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In celebration of “Autism Awareness and acceptance day ” we set Anna Kennedy OBE a bush trucker trail.

“I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here!” – Anna Kennedy Faces Her Fears in Essex

Words: Steven Smith

It could easily have been mistaken for a scene straight out of I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here! as screams, laughter, and nervous anticipation filled the air in Essex yesterday. But this was no television stunt. This was something far more meaningful — a deeply personal challenge undertaken by the remarkable Anna Kennedy OBE, a woman known for her relentless determination, boundless compassion, and tireless advocacy for the autism community.

Thank-you my friend Nicky Rodrigues I am so proud of you .

This time, however, Anna was stepping far outside her comfort zone — not into a boardroom, a stage, or a campaign, but into a world of exotic creatures that have long sparked fear rather than fascination.

The challenge was set by long-time friend Nicky Rodrigues and her son Harry, who now both work at Living Things UK, an organisation renowned for its immersive and educational wildlife encounters.

A World of Wildlife — With a Purpose

Living Things UK is not your typical animal experience. Behind the scenes is a dedicated team of skilled animal handlers, welfare specialists, educators, and passionate wildlife advocates. Their mission is simple yet powerful: to bring people closer to nature in a way that is safe, educational, and deeply engaging.

Their enclosures are carefully designed to replicate natural habitats, ensuring each animal thrives in an environment suited to its needs. Over the past decade, they have built an impressive reputation, delivering unforgettable experiences across schools, SEN groups, hospitals, care homes, festivals, and corporate settings.

Ordinarily closed to the general public, Living Things made a special exception for this visit in support of autism awareness, aligning perfectly with the work of Anna Kennedy Online.

A Friendship Rooted in Advocacy

Nicky Rodrigues’ connection to Anna dates back to 2014, when she volunteered with Anna Kennedy Online as a Charity Champion covering Essex.

“I met so many incredible people during my time there,” Nicky recalls. “It was an experience that stayed with me. When Harry and I began working with these amazing animals, I knew I wanted to share that world with Anna — and perhaps help her face a few fears along the way.”

And what a journey it turned out to be.

A not so scary bunny .

Enter the Animals… and the Fear

Of course, no such adventure would be complete without a witness — or, as Anna jokingly put it, “support” — from 2Shades Magazine’s Steven Smith, who joined as a patron of Anna Kennedy Online.

“I am terrified,” Anna admitted at the outset, laughing nervously. It’s a rare confession from a woman often described as having “the tenacity of a Rottweiler with a bone” when it comes to achieving her goals. Yet when it comes to insects, reptiles, and the more unusual corners of the animal kingdom, Anna is refreshingly human.

What followed was nothing short of extraordinary.

Harry, who led the experience, introduced Anna to an astonishing array of creatures. Among them were a Russian Horsfield tortoise, a leopard gecko, a bearded dragon, a frilled-neck lizard, and a striking blue iguana. The mammals proved equally captivating — a Madagascan lesser tenrec, a soft and gentle chinchilla, a playful sugar glider, and the ever-curious African meerkat.

Then came the creatures that would test Anna’s resolve to its limits: a cornsnake, a Chilean rose tarantula, an Asian forest scorpion, a giant African millipede, and the unmistakable Madagascan hissing cockroach.

And finally — a moment of calm, grace, and beauty — Juliet, the British barn owl, who would quickly become Anna’s favourite.

Harrys knowledge was impressive

Harry’s Moment to Shine

Perhaps the most moving aspect of the day was watching Harry in action. Once non-verbal as a young child, he now confidently handled and introduced each animal with knowledge, care, and quiet authority.

For Nicky, it was an emotional moment.

“To see Harry like this today — confident, engaged, and sharing his passion — is just beautiful,” she said. “Moments like this remind you how far people can come with the right support and opportunities.”

It was a powerful reflection of everything Anna Kennedy Online stands for: inclusion, empowerment, and the celebration of individual potential.

Facing Fear, Finding Joy

As for Anna, she rose to the challenge with surprising courage.

“Honestly, I’m not saying I didn’t have a flush or two,” she laughed. “The tarantula was definitely a worry! But I absolutely adored the owl. And Harry taught me so much about the animals — things I never knew before.”

What began as a fear-filled experience transformed into something joyful, educational, and even uplifting. Anna handled animals she never imagined she would go near, let alone hold.

It was, in many ways, a metaphor for her life’s work: facing the unknown, challenging perceptions, and embracing growth.

Me showing Anna how it is done ,

A Legacy of Dedication

Anna Kennedy’s achievements are nothing short of extraordinary. Awarded an OBE for her services to the autism community, she has dedicated her life to improving opportunities and understanding for autistic individuals.

She has founded and developed some of Europe’s largest autism-specific schools, while also raising her two sons, Patrick and Angelo, both of whom are autistic. Her work continues to inspire families, educators, and advocates across the UK and beyond.

Her visit to Living Things was not just a personal challenge — it was a continuation of that mission. By stepping into an unfamiliar world, she demonstrated the importance of openness, learning, and breaking down barriers.

More Than an Experience

The visit, timed just ahead of World Autism Acceptance Day, was a celebration of inclusion in its truest form.

Together, Anna and Steven explored a world that many might shy away from, proving that with the right support — and a little bravery — anything is possible.

For Living Things UK, the day was equally meaningful.

“Moments like these remind us why we do what we do,” the team shared. “Creating inclusive, unforgettable experiences that bring people and nature together is at the heart of everything we believe 

A Favourite Feathered Friend

Among all the creatures encountered, one stood out above the rest — Juliet the barn owl.

Elegant, calm, and quietly majestic, she provided a moment of serenity amidst the excitement. For Anna, it was love at first sight.

And perhaps that’s the lasting image of the day: a woman who has spent her life fighting for others, standing still for a moment, holding something beautiful, and discovering that even fear can give way to wonder.

Anna so thrilled in the end with Harry.

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Living Things UK: https://www.living-things.co.uk
Anna Kennedy Online: https://annakennedyonline.com

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Review “Off Roading “

Off Roading by Lucy Linger
★★★★☆

Film, theatre and literature have long served as powerful portals through which we explore subjects that are often difficult to confront in everyday life. Illness—particularly cancer—is one such subject that artists have returned to time and again, helping audiences process grief, fear and resilience through storytelling. From Terms of Endearment, where Shirley MacLaine and Debra Winger deliver unforgettable performances as a complicated mother and daughter navigating terminal illness, to Love Story with Ryan O’Neal, and the tear-stained shores of Beaches starring Bette Midler—these works remind us that love and loss are often inextricably intertwined.

This month sees a contemporary addition to that canon. Off Roading, written by Lucy Linger and sponsored by the Pink Ribbon Foundation, enjoyed test screening at the stylish cinema within The Sanctuary House Hotel. Billed as a romantic comedy-drama, the film explores modern relationships, dating, and the profound ripple effect that a cancer diagnosis—alongside issues of fertility—can have on both the individual and those closest to them.

At its heart, Off Roading is an engaging and refreshingly honest piece of writing. Linger’s script balances humour with poignancy, never allowing the subject matter to become overly sentimental, yet never shying away from its emotional weight. It is a delicate tightrope, and for the most part, she walks it with confidence and charm.

That said, from the outset, this feels less like a film destined for the blockbuster big screen and more like a piece that will thrive within the intimacy of film festivals, television, or indeed, a theatrical setting. One can easily imagine a stage adaptation—perhaps starring the likes of Keira Knightley alongside a strong male counterpart—where the dialogue and emotional exchanges could truly breathe. With a few structural tightenings, it has all the makings of a compelling, sell-out stage production. It comes as little surprise to learn that the work originated as a play; its DNA is unmistakably theatrical.

In many ways, Off Roading evokes the spirit of A Woman of No Importance, famously performed by Patricia Routledgeand written by Alan Bennett. Like Bennett’s work, Linger’s piece relies heavily on character-driven storytelling and the power of dialogue. While it may not yet possess the same razor-sharp precision or lyrical polish of Bennett’s writing, it nonetheless takes the audience on a journey that is by turns amusing, reflective and quietly devastating.

The performances—anchored by a two-hander dynamic—are a particular strength. The actors bring warmth, authenticity and nuance to their roles, ensuring that the emotional beats land with sincerity rather than melodrama. There is a natural chemistry that draws the viewer in, making the unfolding narrative feel both intimate and relatable.

What sets Off Roading apart, however, is its focus not only on the individual diagnosed with cancer but also on the emotional landscape of those around them. It examines how partners, friends and loved ones navigate their own fears, frustrations and helplessness, often sidelining their own needs in the process. This broader perspective gives the film an added layer of depth and relevance.

Ultimately, Off Roading is a thoughtful and well-crafted romantic comedy-drama that tackles complex themes with sensitivity and wit. It is a piece that will resonate deeply with audiences, though viewers should be aware that its exploration of breast cancer, risk and fertility may prove triggering for some.

A promising and heartfelt work—one that, with a little refinement, could travel far beyond its current path. It is no small feat for two actors to hold an audience’s attention for eighty minutes, yet for the most part, they carry it with assurance and skill.

I laughed out loud and, at moments, felt a tear or two. Lucy Linger is certainly one to watch.

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Why Piers Morgan is on the side of The LGBTQ+ community .

Why Piers Morgan Might Miss a Beat on Mental Health — But He Is on the Side of the LGBTQ+ Community

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“I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.” — Voltaire

Let’s get one thing straight about Piers Morgan: he is no homophobe. I am re-running a feature I penned around the time he walked out of Good Morning Britain. No, I do not agree with his views on mental health for the most part, but he is entitled to his opinion. I was dumbfounded that he did not take Kevin Spacey to task over giving Elton John as a moral character reference. Having been a guest as a teenager at the Rocket Man’s house, I believe the truth will come out. His interview with the deluded TikTok personality HSTikkyTokky showed his stance against homophobia, and I will be writing about that in my column next month. For now, please read why Piers is, in fact, an LGBTQ+ ally.

Steven Smith takes a look at the meteoric rise of what could arguably be the ultimate school bully, Piers Morgan. He asks: as an adult society that often does not move far beyond the playground, do we actually revel in Morgan’s Machiavellian ways? Is he a friend to the LGBTQ+ community, and should he be fired from Good Morning Britain for his apparent sexist views and for questioning whether we should teach children that there are 100 genders?

Victoria Wood is about to come on stage at the Royal Albert Hall, and I am in the box, hosted by her PR, Neil Reading, with a variety of celebrities, journalists, and media types. The lovely Dale Winton is chatting away to me—fabulously bronzed, styled to perfection, charming and witty. Everyone is excited about the show when suddenly the air changes.

RIP Dale Winton

“Oh God, no!” Dale shrieks, as if Maleficent herself had appeared to cast a spell over us. Some of the other guests look uncomfortable too. No—it is not Maleficent. It is Piers Morgan, then the youngest editor of the Daily Mirror. Dale does all he can to avoid him, but Piers makes a beeline, grinning from ear to ear. “How’s that bottom doing, Dale?” Dale’s tan deepens two shades. “Fine, Piers, thanks,” he replies, avoiding eye contact. The penny drops. The Daily Mirror had splashed that Dale had been paying for colonic irrigation treatments at a clinic in London’s trendy Beauchamp Place—the same clinic frequented by Princess Diana. Somehow, they had photos of him leaving.

If Dale had turned around and said, “Oh, just great! You should try it, Piers—wash some of that rubbish you write straight out of you!” I suspect both men might have laughed, and Piers might even have offered him a column. The scenario did make me chuckle. Piers was goading his subject like a provocateur returning to the scene of the crime. It was no big deal—but Dale was private, kind, and is still sadly missed.

The next “victim” was Anthea Turner, splashed across the tabloids during her very public relationship scandal involving Grant Bovey. Piers had that unmistakable school bully energy—unable to resist the poke. Yet here’s the paradox: he also wanted to be one of them, a celebrity himself.

Let’s be clear—Piers Morgan is a genius. Rupert Murdoch made him editor of the now-defunct News of the World at just 29. He has the rare ability to remain calm while provoking others—an ability that later defined his interviewing style. Sometimes uncomfortable, often gripping, always headline-making. And when he chooses, he can be kind.

At a wedding with Barbara Windsor and her husband Scott Mitchell, Piers joined our table. He was delightful, charming, engaging. Until a PR woman confronted him. Piers remained calm while she became increasingly furious, eventually storming off. He had that effect—controlled chaos.

Under his leadership, the Daily Mirror became more progressive on gay issues, especially compared to rival tabloids. He helped elevate voices like Sue Carroll, a fierce advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and a dear friend of mine. He also co-created the Pride of Britain Awards alongside Peter Willis. But let’s not kid ourselves—we still have a long way to go before tabloids are truly safe ground for the LGBTQ+ community.

After the Abu Ghraib scandal and other controversies, which he has always denied wrongdoing in, Piers was sacked. You might expect him to disappear. Instead, like a phoenix, he came back stronger. From television appearances to America’s Got Talent, from winning The Celebrity Apprentice under Donald Trump, to taking over Larry King’s CNN slot, he rebuilt himself as a global media personality.

And here’s the key point: on LGBTQ+ issues, Piers Morgan has consistently shown support. He has challenged so-called conversion therapy advocates on air, telling one, “Shut up, you bigot.” He has supported figures like India Willoughby and publicly backed trans rights in debates. There is simply no credible evidence that he is anti-gay.

Now critics call for him to be cancelled—over gender debates, over tone, over clashes with guests. But should he be fired? No. If we silence every voice we disagree with, we risk losing something vital: dialogue, understanding, and progress.

I want to hear opposing views—even uncomfortable ones. That is how we measure how far we still have to go. We have made huge progress. Ten years ago, LGBTQ+ role models speaking in schools would have been unthinkable. But progress requires conversation, not cancellation.

Yes, Piers gets it wrong, especially on mental health. I believe he owes Denise Welch an apology. But he also reflects a segment of public opinion we cannot ignore. We must challenge hatred, but not silence debate. Because if we push dissenting voices underground, we risk something worse: backlash.

So no, I do not agree with everything Piers Morgan says. But I would still want him on my side.

And one final thought: can someone explain the “100 genders” to me? Not out of defiance, but because I want to understand. Asking questions does not make someone a bigot—it makes them human.

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A DEDICATION TO Christopher Garnham

Christopher Garnham

By Steven Smith

A Brilliant Artist Lost Too Soon

It is early evening in Earl’s Court London.  It seems like it has never stopped raining for the last seven days and tonight is no different. Earl’s Court is an area that has been my home at times in my life and a playground since past my sixteenth birthday. This evening I am meeting a friend that I have known very fondly for over 49 years. He can be Machiavellian and entertaining but never boring.  He has some very exciting news to tell me and I can hardly wait. 

I would like to share the whole story, but it is personal My friend is adopted and the tip of the exciting news was he had found his biological mother after 70 odd years. With technology being what it is and Ai with just his mother first name and last name a friend had tracked her down. Sadly, she passed in a nursing home in Ipswich several years ago.

The news that he had a brother was something that was quite unexpected . A brother named Christopher Paul Garnham . He too like my friend and me had lived in Earl’s Court an artist and gifted portrait photographer . It was hard to believe what he told me next his brother has passed like his mother, tragegley on the Marchioness.

So many beautiful talented people passed on the Marchioness in fact my friend mother had spent her latter years campaigning for jutice for the victims.  I said this is quite a story  But it got me thinking how many artist and talnted people who light had burned brightly but so briefly that may be some what forgotten 

My friend will one day write about his feeling and his side of things but I wanted to celebrate  Christopher and highlight his story in 2Shades and dedicate this to my dear friend. 

“Christopher Garnham’s portraits of artists including Gilbert & George, Paula Rego and Elvis Costello are preserved today in the collection of the National Portrait Gallery, ensuring that his brief but brilliant career remains part of Britain’s cultural record.”

London’s creative history is filled with artists whose light burned brightly but briefly. One such figure is the gifted portrait photographer Christopher Paul Garnham, a man whose work captured the cultural energy of the 1980s but whose life ended tragically before his career had truly reached its peak.

Born on 1 March 1958 in Ipswich, Suffolk, Chris Garnham grew up in a period when British photography was undergoing a transformation. The late 1970s and early 1980s were a time when magazines, fashion, music and art were colliding to create a new visual culture. Garnham would become part of that movement.

From an early age he showed an instinctive eye for images and composition. His creative path eventually led him to London, where he studied at the Royal College of Art, one of the most prestigious art institutions in the world. There he initially trained as an illustrator, but photography soon became the medium through which he would express his vision most clearly.

The camera suited Garnham’s temperament. He was fascinated by people — their faces, their presence, and the stories they carried with them. Portraiture became his natural language.

By the early 1980s Garnham had established himself as a promising young photographer within London’s thriving creative scene. This was a period when publications such as The Face and Blitz were redefining style journalism. These magazines celebrated a new generation of designers, musicians, writers and artists, and Garnham’s portraits fitted perfectly into that vibrant cultural landscape.

His photographs were distinctive. Rather than simply recording a likeness, Garnham sought to reveal something deeper about his subjects. There was a quiet intensity in his portraits — an ability to capture both vulnerability and strength within the same frame.

Many of his subjects came from the world he moved within: artists, writers, musicians and cultural figures. Among those he photographed were notable names such as Gilbert & George, Paula Rego and Elvis Costello, figures who themselves defined British art and culture in the late twentieth century. 

Gilbert and George by Christopher Garnham

His work gained increasing recognition within the photography world. In 1984 he was named Photographer of the Year by Blitz magazine, a major accolade at the time and a clear sign that his talent had been noticed. 

Two years later his photographs were included in the National Portrait Gallery exhibition “Twenty for Today”, a group show highlighting some of the most exciting young portrait photographers working in Britain at the time. 

The National Portrait Gallery would go on to acquire many of his photographs for its permanent collection, ensuring that Garnham’s work would continue to be seen and appreciated long after his death. 

During this period Garnham lived in Earl’s Court, at Flat 5, 2 Neville Place . In the 1980s Earl’s Court was something of a creative enclave. Photographers, artists, musicians and actors were drawn to the area because of its relatively affordable rents and its proximity to London’s cultural life. It was a place where ideas were exchanged over late-night conversations and where collaborations often began.

Elvis Costello

Friends remembered Garnham as thoughtful, intelligent and quietly passionate about his craft. He was dedicated to his work but never arrogant about his talent. Like many artists of his generation, he was part of a community rather than a solitary figure.

Then came the night that would change everything.

Self portrait

On 20 August 1989, Garnham joined friends for what was meant to be a joyful evening on the River Thames. The group had boarded the pleasure boat Marchioness, which was hosting a birthday celebration. The boat travelled along the river carrying a crowd of young people — many of them from London’s creative and cultural circles.

In the early hours of the morning, tragedy struck.

At approximately 1:46 am, near Southwark Bridge, the Marchioness collided with a dredger called the Bowbelle. The smaller vessel was struck from behind and quickly capsized. Within minutes the boat had sunk.

The disaster remains one of the worst peacetime tragedies on the Thames.

Fifty-one people lost their lives that night.

Christopher Garnham was among them. He was only 31 years old.

The news sent shockwaves through London’s artistic community. Many of those who had known him were still at the beginning of their own careers. The sudden loss of such a talented photographer was deeply felt.

For Garnham’s friends and colleagues, the tragedy was not just the loss of a person but the loss of a future — the photographs he would have taken, the artists he would have portrayed, the stories he would have told through his lens.

And yet his work did not disappear.

The photographs he left behind continue to speak for him.

Today Garnham’s portraits remain preserved in the National Portrait Gallery, where they form part of the visual record of Britain’s cultural life in the 1980s. Through these images we glimpse the creative world in which he moved — a world of artists, musicians and thinkers whose ideas helped shape modern culture.

His photographs possess a rare quality. They feel both intimate and timeless. The viewer senses that Garnham approached his subjects not merely as a photographer but as a fellow participant in the creative conversation of his generation.

Looking at those portraits now, one cannot help wondering what Garnham might have achieved had he lived longer. Many photographers only reach their full artistic maturity later in life. For Garnham, that journey had barely begun.

Yet even in the relatively short span of his career he left an imprint.

In many ways his story reflects the fragile nature of artistic life. Talent, opportunity and recognition were all coming together for him just as fate intervened. His work reminds us how important it is to preserve and honour the contributions of artists whose voices were silenced too early.

Christopher Garnham may not be a household name today, but within the circles of photography and portraiture he is remembered as a gifted observer of people — a man who could look through a camera and reveal something honest and human.

More than three decades after his death, his images still carry that quiet power.

And perhaps that is the greatest tribute any photographer can hope for.

The artist may be gone, but the faces he captured continue to look back at us.

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“lets Hear it for the Boy “

“Let’s Hear It for the Boy”

When I am in the United States and someone overhears my British accent, at some point during the trip someone will inevitably say — when she was alive — “I just love your Queen.”

It is almost impossible for me not to reply, “Boy George, or the one in the palace?”

Arguably, Boy George has done more to promote British fashion, music and style around the world than many who have appeared on the Honours List. In many ways he has been a global ambassador for the United Kingdom.

More importantly, George made it possible for countless young LGBTQ people to see a beacon — a figure who said, unapologetically, do not be afraid to be yourself. His honesty about his struggles with addiction has also helped many others find the courage to seek help.

Boy George burst onto Top of the Pops in 1982 with Culture Club performing their first major hit, “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me.” Today there is scarcely anyone in the world who does not recognise the name Boy George.

Back then I was living in Brighton and was nineteen years old. My sister, who was sixteen and still at school in Surbiton, rang me in excitement. She had been a huge fan of Culture Club even before their television debut, and they were about to play in Brighton. Could she come down?

A couple of weeks later there I was, surrounded by girls chanting “George! George!” at what is now the Odeon cinema, waiting for him to step on stage. Even though Culture Club were not yet household names, the excitement in the room was electrifying. When Boy George finally appeared, the crowd went wild. In the end I resorted to putting my sister on my shoulders so she could get a better view.

George reminded me of someone who had earlier brought light into my life and given me hope. When I was just nine years old, Marc Bolan flashed onto Top of the Pops singing “Ride a White Swan.”

At the time I often felt painfully different. Bullying at school — and sometimes at home — left me wondering whether I wanted to be here at all. But Marc Bolan, along with David Bowie, gave many gay men of my generation hope. They told us, in their own way: it will be OK — keep going.

Years later I realised I had actually encountered Boy George and his entourage long before his rise to global fame. I was sixteen in a club called the Regency in Great Newport Street when Phillip Sallon cheekily pinched my bottom. I turned around to see these fabulously flamboyant figures — Sallon with a black-and-white walking stick — and I was utterly speechless.

Marilyn and George were more beautiful than most of the girls I knew. They were intimidating, to say the least. My friend whispered, “Blitz Kids.” I muttered barely two words and quickly moved away, but the moment left a lasting impression.

I would later see them again at the legendary Bangs gay night on Mondays at the Astoria club. Marilyn, with his incredible Monroe-style hair, stood out from a mile away.

Boy George’s first appearance on BBC Top of the Pops immediately made tabloid headlines. Words like androgynouswere thrown around, and newspapers asked the now infamous question: “Is it a boy or a girl?”

As always happens when something genuinely different appears, critics lined up to condemn it. “One-hit wonder,” they cried. “He’ll corrupt our children,” shouted others from the moral high ground of the Thatcher era.

My sister left that Brighton concert glowing with happiness — much like I had after my first T. Rex concert at Newcastle City Hall. One thing was certain: George was a star, and he was here to stay.

Even those in the know recognised it. Freddie Mercury once said in an interview that Boy George would be around for a very long time and was no flash in the pan. Madonna, despite their occasional differences, has cited him as an inspiration. And Lady Gaga has always been unabashedly mad about the boy.

Labels such as campdrag queen and trans were quickly attached to him — particularly within the gay community, which is not always shy about labelling its own. George himself addressed it with humour at the 1984 Grammys, declaring:

“Thank you, America — you know a good drag queen when you see one.”

The remark reportedly caused Culture Club’s popularity in parts of the American Bible Belt to dip sharply.

Personally, I never thought George was particularly camp — a word often used to describe effeminate entertainers such as John Inman, Larry Grayson or Kenneth Williams. It takes a real man to live authentically. Beneath the thick foundation and those famously highlighted blue eyes, the strength of a proud Irishman has always shone through.

Both my sister and I eventually spent time living in the United States, but when I returned to London I received an invitation to Boy George’s book launch for Take It Like a Man, written with Spencer Bright.

The party came with strict instructions from George himself: guests had to dress as something to do with school — or not bother turning up.

Daily Mail journalist Lester Middlehurst and I arrived dressed as school prefects, complete with blazers and badges. Spencer Bright appeared as a headmaster carrying a cane.

True to George’s word, several corporate bigwigs were turned away at the door for failing to dress up. Meanwhile George himself wandered around the room in disguise while his mother attended dressed as a dinner lady.

The next time I encountered him was in 1999 at LWT during An Audience with Diana Ross. Ross unexpectedly pulled George from the largely celebrity audience and invited him to sing. I had brought along my partner of eighteen years, Martin Annand, and we both agreed that George’s voice easily held its own alongside Miss Ross.

At the after-party George stood nearby chatting happily with anyone who approached him.

My next brush with him came in 2002 at the opening of Taboo at the Leicester Square Theatre. It was an extraordinary evening — Alan Cumming, Phillip Sallon and countless other personalities were there.

Taboo was not simply George’s life story; it was a tribute to a generation of performers who defined an era: Steve Strange, Leigh Bowery, Phillip Sallon, Marilyn — and of course Boy George himself.

The show was electric, the kind of night you never wanted to end. Marilyn was absent from the opening night, but during the speeches someone joked that she was probably hiding somewhere backstage in rollers and a headscarf.

The production closed in London in 2003 before transferring to New York. Judging by the number of young people around London today dressed in Bowery and Boy George-inspired outfits, perhaps it is time for a revival.

Like me, George is a Gemini — a star sign known for moving between extremes. Over the years Mr O’Dowd has been very open about his struggles with addiction. Under the guidance of DJ Fat Tony he began attending Narcotics Anonymous meetings and, by all accounts, happily volunteers to make the tea for fellow attendees.

George has spoken openly and honestly about his battles, helping others confront their own.

Listening to one of his recent interviews was not only enlightening but genuinely moving. It was refreshing to hear him say, “I don’t live in a gay bubble.”

It is something I often tell people myself — just because someone else is gay does not mean you instantly want to date them or start screaming, “Let’s be sisters!”

I hope George continues giving interviews like this. They will help many people.

Yes, George has been a naughty boy at times — but who among us hasn’t? What he has contributed to music, entertainment, fashion and LGBTQ visibility is extraordinary.

Which raises the question:

Perhaps it is finally time we started calling him Sir George — or at the very least awarding him an OBE.

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The Harley Street Skin Clinic is proud to sponsor “The Personal Achievement Award ” at the Autism Hero Awards .

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The Harley Street Skin Clinic is proud to sponsor the Personal Achievement Award at the 2026 Autism Hero Awards in London on 9 May, celebrating individuals who have shown exceptional courage, determination, and resilience in the face of adversity.

For decades, Harley Street has been synonymous with excellence in medicine, and the Harley Street Skin Clinic has remained firmly at the forefront of this tradition. Combining world-class medical expertise with compassionate, patient-centred care, the clinic continues to set the benchmark in both aesthetic and medical treatment.

At the heart of this commitment is Dr Aamer Khan, who is widely recognised not only for his clinical expertise but also for his dedication to supporting autistic individuals and their families. Through thoughtful research, practical treatment approaches, and genuine empathy, Dr Khan helps people navigate everyday challenges with confidence, dignity, and understanding.

The clinic’s outstanding reputation has been built on trust, precision, and an unwavering focus on patient wellbeing. By blending a rich medical heritage with the latest technological advancements, Harley Street Skin ensures that every client receives the highest standard of care, from consultation to aftercare.

Co-founder Lesley Reynolds and Managing Director Sophie Cooper are equally admired, not only for their professional achievements but for their deeply empathetic approach to charity and community engagement. Their support for the autistic community extends far beyond the clinic walls and into their everyday lives, reflecting a genuine commitment to making a meaningful difference.

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Through its sponsorship of the Autism Hero Awards, Harley Street Skin has become a proud champion of Anna Kennedy Online, the leading autism charity founded by Dr Anna Kennedy OBE. Speaking about the partnership, Dr Kennedy said:“To have the Harley Street Skin Clinic as a sponsor is truly wonderful.

Their approach to autism research and understanding is inspiring, and I am excited to work closely with them.”Since 2004, Dr Aamer Khan and Lesley Reynolds have worked tirelessly to build Harley Street Skin into a trusted name in cosmetic and medical excellence. With a family legacy in medicine spanning four generations, their dedication has earned the clinic an enviable reputation and a high-profile client base.

https://www.harleystreetskinclinic.com

Their journey was even showcased on Sky Television in the acclaimed series Stitch Me, Lift Me, Tuck Me.Today, the clinic continues to flourish under Sophie Cooper’s leadership, bringing fresh vision and energy while preserving its family-run values.

Offering a comprehensive range of surgical and non-surgical treatments—from advanced body sculpting and cosmetic contouring to breast enhancement and anti-ageing procedures—Harley Street Skin remains committed to excellence at every level.Through innovation, compassion, and community spirit, the Harley Street Skin Clinic stands proudly alongside the Autism Hero Awards, honouring personal achievement and helping to build a more inclusive, understanding society.

https://www.harleystreetskinclinic.com

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DOLLY DOLITTLE’S WILDLIFE ADVENTURE

Dolly Dolittle’s Wildlife Adventure is coming to Billericay this April in celebration of World Autism Awareness Day, bringing together acclaimed Animal Wildlife Presenter Nicki Rodriguez at Living Things in support of Anna Kennedy Online.


The special family-friendly event will take place on Thursday, 2nd April, from 12:00pm to 2:30pm at The Beauvoir Arms, Downham Road, Downham, Billericay, CM11 1QH.

The main show will begin at 12:30pm and will be followed by a buffet for guests included in the price .

Meet a friendly snake .


Organised to mark World Autism Awareness Day, the event aims to raise awareness and vital funds for Anna Kennedy Online, a leading UK charity dedicated to supporting autistic individuals and their families through advocacy, education, and community programmes.
Dolly Dolittle’s Wildlife Adventure offers children and adults a unique opportunity to engage safely with a range of fascinating animals, including meerkats, snakes, tarantulas, and flying sugar gliders. Delivered in a fully supervised and educational environment, the experience encourages respect for wildlife while inspiring curiosity and learning.


The expert team at Living Things are nationally recognised for their high standards of animal care and are regularly trusted by television and film productions for their professionalism and specialist knowledge. Every animal featured in the show is carefully looked after, ensuring both their wellbeing and a positive experience for visitors.
Nicky Rodriguez is also energetic and her engaging performances have delighted audiences across the UK. Having entertained royalty, celebrities, and thousands of children, Nicki is known for creating inclusive, welcoming events that combine entertainment with education.


All proceeds from the event will support the ongoing work of Anna Kennedy Online, helping to improve understanding, access to services, and quality of life for autistic people and their families. Guests will also have the opportunity to meet Dr Anna Kennedy OBE, founder of the charity, following the event.
After the wildlife presentation, attendees will enjoy a buffet at the award-winning Beauvoir Arms, providing a relaxed and friendly space for families to connect, share experiences, and reflect on a memorable afternoon.
Dolly Dolittle’s Wildlife Adventure promises to be an inspiring celebration of community, learning, and inclusion, offering fun for all ages while supporting an important cause. The event aims to leave families with lasting memories and a deeper appreciation for both wildlife and the autism community. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1982671122700?aff=oddtdtcreator

https://www.living-things.co.uk

https://annakennedyonline.com/anna-kennedy-obe/

https://www.beauvoirarms.co.uk


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WHY MEN’S EYEBROWS MATTER .

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Steven’s Male Grooming Spot

Why Men’s Eyebrows Matter More Than You Think

When we talk about male grooming, most men immediately think of haircuts, beard trims, maybe the occasional wet shave if they’re feeling indulgent. Walk down any British high street and you’ll see it for yourself: slick barbershops offering everything from skin fades to hot towel shaves, nose waxing, ear hair removal and precision beard sculpting. Male grooming is no longer niche — it’s big business.

Men struggle with brows .

What’s perhaps less talked about is how many men are now quietly crossing the threshold into what were once considered female-only beauty spaces. Over the last decade, men have made up around a third of beauty salon clientele — and in some areas, even more. The reasons vary. For some, it’s confidence. For others, it’s professionalism. And for many, it’s simply about holding the hands of time back just a little.

Grooming isn’t about vanity. It’s about maintenance. If your home starts to look tired, you redecorate. If the roof needs fixing, you repair it. No one judges that. Caring for your face, hair and skin should be viewed in exactly the same way.

The Silent Ageing Culprit: Eyebrows

One of the most overlooked areas when it comes to male ageing is the eyebrows. Men often obsess over hair loss on the head while completely ignoring what’s happening just above the eyes.

Here’s the truth: eyebrows age us. They thin, lose definition, grow unruly, curl unpredictably, and sometimes disappear in patches altogether. Even the thickest brows aren’t immune. Over time they can begin to resemble overgrown caterpillars — or worse, stray hairy bugs with a mind of their own.

Waxing, threading and tinting can help, of course, but they require constant upkeep and the results can be inconsistent. For many men, especially as we get older, it becomes a losing battle.

I should know.

Turning sixty-five, my own eyebrows had become a point of quiet frustration. One brow was noticeably thinner and weaker than the other. The “good” one, meanwhile, had developed those wiry, curling hairs that refuse to lie flat no matter how much trimming you do. I found myself plucking constantly between salon visits — and yes, occasionally filling them in with a brow pen. Let’s be honest: if you’re doing that in secret, something isn’t working.

Asking for Advice (and Taking the Leap)

So I did what I always advise others to do — I asked a professional. My dear friend and beauty PR powerhouse Abby Knight listened patiently and then made a suggestion that, I’ll admit, made me pause.

She recommended a visit to Everlasting Salon, to see eyebrow specialist and known in the business as “ The beauty enhancer” Sylwia Kucharska.

Sylwia Kucharska beauty expert

Now, gentlemen, if the idea of walking into a salon like this makes you nervous, let me put you at ease immediately. From the moment I arrived, I felt welcome, respected and completely safe. The team are highly trained, discreet and genuinely sensitive to men who may feel a little out of their comfort zone. There’s no judgement — just professionalism.

Sylwia herself was an absolute joy. Warm, reassuring, and empathetic by the bucket load, she listened carefully as I explained my eyebrow woes. Within minutes, she made me feel less like a client and more like an old friend.

Her recommendation? Microblading.

Microblading: Not What You Think

At the mention of microblading, I’ll be honest — alarm bells rang. Images flashed through my mind of overly dark, overly sharp brows I’d seen on some men, better suited to drag performance than everyday life. No offence intended — just not my look.

Sylwia laughed. “Not at all,” she said. “This is completely different.”

She explained that microblading is a semi-permanent eyebrow treatment designed to create the illusion of fuller, natural brows using ultra-fine, hair-like strokes. The pigment is deposited just beneath the surface of the skin with a handheld tool made up of tiny needles, mimicking real hair growth rather than solid blocks of colour.

Masculine. Subtle. Natural.

Beautiful Everlasting Salon .

My first appointment was simply a consultation and patch test to ensure I wasn’t allergic to the pigment — something I strongly advise everyone to do. No pressure, no hard sell.

The Treatment Experience

A few weeks later, I returned — this time genuinely excited. What struck me most was that Sylwia seemed just as invested in the result as I was. She asked if I was nervous, but with such calm, caring hands, it was impossible to be.

Taking the leap in the very capable hands of Sylwia Kucharska

Before the treatment begins, the brows are carefully mapped and shaped to suit the face. I’ll admit, this moment nearly gave me cold feet. The outline looked strong — too strong, I worried. But I was reassured that this was just a guide, not the finished look.

A numbing cream was applied to minimise discomfort, and the full process — including consultation and shaping — took around two hours. The sensation? Mild at worst. At no point was I uncomfortable, and the care taken throughout was exceptional.

Natural looking brows at Everlasting Salon

When I first looked in the mirror, I liked them immediately — though I did worry the colour appeared a little warm. Sylwia calmly explained that this is normal and would soften as the skin healed. She was right. Over the following days, the tone settled beautifully into my natural colouring.

The Results — and the Reality

Despite having written about almost every treatment under the sun, I still had a wobble later that day. Was it too much? Had I overdone it?

But as the days passed, the brows softened, healed and blended seamlessly. The result? Brows that look youthful, thicker, and — most importantly — entirely believable.

Sylwia provided clear aftercare advice. Avoiding the gym for a week was a shock (I won’t lie), but everything else was common sense and easy to follow.

I’ll return in four weeks for a check and possible top-up, but already I’m thrilled. My eyebrows no longer betray my age. They frame my face properly again, without shouting for attention.

Final Thoughts

If you’re a man who’s noticed thinning, uneven or ageing brows and quietly wondered if there’s a solution — there is. And it doesn’t have to look obvious, artificial or un-masculine.

Looking after yourself isn’t vanity. It’s self-respect.

And sometimes, the smallest changes make the biggest difference.

For more information, visit:
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Straight after the treatment and already pleased .
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Steven Tries the New Grow Pro Gummies

By Steven Smith

I’ll be honest: I’m sceptical by nature. Years of beauty launches, miracle cures and “life-changing” supplements have taught me to raise an eyebrow before I reach for my wallet. So when a jar of GrowPro Yummy Gummies from Watermans landed on my desk promising stronger hair, healthier skin and better nails — all sugar-free and vegan — I decided to put them to the test properly. No hype. Just habit, patience and a very British dose of realism.

Hair, for many of us, is emotional territory. Thinning, shedding, dryness or loss of volume can quietly knock confidence, particularly as we age or go through hormonal changes. I’ve spoken to countless men and women who feel it’s something they’re meant to accept in silence. What intrigued me about these gummies wasn’t just the glossy marketing, but the ingredient list: biotin, MSM, zinc, bamboo and horsetail extracts, plus a full alphabet of vitamins including A, C, D3 and E. This wasn’t fairy dust — it was nutrition.

The ritual itself is simple: two mixed-berry gummies a day. They’re genuinely pleasant (which matters — nobody wants to choke down a daily chore), and unlike many supplements, there’s no sugary aftertaste or artificial guilt. Sugar-free, gluten-free and cruelty-free, they slot easily into real life rather than demanding a personality transplant.

After the first month, the most noticeable change wasn’t dramatic regrowth — and that’s important to say. Hair health is a long game. What I did notice was less shedding in the shower and hair that felt stronger when styling. By month two, my hairdresser commented on texture and condition without prompting, which is always the most convincing feedback. There was also an unexpected bonus: my nails, usually prone to splitting, were noticeably tougher, and my skin looked calmer and more even.

What sets GrowPro Gummies apart is how thoughtfully they’re formulated. Biotin and MSM support keratin production, zinc helps maintain scalp balance, and bamboo and horsetail extracts provide silica — essential for strength and shine. This is backed by trichologists who consistently stress that hair growth starts internally. You can use the best shampoo in the world, but if your body lacks the building blocks, progress will be limited.

Watermans positions these gummies as particularly supportive for women experiencing menopause- or postpartum-related thinning, but the truth is they’re effective for anyone wanting to improve overall hair vitality. Men included. There’s nothing gendered or gimmicky here — just solid, science-backed nutrition.

The takeaway? These gummies won’t give you a full mane overnight, and anyone claiming that is selling fantasy. What they do offer is something far more valuable: consistency, nourishment and gradual, visible improvement. Hair that feels healthier. Nails that don’t snap. Skin that looks more awake.

In a crowded market of empty promises, GrowPro Yummy Gummies feel refreshingly grounded. Not magic — but meaningful. And sometimes, that’s exactly what real confidence grows from. Try with the Waterman’s shampoo and Energiser .

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2Shades Welcomes a Proud New Sponsor for the Autism Hero Awards

2Shades is delighted to announce the National Union of Professional Foster Cares as a sponsor of The Autism Hero Awards .

2Shades is delighted to announce the National Union of Professional Foster Carers (NUPFC) as a sponsor of this year’s Autism Hero Awards, supporting the Parent / Carer of the Year category.

The NUPFC is the only government-certified trade union in the UK dedicated exclusively to supporting foster carers, kinship carers, special guardians, and adopters. Its mission is clear: to ensure carers are informed, protected, and properly supported as they provide care for some of the most vulnerable children in society.

What sets the NUPFC apart is its depth of lived experience. Its specialist caseworkers — available 365 days a year — include current and former foster carers alongside retired social workers. This hands-on understanding allows the organisation to offer practical, empathetic guidance rooted in real-world challenges. A strong legal team further ensures members are never left navigating complex systems alone.

https://nupfc.com

Caring for children who have experienced emotional harm or additional challenges can be demanding and emotionally complex. The NUPFC works closely with professionals around each child, helping to ensure carers — and in turn, the children themselves — receive the support, advocacy, and understanding they deserve.

Many children within the care system are autistic, while many others remain undiagnosed. The NUPFC actively promotes early diagnosis, recognising that timely understanding can make a profound difference to a child’s wellbeing, access to support, and long-term outcomes.

https://nupfc.com

By sponsoring the Parent / Carer of the Year category at the Autism Hero Awards, the NUPFC is shining a light on the resilience, commitment, and quiet heroism of carers. This partnership not only celebrates individual achievement but also raises wider awareness of autism and caring within professional circles and among key decision-makers.

Robin Findlay https://nupfc.com

Robin Findlay, Founder and General Secretary of the National Union of Professional Foster Carers, said:

“Anna Kennedy’s tireless campaigning continues to raise awareness of the many strengths, talents, and contributions that autistic people bring to our communities. We are proud to support the Autism Hero Awards and to stand alongside Anna Kennedy Online in encouraging autistic people, and their parents and carers, to seek support when needed, build confidence, and achieve great things.”

Anna Kennedy OBE added:

“We are absolutely delighted to welcome the National Union of Professional Foster Carers as sponsors of the Autism Hero Awards. Their commitment to carers and families aligns closely with our values, and we look forward to working together to celebrate autistic individuals and recognise the dedication of those who support them every day.”

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