Yes, the BRIT Awards can sometimes be a cringe-fest, and let’s be honest—Jack Whitehall is no Ricky Gervais, no matter how hard he tries. But, without a doubt, he’s a far better choice than some of the past hosts. One thing is certain: the BRITs always pack a punch.
Who could forget 1996, when Jarvis Cocker crashed the stage during Michael Jackson’s Earth Song? Jarvis, who was arrested for the stunt, is sadly remembered more for that moment than his music. And Michael? Well… let’s leave that discussion for another time. Then, of course, there was Madonna’s infamous tumble off the stage in 2015—proof that even the Queen of Pop isn’t immune to a high-fashion mishap or falling iff her high horse.( we all love her )
Jarvis Bares him bum at the Britts
But as I settled in to watch the 2025 BRIT Awards, it dawned on me just how much incredible talent we have in this country. How the hell do we not run away with the Eurovision crown every year? It took a Canadian to win last time, though, let’s be honest, the brilliant Sam Ryders was robbed.
This year’s BRITs, however, were a whole new ball game. From start to finish, it was pure magic, and I realized just how out of touch I am with some of today’s hottest artists.
THE HIGHLIGHTS
JACK WHITEHALL—ACTUALLY FUNNY?
Two tea bags or three ? Jack Whitehall does a great job .you almost want to teabag him
Believe it or not, Jack Whitehall was actually hilarious this year. From start to finish, he nailed it. His monkey joke about snorting PG Tips? Priceless. And his parents on the red carpet? Pure comedy gold.
Equally amusing was Danny Dyer’s voice—so artificially butch you’d think he’d accidentally wandered into a gay orgy and slipped on the lube and was trying to convince everyone he was straight.
THE PERFORMANCES
The real magic, though, was in the performances. There wasn’t a single act I watched that didn’t blow me away—and I say that as someone with pretty eclectic taste in music.
The production was simply stunning. Kicking off with Sabrina Carpenter was a bold choice, even if she visually borrowed inspiration of 90% of her act from Madonna (who, let’s not forget, also did the kilted guards routine a while back).
Jade Thirlwall, after winning Best Pop Act, delivered an iconic performance of Angel of My Dreams. Though, who on earth thought turning her into Gemma Collins with a blonde wig was a good idea? It distracted from what was her first solo BRITs performance since stepping away from Little Mix.
Jade gives an iconic performance but ditch the blonde wig .
The undeniable star of the night was Charli XCX. I’ll admit, I only really knew of her because she’s engaged to George Daniel from The 1975 (don’t scream at me), but after doing some homework—wow. What an exciting and uniquely talented artist. Her album BRAT is already shaping up to be legendary. It’s a shame she didn’t perform, but honestly, watching her down espresso martinis, sip bubbly, and cuddle up to a hunk? A girl after my own heart.
An expresso martini and bubbly and a hunk on her arm my kind of gal Charliexcx
THE SHOW-STEALERS
Teddy Swims could wear his old bedding on stage, and I’d still be mesmerised by that voice. #Awesome. The award for humility, however, goes to Myles Smith—definitely one to watch.
Teddy Swims a mesmerising voice .
Stormzy who did not perform Ezra Collective delivered brilliant performance, proving yet again why they’re some of the best musicians out there. But guys, let’s dial down the God talk a bit—unless, of course, He can explain why Trump is still looming over the White House and why the world is in the state it’s in. A simple “ta” would suffice.
Sam Fender? What a Northern powerhouse. Pure talent, down-to-earth, and humble—just what we love to see. The Last Dinner Party also delivered an incredible performance, proving they are a force to be reckoned with.
And last, but certainly not least, a shoutout to the absolutely addictive Lola Young, who performed Messy—a song that will no doubt become an anthem for a generation. I truly cannot wait to see what she does next; she’s got me hooked.
A. Star is born Lola Young we are all addicted to you .
FINAL THOUGHTS
This year’s BRITs were, without a doubt, the best yet. A true celebration of the sheer amount of talent we have in this country. We are incredibly lucky to have these artists pushing the boundaries of music and performance.
He has collaborated with 2Shades Steven Smith who has written the words and here is why.
This little bit of art might be different even out of this world.
Blanky
Art Alastair Blaster words Steven Smith
Blanky
Art Alastair Blaster words Steven Smith
“We are all born as blank canvases; hate, racism, and a lack of understanding are learned.” How you choose to see the world and create the tapestry of your life is up to you. Blanky is here to “Make Earth Safe Again.”
In another universe, under a different sun, there was a planet much like Earth called Alacritas. It was a world of lush tropical forests, crystal-clear lakes, and unpolluted seas. The people of Alacritas lived in harmony, where kindness and tolerance were deeply ingrained in their way of life. Their homes were built to exist in perfect balance with nature, and even in their cities, the air remained clean and pure.
The Alacritans were far more advanced than humans. Meditation and self-healing were essential practices, and their very beings were composed of energy molecules, allowing many to heal themselves from illness. Some possessed extraordinary abilities, such as telepathy and body transformations, harnessing the sun’s rays to bring goodness to their planet and others. While there were occasional exceptions, as the saying goes, “one bad apple”—but that is another story.
You could say it was a utopia—until they arrived.
The people of Olethros came claiming peace, seeking to live in harmony with the Alacritans. But the sun did not welcome them. Almost immediately, it burned their skin a bright orange, making them stand out. Rumours spread that their own planet had been devastated by pollution, war, and slavery.
It soon became clear that the orange ones had not come as friends but as conquerors. They sought to strip Alacritas of its rich minerals, enslave its people, and channel their energy into restoring their own dying world.
The peaceful Alacritans were unprepared for battle. Their civilization, built on unity and respect, was nearly wiped out. Only a few survived—those who could transform or scatter their molecules to avoid detection.
The Olethrans ravaged the planet like ants devouring sugar. Within a year, there was nothing left. In desperation, one Alacritan, Blanky, used his powers to escape. Transforming into pure energy, he fled into the cosmos in search of help. But as he left, Alacritas could take no more. The planet exploded, sending Blanky hurtling off course.
100 Years Later
Planet Earth
London, Waterloo
Patrick was fourteen, tall for his age, and loved playing basketball. From the window of his small ground floor apartment, he watched the other kids on the court, longing to join them. He knew he had the talent to be a star player. But his mother, protective as ever, rarely let him out alone. She feared he would be bullied or misunderstood because of his autism.
One Saturday afternoon, his mother had a friend over and asked them to watch Patrick while she ran errands in Stratford. With their eyes glued to The Real Housewives, they barely noticed Patrick, assuming he was immersed in his video game as usual.
But today was different. Quietly, Patrick put down the controller and crept toward the door. His apartment, on the ground floor, was only 200 yards from the basketball court. As he stepped outside, excitement surged through him. The sun’s rays warmed his face as he gently closed the door behind him and ran toward the court.
But then—he tripped.
As he hit the ground, something surrounded him, unlike anything he had ever seen. A strange, shifting cloud engulfed his body, sending tingles through his skin. As the mist dispersed, a small figure emerged.
Patrick couldn’t believe his eyes.
Before him stood a tiny being—completely blank, as if made of smooth, featureless clay. It pointed a stubby finger at Patrick’s baseball cap. Amused, Patrick handed it over. The moment the creature touched the fabric, the hat transformed into the same clay-like substance as its body.
Then, to Patrick’s shock, the small figure spoke.
“I am Blanky. Your planet needs me, or it may suffer the same fate as mine.”
Patrick stared, wide-eyed.
“I need sunlight to regain my strength,” Blanky continued. “With your help, I can transform and protect those who are hated and discriminated against. I have chosen you, Patrick, because you are special. For now, my body is just a canvas. Put me in your pocket, and let’s go play ball.”
Patrick didn’t hesitate. He gently scooped up Blanky and tucked him into the pocket of his jacket.
“I’ll tell you more soon,” Blanky assured him.
Patrick knew he had just made a special friend—one he would have to keep secret for now.
What neither of them realised was that Blanky had maybe arrived years too late.
An Orange One had already landed on Earth.
Copy Right Steven Smith
Anna Kennedy Online in Association with Firepit Art Gallery CIC Presents Their Inaugural
“AUTISM & ART SHOW”
Launching May 22nd with an Exclusive VIP Red Carpet Event
Exhibition Runs Until May 27th “For people on the autism spectrum, art is a powerful medium that encourages self-expression.” Anna Kennedy Online, in collaboration with the Firepit Art Gallery , is proud to present the first-ever “Autism & Art Show. “This exciting event showcases incredible artwork from autistic artists and their allies, with all profits supporting the charity Anna Kennedy Online. Art is more than just a passion—it serves as a therapeutic outlet, offering solace and joy to many individuals on the autism spectrum. With great enthusiasm, Anna Kennedy OBE, charity patron Steven Smith, and Firepit Art Gallery founder Markus Jake invite you to celebrate and support these talented artists.
Featured Artists Include: Annemarie Bickerton | Piluca Camino Alcon | Chris Wild | Alastair Blaster Are you an artist on the autism spectrum or an ally who wishes to contribute? We welcome donations of artwork or a percentage of sales to support this meaningful cause. It is your chance to showcase your work at the most happening gallery in London.
To donate art or get involved, please contact: Steven Smith – spman@btinternet.com
Get Your VIP Night Tickets Below! https://bit.ly/42Jo4OA (Other exhibition dates are free to attend, but donations to the charity are greatly appreciated.)
Event Location: Firepit Art Gallery CIC Firepit Gallery No.2, Upper Riverside, 10 Cutter Ln, Ground Floor Unit, Greenwich Peninsula London SE10 0XX
Steven’s Viewz this month looks at Kevin Spacey’s moral character reference and why we need to support Meghan—no matter what. She could be saving our prince. Just some of the topics
A good character reference?
Elton John highly a character reference when it comes to morals .
Having been out since I was 16, I am all too aware of how easily young gay men can be taken advantage of by older men. Listening to Kevin Spacey’s tale of woe on Piers Morgan Uncensored, I wanted to believe that, in some way, he was also a victim in all of this. God knows that many famous people are unfairly labeled with all sorts of accusations or thrown into the relentless churn of the rumor mill.
However, after watching Spacey Unmasked, the Channel 4 documentary, I found the testimonies of the men and boys who spoke out to have a disturbingly familiar tone—one that often accompanies stories of predatory behavior. Yes, there will always be those willing to drop their pants for a role, but many of the accounts felt genuine, resonating with a painful truth. As gay men, we are often hesitant to report such experiences because, more often than not, it doesn’t end well for us.
Oddly enough, for a brief moment during Spacey’s interview with Piers Morgan, I found myself almost swayed by his performance. He threw everything into his plea for sympathy—short of invoking a fire in an orphanage. But then came the real clanger: his choice of a character reference for morality—Elton John.
I couldn’t help but scoff at that. When I had just turned 16, I was invited to Elton’s Windsor home, where I was greeted with a gin and tonic upon arrival and many more . Let’s just say, Elton is no gentleman, and he is certainly not someone who should be vouching for another man’s moral standing. Perhaps birds of a feather do flock together.
But ultimately, my support is 100% with the victims—and with Guy Pearce. Guy doesn’t need to “grow up,” as Spacey has suggested. He has bravely spoken out, and that takes real courage.
Why We Might Need to Back Off Meghan—She Could Be Saving Our Prince
There is no doubt in my mind that Meghan Markle is a needy actress who threw the Royal Family—and, by extension, the UK—under the bus. There she was, on Oprah Winfrey’s show, claiming she had never Googled the Royal Family before stepping into her new role, crown at the ready, as if preparing for a remake of The Princess Diaries. But let’s be real—Meghan’s generation reads reviews before trying a new coffee shop, so the idea that she never researched the most famous family in the world is preposterous.
Yes, there is an undeniable love between Meghan and Harry—let’s not question that. But let’s also acknowledge the possibility that she thought she was stepping into the role of a lifetime, only to find that reality fell short of her expectations. Like some theatrical personalities, who—much like Tinker Bell —wilt without attention, Meghan was never going to quietly settle into a domestic life in Santa Barbara.
Still, let’s hope that in five years, she isn’t back on Oprah, sharing a new tale of marital woes. If that happens, perhaps we, as a society, will take Harry back as the prodigal son, recognizing that many of his struggles were shaped by the world around him.
However, we may need to consider an alternative perspective—what if Meghan is actually Harry’s anchor? What if she is the one keeping him safe? There have long been whispers about Prince Harry’s struggles, and if he is indeed battling addiction, then Meghan could be the very thing standing between him and a downward spiral. For that, we should be grateful.
Let’s not forget—how could a man who was forced to walk behind his mother’s coffin as a child not carry deep trauma? The traditional British stiff upper lip no longer fits in today’s world, and while Prince William appears to be managing well (at least outwardly), we cannot know for sure what his mental health looks like behind closed doors. What we do know is that Harry has always been more emotionally expressive, and his struggles have been more visible.
If he is indeed living with addiction, we must remember that it is an illness—not something that can be cured, only managed. While rehab and 12-step programs can be effective, one of the most powerful factors in long-term recovery is finding love, stability, and commitment. Addicts often find strength in relationships where they can anchor each other, and if that is what Meghan provides for Harry, then we should acknowledge and respect it.
Yes, there is always the risk that if their relationship collapses, old demons may resurface. But for now, Meghan makes Harry happy. And perhaps, for all he has endured, we owe him at least that—to simply smile and wave, as I like to put it. After everything he has been through, doesn’t he deserve a little peace?
Review: Emilia Pérez – A Triumph for the LGBTQ+ Community
A huge shout out to for Emilia Perez
The Oscar-nominated film Emilia Pérez is a groundbreaking and empowering story that brings much-needed representation to the LGBTQ+ community. Blending crime, drama, and musical elements, the film tells a powerful story of identity, transformation, and redemption.
One of its greatest strengths is its nuanced portrayal of a transgender protagonist, offering visibility and depth rarely seen in mainstream cinema. With stunning performances, particularly from trans actress Karla Sofía Gascón, Emilia Pérezchallenges stereotypes and highlights the resilience and humanity of transgender individuals.
Beyond representation, the film is a testament to acceptance and self-discovery, making it a vital and uplifting piece of cinema for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. It’s a must-watch for those seeking a film that is both socially significant and artistically brilliant.
Bob the Drag Queen is just mean .
With great power comes great responsibility RU PAUL (AND, TO BE FAIR, OTHERS GOING AS FAR BACK AS THE FRENCH REVOLUTION!)
The way forward for LGBTQ people involves encouraging the media and LGBTQ figureheads to educate the public, inform them about our culture, and highlight our constant struggle for equal rights.
What an incredible job The Vivienne has done for the community! Many of RuPaul’s queens have raised the bar, and the younger generation can’t get enough.
However, I have been critical of Baga Chipz—when she had airtime, she often wasted it on crude comments rather than embracing Pride. Equally disappointing was Bob The Drag Queen, in USA’ The Traitors who came across as mean and unpleasant. He brought nothing to make you love him or challenge stereotypes. What a shame! His quick judgments on others’ clothing made for embarrassing viewing in an otherwise brilliant show.
The world has lost a true icon with the passing of The Vivienne. As the first winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race UK, she captivated audiences with her wit, talent, and undeniable star power. A trailblazer in the drag community, she used her platform to inspire, entertain, and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Her humor, charisma, and flawless performances made her a beloved figure, not just in the UK but across the world. Beyond the glamour, The Vivienne’s kindness and authenticity touched countless lives, leaving a legacy that will shine on forever. Rest in power, queen—you will never be forgotten. 🌹💔
LONDON Q&A video with international Human Rights campaigner PETER TATCHELL and director ROB FALCONER talking about LEGENDARY CHILDREN [ALL OF THEM QUEER].
The Pride 50 movie screens 5th March as the official closing event of LGBT+ HIstory Month 2025 at Curzon Bloomsbury cinema WC1. BSL Signed Performance. Peter talks to Gateway 97.8 Radio’s Aston Avery and Steven Smith about the film. Rob talks to the Lighthouse Cinema audience after its popular show there.
Picture credit: Isabella on Pinterest (@iisabellalima)
This eerie planet changed my life. But what does Saturn have to do with anything?
Is it true what they say about Saturn’s Return and the transformation it brings?
If you know anything about astrology or retrogrades, you may be familiar with where I’m taking this. But for now let’s address the elephant in our solar system, the enigmatic Saturn.
Saturn is THE planet that shapes us into who we truly are and plays a role in our conscience for character development. These lessons come in mysterious forms and it’s upto us to catch it and break a pattern for the greater good.
However, if you don’t care for astrology, open your mind to the possibility that this work of fiction makes me a better human everyday.
I asked Saturn with its countless moons and icy rings, why must you pierce through my emotions so profusely? There’s only so much I’m allowed to feel in this civilised world or they will think I’m mental. For thinking too much and living too less.
Saturn whispered to me, “And who are they? Who are these people who made you think before you could act? Who’s stopping you from living?”
I choked at first, I felt uneasy that a voice in me cared to question me rather than defeat me. I said to him that it was the opinions given to me over the years by family, friends and lovers. My family struggles to take my personality out of the crib and I sought refuge from the devastating state of my family in my friendships and relationships.
Saturn corrected me and said, “As a child you take. As a child you respect those who take care of you and learn how to behave. Tell me, are you a child now? Will you continue to give your inner child the stage, or will you take the stage as an adult and create your own audience?”
I shuddered as the lifestyle I’ve lived so far seemed to be crashing at my feet. The inner child is my imagination. Am I holding on to the miseries of my past to justify the lack of effort in the present moment?
I ask Saturn if the voices that linger in my mind are there to deceive me. Could they possibly be voices of others that are used on themselves as false wisdom?
Saturn smiled and said, “Who knows? Is it something you wish to know? Or forgo?”
Moments in my life where I understand what Saturn means when it says, let go. We live in a miracle
I was lost, am I just confusing myself? What is the point of knowing and how will I ever know? It’s all a silly guessing game and time spent worrying about minds that I can never read.
I’ve met some brave people along the way who embody the sayings, “Don’t worry be happy” or “Live your life to the fullest”. I feel grateful for these encounters because they show me that the path I’ve readjusted to seems to be working. And that my conversations with Saturn are real.
It makes me wonder how they seem to do everything so effortlessly. How are they so live-laugh-love? I ask Saturn, what’s their secret?
Saturn answers plainly, “Today you could live your life to the fullest, tomorrow could be the worst day of your life. Be grateful for the day a light from the outside has been shown to you. On days when darkness takes over your speech, a simple memory of that light will bring back your words.”
I was in awe of the wisdom this mystical planet was inducing in me. It never felt like a voice that was trying to break me down to feel worthless, it was breaking down the unnecessary clutter in my mind to acknowledge my worth.
As a person who loves decoding thoughts and emotions, judgement comes knocking on my door as a regular guest. But the kind of judgement I fear most is the one I have towards myself.
I worry that self-judgement is a silent epidemic which harbours resentment within oneself and blinds the vision enough to look at another as an object of gratification. Gratification of the seven deadly sins as they say.
With a curious mind I asked Saturn, is it even possible to overcome judgement of all kinds? Or must we learn to live with it and not allow it to yield its weapons?
Saturn agreed for the first time and added, “Judgement towards another is judgement towards oneself. Why step on someone’s toes when you fully intend to kick them on the chest? Either way, a spirit has been harmed, theirs and yours. And in the spirit of humanity, you have lost your way again. You find yourself ten steps behind but remember, forgiveness never keeps count and always moves forward.”
The funny thing about wisdom or guidance through any source is how one perceives it and implements it in their own lives. The intention which I write this article will never be reflected the way I wish for it to; but it will resonate with some, one or maybe none.
But perhaps that’s the journey of self-discovery. And Saturn, with its nonchalant advice, comes to teach you that and more if you care to listen carefully.
Here’s a lovely song by international pop-star, SZA who talks about her journey with Saturn.
If there is one thing that gets my back up, it’s when a gay man tells me, “I only sleep with straight men.” It’s such an oxymoron. It screams of homophobia. That being said, some of the most homophobic people I have met have, in some cases, been other gay men.
I have written a whole feature on the topic. The fantasy itself is great on paper—why not? Everyone has fantasies, and most sexual fantasies are harmless. In a safe relationship, when discussed, they can even add some sizzle to your love. life. https://2shadesmagazine.com/2024/06/18/trolls-trauma-straight-men/
Andy Warhol once said, “People’s fantasies are what give them problems. If you didn’t have fantasies, you wouldn’t have problems because you’d just take whatever was there.”
My big go-to has to be actor Colin Farrell. Even though he is straight, he regularly pops into my mind. Knowing someone identifies as straight means I personally would not try to date them, preferring instead for someone to reach out to me. We have some very sexy out actors such as Jonathan Bailey and Andrew Scott. Not so long ago, being an out actor was the kiss of death for a career, but Bailey and Scott have shattered that notion and become box office dynamite. Having met Scott at the gym, I can also say he is lovely.
Colin Farrell
With supply and demand, adult actor and entrepreneur Andy Lee has found a niche in the market, creating adult content that is arguably aimed at the gay market. He and most of his team of working men would identify as heterosexual. Andy is making a mint with his OnlyFans page, and without a doubt, with his cheeky grin and self-confidence, he is becoming the most recognizable face in UK adult porn.
He is not without his critics—the hate mail comes fast, along with accusations that he is taking advantage of gay men. Personally, I have nothing but admiration for Andy and hope his haters watch him travel the world in style and drive fancy cars. The clever part is that he is simply supplying what people want—he’s not holding a gun to anyone’s head.
This is a man who came from nothing, losing his mother at age 12, but climbed his way to the top. His new book, Smelly Kid, is well worth a read. His film, Only Andy, available on Amazon, was a hit. Don’t be afraid to watch it—it’s an interesting and well-crafted look at OnlyFans and a man you will likely end up liking. My prediction? Lee will take a few acting lessons and eventually transition into mainstream films.
Steven Smith meets Andy for six of the best.
1. How tough was it growing up in a terraced home in Dublin? Do you think it gave you the strength to succeed?
My childhood wasn’t easy. My father abandoned me, leaving me to be brought up by my single mother, who tragically died when I was just 12 years old, leaving me orphaned. By 15, I was living rough on the streets, just struggling to survive. What that taught me was that everything you have can be taken away from you, just like that! You asked if it gave me the strength to succeed? Damn right, it did. Having spent most of my childhood without enough to eat, I am determined never to be in that place again.
2. You’re a skilled plumber—when did you decide to transition into the adult movie business?
Well, the reality is I did adult movie work before I was a plumber. However, it was just a casual affair—doing random shoots for different porn websites whenever I needed some extra cash. I didn’t decide to transition from plumbing to porn. My homophobic boss found out about my old work on gay websites and fired me. This was just at the beginning of lockdown. With no other obvious means to earn a living, I started OnlyFans. It wasn’t something I planned to do, but boy, am I glad I did!
3. Many struggle to make it in the industry, but you’ve turned it into a major success, inspiring others to follow. What advice would you give to those thinking about swapping their tools for the adult film industry?
The main advice I’d give anyone considering a career in adult movies is to seriously consider whether they could cope if their content got leaked—meaning all of their family and every potential employer could see it. People really need to realize that once something is put online, it’s nearly impossible to take it back.
4. The adult movie business is notorious for its impact on mental health. How do you protect your well-being and plan for the future?
Amazingly, my mental health is better now that I’m a full-time adult content creator than it’s ever been in any of my previous employment. The secret is to fully own what you do—don’t be ashamed of it. That way, it’s impossible for others to shame you. Also, I treat this like a proper business. That means I can go to work, give it my all, and then go home and switch off. I separate my work life from my regular life.
5. You’ve traveled extensively—what’s your favorite place?
I absolutely loved Japan. Everything was so efficient, and the food was amazing. I think I had my best-ever meal in Japan: a katsu curry, cooked to crispy perfection.
6. When you look at someone, what do you find sexiest?
Easy. I love a well-rounded rear!
Quick Fire Round
What advice would you give your 16-year-old self?
Hang on in there, kid—you will get through this, and it will be okay. Don’t listen to those who tell you you are nothing because you are amazing!
Favorite food?
Hot & spicy curry!
The most romantic place for a date?
Confession, I’m not hugely romantic. My perfect date would be a movie followed by a cheeky Nando’s.
FROM THE GRIM REALITIES OF A POVERTY-STRICKEN CHILDHOOD in Dublin’s inner city to an unexpected rise to fame, Smelly Kid is the raw and gripping memoir of Andy Lee. Abandoned by his father, orphaned by twelve, and left to navigate a world that seemed determined to cast him aside, Andy’s early years were a relentless struggle for survival. Homeless and hungry, he battled against the odds, finding solace in the rare kindness of strangers and the rebellious spirit that refused to let him sink.
But Andy’s story is not just one of hardship – it’s a tale of resilience, transformation, and unexpected success. With humour and unflinching honesty, he takes readers on a journey from the streets of Dublin to the bright lights of the adult entertainment industry, proving that no matter where you come from, you can carve out your own destiny.
GRITTY, HEARTBREAKING, AND ULTIMATELY INSPIRING, SMELLY KID IS A STORY YOU WON’T FORGET.
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At the 2025 Golden Globes in Los Angeles, male celebrities showcased a variety of standout hairstyles that combined classic elegance with contemporary flair. We asked Leading London’s men hair stylist Michael Edde what are the top five men’s hairstyles from the event: By Steven Smith.
Sleek Side Part: Many attendees opted for the timeless side part, exuding sophistication and complementing their formal attire. This polished look remains a red carpet favourite for its versatility and elegance. Our own 007 Danielle Craig sleek look took the crown
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Classic Pompadour: The pompadour made a notable return, with several actors sporting voluminous, swept-back hair. This retro-inspired style added a touch of vintage charm to the evening’s fashion. Timothée Chalamet rocked the look brining style and class to the red carpet ,
Buzz Cut: A few celebrities chose the minimalist buzz cut, highlighting facial features and offering a clean, bold statement. This low-maintenance style stood out amidst more elaborate coiffures.Jake Gyllenhaal really suits the look that is so popular and brings out his features/
Curly Afro: Embracing natural curls, some attendees showcased well-defined afros, celebrating texture and individuality. This style added diversity and a fresh dynamic to the red carpet looks. Tyler James Williams brings the ultimate style to the red carpet
These diverse hairstyles at the 2025 Golden Globes highlighted personal expression and current trends, setting the tone for men’s grooming in the upcoming year says Michael Edde one of Londons leading barbers .
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Happy New Year! Let’s hope 2025 is a great year for us all. I’m busy with my team, as always. Among the many things we have lined up is The Autism Hero Awards, being held at the Holiday Inn, Regent’s Park, London on the 15th of March. You can find information on how to get tickets and sponsorship details at the bottom of this column.
As always, we also have the amazing Autism’s Got Talent later this year—audition tapes are welcome now!
In other news, our autism ambassador, Kieron Lee, is launching a neurodiverse musical education platform as his final major project for his BA (Hons) degree in Popular Music.
We’re also thrilled to announce that our patron, Steven Smith, along with the incredible Annemarie Bickerton, will be hosting the first-ever Autism Art Show, featuring artists on the autism spectrum and supporters of the charity. Money raised will go directly to the charity. This event will be held at the sensational gallery, The Fire Pit (https://www.firepit.art), from May 22 to May 25, 2025.
Dr Anna Kennedy OBE with one of her patrons Steven Smith ,
Please keep your questions coming into 2Shades magazine. I’ve been thrilled to join such a diverse and exciting publication!
Dear Anna, Trust you’re well. My family loves your column. We were wondering: What do you think are the most common myths about people living with autism?
Dawn, Essex.
Thank you, Dawn, for your kind comments. Sadly, there are still a lot of autism myths out there.
Here is five common ones
5 Myths and Facts About Autism
Myth 1: Autism is caused by vaccines.
Fact: There is no scientific evidence linking vaccines to autism. Numerous studies have thoroughly debunked this myth. Autism is believed to be influenced by a combination of genetic and environmental factors, but vaccines are not one of them.
Myth 2: People with autism lack empathy.
Fact: Many individuals with autism experience empathy deeply, but they may express it differently. Some may have difficulty recognizing social cues, but this does not mean they lack feelings or care for others.
Myth 3: Autism only affects children.
Fact: Autism is a lifelong condition. While symptoms might present differently as people age, autistic adults continue to experience challenges and strengths associated with autism throughout their lives.
Myth 4: Everyone with autism has the same abilities and challenges.
Fact: Autism is a spectrum, meaning it affects individuals differently. Some may have significant support needs, while others may live independently and excel in various fields. No two autistic people are alike.
Myth 5: Autism can be cured.
Fact: Autism is not a disease and does not need to be “cured.” The focus is on acceptance, support, and enabling autistic individuals to thrive by embracing their unique perspectives and abilities.
Would you like to dive deeper into any of these points?
Dear Anna, My daughter is being labelled disruptive at school. She’s been diagnosed with autism and severe learning difficulties. Despite discussing this with the headteacher, she’s suggested that Mary, my daughter, not return this term and instead find a school more suited to her needs. Anna, I feel lost—what can I do, or who can I turn to for help?
Diana, Essex
Dear Diana, I feel your frustration.
Please do contact our charity website using our contact form at http://www.annakennedyonline.com. We can discuss the possible way forward. In the meantime, do some research on schools that may meet your daughter’s needs within an hour’s drive of where you live.
You will then be in a more informed position on what is available in your area. You could visit a few schools to get a feel for the services and resources they offer.
Dear Anna, How does someone become part of Autism’s Got Talent? My son is super talented at playing guitar. He’s a little shy and unsure about auditioning. He’s also worried about encountering a harsh judge.
David, Edinburgh
Hello David, Autism’s Got Talent is now in its 14th year and one of the highlights of our charity year.
This is a showcase of talented individuals performing at The Mermaid Theatre, London. Autism’s Got Talent is not a competition.
Please do watch our highlight videos on our charity YouTube channel.
You could also come along to the show in October to experience the magic. Share the experience with the audience made up of parents, friends of the performers, and members of the public who are regular supporters. Feel the magic and be inspired. Then send a tape in of your son performing . love Anna
Autism’s Got Talent.
Dear Anna, My son is 19 and wants to start dating. He’s a lovely young man but has a stammer and lives with autism. I’m worried about how he’ll handle rejection. Is there a webpage or group where he can meet like-minded people?
Brenda, Norwich
Hello Brenda, There are many dating sites now for autistic individuals.
A popular Netflix docuseries, Love on the Spectrum, showcases autistic individuals navigating the world of dating. One of our charity’s overseas ambassadors is featured in series one and two.
In this romantic docuseries, people on the autism spectrum look for love and navigate the world of dating and relationships. https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/81338328
Good luck!
Dear Anna, I love your dancing! I’m 17 and want to learn to dance seriously. Living with autism has always made it feel challenging, but I’d like to get more involved. How did you learn?
Love, Melanie, Brighton
Hello Melanie, Dance is a great way to stay fit and boost your mood and well-being. I started tap dancing at age 6 and fell in love with dance then. It definitely keeps you feeling young.
Join a local dance class and discover which dance style suits you best. There are also many dance classes online if this makes you feel more comfortable at first, then gradually progress to a dance studio.
Good luck and enjoy!
Anna Kennedy with her former Dance Partner Robin Windsor
Steven’s Viewz and Tales of a Middle-Aged Single Gay Man have found a new home at 2Shades and will continue, alongside our fantastic columnists Dr. Anna Kennedy OBE and counsellor Heidi Gammon.
Here we go with the first Steven’s Viewz of 2025:
The tragic death of Liam Payne .
Stop Looking for Fall Guys in the Tragic Death of Liam Payne The death of someone like Liam Payne is a heartbreaking loss that demands empathy, understanding, and respect for the complexity of life. Rather than searching for a fall guy, it is far more meaningful to reflect on the broader, more nuanced issues that contribute to such a tragedy.
Addiction is an illness that often stems from trauma and other mental health issues. It is particularly prevalent in the entertainment industry and has led to many untimely deaths of stars. The tragic passing of any public figure due to addiction inevitably triggers widespread grief, speculation, and often, finger-pointing. Liam Payne’s death is no exception. While the public mourns, a darker trend emerges—the search for a “fall guy.” A fall guy is typically someone or something blamed for a tragedy, serving as a scapegoat to deflect responsibility from the true complexities of the situation. In Payne’s case, this search for accountability is not only premature but deeply misguided.
Having witnessed it firsthand at some showbiz events, I can attest to the anticipation surrounding the arrival of “Charlie”—code for cocaine. Naturally, it is too risky for the stars themselves to collect the drugs. Instead, minions, restaurant owners, waiters, and assistants are either prepared with supplies or dispatched to fetch them. There was even a well-known hairdresser (who has sadly passed) whose clients eagerly awaited him in Chelsea salons, knowing his dealer would arrive while he styled their hair. When something goes wrong and a star dies, the hunt for the fall guy begins. But ruining other lives won’t solve anything. Yes, involvement with drugs is dangerous, but is the waiter or friend who picks up the drugs truly to blame? Why not the dealer? Should we chase the manufacturer, the source of trauma that led to addiction, or perhaps the manager, agent, or pushy parent? None of this will bring anyone back.
It is essential to remember that the passing of someone like Liam Payne is, above all, a human tragedy. Behind the headlines are family, friends, and millions of fans who loved and admired him. The emotional weight of such an event should not be overshadowed by a rush to assign blame. While the desire for answers is natural, it is equally important to recognize the multifaceted nature of any person’s life and death. No simple explanation can neatly tie together the circumstances leading to such a loss, and the pursuit of a scapegoat often causes more harm than good.
Public figures like Payne live their lives under intense scrutiny. Every aspect of their existence—personal struggles, relationships, professional choices—is dissected by the media and the public. This exposure creates a paradox: it elevates celebrities to mythic status while simultaneously holding them accountable for every misstep. The relentless search for fall guys attempts to rationalize senseless events, but this mindset overlooks a critical point—blaming others won’t heal the pain or bring back the person we’ve lost.
Another issue is society’s tendency to compartmentalize celebrity lives. The public often forgets that stars like Liam Payne are human beings facing their own battles. Fame brings pressure, and the mental health challenges many celebrities endure are often invisible. The expectation to maintain perfection, fit a certain image, and constantly perform can push them into precarious situations that outsiders rarely understand. By seeking fall guys, we overlook the societal and emotional pressures that contribute to their struggles.
Moreover, focusing on blame detracts from vital conversations about mental health, substance abuse, and the need for better support systems. When tragedies like Payne’s occur, the emphasis should shift to understanding the systemic issues at play. Instead of fixating on blame, society must prioritize mental health resources, destigmatize seeking help, and foster environments where individuals—whether public figures or not—feel safe reaching out for support.
Ultimately, the death of someone like Liam Payne is a profound loss that calls for compassion and reflection. Rather than searching for scapegoats, it is far more valuable to address the broader issues contributing to such tragedies. In doing so, we honor the individual’s life and may even help prevent future losses.
Braian Nahuel Paiz guilty of people pleasing .
Let’s not place blame on his friend Braian Nahuel, whose only crime is being a people pleaser—a quality many stars are surrounded by. With time and experience, he will undoubtedly learn and grow.
Right Said Fred: Why we could all worryingly be heading towards an Argentine style government
Do not say you were not warned . A very likely prospect for Prime Minister Nigel Farage.
A shift towards Argentina’s political model could pave the way for Nigel Farage to gain power or, at the very least, co-leadership with the Conservatives.
Two years ago, I wrote about the pendulum effect—the idea that political climates can swing back to right-wing governance if we are not strategic. Unfortunately, we haven’t been. In my opinion, it was inconceivable that Labour could take over and fix the mess left by the Tory government. However, I never imagined that they could actually make things worse.
Argentina’s President Javier Milei has made significant progress in revitalizing his country by implementing bold economic reforms and addressing long-standing issues such as inflation, public debt, and government inefficiency. One of his key achievements has been reducing inflation through stringent monetary policies and fiscal discipline, restoring confidence in the national currency. By cutting unnecessary government spending and promoting privatization in struggling sectors, his administration has stabilized the economy and attracted foreign investment.
Javier Milei
Additionally, Milei’s focus on deregulation has encouraged entrepreneurship and fostered a more competitive market environment, creating jobs and boosting productivity. Infrastructure projects and public-private partnerships have revitalized the transportation and energy sectors, enhancing Argentina’s global competitiveness.
Efforts to renegotiate international debt have eased financial pressures, allowing the government to redirect resources towards social programs, healthcare, and education. This balanced approach has improved living standards for many Argentinians.
By promoting transparency, combating corruption, and streamlining bureaucratic processes, Milei has cultivated a more favorable climate for both domestic and international investors. These initiatives have collectively contributed to renewed economic growth, increased stability, and optimism about Argentina’s future. The country is now better positioned to navigate global challenges and sustain long-term prosperity.
However there is downside Milei’s policies has received criticism for their negative impact on climate change, the arts, and LGBTQ+ rights. His administration’s push for deregulation has led to reduced environmental protections, allowing corporations to exploit natural resources with minimal oversight. This has exacerbated deforestation, pollution, and carbon emissions, hindering Argentina’s climate change commitments.
Moreover, government cuts to cultural programs have significantly affected the arts community, leading to decreased funding for theaters, museums, and public art initiatives. This shift has marginalised artists and weakened Argentina’s rich cultural landscape.
In terms of social policies, Milei’s conservative stance has put LGBTQ+ rights at risk. Efforts to curtail protections and dismiss inclusive education initiatives have fostered a climate of discrimination and intolerance. Advocacy groups warn that these regressive measures could reverse years of progress in equality and representation.
Globally, money is the ultimate deciding factor in politics. As the phrase on the US dollar says, “In God We Trust,” but it often feels like money is what truly holds power. This reality helped Donald Trump secure victory in the US.
If Argentina positives have come at the cost of climate change initiatives and the arts. If the UK follows a similar path, LGBTQ+ rights and other social movements considered “woke” may face increased scrutiny.
I have only met Mr. Farage once, and all I can say is that he has a lovely girlfriend. Now is the time to think outside the box and stop prioritising issues that fail to resonate with mainstream voters. Rome wasn’t built in a day, but it took just one earthquake to bring it down. The right-wing wave approaching could set us back to 1933.
JK Rowling says ‘no child is born in the wrong body’
Harry Potter author insists there are ‘no trans kids,’ only adults believing in an ideology that will ‘wreak more harm than lobotomies.’
If this God fella allowed children to be born with all sorts of conditions, it’s just possible one or two might have been popped into the wrong body, JK.
I do wish JK Rowling would choose a more worthwhile topic to battle. She has every right to express her views, and I respect that.
As for my views on the topic—if a person has undergone two years of therapy and gender reassignment surgery, they should be recognized as their chosen sex.
A man in a nylon wig and skirt is not trans; they are a transvestite and should not have the rights of the opposite sex.
Children should not be forced into rigid categories but allowed to explore who they are. However, no surgeries should take place until the age of 21, when they have fully matured. But that is my view and.
at present we are all allowed it with out hopefully getting hysteical
I’m always in search of unique art and now that I’m back in my home city, I wanted to explore the world of artists in Bangalore.
I found Ragini Chatterjee in the depths of an Instagram stalking session on a page that promotes young artists in the city.
I was blown away by her ability to not only make me wide-eyed at her work on first glance, but also draw me into the intricacies of her art.
Being away from home and in the UK for a couple of years sidetracked my memory of the rich talent that exists within my own people. I’m so glad my stalking, I mean, research skills led me to Ragini’s mind palace, one that seems to hypnotise me in an instant.
I still can’t stop looking; I had to know the heart behind this enigma. And so I asked her some questions to get know who she is for you and for me.
When did you first recognise your talent? What was your first ever painting?
I’m not sure if it was “talent” or simply my overactive imagination that led me to painting. I spent most of my classes doodling, but my first “proper” drawing, one I remember being proud of, was a sketch of Aang from The Last Airbender. I think I was around 9 years old.
What does your art mean to you?
Art is how I process the world around me. Whether it’s a book, series, or movie I’m captivated by, expressing my excitement through art brings me peace. On a deeper level, art allows me to visualise insights about life that resonate with me. Sharing these pieces is fascinating because others often interpret them in ways that reflect their own experiences, creating a unique dialogue between the viewer and the work.
If you could vouch for other artists, what would your message be to the world about the importance of self-expression?
To anyone who feels deeply—whether you’re an artist or not—self-expression is vital. Whether through art, music, fashion, or dance, it’s a natural outlet that should be embraced. Suppressing this instinct can feel overwhelming, and letting it out often creates something beautiful. In today’s fast-paced world, self-expression serves as a poignant reminder of our shared humanity.
A portrait called ‘Mommy’
There’s an abundance of extraordinary talent such as yourself in India. I’ve come across many who feel overwhelmed by the competition in the creative industry and settle into different industries to survive. What are your thoughts on this? Does survival overrule passion? Or does it depend on how one perceives it?
I feel fortunate to create for myself, but I’d be lying if I said recognition didn’t motivate me. However, I wouldn’t describe the creative industry as “competitive.” This perspective probably stems from my choice not to pursue art as a full-time career. By separating my livelihood from my art, I’ve been able to enjoy the process without the pressure of survival, allowing my passion to thrive independently.
Who or what has inspired you to create your pieces?
Life inspires me—everything from a captivating colour scheme to an idea I need to visualise. For example, I painted Behind the Kitten to challenge the misconception that cuteness equates to weakness. In college, I explored the myth of Icarus to reflect on self-discovery and freedom. During the pandemic, I delved into Pandora’s myth, and more recently, I created a piece about self-care inspired by the idea that you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Explain the creative process behind your work. Is it a cathartic journey? How does it make you feel?
My creative process begins with a need to express something—whether it’s an idea that’s been simmering for weeks or an immediate fascination with a book, movie, or series. Once I find a reference photo, I dive in, spending anywhere from half an hour to a week on the piece. While creating is cathartic, I’m often preoccupied with achieving aesthetic beauty, which makes it challenging to feel fully satisfied with my work.
What do you wish for people to experience through your work?
I hope my art evokes a sense of connection and invites viewers to appreciate its aesthetic qualities.
Tell us about a response you’ve received about your art that made you feel happy or seen.
There isn’t a single comment that stands out, as my satisfaction primarily comes from how I feel about a piece. However, I enjoy hearing reactions like, “Wow, that’s so pretty.” I also love when people share their interpretations of my work—it’s fascinating how their perspectives differ from my own.
You’re currently in Paris. Has the cultural shift played any role in the expansion of your vision? I believe life experiences can elevate one’s art. Tell us about your experience.
While my surroundings have changed, my art remains influenced by similar themes—my life experiences, books, movies, and shows. The cultural shift has enriched my perspective, but I wouldn’t say it has drastically changed the essence of my work.
How can someone find you, your work, and reach out to you?
I have a website where people can leave messages, but the easiest way to connect with me is through Instagram or email.
To reach out to Ragini, email her at raginichatterjee99@gmail.com
There is no doubt that “Smoggie Queens” has moments of comedic brilliance. However, the constant bullying by Dickie (played by Phil Dunning, whose drag persona is Tuna Baguette) of the younger queen Stewart ( Elijah Young ) makes for uncomfortable viewing.at times This theme runs throughout the entire series, becoming repetitive and embodying everything we do not want to see in contemporary LGBTQ+ storytelling or comedy .
Having been a young teenager treated similarly by an older gay man when I was simply seeking advice and desperate for acceptance, I could relate to the discomfort the series evokes. I recall being humiliated when the most attractive man at the bar approached me at 16, bypassing my own “Dickie.” Outside, I was punched and accused of making myself look cheap—pure jealousy. Sadly, the gay scene isn’t always the “We Are Family” utopia it’s often portrayed to be. Mean queens are a reality, and most cases, they’re not particularly funny.
Dickie, unfortunately, is where the show falters. Phil Dunning, the writer and creator, fails to bring much depth to the character, leaving him unlikeable. As Dickie’s former boyfriend Harrison aptly states, “I have really tried to love you, but you’re selfish, egotistical prick .” This sentiment defines how Dunning plays Dickie throughout the series, both in and out of drag. While Dunning’s screen presence is undeniable, it’s disappointing that he didn’t explore more dimensions of Dickie’s character. Even in the end, when Dickie shows a glimmer of empathy for his victim, it feels like too little, too late.
Dickie (played by Phil Dunning, whose drag persona is Tuna Baguette)
Where “Smoggie Queens” truly shines is in its brilliant supporting cast. Mark Benton as Mam is nothing short of phenomenal. Channeling the charm of greats like the legendary Marc Fleming, Benton delivers an award-worthy performance that leaves you in stitches from the moment Mam appears. While it would have been easy to play Mam solely for laughs, Benson’s portrayal is a masterclass in combining comedy with humanity, making Mam a character you simply can’t get enough of.
Alexandra Mardell as Lucinda, the ultimate “fag hag” on the lookout for love, teams up with Patsy Lowe as Sal to deliver comedy gold. Their beautifully understated performances result in side-splitting humor that elevates the show.
There are some notable guest appearances: RuPaul’s Drag Race star Michelle Visage plays the office spinster (and who doesn’t love her?). Plus, there’s a brilliant cameo by Steph McGovern. Notably, Michael Hodgson’s Nan is both menacing and camp.
While the series does have its merits, it also reinforces certain stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community. Instead of challenging these clichés or providing fresh perspectives, “Smoggie Queens” sometimes leans into them, which feels like a missed opportunity in an otherwise promising show.
This is a show that will for sure be recommissioned. It is no “Will and Grace ” or “Gimmie, Gimmie . But it does a firm Mark Benton as comic genius and open the gates to a new talent in Elijah Young .
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