help others feel understood, accepted and valued.

Autistically Me is a book I would wholeheartedly recommend, not only to autistic people but also to parents, carers, teachers, employers and anyone who wants to develop a deeper understanding of autism. It provides genuine insight while reminding us that every autistic person is unique, with their own strengths, challenges and way of experiencing the world.

Thank you, Bradley, for sharing your story with such courage and honesty. I have no doubt this book will help countless autistic people and their families feel seen, understood and far less alone.

An inspiring, heartfelt and uplifting read that I would happily recommend to everyone.

Available from Waterstones.

Anna Talks Art

Anna Talks Art

I can hardly believe that the second Autism & Art exhibition at the Firepit Gallery in London is almost here. The past year has flown by, and I honestly don’t know where the time has gone. It feels like only yesterday we were welcoming visitors to our very first exhibition, celebrating the incredible creativity of autistic artists. Now, we’re back, and I couldn’t be more excited.

This year’s exhibition promises to be even bigger and better, with an extraordinary line-up of artists whose talent, imagination and individuality continue to inspire me every day. From the wonderful Harvey Price to a doctor who expresses her scientific world through vibrant art, a self-proclaimed witch whose creativity is as unique as her personality, and many other remarkable artists and supporters, there really is something for everyone to enjoy. Every artist brings a different story, a different perspective and a reminder that creativity has no boundaries.

One of the greatest joys of this exhibition is seeing people come together to celebrate autism through art. Every piece on display reflects not only artistic ability but also courage, passion and self-expression. Art has an incredible way of communicating feelings and experiences that words sometimes cannot, and I know our visitors will leave feeling inspired.

A very special thank you must go to one of our dedicated patrons, Steven Smith, who has worked tirelessly behind the scenes to help bring this exhibition together. From coordinating artists to helping curate the event, his enthusiasm and commitment have been invaluable. Of course, no exhibition like this happens without a wonderful team. My sincere thanks also go to Marcus Jake, owner of the beautiful Firepit Gallery, Anne-Marie Bickerton, Piluca Artist, and everyone else who has generously given their time and support to make this year’s exhibition possible.

I can’t wait to welcome you all. Whether you’re an art lover, a supporter of autism, or simply looking for an inspiring day out, I hope you’ll join us in celebrating the remarkable talents of our autistic artists. I look forward to seeing you there! 🎨💜

Anna’s talks ” This heat ” Advice: Looking After Your Loved Ones with Autism in This Heat

Hello everyone,

I’m not going to lie – this recent heat has just about been the end of me! Like so many families, we’ve really struggled, and poor Angelo has found it especially difficult. I know many of you will be experiencing exactly the same thing.

We bought a cooler for one of the rooms to create a calm, comfortable space, but even that wasn’t straightforward. The noise of the machine was unsettling for Angelo at first, so we had to introduce it very slowly. We switched it on for short periods, allowing him to become familiar with the sound before expecting him to spend any time in the room. Patience really is key.

Something as simple as cool, damp flannels can make a huge difference. Placing one gently on the forehead, neck or wrists can help lower body temperature without causing discomfort. Encouraging regular sips of water throughout the day is also so important. Some autistic people may not recognise when they’re becoming dehydrated, so gentle reminders can really help.

Whenever possible, keep curtains or blinds closed during the hottest part of the day to keep rooms cooler, and if your loved one enjoys water, paddling pools, cool baths or even playing with water can provide welcome relief while also being fun and calming.

Remember that many autistic people experience sensory differences, and heat can make those sensitivities even more intense. Clothing labels, certain fabrics or even a light breeze from a fan may feel uncomfortable. Try not to worry if routines change or if your loved one seems more anxious than usual. Sometimes just giving them a quiet, cool place where they feel safe is the best thing you can do.

Most importantly, be kind to yourself. Looking after someone with autism during extreme weather can be exhausting, both physically and emotionally. You’re doing your best, and that’s enough.

Let’s hope for some cooler days soon. Until then, take care of yourselves, keep cool where you can, and remember that you’re never alone. Our autism community is always here to support one another.

With love,

Dr Anna Kennedy OBE

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YOU ARE LOVED

Keeping Robin Windsor’s Legacy Alive Through Love, Support and Community

I came out at the age of 15. One thing I have learned over the years is that being gay is not a choice, so why do so many families make their children and loved ones feel bad for simply being who they are?

Equality should mean exactly that — the same love, respect and support for a gay child as for a heterosexual child. Personally, I prefer to think of us all simply as human beings.

The knock-on effect of rejection can be devastating. In a world already struggling with a mental health crisis, many members of the LGBTQ+ community continue to face unique challenges. Sadly, issues such as substance misuse, alcohol dependency and risky behaviour are often not the root cause of the problem, but symptoms of people trying to cope with loneliness, discrimination, fear and a lack of acceptance.

What is perhaps even more troubling is that the LGBTQ+ community itself can sometimes be unwelcoming. Some of the most judgemental and homophobic attitudes I have encountered have come from other gay people. It is a reminder that kindness, understanding and compassion are needed everywhere.

The suicide rate among LGBTQ+ people remains deeply concerning. That is why I always say that no matter how successful, popular or outwardly happy someone may appear, it is important to take the time to check that they are truly okay. A simple conversation can make all the difference.

That is why I am delighted to introduce You Are Loved CIC.

The loss of Strictly Come Dancing star Robin Windsor sent shockwaves through the dance world, the LGBTQ+ community and the countless lives he touched through his warmth, kindness and generosity. Robin was far more than a talented dancer and television personality. He was a friend, mentor, advocate and source of comfort to many people who were struggling with life’s challenges.

I was fortunate enough to meet Robin Windsor through Anna Kennedy Online, a charity that is very close to my heart. As a Patron of the organisation, I had the privilege of seeing first-hand the kindness, generosity, and compassion that Robin brought to everything he did.

Robin was a tremendous supporter of the autism community and regularly gave his time to help others. He was involved with both Autism’s Got Talent and the Autism Hero Awards, where his warmth and genuine care for people shone through. Whether he was on stage, meeting families, or encouraging participants, Robin always made people feel valued and included.

He possessed that rare ability to light up a room with his smile, his energy, and his infectious enthusiasm. Yet beyond the public persona was a truly beautiful soul—kind-hearted, thoughtful, and deeply compassionate. Robin never underestimated the power of a kind word or a supportive gesture, and his impact on so many lives continues to be felt today.

Those of us who were lucky enough to know him will always remember not only his incredible talent as a dancer but also the love, friendship, and encouragement he gave so freely. Robin’s legacy lives on through the countless people he inspired and the communities he helped to support. https://annakennedyonline.com

Today, his legacy continues through the work of You Are Loved CIC, a remarkable organisation dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ people facing mental health difficulties, loneliness, isolation, substance misuse and a range of other life challenges.

Founded in 2024 by social psychologist and researcher Marc Svensson, You Are Loved CIC was created with a simple but powerful mission: to ensure that nobody in the LGBTQ+ community feels alone when they need help most. The organisation is powered by a passionate team of volunteers who bring together a wide range of skills, expertise and lived experiences. What unites them is a genuine commitment to helping others and creating a safer, more connected community.

Following Robin Windsor’s passing, many of those closest to him wanted to find a meaningful way to honour his memory. Robin was known for his ability to reach out to people who were struggling, offering friendship, encouragement and understanding without judgement. His compassion left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

It was this spirit of kindness that inspired the creation of Ask Bobby, named after Robin’s much-loved nickname. The platform stands as a living tribute to the man who dedicated so much of his life to supporting others. More importantly, it continues the work that Robin cared about deeply: helping people before they reach a point of crisis.

Over the past year, Ask Bobby has grown significantly. The platform has been rebuilt and improved to make it easier for people to access support and find organisations that can help with their specific needs. Whether someone is experiencing loneliness, mental health difficulties, addiction issues or simply needs someone to point them in the right direction, Ask Bobby serves as an invaluable gateway to support services across the United Kingdom.

For many LGBTQ+ individuals, asking for help can feel overwhelming. Feelings of isolation, stigma and fear can prevent people from seeking support until their situation becomes critical. Ask Bobby helps bridge that gap by making information accessible and connecting people with organisations that can offer practical assistance and emotional support.

The impact of this work cannot be overstated. Every day, people across the country are facing challenges that leave them feeling disconnected and alone. By providing access to trusted resources and support networks, Ask Bobby offers hope, reassurance and a reminder that help is available.

However, like many charities and community organisations, You Are Loved CIC now faces a significant challenge.

Despite its success and growing reach, the organisation is almost entirely volunteer-led. Funding remains one of the biggest obstacles to sustaining and expanding its services. To continue developing Ask Bobby and ensure it can support even more people, the charity is seeking to raise £10,000.

This funding would enable the organisation to further improve the platform, add an additional 1,000 support organisations from across the UK and recruit two part-time team members dedicated to maintaining and growing the service. These developments would significantly increase the platform’s reach and effectiveness, helping thousands more people access the support they need.

For those involved, this campaign is about much more than technology or infrastructure. It is about people. It is about ensuring that someone experiencing loneliness at three o’clock in the morning can find help. It is about providing support before a crisis develops. Most importantly, it is about continuing Robin Windsor’s legacy of compassion, kindness and unconditional support.

Robin’s life touched countless hearts, and through Ask Bobby, his influence continues to make a real difference every single day. Every donation, no matter how large or small, helps keep that legacy alive.

At a time when mental health support and community connection are needed more than ever, You Are Loved CIC is proving that love, kindness and understanding remain powerful forces for change.

Robin Windsor believed in helping people. Through Ask Bobby and the work of You Are Loved CIC, that belief continues to inspire hope, build connections and save lives.

To find out more about the campaign or make a donation, please visit the You Are Loved website and help ensure that Robin’s legacy of love and support continues for generations to come.

SUPPORT ROBIN WINDSOR’S LEGACY

You Are Loved CIC is raising £10,000 to help expand Ask Bobby, the LGBTQ+ support platform created in memory of Strictly Come Dancing star Robin Windsor.

The funding will help:
• Add 1,000 additional support organisations across the UK
• Improve and develop the Ask Bobby platform
• Recruit two part-time team members to maintain and grow the service
• Ensure more LGBTQ+ people can access help before reaching a point of crisis

Every donation, no matter how small, will help continue Robin’s legacy of compassion, kindness and support for those facing mental health challenges, loneliness, isolation and other life difficulties.

To make a donation, please visit:

https://youareloved.org.uk/donate

“A simple act of kindness can change someone’s life. Help us keep Robin’s legacy alive.”

Johnny says he is ok

By Steven Smith

Johnny says he is ok. Johnny is bright – he dazzles and is always the life and soul of any party He is kind and caring, always one to lean on, and is everyone’s friend we all know his name.

Johnny says he is ok. He smiles and gives you that wink. It looks like the world is at his feet.

Johnny says he is ok. It looks like he wears his heart on his sleeve. But you see what he wants you to see. A cleverly crafted mask camouflages the pain and sadness, often caressing his soul as trauma becomes his good friend.

Johnny says he is ok. He touches you, makes you feel good and tells you are going to be alright. not to worry and that he is here for you to talk.

Johnny is going to be ok. You see Johnny’s eyes sparkle with love and, as you walk away, you know in your heart he is always happy.

Johnny all ok as he dances home alone, looking at the stars and the moon. They wave and ask him if anyone really knows who Johnny is? Does anyone feel his hurt or see the darkness covering him as he smiles and entertains?

Johnny says he is going to be ok as he turns the key to his flat. Loneliness waits as the darkness flies in before him. They both beckon Johnny; they know who Johnny is and if he just takes their hand, it will all be ok. The pain will go away.

`It is so simple open the bathroom cabinets and take the pills. Hey, let’s celebrate. We can wash it down with alcohol. Come, says the darkness. Lay down with me. Loneliness is just leaving. Close your eyes, sleep in my arms. I promise you at last Johnny you will be ok.

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“Enough for the Men too “

https://enoughwellness.co.uk

The image of fitness and art Piluca and me behind her . https://www.pilucaworld.com

Steven Smith looks at the supplement company taking the UK by storm

Made for women, by women. But good news, fellas — you can nick it too when she’s not looking, because it turns out it works rather well for us as well.

There is no one I know who better embodies the words fitness and health than the artist Piluca When she is not painting something extraordinary, she is usually in the gym, lifting weights, stretching, or somehow making the rest of us feel mildly guilty for cancelling leg day.

So, imagine my curiosity when I spotted her creatine — or as I lovingly call it, the powder of the gods. Only this was not the rather dull, masculine tub I am used to seeing in greys and blacks with promises of “extreme performance” shouted across the packaging. No, this came in a rather stylish bright blue pack that looked far more exciting than mine.

Naturally, being me, I had to have a nose.

Checking the ingredients, I found myself genuinely impressed. This was not simply another supplement jumping onto the wellness bandwagon with flashy branding and very little substance. The formulas appeared considered, clean, and thoughtfully put together.

Then there was the collagen powder — beautifully packaged in pink, easy to reseal, and surprisingly elegant for something designed to be stirred into your morning routine. More importantly, if Piluca’s glowing skin is anything to go by, clearly something is working. Quite frankly, if looking fabulous is the side effect, sign me up.

The company behind the products is Enough Wellness, a female-founded British supplement brand created with one very clear mission: to help women feel stronger, healthier, and more confident at every stage of life. Founded by women who became frustrated with confusing health messaging and supplements that often felt more gimmick than science, the brand was designed to simplify wellness rather than complicate it. Their aim is refreshingly straightforward — products backed by research and created for real women navigating real lives.

https://enoughwellness.co.uk

Now before the men stop reading and assume this is all about collagen, glowing skin, and conversations involving “hormonal wellness” over herbal tea — hear me out.

What intrigued me most was their creatine.

For years, creatine has been unfairly labelled the territory of young men in string vests grunting aggressively beside squat racks. Yet increasingly, women are embracing creatine for strength, recovery, energy, and even cognitive wellbeing — and frankly, the rest of us can benefit too.

I decided to give it a try.

https://enoughwellness.co.uk

Now, before anyone writes in accusing me of suddenly becoming a fitness influencer, let me be clear: I am not claiming miracles. I did not wake up looking like a Marvel superhero after one scoop. But what I did notice was this — I felt better.

There was more energy in the gym, better recovery, and a sense of feeling stronger rather than depleted. As someone who exercises regularly, fasts, and tries to take care of himself without becoming obsessed, I genuinely noticed a difference. It felt clean, easy to take, and perhaps most importantly, it slotted effortlessly into everyday life.

The collagen, too, deserves a mention. Increasingly popular for skin, joints, hair, and overall wellbeing, collagen has become something of a quiet revolution in wellness circles. Enough Wellness has built much of its identity around supporting women through changes in energy, skin, confidence, and ageing — not with scare tactics or impossible promises, but with the rather refreshing idea that ageing can be embraced positively.

What also struck me was the branding. Supplements have changed. Gone are the days of dusty tubs hidden in kitchen cupboards. Wellness is becoming more accessible, more stylish, and — dare I say it — more fun. Enough Wellness understands that people want products that feel approachable rather than clinical. It is wellness without the intimidation.

So, ladies, congratulations. Yet again, you have discovered something fabulous before the rest of us.

And gentlemen? Here is my advice — if you happen to notice a bright blue pouch or elegant pink collagen pack sitting on the kitchen counter, perhaps quietly borrow a scoop when no one is looking.

Just don’t blame me when she notices it running out faster than usual.

Because this woman-focused supplement company may well have accidentally created something the boys want in on too.

https://enoughwellness.co.uk The team behind the brand.