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Wine tasting at the most talked about gallery in London ?


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Sip wine and dine at the most talked about gallery in London https://www.firepit.art

Steven’s Out and About

To many, I might seem like the life and soul of the party, but in reality, I’m quite shy. Outside the familiar setting of events and friends’ parties, the thought of going to bars or clubs fills me with anxiety and dread. Like many, I want to meet new people, try new things, and expand my social horizons. After the passing of my former partner, I’ve struggled more than I care to admit—even to those closest to me.

Saturday nights are usually spent writing or watching a box set, feeling safe in my own space. But this year, I resolved to change that. The question was: how?

2Shades agony aunt Heidi Gammon suggested that instead of heading to the buzzy clubs and bars of Soho and Vauxhall, I should try something different. My tastes have always been eclectic, so I took her up on the challenge.

It wasn’t long before I found the perfect option—one that ticked all the boxes: a wine tasting with dinner. Of course, I couldn’t go alone, so I brought along 2Shades beauty editor Clare Mc Sweeney and her beloved teddy bear coat (don’t worry, no teddy bears were harmed in the making of it!).

The wine tasting was hosted at one of London’s most talked-about galleries—Firepit. Located on the Greenwich Peninsula, right by the banks of the Thames, Firepit is an experimental and forward-thinking artist collective, making it the perfect setting for an evening of culture, conversation, and, of course, fine wine.

Held on the last Saturday of each month, the wine-tasting masterclass is hosted by former restaurateur and sommelier “Charlie” Young, a man renowned for his deep knowledge and infectious passion for wine. Charlie’s reputation precedes him—his expertise is matched only by his ability to make learning about wine both engaging and thoroughly enjoyable.

Doors open at 5:30 PM, giving guests a half-hour to settle in, mingle, and explore the gallery’s latest exhibitions before the tasting officially begins at 6:00 PM. The setting itself—Firepit, a cutting-edge artist collective on the Greenwich Peninsula—adds an extra layer of creativity and intrigue to the evening.

Charlie pours the wine and chats .

Now, if you’ve ever attended a wine tasting where the host droned on endlessly, more focused on their own cleverness than on making the experience enjoyable, you might be wary. I’ve been there. In fact, I once attended a tasting where even my endlessly patient and sophisticated friend finally snapped, exclaiming, “FOR F—’S SAKE, JUST POUR IT!”

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Thankfully, Charlie’s approach was the complete opposite. He made a point of ensuring the evening was lighthearted, interactive, and fun—without ever compromising on substance. He didn’t just educate; he entertained. And judging by the lively atmosphere in the room, he had a gift for bringing together a wonderfully diverse and genuinely lovely group of people.

The tasting featured six carefully selected wines, each with its own story and character. Gallery owner Marcus Jake was also on hand, standing by with a bucket for those who wished to spit or discard their samples—though, let’s be honest, few took him up on that offer. His primary role for the evening? Acting as Charlie’s glamorous assistant, which, in reality, mostly involved keeping everyone’s glasses generously topped up.

The wine tasting flies by in just over an hour, but the evening doesn’t end there. Charlie stays on for the dinner portion, offering expert advice on wine pairings and sharing fascinating insights in his signature engaging style.

Celebrity photographer Annemarie Bickerton with Charlie and me https://www.firepit.art

Dinner is served in the gallery itself, creating a relaxed and sociable atmosphere. Guests—many of whom started the evening as strangers—naturally connect over a two-course meal, exchanging thoughts on the wines, the artwork, and life in general. The sense of camaraderie is undeniable, making it feel more like an intimate dinner party than a formal event.

2Shades Clare Mc Sweeney and Annemarie Bickerton with friends join the fun https://www.firepit.art

For those who prefer just the wine tasting experience, tickets are available separately, with no obligation to stay for dinner. However, gallery curator Matthew warmly encourages guests to linger, explore the artwork, and enjoy another drink at their leisure.

“We want people to experience the gallery, to feel at home in the space,” Marcus explains. “That’s why we keep ticket prices as low as possible. The wine tastings and dinners have been a real success, bringing people together in a way that feels effortless and enjoyable.”

And a success it certainly was. 2Shades will definitely be back.

Date and time

Saturday, April 26 · 6 – 10:30pm GMT+1. Doors at 6pm

Regional French Wine Masterclass with optional two-course dinner

An informal and exciting wine masterclass featuring six premium wines from the Loire Valley, Madiran in the Southwest, the Rhone Valley and Provence. Presented by Vinoteca founder Charlie Young

There are two tickets:

Masterclass £16.50 per person, 6:00pm to 7:15pm

Two-course dinner £16.50 per person, 7:30pm to 10:30pm

Communal two-course dinner, with glasses or bottles of the wines featured in the Masterclass from £6 per glass

Regional French Wine Masterclass with Charlie Young

Anjou Blanc ‘Large Soif!’ 2020 – Terra Vita Vinum, Anjou, Loire (white)

Chinon Clos de la Bonneliere 2020 – Chateau de la Bonneliere, Chinon, Loire (red)

Pacherenc du Vic Bilh Sec 2021 – Domaine Laplace, Madiran, South West

Madiran ‘Aydie l’Origine’ 2021 – Domaine Laplace, Madiran, South West

Côtes du Rhone Vieilles Vignes 2018 – Famille Gras, Rhone South

Coteaux de Béziers Chardonnay Prestige 2022 – Chateau Preignes Le Neuf, Provence


Two-Course Dinner

Main course

Cider-braised roast ham hock with Jersey potatoes and spring peas

Dessert

Hot cross bun bread & butter pudding

Vegetarian/vegan options available on request

All masterclass wines available to buy by-the-glass or bottle

A Note from Firepit.

We have a challenge 25 policy. So please bring ID that proves you are over 18, if you are lucky enough to look under 25!

Masterclass starts at 6:00pm, you are welcome to come earlier and enjoy the gallery space.

Marcus with two of the fabulous guest Stephen . https://www.firepit.art

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Heidi Is Back – Ready to Dish Out Advice!

Yes, Heidi is back, and she’s raring to go! As the agony aunt for 2Shades and Gateway Radio, she’s here to tackle your dilemmas head-on. This month, she’s bringing sexy—or not-so-sexy—back, offering advice on issues between the sheets.

From the film Fifty Shades of Grey .

Dear Heidi,
I hope you’re doing well. My fiancé, whom I love dearly, and I got into the whole Fifty Shades scene. At first, it was exciting and fun, but now he doesn’t seem interested in making love without some form of role-play or pain involved. I’ve tried talking to him about it, but he just laughs it off and tells me to relax, insisting that it’s great. The problem is, this isn’t what I want long-term, and we’re getting married in September. What should I do?
Suki, Pimlico

Heidi’s Advice
Oh, Suki, you’ve come to the right place! First off, Heidi is all about fun in the bedroom and never one to judge. Fantasy and role-play can be exciting, but before opening Pandora’s box, you both need to talk and make sure you’re on the same page. It’s crucial to set clear boundaries and expectations. Kinks and role-playing should enhance intimacy, not replace the emotional connection that comes from simply making love or cuddling without the extras. From what you’re describing, it sounds like your fiancé’s interest in this particular dynamic may be moving beyond fun exploration and into something more habitual.

When a fetish becomes a necessity rather than a choice, it can create an imbalance in a relationship. That’s when it stops being healthy and can become an addiction—and that’s never good. You need to have an open and honest conversation with him—without letting him brush off your concerns. Let him know how you feel and why this isn’t sustainable for you. If he truly respects and loves you, he should be willing to find a balance that works for both of you. Since you’re about to get married, this is an important issue to address sooner rather than later. If necessary, consider speaking with a professional sex therapist or couples’ counsellor to navigate this together. Role-play should be something you both enjoy, not something you feel pressured into. Wishing you the best of luck—hope you get it sorted!


Love, Heidi

Dear Heidi,
Gosh, this is embarrassing—I’m a big boy. My mates at the gym joke, “Here comes horse boy,” and I even have to be careful about what underwear I wear. The real problem is meeting a girl. Everything seems fine until we go to make love, and then they can’t handle it. Will I be single for the rest of my life?
Darren, London

Heidi’s Advice
Darren, you’re not alone, and many men have these concerns—I hear it a lot. Penises come in various sizes, and sometimes, a longer or thicker penis can make sex uncomfortable—or even painful—for the person being penetrated. The good news is that there are ways to prevent discomfort and ensure sex is as enjoyable for your partner as it is for you.

Communicate and Check In
Good communication is key. Since you can’t read minds, ask your partner how they’re feeling throughout. Always listen, respect their boundaries, and prioritize mutual pleasure. Let your partner know that you’re bigger than average—not all vaginas are the same.

Prioritise Foreplay
Foreplay is essential. Activities like kissing, touching, sharing fantasies, fingering, and using sex toys help increase arousal. This is especially important for people with vaginas, as arousal enhances natural lubrication, making penetration more comfortable.

Use Lubrication
Lube is a game changer. It reduces friction and makes penetration smoother. While vaginal arousal increases natural wetness, adding lube can enhance comfort.

Take It Slow
Pacing matters. Going slow allows your partner’s body to adjust to penetration. You can also take breaks when needed—just make sure to communicate openly about what feels good and what doesn’t.

Experiment with Positions
If a longer penis is causing discomfort by pressing against the cervix during vaginal sex, try different positions that give your partner more control over depth and angle. Small adjustments can make a big difference. Good luck, lovely!
Love, Heidi

Dear Heidi,
I am a married woman with two sons, aged 18 and 19. My husband and I rarely have sex. Lately, I’ve developed a crush on the fitness instructor at my gym, who is a woman. To be honest, I’ve had crushes on women all my life. A month ago, I started chatting with the instructor, and we went for a drink. One thing led to another, and we ended up at her place—where I had the best sex of my life. Do you think I’m a lesbian? What should I do now, Heidi?
Sahara, Southend

Heidi’s AdviceHeidi’s Advice

Well, Sahara, first of all—take a deep breath. It is never too late to embrace your true self, but only you can determine what that means for you.

Sexuality is complex, and labels like lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual don’t always fit neatly. Some people discover their true preferences later in life, while others have always known but never explored them. Your feelings and experiences are valid, and there is no rush to define yourself.

You mentioned that you’ve had crushes on women all your life, which suggests that this isn’t a sudden change, but rather something that has always been there. The key question now is: what do you want? Do you want to continue seeing this woman? Do you feel like this experience was just a one-time moment of exploration, or does it reveal a deeper truth about your desires and identity?

What You Can Do Next

  1. Talk to the Instructor (If You Feel Comfortable)
    If this woman is someone you can trust, it may help to have an open conversation with her about your feelings. She might offer guidance or insight based on her own experiences.
  2. Reflect on Your Feelings
    Take some time to explore what this experience means to you. Are you emotionally drawn to women, or was this more about physical attraction? Are you happy in your marriage, or do you feel like something has been missing?
  3. Consider Counseling
    This is a big moment in your life, and speaking with a therapist—especially one experienced in LGBTQ+ topics—could provide support as you navigate your emotions and possible next steps.
  4. Read Up on Other Women’s Experiences
    Coming to terms with your sexuality can be both exciting and overwhelming. You’re not alone in this journey, and hearing from others who have been in your shoes can be incredibly reassuring. Here’s a guide that might help:

Women’s Coming Out Guide

Hello Heidi,

My best friend is madly in love with her husband and sees him through rose-tinted glasses. However, behind her back, he keeps making passes at me. Whenever we’re all together, he acts like the perfect straight husband, but when she’s not around, it’s a different story.

Last week, they came over for dinner. While my friend was in the bathroom, I went to the kitchen, and he followed me. He pushed himself up against me and was erect he  whispered that he’d be over soon and that I had better be a “good boy.”

I don’t want to hurt her—she’s so happy—but I also don’t want to be in this situation. What should I do?

Andrew, Wandsworth

Comedy Central (Show: “The Other Two”)

Heidi’s Advice Oh, Andrew, as a city gal who has spent plenty of time around the boys, I’ve heard this story before. You’d be surprised how often seemingly straight men engage in secretive same-sex encounters while maintaining a completely heterosexual façade.

First and foremost—do not tell your best friend. I know that might sound counterintuitive but hear me out. If she’s deeply in love with him, chances are he will manipulate the situation and convince her that it’s all lies. Worse, he may turn it around and claim that you made a pass at him. And trust me, she will believe him—because she wants to believe him.

If she’s under his spell, she may not wake up and smell the coffee for years—possibly even decades—especially if he’s a skilled manipulator. The fallout could cost you your friendship, and he may even try to retaliate by accusing you of slandering his name.

What You Should Do

  1. Set Clear Boundaries. Confront him firmly but calmly. Tell him directly that you are not interested, and that his behaviour is unacceptable. Do not engage in threats or aggression, as these situations can turn nasty fast.
  2. Stay Away. If possible, limit your interactions with him. If you must be around him, avoid situations where you are alone together.
  3. Whatever You Do—Do Not Give In. Do not sleep with him. These types of situations almost always end in heartbreak, and in most cases, men like him do not leave their wives or partners. Instead, they continue their double lives, leaving a trail of emotional damage behind them.

This is a tricky, frustrating, and unfair position for you to be in, Andrew, but your priority should be protecting yourself. Hopefully, one day, your friend will see him for who he really is—but for now, you need to make sure you don’t get dragged into his mess.

Stay strong and take care.

Love, Heidi. https://www.counselling-foryou.co.uk



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Steven Steps Out

What a night! It is truly an honour to be the patron of Anna Kennedy Online. The team has become like family, and with great excitement, I stepped out on Saturday for the annual Autism Hero Awards.

All pictures by Terry Scott https://annakennedyonline.com

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The Autism Hero Awards 2025: A Night of Celebration and Inspiration

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Red Carpet Ready GBNEWS Nana Akua and fiancé Stephen Gillian .

On March 15, 2025, the prestigious Autism Hero Awards, hosted by Dr. Anna Kennedy OBE, took place at the Holiday Inn Regents Park, London. Organized by the charity Anna Kennedy Online, this highly anticipated event honoured the remarkable achievements of individuals, organisations, and initiatives making a positive impact in the autism community. With inspiring award categories, special performances, and celebrity guests, the night was a spectacular celebration of talent, resilience, and advocacy.

Anna Kennedy surrounded by glitz and glamour towering above her Actor Matthew Blake and entrepreneur Richard Andrews

A Star-Studded Guest List

The event welcomed an impressive lineup of celebrities, including bestselling author Samantha Lee Howe, actress Vicki Michelle, actor Gary Webster, television personality Wendy Turner Webster.

Tiano’s Christopher Hamilton with Anna Kennedy OBE

Heartstopper star Bradley Riches, presenter Nana Akua, and fiancé author Stephen Gillian. 70 years In the business Frazer Hines danced till midnight . Olympic champion and patron Joe Luck was on hand ,

Award winning author and screen writer Samantha Lee Howe who judged the awards along with me Steven Smith

Adding to the glamour was singing sensation Tiano’s Christopher Hamilton. Actress and presenter Danielle Mason, Pink Ribbons’ Lisa Allen, and artist Piluca Camino Alcon also graced the event. The evening’s main hosts, award-winning presenter Aston Avery and youth theatre organiser Phillip Barnett, ensured the night flowed seamlessly with warmth and professionalism.

The man of the moments Brad Riches

Presenter Aston Avery and Phil Barnett with Anna https://annakennedyonline.com

Honouring the Autism Community’s Heroes

Model actress and presenter Danielle Mason joined the celebrities and crowd .

The Autism Hero Awards is more than just an event—it is a movement that recognises the incredible contributions of individuals and organisations within the autism community. Each category highlights a different aspect of support, advocacy, or achievement, celebrating efforts both big and small.

Award Winners and Highly Commended Recipients

Young Person of the Year Award
Winner: Lucy Lovett
Highly Commended: Jiya Rai, Chapman Shum

Outstanding Community Award
Winner: True Colours Theatre CIO Foundation
Highly Commended: Craig Henderson, Doncaster Autism Service

Terry Scott is ready to do his thing as Aston Avery presents and Nana Akua and Anna Kennedy present and award to True Colours .

Sibling of the Year Award
Winner: Brooke Scaysbrook-Smith
Highly Commended: Kayden Francis, Rosie Simmons

Parent/Carer of the Year Award
Winner: Nicole Simmons
Highly Commended: Amanda Inglis, Satia Rai

veteran acting royalty Frazer Hines .

The Lifetime Award
Winner: Elspeth Jones
Highly Commended: Annie Sands, Joely Williams

Leading Business Award
Winner: Skye Stack
Highly Commended: Pamela Capriglione, Hiyed CIC

People’s Autism Hero of the Year Award
Winner: Blaise Heywood
Highly Commended: Jenny Robinson, Rose Connelly

Two of the judges actor Gary Webster and presenter and author Wendy Turner

Outstanding Education Award
Winner: Hayley Morris
Highly Commended: Kassem Istanbouli, Margarita Mladenova

Creative Arts and Media Award
Winner: Curran Dobbs
Highly Commended: Libby Barrett, Amaya Edwards

Support Group of the Year Award
Winner: Kim Drake – Little Hero’s ASD Support Group

Personal Achievement Award
Winner: Thomas Howard
Highly Commended: Amaya Edwards, Kelsey McInearney

Online Social Network Award
Winner: Daniel Jones

The star of the night Vega

Human-Animal Bond Award
Winner: Philippa Jane Sjoberg & Scrumpy
Highly Commended: Sarah Allen & Patsy, Bobby Clark & Zeus

The judges Steven Smith Samantha Lee Howe Brad Riches , Gary Webster with Anna Kennedy OBE

A Night of Emotional Speeches and Performances

The night was filled with heartfelt speeches from winners and nominees, many sharing personal stories of perseverance and triumph. One of the most touching moments came from Thomas Howard, who received the Personal Achievement Award for his relentless advocacy in making neurodiversity training mandatory in higher education. His emotional speech moved the audience, reinforcing the importance of awareness and inclusivity.

On hand celebrity magician Angus
Baskerville entertained .

The Impact of the Autism Hero Awards

Events like these play a crucial role in breaking down barriers, fostering inclusion, and encouraging ongoing support for autistic individuals. Dr. Anna Kennedy OBE, the driving force behind the awards, delivered a passionate speech about the importance of community support, education, and advocacy. Her dedication continues to bring positive change and hope to countless individuals and families.

Looking Ahead

As the curtains closed on another successful Autism Hero Awards ceremony, attendees left inspired and determined. The event once again proved the importance of recognising and celebrating achievements within the autism community. With each passing year, the Autism Hero Awards grow stronger, touching more lives and expanding their reach.

Upcoming Event: Autism & Art Show

Anna Kennedy Online in Association with Firepit Art Gallery CIC Presents Their Inaugural
🎨 “AUTISM & ART SHOW” 🎨

VIP Red Carpet Launch: May 22nd, 2025
Exhibition Dates: May 22nd – May 27th, 2025

“For people on the autism spectrum, art is a powerful medium that encourages self-expression.”

Anna Kennedy Online, in collaboration with the Firepit Art Gallery, is proud to present the first-ever “Autism & Art Show.” This exciting event showcases incredible artwork from autistic artists and their allies, with all profits supporting the charity Anna Kennedy Online. Art is more than just a passion—it serves as a therapeutic outlet, offering solace and joy to many individuals on the autism spectrum.

Featured Artists Include:

Annemarie Bickerton | Piluca Camino Alcon | Chris Wild | Alastair Blaster

Are you an artist on the autism spectrum or an ally who wishes to contribute? Donations of artwork or a percentage of sales are welcomed to support this meaningful cause. Showcase your work at one of London’s most vibrant galleries!

📩 To donate art or get involved, contact:
Steven Smith – spman@btinternet.com

🎟 Get Your VIP Night Tickets Below!
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(Other exhibition dates are free to attend, but donations to the charity are greatly appreciated.)

📍 Event Location:
Firepit Art Gallery CIC
Firepit Gallery
No.2, Upper Riverside,
10 Cutter Ln, Ground Floor Unit,
Greenwich Peninsula, London SE10 0XX

🔗 Learn More & Support the Charity

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Steven’s Viewz: Four Must-Have New Beauty Products

Having been a creator in the beauty industry before becoming a writer, my eagle eye is always on the latest hot products to keep us looking our very best.

As spring approaches, I thought it was the perfect time to share my top four picks that will bring out the best in you.

1. Enough Wellness Collagen – Created by Women for Women (But Men Can Use It Too!)

“Beauty comes from within.”

Enough Wellness Collagen is a highly effective supplement that combines 10,000mg of two types of high-quality bovine collagen with vitamins C and D to enhance absorption and maximize benefits. This targeted formula nourishes from within, making it an excellent addition to any beauty routine.

Why Collagen Matters

Collagen is a vital structural protein essential for maintaining the health and integrity of our skin, hair, nails, joints, and connective tissues. As we age, collagen production declines, leading to visible signs of aging such as sagging skin, weakened joints, and brittle hair and nails.

Adding a collagen supplement to your daily routine helps replenish these levels, promoting a youthful glow and overall well-being.

Premium-Quality Ingredients

Enough Wellness sources its hydrolyzed Swiss Bovine Collagen Peptides from grass-fed cows in Switzerland, ensuring purity and sustainability.

The formula is free from gluten, GMOs, artificial colors, flavors, fats, sugars, and carbs, providing essential support for:
✔ Radiant skin
✔ Strong hair and nails
✔ Flexible joints
✔ A healthy metabolism

Its neutral taste makes it incredibly versatile—you can add it to smoothies, water, juice, or even use it in baking. We loved it at 2SHADES!

🔗 Check it out here

2 Re[Sens] – A Game Changer for Redness-Prone Skin

It’s not often that I get truly excited about a new skincare range—after all, I’ve seen just about every potion and lotion on the market. But when leading skincare expert Iryna Stewart suggested that my Celtic skin redness could be tamed and calmed, I was all ears.

And she was right. Re[Sens] is a game-changer for those of us prone to redness or flushed-looking skin.

The Philosophy Behind Re[Sens]

Made in Ukraine, this brand is deeply rooted in ancient Ukrainian traditions, bringing them into the modern world through the symbolism of the circle—a concept inspired by Trypillian culture. This symbol represents the eternal cycle of time, regeneration, harmony, and the connection between nature and cosmic rhythms.

But Re[Sens] is more than just skincare. It’s about rethinking beauty—where high-quality, effective products are created with sustainability in mind.

Breaking Down the Name: Re[Sens]

🔹 RE – Represents a moment of rethinking skincare, where both the product and its packaging are designed without harming the planet. The brand emphasizes that the earth needs care just as much as our skin, and failing to consider this leads to a loss for everyone.

🔹 SENS – Derived from “senses” and “sensitivity”, reflecting both the needs of delicate skin and the emotional sensitivity of an individual. Re[Sens] acknowledges that every element of life affects our well-being, offering a 360° approach to skincare.

A New Standard in Beauty: Slow, Thoughtful, and Effective

Re[Sens] embraces the philosophy of Slow Beauty, which is built on the idea that more is not always better. Just as multitasking can lead to burnout, overwhelming the skin with too many ingredients can cause stress and irritation. Instead, Re[Sens] focuses on:

✔ Mindful consumption
✔ Achieving results without compromising skin health
✔ Ethical and sustainable skincare

Rather than overloading the skin, Re[Sens] provides a balanced blend of anti-inflammatory, moisturizing, and soothing ingredients, ensuring effective care without overstimulation.

For those looking to adopt a conscious, holistic approach to skincare—one that nurtures both the skin and the planetRe[Sens] is a must-try.

🔗 Learn more here 15 percent discount with the code STEVEN2025

Creator of the pillow Tracey Wooley with aesthetic and beauty expert Clare McSweeney

3 The Fresh Face Pillow – The Ultimate Beauty Sleep Essential SS15 will give your audience 15% off

If there’s one beauty product I can’t stop raving about, it’s the Fresh Face Pillow—even Contessa Sharrock loves it! This clinically proven pillow is a game-changer in the fight against sleep-induced wrinkles and creases—something even the best creams can’t fix. And the best part? You only need to buy it once!

What Makes the Fresh Face Pillow So Special?

✔️ Clinically Proven – Backed by science to prevent sleep wrinkles
✔️ Silk Pillowcase – Gentle on skin and hair, reducing dryness, bedhead, and breakage
✔️ Memory Foam with Cooling Gel – Supports neck posture while keeping you cool all night

Why Silk Matters

Silk pillowcases offer more than just luxury—they actively protect your skin and hair. Unlike cotton, silk reduces friction and irritation, helping to prevent wrinkles, dryness, and breakage. It’s also hypoallergenic and temperature-regulating, ensuring a comfortable and restorative sleep.

Your Best Defense Against Aging

Did you know that most aging happens while you sleep? The Fresh Face Pillow is designed to protect your skin overnight, ensuring you wake up looking refreshed and youthful.

If you’re serious about skincare, beauty, and better sleep, this pillow is a must-have!

SS15 will give your audience 15% o

🔗 Get yours here ☁️✨

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4 Watermans Red Light Mini Scalp Massager – A Game Changer for Hair Care

At 63 years young, I still get compliments on my hair, thanks to top colorist Heidi Gammon and my barber Mike Edde. While some of my mates are jetting off to Turkey for hair transplants, I have a secret weaponWatermans shampoo and conditioners.

Now, they’ve introduced something even better—the Red Light Mini Scalp Massager. As someone who already swears by scalp massagers, I can confidently say that this new red light mini comb is an absolute game-changer.

Why You Need the Watermans Red Light Mini Scalp Massager

✔️ Boosts Hair Growth – Uses high-frequency vibrations and red light therapy to rejuvenate the scalp and encourage hair regrowth.
✔️ Enhances Serum & Oil Absorption – Designed to work with Watermans hair oil or serum, ensuring deeper penetration of nutrients for stronger, healthier hair.
✔️ Scientifically Proven – Red light therapy has been shown to combat hair loss and promote thicker, fuller hair.
✔️ Easy to Use – Simply squeeze the side pads to release oil or serum while the massager glides smoothly over the scalp.
✔️ Portable & USB-C Rechargeable – Take it anywhere—ideal for travel or home use.

How to Use for Maximum Hair Growth

1️⃣ Charge the Device – Ensure it’s fully charged for consistent performance.
2️⃣ Load with Oil or Serum – Use Watermans hair oil or serum for maximum benefits.
3️⃣ Activate Oil Release – Gently squeeze the pads to dispense product evenly.
4️⃣ Turn On & Massage – Select your desired setting and let the high-frequency vibrations & infrared light do the work.
5️⃣ Glide Over the Scalp – Use small, circular motions, focusing on thinning areas.
6️⃣ Relax & Enjoy – Feel the soothing effects as it stimulates blood circulation and nourishes the scalp.
7️⃣ Use Regularly – For the best results, use several times a week to see noticeable hair growth improvements.

Final Verdict

If you’re serious about scalp health and hair growth, this powerful yet easy-to-use device is a must-have. With its red light therapy, vibration technology, and precise serum application, it provides professional-level scalp rejuvenationat home. Plus, its compact, rechargeable design makes it perfect for on-the-go use.

💡 Whether you’re looking to prevent hair thinning or simply boost scalp circulation, this is the ultimate tool for vibrant, healthy hair!

🔗 Get yours here. https://watermanshair.com/products/watermans-mini-massager-care-comb

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BUSTOUT 100

Steven Smith pops along to the exhibition thats a breast a head of the others.

Piluca Camino Alcon  and Annemarie Bickerton who did the photography .

BUSTOUT 100: A Powerful Exhibition Raising Awareness for Breast Cancer all photography by Annemarie Bickerton

The BUSTOUT 100 exhibition, designed and executed by  Anne Marie, Bickerton and Piluca Camino Alcon is a striking artistic initiative created to raise awareness of breast cancer in partnership with the Pink Ribbon Foundation. This compelling exhibition showcases a collection of 100 powerful black-and-white portraits, each capturing the essence of resilience, solidarity, and hope.

Dr Anna Kennedy amongst the guest .,

Displayed at Firepit Art Gallery (@art.firepit) in North Greenwich, this exhibition brings together individuals who have faced breast cancer firsthand, alongside those who stand in support—whether they be family members, friends, medical professionals, or advocates. The portraits serve as a testament to courage and unity, reinforcing the impact of collective strength in the face of adversity.

Through striking imagery, BUSTOUT 100 highlights the importance of breast cancer awareness, early detection, and ongoing support for those affected. Each portrait tells a story—of survival, of loss, of love, and of unwavering determination. The black-and-white aesthetic adds depth and emotion, emphasizing the raw and real experiences of those involved.

Piluca Camino Alcon and Steven Smith

The exhibition is not only an artistic endeavor but also a movement, encouraging conversations around breast cancer, breaking down stigmas, and inspiring action. It aims to remind viewers that no one fights alone and that raising awareness can lead to greater support, funding, and medical advancements in the battle against this disease.

Pink Ribbon team Lisa Allen https://www.pinkribbonfoundation.org.uk/news/921-bustout-100

BUSTOUT 100 is being hosted at Firepit Art Gallery (@art.firepit) on Greenwich Peninsula (@greenwich.peninsula) and runs from 7th March to 5th April. Visitors are encouraged to explore the exhibition, reflect on the stories behind the images, and show their support for the Pink Ribbon Foundation (@pinkribbonfoundation) and the incredible individuals depicted in these portraits.

Don’t miss this extraordinary display of strength, unity, and awareness.

Amongst the celebrities that attended were Dj Jojo Kelly , actor Gary Webster Wendy Webster and Victoria Ekanoye

https://www.pinkribbonfoundation.org.uk/news/921-bustout-100

https://www.firepit.art Gary and Wendy Webster .
Victoria Ekanoye

https://www.annemariebickerton.co.uk

Some of the incredible woman who are part of the exhibition .
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2025 UK LGBT+ History Month Finale: Legendary Children [All of Them Queer]

Last week, I joined some of the legendary children from the original Pride at the Curzon Cinema Bloomsbury to watch the powerful documentary Legendary Children (All of Them Queer), directed by Rob Falconer.

The film had its highly anticipated London premiere, playing to a an enthusiastic audience. Serving as the closing event for LGBT+ History Month, the screening was followed by an engaging Q&A session featuring renowned human rights activist Peter Tatchell.

Tatchell expressed his hope that the film would serve as both a historical reflection and a call to action for new generations of activists.

“I hope this film demonstrates that real social change is possible and inspires others to take up activism,” Tatchell stated. “It’s a story of then and now. I always say, even if you can’t be on the front lines, you can still make an impact—just by amplifying the struggles and voices of LGBT+ people across the world.”

His remarks followed a strong statement from the International Committee for LGBTQ+ History Months, a coalition representing 16 such initiatives globally. The committee issued a scathing condemnation of the U.S. government’s recent efforts to systematically remove LGBTQIA+ resources, educational materials, and visibility from schools.

“The erasure of books, knowledge, historical records, and community groups has never led to anything positive,” they wrote, warning that “the actions of the Trump administration are emboldening other governments and institutions to follow suit.”

Filmed over two years, Legendary Children chronicles the lives and activism of the pioneers who helped establish the first UK Pride in 1972. Director Rob Falconer reflected on the film’s profound relevance, not only in light of the growing wave of anti-LGBTQIA+ sentiment in the United States but also due to the loss of many of the trailblazers featured in the documentary.

“We won’t see their like again,” Falconer said, acknowledging the passing of numerous activists who fought to carve out a space for LGBTQ+ rights in Britain and beyond. The film stands as both a tribute to their courage and a reminder of the ongoing fight for equality—one that remains as urgent today as it was five decades ago.


The second film, The Fragility of Freedom, follows an inspiring group of humanitarian secondary school students from Essex, Suffolk, and Vancouver, Canada, as they participate in The Dora Love Prize 2024.

Since its inception, The Dora Love Prize has engaged over 1,500 secondary school and college students in Essex, Suffolk, and beyond in a unique, youth-driven human rights initiative. Inspired by Holocaust survivor Dora Love, the project continues her lifelong mission to educate young people about the atrocities of the Nazi Holocaust. Dora’s goal was simple: to empower students with this knowledge so they could challenge identity-based prejudice, discrimination, marginalization, and violence in today’s world.

Founder Rainer Schulze explains, “The Dora Love Prize provides young people with knowledge beyond the school curriculum and the confidence to create positive change in the world around them. We invite you to ‘see the world differently.’”

Dora Love

I am not always on the same page as the wonder that is Peter Tatchell, but I am in awe of him and his work. His speech about stepping into other organizations and being a shining light is so important that 2Shades has decided to print it as a landmark speech.

Picture Nicolas Chinardet/zefrographica.co.uk  Pete Tatchell

Peter Tatchell – March 5, 2025, Curzon Bloomsbury, London

*”To start with, I’d like to say that I had a very difficult choice tonight. I was also asked to speak at the U.S. Embassy in the solidarity protest with Ukraine and against Donald Trump’s withdrawal of aid from that country’s battle for self-determination.

What we are witnessing now is the rise of Russian and U.S. imperialism in alliance with each other to carve up Ukraine. Putin wants the territory; Trump wants the minerals. That is the new imperialism.

For LGBT+ Ukrainians, a Russian victory would be a devastating blow. It would mean the imposition of Russian-style laws on LGBT+ Ukrainians, never mind all the other civic and political repressions that would follow. The trade union movement in Ukraine would be dismantled, women’s rights campaigners would face severe repression, and so on. This is a critical moment where we must show the kind of international solidarity that the Gay Liberation Front demonstrated in the early 1970s. Back then, we stood with the people of Vietnam against U.S. aggression, with the people of Greece battling the Colonels’ junta, and with the people of Spain fighting the Franco dictatorship.

We saw our struggle as international, not just limited to LGBT+ rights but part of a broader democratic human rights movement.

So, to go back to your question—history shows that if you care about something, don’t just care, do something. Action equals life; silence equals death. We must get organized.

For young people who feel passionate, get involved with an organization that is making a difference. Many groups across Britain and around the world need financial support, online campaigners, and solidarity. Some young people I know make a point of attending Pride parades in repressive European countries like Georgia, Hungary, and Poland. They do this to show their support, and no one should underestimate the power of solidarity.

For people living under dictatorship or repression, knowing that others care is a massive morale boost. It’s psychologically uplifting.

The other thing I’d say is—don’t feel confined to LGBT+ movements. A lot of my work isn’t LGBT+ focused. I support the liberation movements in Indonesian-occupied West Papua, the Balochistan freedom struggle against Pakistan’s occupation, and the fight of the Arab Ahwazis in Iran against subjugation by Tehran. I don’t do this for LGBT+ reasons—I do it because they have a just freedom struggle, just like the people of Ukraine, Palestine, or anywhere else.

Because I’m openly gay, my support has forced many people in these communities to rethink their attitudes toward LGBT+ people.

Take Balochistan—it’s a very tribal, patriarchal, and, frankly, ‘backward’ society in terms of LGBT+ rights. But because I’ve been one of the champions of their freedom cause for the last two decades—getting them huge media coverage—I’m now well known there. Many people have told me, ‘I used to hate homosexuals. I believed all the propaganda. But you stood with us, and now I’m rethinking my attitude.’

That’s incredibly important.

The same applies across the board. I’ve been campaigning for 50 years in support of Palestine’s right to a homeland. Again, as an openly gay man, I’ve had countless Muslim people tell me, ‘I used to hate gays, but your support over the decades has changed my mind.’

So, if you’re young, get involved in these movements as an openly LGBT+ person. Show that we stand with them. At first, they may not stand with us, but if you persist, not only will you be supporting a just cause, but you’ll also be changing hearts and minds along the way.”*

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Spoiling It for the Others

Why “Dead Life” Will Seriously Affect Us All

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyPhuLb4EZQ Peter Tatchell fights for us all to be who we are .

We are living in an era where serious fraud is celebrated, and the tale of The Emperor’s New Clothes feels more like reality than fiction. If you dare to point out the truth—that the emperor is, in fact, naked—you might find yourself in court. It’s an utterly unhinged world we live in.

I am at a lovely lunch in the heart of Essex, a place synonymous with spray tans, hair extensions, Botox, and outrageously long lashes. To say the least, I fit right in. My gorgeous companion has abandoned extensions yet looks stunning, appearing even fresher and more youthful than the rest. She is what I would call real. When she did go the false route, she never told tall tales or passed them off as her own. She is genuine—in fact, we once joked about the extensions needing food parcels. If she had lied, I wouldn’t trust her.

So, when I recently noticed a trans woman using what I find to be the most troubling and manipulative card of all—the “Dead Life” card—I was deeply concerned. And now, everyone is expected to either accept her version of events or face being sued. This isn’t a joke—it’s a serious issue.

For those unaware, the “Dead Life” concept allows individuals who have transitioned to rewrite their past. Not only can they change their pronouns (I am totally with)  but in some cases, they can craft entire fictional histories for themselves—transforming their previous existence into something entirely unrecognisable. A bit like The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe, where a whole new world is created from imagination.

Now, let me be absolutely clear: I have had the privilege of knowing many incredible, talented, and brave trans women. They have undergone their journeys to become their authentic selves, and in my eyes, they are now—rightfully—women. Interestingly, none of them have resorted to the “Dead Life” tactic. Instead, they have spoken openly about their lives, their struggles, and their triumphs, offering guidance and inspiration to others. One such example is the incredibly lovely India Willoughby, newsreader and presenter.

Gorgeous and talented India Willoughby and asset to us all and role model for the trans community.

However, let’s consider a different scenario. Suppose I told you that, at 16, I was an astronaut and had a torrid affair with Madonna. That would be an outright lie (all but  an amusing one). At 16, I was, like many others, just a regular teenager experiencing life. But here’s the difference: if I were to publish a book claiming such fabrications as fact, people would rightfully call it out as nonsense.

Madonna called for you to “Express yourself ” not lie .

So why is it that a trans woman can write a memoir claiming that, at 17, she was a stunning young woman having an affair with a well-known pop star (now deceased)—when, in reality, at that time, she was a 17-year-old boy with acne? The claim that she auditioned for a well-known girl band when she would have needed a good shave for that is also questionable. But what’s really worrying is the superimposition of pictures of herself as a girl into family photos when, in fact, she was a boy.

How can publishers allow this and sell it to an unsuspecting public? It is deceitful. Should we sue?

Even newspapers are reporting such blatant fabrications as truth. It makes Trump’s propaganda look like child’s play. As a community are we not all up in arms about his lies ? 

Lies are not facts. Yet, we live in a time where, if The Emperor’s New Clothes were rewritten today, the boy who dared to shout, “He’s naked!” would be the one dragged into court. It’s insanity. Serious fraud is being rewarded, and if you speak out against it, you are painted as the villain.

Now, I am sure that many trans women who invoke the “Dead Life” narrative are simply living their lives quietly and not publishing books filled with fabricated stories. But as a community, we are in danger.

On 5 March, Legendary Children (All Of Them Queer) screened for the first time in London to a sold-out crowd. The screening marked the end of LGBT+ History Month and was followed by a Q&A with human rights campaigner, Peter Tatchell, who said he hopes the film inspires others towards activism.

Peter Tatchell made an incredibly insightful point. He doesn’t just work within LGBTQ+ charities; he also volunteers in a range of organizations, including those within religious communities that have historically been homophobic. By leading through example—by showing up, engaging, and being part of these spaces—he changes minds. That is real activism.

A humble hero Peter Thatchell

Many trans people do not wish to be part of the LGBTQ+ community, and that is their choice. However, for now, they remain within it. They are welcome. But honesty must remain at the core of any community. Without honesty, we lose trust, and once trust is broken, everything begins to crumble.

When a con artist exploits the “Dead Life” card to fabricate a fictional past and present it as fact, we all suffer. We need to hold individuals accountable. My hope is that someone exposes this person for who they truly are—so that they may serve as an example to others not to go down the same route,

Because, at the end of the day, she is spoiling it for the others.

The incredible Boy George and 2hades favourite David Hoyle a star .

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STEVEN LOOKS AT THE BRITS 2025

The legendary Charliexcx

WHY I JUST LOVED THE BRIT AWARDS THIS YEAR

Yes, the BRIT Awards can sometimes be a cringe-fest, and let’s be honest—Jack Whitehall is no Ricky Gervais, no matter how hard he tries. But, without a doubt, he’s a far better choice than some of the past hosts. One thing is certain: the BRITs always pack a punch.

Who could forget 1996, when Jarvis Cocker crashed the stage during Michael Jackson’s Earth Song? Jarvis, who was arrested for the stunt, is sadly remembered more for that moment than his music. And Michael? Well… let’s leave that discussion for another time. Then, of course, there was Madonna’s infamous tumble off the stage in 2015—proof that even the Queen of Pop isn’t immune to a high-fashion mishap or falling iff her high horse.( we all love her )

But as I settled in to watch the 2025 BRIT Awards, it dawned on me just how much incredible talent we have in this country. How the hell do we not run away with the Eurovision crown every year? It took a Canadian to win last time, though, let’s be honest, the brilliant Sam Ryders  was robbed.

This year’s BRITs, however, were a whole new ball game. From start to finish, it was pure magic, and I realized just how out of touch I am with some of today’s hottest artists.

THE HIGHLIGHTS

JACK WHITEHALL—ACTUALLY FUNNY?

Two tea bags or three ? Jack Whitehall does a great job .you almost want to teabag him

Believe it or not, Jack Whitehall was actually hilarious this year. From start to finish, he nailed it. His monkey joke about snorting PG Tips? Priceless. And his parents on the red carpet? Pure comedy gold.

Equally amusing was Danny Dyer’s voice—so artificially butch you’d think he’d accidentally wandered into a gay orgy and slipped on the lube and was trying to convince everyone he was straight.

THE PERFORMANCES

The real magic, though, was in the performances. There wasn’t a single act I watched that didn’t blow me away—and I say that as someone with pretty eclectic taste in music.

The production was simply stunning. Kicking off with Sabrina Carpenter was a bold choice, even if she visually borrowed inspiration of 90% of her act from Madonna (who, let’s not forget, also did the kilted guards routine a while back).

Jade Thirlwall, after winning Best Pop Act, delivered an iconic performance of Angel of My Dreams. Though, who on earth thought turning her into Gemma Collins with a blonde wig was a good idea? It distracted from what was her first solo BRITs performance since stepping away from Little Mix.

Jade gives an iconic performance but ditch the blonde wig .

The undeniable star of the night was Charli XCX. I’ll admit, I only really knew of her because she’s engaged to George Daniel from The 1975 (don’t scream at me), but after doing some homework—wow. What an exciting and uniquely talented artist. Her album BRAT is already shaping up to be legendary. It’s a shame she didn’t perform, but honestly, watching her down espresso martinis, sip bubbly, and cuddle up to a hunk? A girl after my own heart.

An expresso martini and bubbly and a hunk on her arm my kind of gal Charliexcx

THE SHOW-STEALERS

Teddy Swims could wear his old bedding on stage, and I’d still be mesmerised by that voice. #Awesome. The award for humility, however, goes to Myles Smith—definitely one to watch.

Teddy Swims a mesmerising voice .

Stormzy who did not perform Ezra Collective delivered brilliant performance, proving yet again why they’re some of the best musicians out there. But guys, let’s dial down the God talk a bit—unless, of course, He can explain why Trump is still looming over the White House and why the world is in the state it’s in. A simple “ta” would suffice.

Sam Fender? What a Northern powerhouse. Pure talent, down-to-earth, and humble—just what we love to see. The Last Dinner Party also delivered an incredible performance, proving they are a force to be reckoned with.

And last, but certainly not least, a shoutout to the absolutely addictive Lola Young, who performed Messy—a song that will no doubt become an anthem for a generation. I truly cannot wait to see what she does next; she’s got me hooked.

A. Star is born Lola Young we are all addicted to you .

FINAL THOUGHTS

This year’s BRITs were, without a doubt, the best yet. A true celebration of the sheer amount of talent we have in this country. We are incredibly lucky to have these artists pushing the boundaries of music and performance.

Here’s to 2026!

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BLANKY

We are so thrilled that artist Alastair BlasterArtz has donated this out of this world statue to Annakennedyonline Art and Autism show

BLANKY

He has collaborated with 2Shades Steven Smith who has written the words and here is why.

This little bit of art might be different even out of this world.

Blanky

Art Alastair Blaster words Steven Smith

Blanky

Art Alastair Blaster words Steven Smith  

“We are all born as blank canvases; hate, racism, and a lack of understanding are learned.”
How you choose to see the world and create the tapestry of your life is up to you.
Blanky is here to “Make Earth Safe Again.”


In another universe, under a different sun, there was a planet much like Earth called Alacritas. It was a world of lush tropical forests, crystal-clear lakes, and unpolluted seas. The people of Alacritas lived in harmony, where kindness and tolerance were deeply ingrained in their way of life. Their homes were built to exist in perfect balance with nature, and even in their cities, the air remained clean and pure.

The Alacritans were far more advanced than humans. Meditation and self-healing were essential practices, and their very beings were composed of energy molecules, allowing many to heal themselves from illness. Some possessed extraordinary abilities, such as telepathy and body transformations, harnessing the sun’s rays to bring goodness to their planet and others. While there were occasional exceptions, as the saying goes, “one bad apple”—but that is another story.

You could say it was a utopia—until they arrived.

The people of Olethros came claiming peace, seeking to live in harmony with the Alacritans. But the sun did not welcome them. Almost immediately, it burned their skin a bright orange, making them stand out. Rumours spread that their own planet had been devastated by pollution, war, and slavery.

It soon became clear that the orange ones had not come as friends but as conquerors. They sought to strip Alacritas of its rich minerals, enslave its people, and channel their energy into restoring their own dying world.

The peaceful Alacritans were unprepared for battle. Their civilization, built on unity and respect, was nearly wiped out. Only a few survived—those who could transform or scatter their molecules to avoid detection.

The Olethrans ravaged the planet like ants devouring sugar. Within a year, there was nothing left. In desperation, one Alacritan, Blanky, used his powers to escape. Transforming into pure energy, he fled into the cosmos in search of help. But as he left, Alacritas could take no more. The planet exploded, sending Blanky hurtling off course.


100 Years Later

Planet Earth

London, Waterloo

Patrick was fourteen, tall for his age, and loved playing basketball. From the window of his small  ground floor apartment, he watched the other kids on the court, longing to join them. He knew he had the talent to be a star player. But his mother, protective as ever, rarely let him out alone. She feared he would be bullied or misunderstood because of his autism.

One Saturday afternoon, his mother had a friend over and asked them to watch Patrick while she ran errands in Stratford. With their eyes glued to The Real Housewives, they barely noticed Patrick, assuming he was immersed in his video game as usual.

But today was different. Quietly, Patrick put down the controller and crept toward the door. His apartment, on the ground floor, was only 200 yards from the basketball court. As he stepped outside, excitement surged through him. The sun’s rays warmed his face as he gently closed the door behind him and ran toward the court.

But then—he tripped.

As he hit the ground, something surrounded him, unlike anything he had ever seen. A strange, shifting cloud engulfed his body, sending tingles through his skin. As the mist dispersed, a small figure emerged.

Patrick couldn’t believe his eyes.

Before him stood a tiny being—completely blank, as if made of smooth, featureless clay. It pointed a stubby finger at Patrick’s baseball cap. Amused, Patrick handed it over. The moment the creature touched the fabric, the hat transformed into the same clay-like substance as its body.

Then, to Patrick’s shock, the small figure spoke.

“I am Blanky. Your planet needs me, or it may suffer the same fate as mine.”

Patrick stared, wide-eyed.

“I need sunlight to regain my strength,” Blanky continued. “With your help, I can transform and protect those who are hated and discriminated against. I have chosen you, Patrick, because you are special. For now, my body is just a canvas. Put me in your pocket, and let’s go play ball.”

Patrick didn’t hesitate. He gently scooped up Blanky and tucked him into the pocket of his jacket.

“I’ll tell you more soon,” Blanky assured him.

Patrick knew he had just made a special friend—one he would have to keep secret for now.

What neither of them realised was that Blanky had maybe arrived years too late.

An Orange One had already landed on Earth. 

Copy Right Steven Smith 

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 Exhibition Runs Until May 27th
“For people on the autism spectrum, art is a powerful medium that encourages self-expression.”
Anna Kennedy Online, in collaboration with the Firepit Art Gallery , is proud to present the first-ever “Autism & Art Show. “This exciting event showcases incredible artwork from autistic artists and their allies, with all profits supporting the charity Anna Kennedy Online.
Art is more than just a passion—it serves as a therapeutic outlet, offering solace and joy to many individuals on the autism spectrum. With great enthusiasm, Anna Kennedy OBE, charity patron Steven Smith, and Firepit Art Gallery founder Markus Jake invite you to celebrate and support these talented artists.

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 Featured Artists Include:
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Are you an artist on the autism spectrum or an ally who wishes to contribute? We welcome donations of artwork or a percentage of sales to support this meaningful cause. It is your chance to showcase your work at the most happening gallery in London.

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Steven’s Viewz this month looks at Kevin Spacey’s moral character reference and why we need to support Meghan—no matter what. She could be saving our prince. Just some of the topics
A good character reference?
Elton John highly a character reference when it comes to morals .

Having been out since I was 16, I am all too aware of how easily young gay men can be taken advantage of by older men. Listening to Kevin Spacey’s tale of woe on Piers Morgan Uncensored, I wanted to believe that, in some way, he was also a victim in all of this. God knows that many famous people are unfairly labeled with all sorts of accusations or thrown into the relentless churn of the rumor mill.

However, after watching Spacey Unmasked, the Channel 4 documentary, I found the testimonies of the men and boys who spoke out to have a disturbingly familiar tone—one that often accompanies stories of predatory behavior. Yes, there will always be those willing to drop their pants for a role, but many of the accounts felt genuine, resonating with a painful truth. As gay men, we are often hesitant to report such experiences because, more often than not, it doesn’t end well for us.

Oddly enough, for a brief moment during Spacey’s interview with Piers Morgan, I found myself almost swayed by his performance. He threw everything into his plea for sympathy—short of invoking a fire in an orphanage. But then came the real clanger: his choice of a character reference for morality—Elton John.

I couldn’t help but scoff at that. When I had just turned 16, I was invited to Elton’s Windsor home, where I was greeted with a gin and tonic upon arrival and many more . Let’s just say, Elton is no gentleman, and he is certainly not someone who should be vouching for another man’s moral standing. Perhaps birds of a feather do flock together.

But ultimately, my support is 100% with the victims—and with Guy Pearce. Guy doesn’t need to “grow up,” as Spacey has suggested. He has bravely spoken out, and that takes real courage.

The brilliant Guy Pearce .

https://www.channel4.com/programmes/spacey-unmasked

Why We Might Need to Back Off Meghan—She Could Be Saving Our Prince

There is no doubt in my mind that Meghan Markle is a needy actress who threw the Royal Family—and, by extension, the UK—under the bus. There she was, on Oprah Winfrey’s show, claiming she had never Googled the Royal Family before stepping into her new role, crown at the ready, as if preparing for a remake of The Princess Diaries. But let’s be real—Meghan’s generation reads reviews before trying a new coffee shop, so the idea that she never researched the most famous family in the world is preposterous.

Yes, there is an undeniable love between Meghan and Harry—let’s not question that. But let’s also acknowledge the possibility that she thought she was stepping into the role of a lifetime, only to find that reality fell short of her expectations. Like some theatrical personalities, who—much like Tinker Bell —wilt without attention, Meghan was never going to quietly settle into a domestic life in Santa Barbara.

Still, let’s hope that in five years, she isn’t back on Oprah, sharing a new tale of marital woes. If that happens, perhaps we, as a society, will take Harry back as the prodigal son, recognizing that many of his struggles were shaped by the world around him.

However, we may need to consider an alternative perspective—what if Meghan is actually Harry’s anchor? What if she is the one keeping him safe? There have long been whispers about Prince Harry’s struggles, and if he is indeed battling addiction, then Meghan could be the very thing standing between him and a downward spiral. For that, we should be grateful.

Let’s not forget—how could a man who was forced to walk behind his mother’s coffin as a child not carry deep trauma? The traditional British stiff upper lip no longer fits in today’s world, and while Prince William appears to be managing well (at least outwardly), we cannot know for sure what his mental health looks like behind closed doors. What we do know is that Harry has always been more emotionally expressive, and his struggles have been more visible.

If he is indeed living with addiction, we must remember that it is an illness—not something that can be cured, only managed. While rehab and 12-step programs can be effective, one of the most powerful factors in long-term recovery is finding love, stability, and commitment. Addicts often find strength in relationships where they can anchor each other, and if that is what Meghan provides for Harry, then we should acknowledge and respect it.

Yes, there is always the risk that if their relationship collapses, old demons may resurface. But for now, Meghan makes Harry happy. And perhaps, for all he has endured, we owe him at least that—to simply smile and wave, as I like to put it. After everything he has been through, doesn’t he deserve a little peace?

Review: Emilia Pérez – A Triumph for the LGBTQ+ Community

A huge shout out to for Emilia Perez

The Oscar-nominated film Emilia Pérez is a groundbreaking and empowering story that brings much-needed representation to the LGBTQ+ community. Blending crime, drama, and musical elements, the film tells a powerful story of identity, transformation, and redemption.

One of its greatest strengths is its nuanced portrayal of a transgender protagonist, offering visibility and depth rarely seen in mainstream cinema. With stunning performances, particularly from trans actress Karla Sofía Gascón, Emilia Pérezchallenges stereotypes and highlights the resilience and humanity of transgender individuals.

Beyond representation, the film is a testament to acceptance and self-discovery, making it a vital and uplifting piece of cinema for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. It’s a must-watch for those seeking a film that is both socially significant and artistically brilliant.

Bob the Drag Queen is just mean .

With great power comes great responsibility
RU PAUL (AND, TO BE FAIR, OTHERS GOING AS FAR BACK AS THE FRENCH REVOLUTION!)

https://talesofasinglemiddleagedgayman.blogspot.com/2022/01/tales-of-single-middle-aged-gay-man_19.html

The way forward for LGBTQ people involves encouraging the media and LGBTQ figureheads to educate the public, inform them about our culture, and highlight our constant struggle for equal rights.

What an incredible job The Vivienne has done for the community! Many of RuPaul’s queens have raised the bar, and the younger generation can’t get enough.

However, I have been critical of Baga Chipz—when she had airtime, she often wasted it on crude comments rather than embracing Pride. Equally disappointing was Bob The Drag Queen, in USA’ The Traitors who came across as mean and unpleasant. He brought nothing to make you love him or challenge stereotypes. What a shame! His quick judgments on others’ clothing made for embarrassing viewing in an otherwise brilliant show.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m002787p/the-traitors-us-series-3-1-let-battle-commence

RIP The wonderful Vivienne

In Loving Memory of The Vivienne

The world has lost a true icon with the passing of The Vivienne. As the first winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race UK, she captivated audiences with her wit, talent, and undeniable star power. A trailblazer in the drag community, she used her platform to inspire, entertain, and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Her humor, charisma, and flawless performances made her a beloved figure, not just in the UK but across the world. Beyond the glamour, The Vivienne’s kindness and authenticity touched countless lives, leaving a legacy that will shine on forever. Rest in power, queen—you will never be forgotten. 🌹💔

I am proud to be part of this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKf1CT9vel4

LONDON Q&A video with international Human Rights campaigner PETER TATCHELL and director ROB FALCONER talking about LEGENDARY CHILDREN [ALL OF THEM QUEER].

The Pride 50 movie screens 5th March as the official closing event of LGBT+ HIstory Month 2025 at Curzon Bloomsbury cinema WC1. BSL Signed Performance. Peter talks to Gateway 97.8 Radio’s Aston Avery and Steven Smith about the film. Rob talks to the Lighthouse Cinema audience after its popular show there.

Peter and many of the cast will be attending the Curzon Bloomsbury show on March 5th in London’s West End. Showing with Legendary Children, The Fragility of Freedom (The Dora Love Prize 2024) meets astonishing school-age human rights defenders taking part in annual youth education project The Dora Love Prize, inspired by notable Holocaust survivor the late Dora Love. Both films also HoH captioned. 15 advisory. Closed Captions. Features music from the film by Tall Houses (courtesy Cat Likes Gravy Music 2025). #LGBTplusHM, #Pride, #LoveIsLove, #LGBTQ, #LGBTQIA, #LGBTQIA, #LoveWins, #Equality, #TransEquality, #LegendaryChildren, #PrideInLondon, #IntersectingIdentities, #LGBTQIA, #educateOUTprejudice, #winterpridemaspalomas, @TallHouses

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