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THE SCIENCE OF BECOMING: A MEDICAL APPROACH TO SELF-TRANSFORMATION

DR JOSEPH CRESPO chats to Steven Smith

THE SCIENCE OF BECOMING: A MEDICAL APPROACH TO SELF-TRANSFORMATION

By Steven Smith

DR JOSEPH CRESPO

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There are some people whose careers follow a fairly predictable path, and then there are those who take a completely different route. Dr Joseph Crespo certainly falls into the latter category.

London-based Dr Crespo has a fascinating and varied background. Before entering the world of medicine, he studied law and went on to complete an MBA in London, before working in the financial sector as a consultant and analyst. But his story didn’t end there. He made the considerable decision to change direction and retrain as a doctor — beginning a new chapter that would eventually see him working across both NHS and private healthcare.

His medical career has been equally varied, with experience ranging from GP surgeries and urgent care to walk-in centres, out-of-hours services and even HM Prisons. He has also been involved in teaching the next generation of doctors as a GP tutor and clinical examiner, alongside undertaking medical charity work in India.

It is perhaps not surprising, then, that someone who has reinvented his own life more than once should become interested in the science behind our ability to change.

That interest has now resulted in his book, The Science of Becoming: A Medical Approach to Self-Transformation. Rather than simply telling us to think positively or try harder, Dr Crespo looks at personal change through the eyes of a medical professional, exploring subjects including habits, decision-making, stress, sleep and nutrition — and asking how science can help us make changes that actually last.

At a time when social media seems to offer us a new wellness trend, miracle solution or life-changing hack almost every day, separating good advice from clever marketing has arguably never been more important.

So who better to ask than the doctor who has made transformation not only the subject of his book, but something of a feature of his own extraordinary career?

I caught up with Dr Joseph Crespo to find out more…

Dr Crespo, tell me a little about you. What was your journey into medicine, and what eventually made you want to write a book about changing our lives?

My journey into medicine was long and unorthodox, training first as a lawyer and then a financier. When I finally left it all behind to follow my passion, I trained and practise as a primary care physician, and for years my work sat at the intersection of diagnostics, chronic illness and prevention.

What struck me again and again in clinic was that the biggest lever for most people’s health wasn’t a prescription. It was the slow accumulation of daily choices: how they slept, how they handled stress, what they ate, how they thought about themselves. I kept watching patients try to change with sheer determination and fail, not because they lacked willpower but because nobody had ever given them a framework. Medicine has one. It’s called clinical reasoning, and I realised the same discipline doctors use to diagnose and treat could be turned inward, applied to the process of changing a life rather than treating a disease. That’s where the book came from.

The title is The Science of Becoming. Becoming what? Is there actually an optimum version of ourselves, or are we in danger of constantly being told that we need to improve?

Becoming isn’t about arriving at some fixed, optimised endpoint. There’s no single best version of a person waiting to be unlocked. What I mean by becoming is closer to what we mean clinically by healing: a direction, not a destination. It’s the ongoing process of reducing the gap between how you’re currently living and what your body and mind actually need to function well. I’m wary of the “optimisation” culture that treats a person like a machine to be tuned for maximum output.

That framing burns people out. The question I ask is not “how do I become the best version of myself” but “what is actually true about my biology, my history and my circumstances, and what does that call for right now.”

You argue that we rely too much on willpower. Why doesn’t willpower always work, and what should we be doing instead?

Willpower is a finite, fatiguing resource, and it’s also the wrong tool for the job. In clinic, we don’t tell a patient with a chest infection to try harder not to be infected. We diagnose, then we design an intervention suited to the underlying problem. Most of what looks like a willpower failure is actually a design failure: an environment, a routine or a belief system working against the change someone is trying to make. Instead of asking for more willpower, I encourage people to reduce the number of decisions that require willpower in the first place, by changing defaults, removing friction, and building systems that make the desired behaviour the easy and enjoyable behaviour.

You take clinical decision-making and apply it to everyday life. Can you give me a real-world example? How could I use clinical reasoning to make a better decision tomorrow morning?

Clinical reasoning follows a simple sequence: gather data, form a differential, test it, act, then reassess. Take something as ordinary as feeling constantly tired. Instead of reaching straight for caffeine or willing yourself through it, treat it like a case. What’s the data: how did you sleep, what did you eat yesterday, who did you mix with, what’s your stress load this week. What’s the differential: is this poor sleep quality, is it dehydration, is it emotional load, is it simply overtraining. Pick the most likely cause, make one small deliberate change, and observe the result over a few days rather than guessing forever. Tomorrow morning, that might be as simple as noticing what you automatically reach for and asking, briefly, what problem am I actually trying to solve with this.

We’re bombarded with wellness advice on social media — supplements, fasting, cortisol, sleep hacks, diets and longevity treatments. As a doctor, how do you separate genuine science from very clever marketing?

I look for three things. First, is the claim built on a mechanism that’s been demonstrated in humans, not just in a petri dish or a mouse. Second, does the person selling it benefit financially from your belief in it, and how large is that incentive. Third, is the advice generalised or personalised. Genuine science tends to come with caveats, uncertainty and “it depends.” Marketing tends to come with certainty, urgency and a product at the end of it. If a claim can’t survive the question “compared to what, and for whom,” I treat it with real caution.

Neuroscience has become a fashionable word in the self-help world. What do we genuinely know about changing the brain and forming new habits, and what claims do you think go beyond the evidence?

What we know reasonably well is that the brain retains plasticity throughout life, that repetition genuinely does strengthen certain neural pathways, and that habits form through consistent cues and rewards over time, typically longer than the popular twenty-one-day myth suggests. What goes beyond the evidence is the tendency to take a genuine finding from a controlled lab study and present it as a guaranteed personal transformation protocol. Dopamine, cortisol and neuroplasticity get used as marketing words rather than as the specific, conditional findings they actually are. I try to be honest with readers about where the solid ground ends and the speculation begins.

What about someone in their 60s or 70s? Can we genuinely make substantial changes to our habits, health and outlook later in life, or does change become significantly harder as we get older?

Change is absolutely still possible, and I say that as a clinician who sees it happen. What changes with age isn’t the capacity for change itself, it’s the margin for error and the starting conditions: more accumulated habits, sometimes more comorbidity, less physiological reserve to draw on. The clinical reasoning approach actually suits older patients well, because it isn’t about dramatic overhaul, it’s about identifying the one or two changes that will have the greatest effect given someone’s specific situation, and building from there patiently. I’ve seen patients in their seventies transform their sleep, their mobility and their outlook once they had a clear, individualised plan rather than a generic one.

Stress, sleep and nutrition all feature in your approach. If someone came to you and said, “I’m overwhelmed, I can’t change everything,” which one would you tackle first, and why?

Sleep, almost every time. It’s the foundation the other two rest on. Poor sleep drives stress reactivity, disrupts appetite regulation and blunts willpower and decision-making the following day. It’s also usually the most tractable of the three, because unlike stress or nutrition, sleep responds fairly quickly to specific, well-evidenced changes: consistent timing, light exposure, and a wind-down routine. Fix sleep first and the other two often become noticeably easier to address.

Self-help is an enormous industry, and every year we’re offered another formula for transforming ourselves. What makes your approach different, and what evidence is there that it can produce lasting change rather than the short burst of motivation people often get after reading a self-help book?

Most self-help sells motivation. Motivation is a mood, and moods pass. What I’m offering instead is a method: the same diagnostic, iterative process doctors are trained to use, which doesn’t depend on how inspired you feel on a given day. It assumes you will fail at points, and builds reassessment into the process rather than treating failure as proof the whole effort was doomed. Lasting change, in my clinical experience, comes from small, testable, personalised interventions rather than a single dramatic reinvention. That’s a much less glamorous story than the one the industry usually sells, but it’s the one that holds up over years rather than weeks. In addition, I offer documented medical research studies to substantiate every idea.

DR JOSEPH CRESPO

Not everyone is a reader or someone who would naturally pick up a self-help book. For those people listening to us today, what’s one simple thing they could start doing right now to make a positive change in their lives?

Pick one thing you do automatically every single day, and simply notice it for a week before you try to change anything. Don’t judge it, don’t fix it yet, just observe it the way a clinician observes a patient before making a diagnosis. Most people skip straight to changing behaviour without ever accurately understanding what they’re currently doing and why. That single week of honest observation is often the most useful health intervention I can suggest, and it costs nothing and requires no willpower at all.

Quick-fire questions

Favourite place to relax?

My home.

If you were Mayor of London for a day, what’s the first thing you’d change?

The institutionalisation of common sense, and an understanding that our individual rights end where others’ begin. Sadly, I see a growing number of entitled people imposing their views and beliefs, and condemning anybody who disagrees.

A restaurant you particularly love dining at?

Many, but if I have to choose one, Oliveto on Elizabeth Street, a proper Italian trattoria offering high quality food, friendly service, and a home feel environment. https://www.olivetolondon.uk/about

What has been the proudest moment of your life so far?

Every moment I made the decision to keep growing.

What motivates you to keep going when life gets difficult?

Difficulties are circumstantial, and overcoming them requires only a change in perspective. One thing that has helped me a great deal was when I stopped worrying about things which outcome I cannot change.

https://drjcrespo.com

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Cinzi Lavin: “I made bread out of straw”

Cinzi Lavin, an award-winning artist from the States reached out to 2Shades to tell her story

When I read about her, I was shocked to find out how she isn’t better known for her contributions. But that wasn’t the point, Cinzi’s calm yet captivating approach to life is a distinct voice that 2Shades is honoured to provide a platform for.

Here’s how Cinzi’s journey with life has taught her a great deal about the unexpected turns it might take, and how you can make it easier for yourself, in her own words.

“Everyone’s success story is different. As an award-winning musical dramatist and writer, my work involves telling stories, so I’ll gladly share mine in hopes of inspiring others.

I’ve seen life from many angles: as a child growing up in a wealthy Manhattan suburb and as a young woman eking out a living as an impoverished musician. I’ve been a New Yorker and a Texan. I’ve been an actress, playwright, educator, and lifelong student (and may I never graduate!).

My career path, if it were printed out like an EKG reading, would look like someone having a coronary seizure. Far from straight and uneventful, it included forays into multiple fields in every direction. However, all the paths I followed—from journalism to teaching to performing (and more)—played a crucial role in developing the skill-set I use today.

Early on, I wanted to do amazing things, and I was good at writing and had an ear for music. I took piano lessons for a few years with a neighbor-woman, and I was her worst student. A few decades later, I’d created and produced three full-length original musical dramas and performed by invitation at the White House.

The short answer to the question of how I achieved this is that I made bread out of straw—I created something out of nothing. Circumstances dictated that if I wanted to enjoy success, it would take more than hard work, luck, ambition, or even talent: it would require my humanity, my creativity, and my ability to recognize that obstacles are only illusions.

Here are my three crucial components for success:

1.) Helping Others – There is much to gain by the intentional, systematic, unselfish, and abundant donation of your time and talents. Imagine someone putting a teaspoon of vegetable seeds in a hole in the ground and returning to discover a football-field size crop has grown from it.

I’m a huge proponent of volunteering, because it represents an opportunity to learn valuable skills in a supportive atmosphere, boosts confidence and self-esteem, and encourages networking which may lead to furthering your goals. Additional ways of helping others include always striving for a win-win scenario and mentoring others in your field.

2.) Thinking Creatively – Particularly when you start with nothing, creativity is a powerful way to optimize your talent. Always do things the way you think they should be done, even if it’s not how everyone else does it. In addition, don’t be afraid to utilize unique or unusual ways of promoting your work, such as lecturing in local clubs or libraries.

3.) Ignoring Obstacles – My artist’s statement is as follows: “As an artist, my two most valuable tools are my index fingers; when someone tries to point out obstacles to my dreams, I place them firmly in my ears and say, ‘La la la! I can’t hear you!’ It works every time.”

One of my favorite stories involves a young man who took a job selling encyclopedias door to door many years ago. On his first morning at work, his employer provided him with six sets of the heavy books; he put them into his car, and set forth. Around noon, he returned, saying “I’m ready for the next six sets to sell this afternoon.” His boss and his fellow salesmen were shocked. Nobody had told him that the six sets he’d received that morning were intended for him to sell during the upcoming month. Thinking the six encyclopedias were his morning’s quota, he didn’t suffer any preconceived failure.

As for success itself, I recommend that anyone aspiring to greatness not only define what they want but why they want it. For example, if you want to make a lot of money, it’s not the pieces of paper or the multi-digit numbers on your bank statement that you actually want—you want something the money represents, whether that be financial security, power, or the freedom to do whatever you wish with your time.

I highly recommend practicing economy in your career—not necessarily of money, but of everything good that comes your way. Envision a pathway to success where not a scrap is wasted. During America’s Great Depression in the 1930s, when money and resources were scarce, there was a popular saying: “Use it up, wear it out; make it do, or do without.” People did what they could to make the most of whatever they had. They even created a recipe for a delicious dessert called “Water Pie”!

One of my favorite films is Apollo 13. It recounts the true story of America’s 1970 mission to the moon, during which things went terribly wrong. An oxygen tank ruptured two days into the flight, endangering the crew members, whose life-support system was disabled. The film shows how the three astronauts, with help from NASA’s ground control workers, improvised a means of reestablishing the carbon dioxide filter system using various materials foraged in the tiny spacecraft.

The first time I saw the film, I was spellbound, watching the men in outer space—whose only hope for survival depended upon whatever they had with them that could be used to make the necessary repair. Suddenly, inconsequential bits of plastic tubing or similarly unremarkable items literally meant the difference between life and death. It impressed upon me the importance of taking nothing for granted, and of utilizing everything at one’s disposal even when survival isn’t at stake. Put another way, if those astronauts could save their own lives more than 200,000 miles from our planet with a few bits and bobs they collected in their space capsule, what more could I do here on earth with a wealth of resources available to me? (Not least of which is oxygen!)

In pursuit of your dream, waste nothing; treasure every networking connection, every professional invitation, and every promotional opportunity. I rejoice for those for whom success is within easy reach, but those who are starting with nothing are the ones whom I congratulate, because the world of possibilities opens before them.”

Cinzi is the author of three books, The Taciturn Sky, Nemesis of the Great and A Strand of Truth.

Be sure to check them out until Cinzi returns with another insightful column.